₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
It is normal....sex is overrated....women don't know that men do get tired of having sex with their wife once they get married.

But in most cases, it maybe as a result of financial stress...family/work/business pressure. Sometimes it might be as a result of over familiarity...you now see your wife as your sister; happens to lots of married men but in Nigeria, men pretend about it in order to keep the marriage going....but whitemen will divorce once they experience that.

My brother don't kill yourself about it....relax, with time, the urge may come again....all humans; man or woman must understand that sex can be tiring and boring, especially when u get married with too many responsibilities; mostly money matter.

You think it is only the man stuck with one person for the rest of his life. You don't think the woman too is in the same situation.

That is why they need to constantly spice things up and not let the marriage run on auto pilot.

yomibelle:
And handsome and young

And healthy and strong

horpeyemmi66:
Is having sex Occupation-specific??

I have pulled through not having sex for a Year plus, I told a lady Friend of mine about it and she was like "You're telling lies". That, not a lot of guys can persevere through all of that.

It's even more awkward when she starts saying "Please don't do this to me, I beg you In the name of God". What's left? I'm not a rapist or someone who lacks total self control, I'd have to inadvertently stop, and get off of her Hot as Bleep, then she comes apologizing, telling me she's sorry, I should try to understand.

Really, baby, if you were a boy... You'd understand

Why are you dating a virgin?

Before you started dating, did she tell you she was saving it till marriage?

Many of you want ro marry virgins but you cannot even handle it.

She probably wants to sleep with only her husband and not have many body counts.

The only way she can achieve that is by waiting till marriage. Not everyone believes in sex before marriage.

If she sleeps with you that purpose will be defeated because even with the way you are sounding...once you eat the cookie, you will flee.

You should date someone that is on the same page with you and not dating someone and trying to persuade or guilt trip her to bend to your will.

A lot of girls will give you sex with a snap of a finger...why are you bent on one that is saving it?

Do her a favour and break up with her

XhosaNostra:
Lol, would you wanna be told that you're fat though?
When people gain weight, they know. So it becomes annoying when they're constantly reminded of how big they've gotten.

Since December I've gradually put on weight & people have been pointing it out, much to my annoyance. Just this past weekend, someone who I consider to be just one bite away from being obese told me that we are now almost the same size. LMFAO. I know she was probably joking , but I FELT that. I almost exploded, not from being fat, but from rage. I was really angry & offended that she saw me that way

Weight gain is a sensitive topic. See I got touched when it was someone I don't even care about that said it. If she likes you & you put her on the spot like that, she'll either catch feelings (be hurt ) or hate you on the spot. Tread carefully

Lol...some people act like they are weight police. Their greeting is "you have added weight" or "you have lost weight". It is really not anyone's business. I don't comment on people's weight unless they ask me. They have mirrors to know if they have lost or added and don't need people greeting them with it.

OP please leave her for men who love her size get a lepa for yourself . If it is already bothering now, it will bother you more later.

Kastonkastroll:
Appreciate wetin

Life.

Love.

ifyalways:
Check out of this new genetation of Nigerians. . . If e no be sudden death before 50 years , e go be one kain yeye sickness in the 30's.

No fruit and veggies in your babies diets but you slay?
No better baby food all because of management but you wont encourage your wife to go for FP as your religious leader (who by the way is neither married nor have a child) have declared it a sin.
You feed your baby adult food and all sorts of chemical filled fast foods?

Pooor babies. Our parents did a better job.

It is really important to give babies fruits...probably fresh fruit juice better than ribena. My baby is 8months and has never tasted ribena...mostly fruits.

I also do not subscribe to instant noodles of any type for babies. It is not even healthy for adults.

However babies vary when it comes to food. Mine for instance doesn't like cereals. Cerelac time is fight time but if she sees eba, yam, she will down it sharply.

This month i am not even buying cerelac. Thankfully someone i follow on instagram has interesting Nigerian made baby foods.

austyn0:
I tell you...Happy Sunday and a happy new month.

Same to you

austyn0:
I don't understand.

Where they get these girls that they keep describing and complaining about...from social media platforms

eeewise:
He feeds on solid food and breast milk in addition to all this

Then the cerelac can be 3 and Nutribon probably 4.

Babies however are not low maintenance. They have to eat well, poo, wear good clothes,etc

7 nutibon plus 4 cerelac in a month seems too

Has the baby not started eating solids? The cereals should be alternated with adult food modified for the baby.

The diapers cant be too much because you cannot determine how the child poos or stop her from pooing.

When they are at home, the baby can be washed with water when she poos to conserve the wipes.

Acidosis:


He has reduced the price to 20K, but the cost of those furniture are still outrageous

Book shelf that the carpenter on my street will do for 15k, he is saying 35k for a used one. And it is not a special kind of wood

austyn0:
If you wanna date,, date independent,, classy and intelligent girls,, girls that you can wholeheartedly and proudly show to the world...Not some unreasonable persons seeking for magas from their beds day in day out....

I'm single because I am yet to find that Angel.

Probably dating from 2go or badoo

Easzy96:
wow... all I can see is billions everywhere...
view more pictures here: https://9jalife.com.ng/more-patients-arrives-luth-as-johesu-call-off-strike/

View more pictures...yet what is written on the link has nothing to do with Indimi/Yar'adua wedding.

Why lie?

Just like putting charcoal in food that is going sour.

Here we pray for PHCN to give us light.

We pray that there should not be traffic.

In fact, we waste our prayers on things that should have been handled by the government.

JohnnyPalmer:
54 vehicles.... And just 9 deaths

Who is deceiving who

People abandoned their cars.

Always focusing on ladies.

While trying to remove the spec in another's eye, we fail to see the log in ours.

But on this same NL, we have heard that Nigerian ladies are ugly

trulygirl:
Really sad I think our President is cursed like seriously there is no day that passes by without death Haba this is too much for a nation 2019 please come oh! Please get your PVC let send all these blood sucking demons called APC back home

Who are you proposing we vote?

Who is the opposition? The strong opposition against APC.

With the way things are going APC will take the bulk of the vote while the remaining votes will be distributed amongst Atiku, Fayose, Sowore, Fela Durutoye, Donald Duke,etc.

Deltatoto:
buhari came in 1983 and brought problem to this nation he has come again now c.u ppl are just too blind to notice d man has bad luck.na una no o the only man that has taken us to recession twice

I can see that you stuck on Buhari and are unable to see beyond that.

Brace yourself for another four years of bitterness except there is a stronger opposition against him for 2019.

Deltatoto:
babe there’s a big diff not just alphabets .its abnormal for tons of ppl to be dieing daily.we didn’t notice this under pdp even at the peak of Boko Haram it was mainly properties destroyed not life’s.u ppl don’t know what’s going on.apc and Buhari signed a pact with d devil these deaths are not normal

Everything is not about APC and PDP. It is about bad leadership since 1960...about leaders boycotting instead of putting things in place to avoid tragedies like this. It is about leaders enriching themselves instead of caring about the masses.

All the people we see in APC, were many of them not in PDP? People that just switch parties anyhow...the same recycled leaders. And what can APC do in 7 years that PDP couldn't do in many years?

Please let us stop the blame game and look beyond all that and see that people who are meant to be protected lost their lives in a very painful way. And i don't wish that for you.

blackgold90:
The leadership of Nigeria since 1960 is so useless.
The outcome of that uselessness is what is befalling the country. If herdsmen don't kill Boko Haram will kill or made situation will kill.
How will a petrol Laden tanker been in traffic for a long time without exploding.

The other day bayesa part of East West road was blocked by The federal road safety Corp doing mobile court,in the process constituted menace on that road.

They usually do the mobile court every market day of a market just by a town on the express to make money. Instead of doing mobile court inside Yenegoa they will come to east west expressway to block vehicles coming from other states, in the process delaying travellers causing traffic etal

Petroluem tankers coming from PH, trucks, and other motorist were all blocked last Tuesday 26/6/2018.

Some thing like this will happen there one day.


Then we will begin to pray for the dead

Thank you!!!

People are just shouting Buhari. Bad leadership since 1960.

If he was someone that hides his phone, the first and only thing i will check is his account balances.

Anigreat:




We are really in a lawless country Alibaba

Idiotic Buhari kill at will and go scot free

Boko haram kill at will and go scot free

Fulani herdsmen kill at will and move around with impunity.

No one to question them. Can all this happen in a sane country were law abound? No! we see things like this only in a shithole were there's no regard for rule of law.

We are yet to recover from plateau massacre, today another one has happened claiming lives and properties, and the clueless one in aso rock is yet to sympathize with the victim, what a president!

To the innocent school children that lost their lives today, Rest in peace lil angels, and may God comfort your families.

How is Buhari to blame? If we want to call names, please let us start calling from the first head of state Nigeria has had till now.

Do we think Buhari will wave a magic wand and repair all the decades of greed, corruption, boycotting??

It is high time we stopped this Buhari Buhari song everytime.

Deltatoto:
no it’s not.it will be mental sickness to vote Apc and Buhari.im happy all the evil is befalling Apc states.here in south south we are good

There is a higher power that hears you. You don't have the power to protect yourself if calamity decides to meet you in the safest place in the south.

Watch your utterances. Human beings like you were burnt in that fire and we don't care who they voted for. APC...PDP...no difference...just different alphabets.

Tyenergie:
I wouldn't want to sound harsh on my reply to your first line of comment, hence, I choose to remain mute.

I am sorry if it came off as harsh. It wasn't intended to

UyaiIncomparabl:
You go still marry las las.

And he will even dance more than the woman

You should stop allowing your friends' opinions override yours. It is your life.

What is wrong with buying sanitary towel? Isn't it sold in the store or is it from the evil forest?

If she says you should get detergent or soap or even condoms, it is ok but sanitary pad is evil abi.

cococandy:
C’est finis

You speak French?

cococandy:
Nothing in my post is expensive to do. Because it’s not a common practice doesn’t mean it can’t be done. Maybe we need to talk about it more so people can know about those options.

And I didn’t say to not check on them. It’s just impractical to expect one to have an eye on the child 24/7. If he’s working and there’s no house help, will she cook, go to the toilet or even bath?
That’s when such things come in handy. With a simple plastic child fence, a toddler can be quarantined into one section of the house with their favorite toys. while the Mom takes care of the house or even takes care of herself instead of being 100 percent exhausted all the time trying to prove good mom that no one is going to give her an award for.

Many of us survived not because our mothers were perfect. We survived because of sheer good luck.

I think awareness has to be created about child proofing here. So that the child can play freely and explore in the area we have cordoned for them.

Children are attracted to wires, switches and many electrical items that are dangerous. How many times will we see them go there. And i don't buy the idea of holding them down somewhere instead of allowing them explore.

We will be fine.

Massmike:
I hope when you mean later you don't mean after marriage because some "mysterious" people don't make it to the marriage phase.

You see why you should not bare it all...if they do not make it to marriage, they will keep baring it all to every guy they date till their body count becomes and issue that even you would raise an eyebrow