Romance › Re: Reprisal:mum Or Wife Who Owns A Man? by ImaIma1(f): 10:20am On Jun 17, 2018 |
freshkpomo: you are not making sense at all,maybe children marry their mum in your place not in mine.. my mum has been there all my life,wife just came along the way and she can also leave I there.... the fact that I choose my mum does not mean I don't love my wife..but its family anyday ... and why can't my mum live with me I reapeat,its an ingrate that will choose wife over mum... have u ever seen how a widow work to cater for her kids then u go come choose one girl over such a woman cos she sabi do d do smh Your mum gave birth to you...who else is supposed to take care of you till you are old enough to become a man? God that made marriage said you shall "leave" your parents. A wise mum will free you to cleave to your wife because she has her own husband that puts her first. Ask your dad if he places his mother over your mother. Even if you decide to place your mum above your wife, do your wife a favour and not let her know. |
Romance › Re: Reprisal:mum Or Wife Who Owns A Man? by ImaIma1(f): 10:10am On Jun 17, 2018 |
IamPlato: ...
So You Created this To Cry That You Love Your Mommy...
We Also Love Our Mommy but Cant Neglect Wife For Mom...
That Doesnt Mean I Wont Care For Her... Once I Have A Family My Family Comes First... My Mom And Dad Becomes The Extended Family.
How Would You Have Felt As A Boy If Your Dad placed His Mother first Above Your Mother. Ignores Your Mother's words To Take His Mother's...
If You Love Your Mom So Much Why Not Marry her And Keep At home. Or Ask Her To Permanently Move Into Your House to Live With You And Your Wife... Children everywhere. God that created the institution of marriage said that a man shall leave his parents cleave to his wife. Mother is nowhere in that equation. But they are using girlfriend eyes to qualify wife. |
Romance › Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 10:00am On Jun 17, 2018 |
bebe2: BUT why are u pple so evil?
Why do u always think like zombies?
So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?
Where do u want her to start from? Not everyone understands what marriage is. Many churches will not wed you without involving the court. Except the couple wants to do only traditional marriage. Me i did trad, court, church. I didn't exactly insist on it. We both agreed to do all. And he buys everything in my name. Every single thing. He said his dad did the same. So that no family will come and displace me in future. Don't mind some guys here. It is just mouth. |
Romance › Re: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 8:38am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Masterppower: Court marriage is indeed a terrible disaster in the waiting....
While the original intent was good, bad and evil women/girls have exploited it for their personal aggrandizement.....
Guys, I second the ops opinion... This word reminds me Buhari's speech when he became military president. He used that word lol |
Christianity Etc › Re: Happy Father's Day by ImaIma1(f): 8:34am On Jun 17, 2018*. Modified: 10:01am On Jun 17, 2018 |
Happy father's day to my baby daddy.
He is what you call a father in every sense of the word...very involved, a loving and doting father. Spends a lot of time with her. Not too big to change her diaper, dress her up...
Sometimes i feel she loves him more. But he deserves every love he gets because he is a great dad.
Shout out to all the great dads. More blessings to you.
Happy Father's Day. |
Romance › Re: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by ImaIma1(f): 8:27am On Jun 17, 2018 |
EzendiEgo1:
Women are just Epitome of their own stupidity
Tufiakwa
Sometimes I blame God why he do not swap this women with Female Ape. At least it would've Been better.
When you ladies dump us and marry another dude do you girls see us reacting the way you girls always react? A very big No
few case than none.
My advise to you ladies
Find your own security and stop behaving childish towards everything. And you also to male ape |
Celebrities › Re: Mike Ezuruonye To Divorce Wife For Giving Birth To An Albino - Made4naija.com by ImaIma1(f): 8:08am On Jun 17, 2018 |
theoldpretender: OK....time for a lesson
1.The gene for albinisim is what is called a 'recessive' gene...meaning it only manifests when both sperm and ova have the gene.
2.Because it is recessive, it could be passed down for several generations without manifesting in the family.
3.What I suspect happened...both Mike and his wife carry the gene. Because of 'luck' the gene has not been manifesting in their family...till now.
4.I think the problem in their marriage goes way beyond an albino kid.
5.Albinos have a lot of health issues...skin cancer is the worst of the lot.So...hence the gra gra. True. Reminds me of an inlaw of mine that rejected an albino child from his girlfriend. He said he didn't have any albino in his family. After some years, he got married and had twins...guess what? They were both albinos  . The dark type just the same kind his ex had. He went back to beg and accept that child. It was like God wanted to treat his mess up personally. |
Romance › Re: What To Do When Your Partner’s Parents Don’t Like You by ImaIma1(f): 7:21pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
austyn0: Your parents might be understanding, but there are parents with the 80's mentality that would want their children to marry to their taste or there would be no blessing[Which is also essential]...
For example,, I once had an argument with my mum and dad over planning on marrying for love and happiness not origin....
They kept giving me reasons for marrying from my hometown or at least my state....They gave crucial points though,, like knowing more abou the family background of whom I am to marry...I and a friend had this same argument with another parent....
Judging by my mom's mentality towards marriage,, I don't see her accepting my choice of lady if she isn't her taste....
I hope it doesn't raise dust when it's time. No matter how "ununderstanding " parents are, it is your job to set the bar and stand your ground. I have previously mentioned my friend whose mum was proving stubborn because he was marrying outside his tribe. He told her that is the woman he wants to marry and she (the mum) doesn't need to attend the wedding. He will send her pictures and come back later for her blessings. If you keep allowing your parents have a say in your life as an adult, they could even tell you when to sleep with your wife and how many kids you should have. When my folks are interfering in my affairs, i suddenly become very quiet. I don't argue or go back and forth. I just say what i want and keep quiet whenever they object or bring it up, they just back off. |
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Romance › Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend by ImaIma1(f): 4:33am On Jun 16, 2018 |
One good thing is that she is honest with her cheating. She will tell you everytime she cheates.  |
Romance › Re: What To Do When Your Partner’s Parents Don’t Like You by ImaIma1(f): 12:24am On Jun 16, 2018 |
austyn0: What abou when it involves the parents making a decision against marrying you? It is not the parents' decision to make. And a lady or guy should make their parents realize that they are adults and are old enough to make a decision that involves their future. |
Romance › Re: WHEN Was The Moment You Realized That No One Gives A Fûck About You. by ImaIma1(f): 11:24pm On Jun 15, 2018 |
ranmoor: I left social media, Facebook, Instagram, twitter, whatsapp etc... On my birthday a month ago, the messages I received were from, stanbic ibtc, gtbank, royal exchange... That day, I realised no body really cares.. People only remember u when they need money or favours That is why i don't take birthday wishes on Facebook or other platforms seriously. I hardly even respond. They are just default messages. |
Romance › Re: What To Do When Your Partner’s Parents Don’t Like You by ImaIma1(f): 11:21pm On Jun 15, 2018 |
Ignore.
Act like you don't know they don't like you and keep doing your thing. |
Romance › Re: What Is One Question You Hate Being Asked? by ImaIma1(f): 11:09pm On Jun 15, 2018 |
I dislike the question...How was your night?
Ask the angels...i was asleep |
Romance › Re: Man Caught Cheating When He ‘got Stuck’ Inside His Mistress (photos) by ImaIma1(f): 11:04pm On Jun 15, 2018 |
Kobicove: And it always happens among poor folks  Hmmm..that is a thought. |
Romance › Re: I am in love with a colleague – but I'm married (pls advice) by ImaIma1(f): 7:11pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
soccerepe: u can share ur advice to the blog, the One is seeking for advice is on the site waiting for advice not on nairaland I assumed that since you brought the story here to Nairaland, you could also refer the person here for the responses. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Physical Features Can't You Stand In Men? by ImaIma1(f): 4:24pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
imitateMe: Then you should marry a man who nose tomorrow. Lol  |
Family › Re: How to handle finances in Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 4:22pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Elder001: This isn't shít, you know?
Why should I hide my salary from my wife because she wants demands? she works too and earn so why will she be making demands when she got her own cash unless she's broke? Easy tiger. I am only telling you what i have seen and heard constantly which does not apply to me anyway. You seem to be very money conscious and alert. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Physical Features Can't You Stand In Men? by ImaIma1(f): 4:17pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
[quote author=Elviswifey1 post=68474876][/quote]God answered my prayer...lol |
Romance › Re: I am in love with a colleague – but I'm married (pls advice) by ImaIma1(f): 10:23am On Jun 14, 2018 |
First off...your wife is not lovely as you said. If she were, you won't be looking for what is not lost.
Secondly, when you get married, you are saying that you are forsaking all others and sticking to your wife. That does not give room for scanning or catching feelings up and down.
Lastly, get yourself together! There will be many beautiful women even seemingly more beautiful than your wife. It doesn't mean you have to date all of them.
Please keep your eyes on your work. |
Romance › Re: The¤Song¤Game by ImaIma1(f): 10:17am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Crazy : KC and Jojo |
Romance › Re: Man Caught Cheating When He ‘got Stuck’ Inside His Mistress (photos) by ImaIma1(f): 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018 |
These genitals happen to clamp together only between cheating parties.
How come it doesn't happen with husband and wife? |
Family › Re: How to handle finances in Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 8:14am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Elder001: ladies are the ones who mostly declare false assets. I disagree. It is men who hide their salaries because "they don't want their wives to know what they earn and make demands" |
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Food › Re: Easy Steps To Make A Refreshing Soya Milk by ImaIma1(f): 6:36pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
maxiuc:

All this ladies will avoid this thread
My boss got the wife in life This woman is very kitchen handy infact she knows all ways to make things herself Juice kids take to school Burger meat pie Yogurt Any type of juice
When it comes to soup forget she is wonderful sometimes I do give her to make soups for me You can be giving your husband indomie and expect him to shine in the other room Akwa Ibom ayaya Indeed Akwaibom ayaya  . My inlaw makes meatpie, zobo, chinchin and things the kids take to school. At least you control the junk that your children take instead of ribena all the time. She is my mentor. |
Romance › Re: On Your Wedding Night, You Discovered He Or She Lied On Virginity? by ImaIma1(f): 6:13pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
lovat: Do you want to tell me with all sincerity that you didn't test with your hubby before settling down with him?
#Realist I would be delusional to think that you would believe any answer i give you...yes...no...it won't matter. Just do not be among the guys that keep branding girls "olosho" etc. Because you have contributed in making them increase their body counts. |
Family › Re: 7 Reasons Why Married Men Sleep With Their House Helps by ImaIma1(f): 5:11pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
hoseamatoh: Number one is the only genuine reason There is no genuine reason. So of it is a mad woman that is available, he will sleep with her because his wife refused him sex? The only reason a man or woman cheats is because they made up their minds and decided to do it. Not because they are denied sex, treated badly,etc. Because there is always and option. It takes strength and character to do the right thing. Only the weak ones give excuses |
Family › Re: 7 Reasons Why Married Men Sleep With Their House Helps by ImaIma1(f): 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
There is only one reason...brain inactivity. |
Romance › Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by ImaIma1(f): 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
usagee36: Did u once live in Kaduna? Not exactly...just a few days in Zaria and Jaji. Why? |
Romance › Re: I Don't Understand: Is This A Guy Or A Girl? [pic] by ImaIma1(f): 2:57pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
He is a bobrisky |
Romance › Re: What Really Makes Ladies Sleep With Their Ex Before Wedding Day??? by ImaIma1(f): 2:25pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
GutsOverFear: Why always emphasis on ladies..
Men do worst. Like sleeping with bridesmaids or bride's friends at the wedding. |
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