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1x2x3:
Everybody screaming about Karma catching up on Okey...... What if Okey happens to be the girl's Karma for the men she has played before turning 34?

She obviously have her secrets which only her close friend knows about but as usual a girl won't open up like this nigga did. Most of the girls screaming you did well won't do the same if their fellow girl is playing a man.

Guy you Bleep up and you deserve better drilling. There are ways you could have talked to the girl rather than spilling your man's code. Again you deserve double drilling.

3babes:
Even after it

BluntTheApostle:
Many of you take this place too seriously. Imagine, talking about enemies. Son, you need to shake it off.

Your friends here don't owe you their likes, except they are merely your asslickers. Supposing I am your friend here and you make a statement I am not comfortable with, I won't like your comment. It doesn't make me a bad friend, it only makes me a honest friend. If I give a "like" to your perceived enemy, it doesn't make me a backstabber and it doesn't make the person suddenly my friend. It means I like the particular comment and showed my delight by liking it.

I can't understand how you people go about making enemies online.

I have had a lot of e-fights on Nairaland and yet, I can't even remember any of the monikers I have had a fight with. When I come across a post I like, I don't go about searching if I have had a quarrel with them in the past. I just hit the "like" button.

igetjoyfromthis:
Though I agree with you but you have to admit you are being economical with the truth and taking sides. Both genders bash each other, but I get your point anyway

igetjoyfromthis:
There are some few notable ones that deserve praise. It's the same even in other forums like reddit and quora.

hkidola00:
see heen, I don't support men beating women, but some women can say mean things and u can turn to a monster instantly, I know of some cool guy who hit his girlfriend sometimes back, these women can run there mouth

yeyerolling:
they dont deserve pity, the signs are always there but dem no go use brain , cos of dick, fear of loneliness or money dem go stay

Favor99:
Lol when you were born, where you Puerto Rican or Nigerian? What are your parents?

Favor99:
Oh ok. On one post in another thread you said your from Puerto Rico. Are your Puerto Rican or Nigerian?

FreeConCiencE:
Maltreating women ... I don't support that and that is not the topic of this discussion


If you allow your husband decisions to supersede at the end and you allow him to have the final say...... Thumbs up for you.

If you believe you can make decisions for your husband because of what you consider as reasons whether you force it down his throat or he sips it himself ........ You are wrong

If you make suggestions for your husband and he makes the final decision himself regardless of whether you think you are right or wrong ....thumbs up.


I repeat, your husband is the authority, he is the head and he dictates as the final decision maker. That is the teaching of the Holy Bible, the Quran and our rich culture.

FreeConCiencE:
See, the worst disaster that can befall any man is not being able to perform his responsibilities at home and no responsible and right - thinking man will want his duties switched and be performed by his wife. This is because it is a shameful thing and the dignity and respect of such man are under serious threat. But if conditions or circumstances warrant it, it's pertinent for the wife to perform the duties of her husband on his behalf if she is capable without letting the 3rd party to know about it. Even, while doing that she still has to see her husband as the authority and the head...... That is the true definition of women of virtues.

About the husband being the dictator, what I mean is that it is the man that dictates what should happens and what should not happen in the family. He has the final say. Where there is need for the wife to be carried along in the decision making, the man will do. I repeat, the husband is the author, he dictates, and he is the head. That is the teaching of our Bible, the Quran and our rich culture. Being the authority does not mean he should not love his wife and children. If I dictate what happens in my home as the final authority, does that mean I will not love my wife? Of course, No! I dictate what happens in my home and I ove my wife, I pamper her and she doesn't contest the position of authority with me at home even though she is self sufficient. Our one daughter is learning from her very fast.

My advice
Just marry the man that has high sense of reasoning. A man that makes good judgment of things, a reasonable man and submit to him. Where there is need for you to support him, please do and don't say because of the supports (which might be financial) , you want to contest the position of authority with him. No! It won't augur well at the end of the day. Maybe, that is my "mumu button" that my wife is using for me. I wish you good luck.

msylva2147:
then you believe that two wrongs can make a right to build a home by not keeping quiet

victorian:
Honey i really caught a goldfish. And with the kind of things i hear here, i count myself lucky.

You can find that kind you are looking for










Don't mind them., they want submission but cannot even fulfil one simple rule : Love your wife.

I repeat, I will NEVER marry a man who pretends to love me but doesn't give a hoot about me but expect submission because he's the head?
Head my foot!

msylva2147:
A wise woman will remain silent when the husband is talking and that's not a sign of weakness but respect, instead of arguing you allow him when he is in a good mood. Sometimes when you see men shouting is not as if they really want to but sometimes society puts pressure on them being it in a working place or in the traffic, so sometimes is a kind of transfer of aggression.

msylva2147:
I respected you for your first comment but on this you are not totally right, so because you are working mean when your husband is talking you should also talk back at him? Sometimes I see the problems in the marriage today as ego the women are having in the name of I can do without you at the detriment of the children.

victorian:
So true, no woman will see such man as a head. I repeat no African woman.


FreeConCiencE, I disagree with u on that.

Some Men should man up and do the needful, if they so much desire to be the head.

FreeConCiencE:
Nobody is saying God, culture or morality support woman footing the whole bills, but if she is capable of doing of doing it and the husband is not, God, culture and morality demand she foot the bills on behalf of the husband. Even if she does that, she should still submit to her husband and see him as the authority. It's such a woman you call woman of virtues. Nobody is supporting maltreatment of women and living an irresponsible life as a womanizer, drunkard or smoker. But I repeat, the husband is the authority, is the dictator and he is the head that all the other family members should respect. Where there is need to carry his wife along, he will do. That makes him a man.

Ivorianaija:
Those aren't atheists those are agnostics. An atheist wouldn't quote the bible.

Ivorianaija:
The Bible is an illegitimate source to form your opinion from.

Ivorianaija:
Why do you think so?

FreeConCiencE:
Nobody is saying God, culture or morality support woman footing the whole bills, but if she is capable of doing of doing it and the husband is not, God, culture and morality demand she foot the bills on behalf of the husband. Even if she does that, she should still submit to her husband and see him as the authority. It's such a woman you call woman of virtues. Nobody is supporting maltreatment of women and living an irresponsible life as a womanizer, drunkard or smoker. But I repeat, the husband is the authority, is the dictator and he is the head that all the other family members should respect. Where there is need to carry his wife along, he will do. That makes him a man.