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I thought guys on NL say that women like sex just as men do.

Please how come it is rare for a female lecturer to demand sex for marks?

Some ladies use it to friend zone

He must have a stable source of income to cater for us.

Obainoneandonly:
you should have said this earlier before or in between your first post .now you are d focus of unwarranted bashing

The topic is what the man should have...not what the woman should give in return.

Someone cannot answer simple question again

Chikita66:
This woman breast go hear am.

Breast ke!!! You want her to pass out breastfeeding 5 hungry children. Most likely formula from day one

You guys need to go for counselling. That is your best bet. Your wife needs to hear it herself from a professional or Cleric that a woman should never say No to her husband.

Off course there are times when she is genuinely tired or ill.

There is nothing like not being in the mood. She should get in the mood

Result of watching pornography. Our choices and lifestyle do not affect us alone. Now he wants anal.

Why does he think HIV is very common in homosexuals? The anus has a higher risk of getting infected. The woman will be put in harm's way because of one insatiable greedy man.

Don't watch porn...they won't hear

Kingpee2:
I thought all marriages should be about for better for worse.....

Not when your health and well being is at risk

You have learn to say No because people will take advantage of you and you will realize that they have used your money to build house while you are still paying rent.

Maybe one day you would even give out your children's school fees out of compassion. Pls learn to say No. Everything has a balance and limit.

So what do you want us to do exactly?

We should come and tell her to be shiitting in the toilet or change her wrapper?

asuustrike2009:
A simple correction would have resolve this from the commentators. Nobody is perfect moreover English language is a borrowed language

But it us our Lingua Franca taught right form pre school. Mistakes are inevitable but when it is too much, it is unacceptable. Besides, the guy is allegedly a graduate of English.

ehinmowo:
It happened to me rwice. One at Ilupeju and the other at Amaraolu (Ogba side). I still received one yesterday. A supposed company at Abuja. But ones is a mistake. Twice, a coincidence. But thrice is gullibility.

I can now smell them light years away. By d way, d GNLD company that sent me d last email is LIVE RESOURCES. I might be saving someone's t. fare.

Tips: how to knw dem
1. A text or mail without company name
2. Most of their names have RESOURCES in it
3. If there is a name, google search it with hyphen nairaland (i.e Live Resource company-nairaland). Nairaland has done wonders in exposing them
4. D customer care contact on d text or mail relunctant to gv info abt d company
5. Eagerness to reschedule your interview date if u cudnt make it etc

And they always give detailed address even adding closest bus stops and landmarks.

They usually start with..."based on referral" or "based on CV review"

They throw around big titles like saying the HR Director wants to have a chat with you...

I have a friend that was almost like that. She got so saucy during that period. It almost broke our friendship.

I just realized that there are some friends that are only friends when the going is good. They don't want to be bothered when the going is not so good.

I didn't bother with aso ebi for my wedding. I don't have that patience. Only family organized aso ebi and people that wanted it also requested for it.

DaddyKross:
I have been told the same thing a lot of times too. The funny thing is their reasons are somewhat valid. Igbo girls dey get wahala


*Puts on bulletproof*




Straight up fact.

Igbo girls are never cool with having your own immediate family around but will go ahead and bring their own brother, sister, cousin, nephew, niece, relation, kinsmen, igwe's son, ichie's granddaughter to come and stay with you.

They can only try that shit with Yoruba men though, hence the fear of Yoruba Mothers, aunts, sisters because they also have the intention of sending one of your extended family that you dont even know to come and stay with you.

Inlaws(from both sides) should learn to stay in their own houses and let the couple be. Visiting once in a while and going back same day is ok...not going to camp there.

But OP why do you sound like this is a favour you are doing for your wife and child. Don't you know that you are supposed to take care of them and make sure they are safe?

Even when you start work,you are supposed to make sure that proper arrangements are made for them.

You sound like they are disturbing you. Didn't you say they are your wife and child? It is not like you inherited them.

The church elders were wrong. Marriage doesn't remove people's flaws, it even magnifies them.

Your wife needs to learn to respect people. It might take something a very serious situation to transpire that gives her a rude awakening.

You should try cutting the call anytime she starts raining abuses on you. And if she tries to call back. Send her a text that she should only call if she can talk like a civilized human being.

And if it is in person, walk away or ignore her completely when she starts. She will learn gradually.

Obviously the powers that be didn't like the reporting. They can be sued

It is better to advise people not to smoke it at all because of the adverse effects it could have on them.

It could just make one person high while it damages the life of another.

I have a friend who used to roam the streets. It broke my heart everytime i saw him because of the prospects of what his life could have become.

engrelvis:
like I said earlier I don't support beating of wife but everybody is wired differently . when u r exchanging words with yr hubby learn when to draw d line .most men or even women dat do damaging things to their hubbies dnt v intention initially.when dey reach breaking point dey snap .a woman shud watch out for dis point.u don't really know what u capable until u r push beyond yr limit.dont allow d devil to use u.i v been married for 13yrs now n marriage counselor in my church.after yrs of counselling couples one paramount thin I know dat trigger fight in marriages is women tongues.i was counselling a couple d other day,d way d woman was talking I was amazed.if she can do like dis in my presence what of at home? Most Men r like babies. Forget d macho things.respect n treat yr husband like a king he will treat u well.d truth is dat most of women r mannerless n disrespectful.

I agree that women should be respectful. I also say that men should learn to respond without violence.

Those men wired differently, if the wife dies in their hands, the wire will arrange itself.

There may be ill mannered and disrespectful women but there are also good mannered and disrespectful ones. Same for men

HeyCorleone:
Is she write for calling the man to sort herself out?

If you have a carryover, just read for it.

Obviously that was his modus operandi and someone needed to set him up.

Does any of this nullify the fact that the man demands for sex from students which should be against his ethics as a lecturer?

Whether the girl is a runs girl or fly girl, victim or perpetrator, if the lecturer faces his work squarely and doesn't demand or accept sex from students, she won't see who to sleep with.

The case her is the man taking advantage of ladies, virgin or otherwise.

HeyCorleone:
I don't believe she was victimised.

She's the one who wanted to sort herself out, but couldn't agree with the terms. That's why she had to snitch. Very unthoughtful of her.

But nobody would blame the girl because we're just being unreasonably unrealistic.

Call a spade a spade. Stop looking for a way to make this her fault.

Is the man right for wanting sex for marks? How come you are not seeing this but trying to find a way to fault her

Who is the opposition for Buhari?

The wife looks embarrassed like "what kind of rubbish is this? Who sent me message?"

Some people though...they don't even know who or what they are.

#confused

The dress is not age appropriate

engrelvis:
dis is nt d issue of being submissive.u can express yr anger n displeasure without being insultive.is discipline.when our children cause or use d f word we caution dem.with time dey will get use to it

You cannot compare your wife with the children.

Ok. Answer this...would you hit your wife if she pushes you above your limit? Is there any justification for you to hit her?

Seriously it is not his business if Rude boy decides to feature Akanchawa.

He should concentrate on his own life and stoo taking other people's business personally.