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a woman was not made to be d slave of d man. they r joint heirs, partners, though the man is the senior partner. the man is the head while the woman is the neck and not the tail. some guys jst have some twisted views about relationships. they dnt want their lives to change to accommodate the woman.

they want to woman 2 live by their own rules and terms. they dnt want her to disrupt the patterns tht they hv set in their lives, yet they want her there.

a relatnshp or marriage works whn der is understanding n good communication. what we really lack right now, is mature men.that is not to say that we dont have a few of them around.

i jst notice a lot of immature comments that still need to grow up

hey is it a military thing? even my officer bf never gave such rules. rules shld be more like "no pinging when we r together, dnt let others kno whn we r quarreling, lets settle issues b4 they blow up, etc, blah blah".

its not by force. guys are also very stubborn and need rules even more.

anoda bb haters thread. when purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable.a bb is for all forms of communication like other fones.if someone jumps into a bed due to chats, dt means its typical of d person to do such things with or without a bb.

wow!!thts terrible! i served in osun state.i was in Ede camp and it wasnt bad. i paid a cleaner to alwys make sure there ws water in my bucket cos am a fish. the light was better than d situation in lagos.

i think i tasted the food twice. amala n ewedu once and beans(i love beans(i went 2 a boarding school lol)) aside that, i used 2 go 2 mami or buy food from d women dt came to our hostel.

my camp ws 2wks and it wasnt bad.d soldiers were not harsh.anyway maybe i ws just used 2 them cos i attended command.

yes i guess his mother was bought and his father treats her like a piece of property. why else wld he come n talk all these trash. kolo master

@raddyworld,the editing job I mentioned is not online.jst random jobs.rewriting an article is not a small job.300 is ridiculous, 1500 wlda made more sense.d poster hsnt even said anytin again.

what cn u do about it?why dont u carry a public announce system around and tell pple not to spend "their" money on whteva they want.

thats why i said its priority. one girl buys darling yaki- N350/400, anoda girl buys indian- 100k, its their choice and money. when they r suffering and drinking garri in their closets, they dont call u to join them. they r not stealing the money to buy it.

its not only blackberry fones n mexican hair tht people spend money unreasonably on. so why is dis particular one an issue? people spend their savings on computer games, tablet phones, and many other gadgets and end up drinking garri. its a matter of choice and priorities. mexican hair n bb fones jst happen 2 be part of dt list.

B.A English and Literary studies

@ op, about 10k is usually paid for an article. like 5k per article is more realistic to rewrite one. when i collect like 5k and above to edit short stories, why wld i collect 300 to rewrite an article with so many instructions sef. besides, i have seen that particular post u came to put here sometime ago on a website, so i have reason to believe tht u cld be scamming.cos u practically copied that post and pasted it here. the poster of the original post on the other website was going 2 pay like 5 pounds or more. stop trying to lead pple on if u r not for rea.l

i got the same message o.i had to ask people and they said no organization shld ask pple to pay for online tests that are always free. when some other companies give applicants transport allowance, this one is asking them to pay. abeg, i no do

melesky:
I keep wondering why this issue of paying tithes keeps coming up

Nobody forces anyone to pay tithes,We are no longer under the law, But if you fear and trust God i believe you should. However from a student if you work then pay tithe but pay it happily, God is not intrested in a person that gives his tithe grudginly.

Paying tithe is for your own good because Heavens is not going Broke

nice!!

its a personal thing.not a matter for debate.its really not by force.poster no one will impose it on u.

i bliv u hd alrdy made up ur mind b4 u came to NL for advice. just do wht goes down well with u.

hmmm anoda tithe issue. hmm

some pple jst like to create debates n controversies even when they already know what they want to do.

D white pple lie in d sun 2 tan or whtever.d black pple dt "bleach" use cheap destructive things like soda.

When dey start,it seems ok bt wit time dey look dirty n pitiful.

I hv hd a neighbour 4 like ten yrs n I hv neva seen her legs.she wears trousers everyday 2 work n at home.even around d compound.d rumour is dt she destroyd her legs wit bleachg.

I see girls goin 2 cosmetic shops 2 mix creams and I jst shake my head.whts d obssession about?

@all4naija.whether a white person is trying to be black or a black person is tryin to be light,its either they have deep issues or dey r suffering from inferiority complex.

theres a diff btw bleaching and toning. some pple use toning creams to maintain their complexion and not change it.

but d problem is whn an outrightly dark person wants to be fair.i see dt a lot in yoruba actresses,no insult implied.

my friend dt even startd actin in yoruba movies has strtd bleaching too.

it makes them look hideous, with unnecessary facial hair growing, stretch marks appearing in diff places, green, and purple veins everywhere.

their legs are terrible.some cnt even xposed their legs anymor

aside, the health implications, its an eye-sore.

"from d first day when i follow u talk, i send u die"

ur father must have bn a terrorist cos u r d bomb,

i remeber dis old pickup line

" ur father must have a terrorist because u r d bomb"

Akwasi why r u not responding to me at all?

akwasi pls am just filling d profile form.how much shld i put for hourly?i hv no idea

imaobong.ufot@yahoo.com

my email addy is imaobong.ufot@yahoo.com.pls holla.thnks

hello akwasi i went 2 d site, registered bt they said i hv to post a job first.i really dont kno how 2 go about it.pls help

flowers?? will d guys accept boxers?  

abi is it only d guys dt buy gifts?

Kaysy its not necessarily true.der r men who love their wives sooooo much bt they still cheat.in fact their wives never find out cos dey r so discreet.dey love their wives 2 pieces bt dey jst cheat.

I want 2 know every

Dyt:
d name means so much 2 me, cant 4get d person in question

tell me.elaborate.explain.

i dont think theres anyone dt doesnt kno that lying is bad.bt somehow d lies just fall out of the mouth attimes.

Dyt:
^^ each tym i c dis name, my hrt skips a bit

why does ur heart skip? thank God u r still alive sha.

marriage doesnt change a person automatically. it actually depends on if the person is willing to change and become responsible.

i have a close friend dt was a critical womanizer.his babe caught him at diff locations.they broke up, came back 2gether. he cheated n cheated and she knew. bt still,she decided 2 marry him. in two years of their marriage, he hd got 2 women pregnant.

he seems to have calmed down.

people are different. the responsibility of marriage may change some, while others will continue in their old ways.