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I had a female superior that was wicked just because she could be. If you look good and someone commends you for looking good in front of her, you are in soup that day. She would make life hell for you. She gathers things she can use to implicate her colleagues and get them fired. She prides herself in the fact that people have been fired because of her.
She is very difficult to work with...creates bottlenecks and blocks to make the job difficult. Shes not empathetic towards anyone. When she's happy and excited, it means something bad is about to happen. She has been rejected in many branches because of her wickedness and ability to stifle processes. Even customers run from her. This is just scratching the surface. She is mean!!

mpowa:
Stop bringing the christian like story here, Let's stay on laws, he has done what the law of the land allowed, you defame me you get your punishment. it is always convenient for ppl when they see they can't win the argument on a normal ground, then it would be, "he should be christian like", There's nobody that will be Christ-like all through his life, we're not perfect, maybe this is the time Pst Ibiyeomi is not. Let her keep eating her insect filled beans for now.

That's how someone bashed my friend's car and instead of paying for the damages was asking if my friend was a Christian. That he should forgive him. My friend told him he forgives him but the car still needs to be fixed. And that besides, in the bible when David offended God, God forgave him but he still faced the consequences of his actions. Christianity is not synonymous with foolishness.

Vacora:
I applaud you for seeing the incarceration of this lady for what it really is. As much I don't like the woman or how she makes me cringe each time she writes or calls herself an "investigative journalist"which is a smack in the face of journalism or how much her pieces are riddled with factual inaccuracies, the authorities have arrested her on quite spurious and shaky grounds. Cybercrime should involve offences such as phishing or fraud or sexual offences. What she is alleged to have said about the pastor is libellous - nothing more. People are languishing in Nigerian jails without bail or charged and this exemplifies what is wrong with our judicial and policing authorities, it is a miscarriage of justice and abuse of due process. Other hand there are people walking around doing alot worse including our senators and politicians? We should arrest everyone for everything and see who is left. The pastor should have taken her to court and sued for damages. It is a civil matter and not a criminal offence. Everyone jubilating about her predicament, show me where in our constitution or law it mentions "cybercrime" the police have used this term to conduct unlawful arrests. They search your phone illegally, they see something they do not like which is actually innocous and they arrest you for cybercrime?! Having her arrested is abusing anyone's constitutional rights and for a pastor to do this shows how easily the scales of justice can be swayed for the rich and mighty. Only in Nigeria will every Tom, Dick and Harry can demand the arrest of another person without grounds or clear evidence and most times for offences that do not even exist. It should not be happening in a civil society. If someone says or writes something you don't like or approve, challenge them with facts or ignore them or take legal recourse. Stop being a cry baby about it. Cyberbullying? GTFOH if you are above 18 years old , you deserve koboko.

So because criminals are walking free, the police should not arrest anyone until they have caught all the criminals all at once?
Did she go against the law? Yes. I dont think any injustice has been done. If you go around calling everyone out and saying things that destroys people's character, you should be ready for what comes. And this particular woman has been talking without any form of caution. It's just time to face it.

MFB -Microfinance Bank.
Sorry for the typos

I think i applied sometine last year. Though i dont remember how. One other MRB test i attended, they asked general accounting questions. I studied arts and so i just used common sense plus banking experience to answer them. I didn't even answer all and i went ti the next stage.
Questions like what Internal control unit does and what Auditing is about. Accouting principles. They were objectives, fill in the gap and theory

But it is our lingua franca

GreenMavro:


English is not our moda tongue...

assuming na common mistake in yoruba or bini now, i go contribute.

abeg, is this statement 'GIVE HIM HIM THING' a correct sentence?

I got it too. For a different position though. They called to confirm attendance.

Hello,

I have really learnt a lot reading up from the past posts and had to acquaint myself with the terminologies. Its really helpful here.
Pls i need some answers. I went through the NOC list and cannot seem to find a match. I work in a bank. First,as a customer service executive and now as an account officer/marketer. Pls where could this fall under?
I just want to begin the process and have been gathering up info so far. I am looking at applying through Kingston,Ontario or Moncton,New Brunswick. My husband is into sciences but does not have enoigh experience as me in his current area of work. No kids yet. Your prompt advice and responses will be appreciated.

Hello people i stumbled across this helpful thread. My husband and i are contemplating moving to Australia.

He wants to study general medicine. He has already has a 1st degree in medical sciences from Nigeria and I work in a bank presently. No kids yet.

Please how do we go about it? Do we apply for the school first or move first?

Also what are my chances of getting a job for myself when we move there?

Where do we begin? I would really appreciate your responses.

God will protect them. I personally prefer a small wedding with family n friends that i know. Not a free for all show

Remember that when u say all these things about ur country, u are part of it. U talk of ignorance. If u r nigerian in anyway, u actually wallow in this ignorance u did mention. Get off ur high horse and stop talking nonsense. It doesn't make u superior to we that accept that we are indeed Nigerians.

Riensi:
I laugh at people who want to be part of Nigeria
Nigeria is a big shame on the black race. The Last time I visited, the rot and decay was palpable.
I couldn't go near any of the cities, they were an unplanned jungle. Shambolic to say the least.
Illiteracy, ignorance, poverty etc was every where.
My only consolation was the pristine condition of my village in the south east and the fact that sons of the soil have tried to replicate any European village with their sweat.
Please people, your Nigeria cannot carry on like this. Things need to change.

To me o i think the guys that find themselves in this triangle allowed it happen. When they know a girl is not taking them seriously, they keep holding on for reasons known only to them.

kalufelix:
Abi o

I hate pointless mind games

life is too short abeg...

I know guys will like this post. About understanding women...i don't even understand myself and i hv quit trying to.
People play too much games. Just come up abd say "i don't want again"! No time

This doesn't sound like a prophesy. Just predictions based on the happenings around.its just like a prophet telling a young girl that she could get pregnant if shes not careful.

Hi nairalanders dis post is really educative.

My case is from scratch. I need advice. I dont even hv my passport yet. I hv only travelled to Ghana, cote d'voire with ecowas passport. So am jst processing my international passport at d moment.

Will dey give me a US visa with a fresh passport? Am planning for October dis yr. Do i go 2 dubai during d Easter break to make sure d passport is stamped first?

Also how many months before the trip do i need 2 apply?

OP u cld choose btw playing safe-being content with wht u r getting now n remaining there- or u can take a risk by taking d new job. New grounds means taking a step. Its a road 2 greater possibilities.
I think u shld also ask someone experienced to advise. They can see sitting down what we may not see standing.


*Every man for himself...God for us all.

onadana:
Leave both since you are not sure.....thank me later.

U r such a clown. Thank u later 4 making him jobless abi.

kristein:
according to my genuine experience in one of the prestigious university,nigeria(name withheld)these are the the top ten best and competitive course in university,and that don't hunt for job many years before they can turn to big boy ...
let's get started...

1 medicine and surgery
2 engineering(chemical engineering)
3 accounting/accountancy
4 law
5 biochemistry
6 economics
7 geology
8 architecture
9 nursing
10 maths/statistics

ps:these are base on my experience and challenges i have come across..if you dn't find your course in the aforemention,sorry for that,this are the best and hot cake in town..

Story!!! I can study English n get d best paying job. U cn imagine my lawyer friend quitting her job cos she ws getting less than 30k monthly. Or Doctors working 4 only a stipend jst 2 keep d practice going.

Top 7 courses:
Make up
Cooking
Baking
Event/wedding management
Aristocracy
Escort
Marriage

A gift? Wow! Why not throw a break up party 2 go along

WhiteTechnology:
I wonder how Buhari will achieve economic diversification when He and APC has rejected systems that makes our States LGAs and Private Sector the vanguard of national development.



Buhari will never eradicate corruption and poverty because he will never implement the following


Resource control

Fiscal federalism

Privatization

Political federalism

Decentralization of Nigeria

Restructuring of Nigeria

Institutions submitting their quarterly activities to public scrutiny


Which are the fastest route to economic diversification , citizenry prosperity and political stability



Buhari is not the Messiah


SW stop hanging to false hope

Is this by any chance a campaign?

The working class guy is probably attracted 2 superficial babes. Wht do u expect from dem na? For moi, i dont think ders anything wrong with d combination. Jst date d ryt person. U will know in ur church mind if she's ryt. Except u r only listening to ur "lower" mind.

lol...

i askd d same questions about the show. its an odd show.just a display of different vices;making it all seem ok. i prefer programs that hv a story line and educative. BBA appeals to some pple sha bt i dont fancy it

i dont bliv ders anything wrong with dating ur age mate. as long as there is respect btw both pple,it will work. a man cld be 10 yrs older than his wife n she'l still be disrespectful.

and talking abt aging faster. younger girls cld start looking older.wht matters is how u pay attention to yourself.

i dont think its a very good idea.if u cn get something else,avoid staying at his house.

2buff: So bloody what?
This is akin to a guy saying he will never be nice to a girl again because his previous girlfriend broke his heart or something dumb.
Should you cease being a human being because one person did one thing or the other to you?

And from your story it desn't even look like anyone did anything to you.
Sounds like a crappy excuse to just show your true primitive self.

me i hv said my own if u like u cn run ur "unprimitive" mouth.

am really lost here.do Muslim students actually wear ijab to public/ neutral schools? is it university or secondary/primary?


i guess there are Islamic schools tht allow them incorporate all their culture and religion. if they r gonna attend public schools, they hv 2 stick 2 d regulations

i am a lady and i hardly respond to guys that ask 4 directions. more than twice i have answered guys dt were asking 4 directions and they turned out to be con men.

they ask for direction to a place and when u tell d guy u dont know, he walks away and anoda man comes and asks u "what was that guy asking you?" "it seems the guy has dollars with him. if we help him, blah blah blah"

and i later heard that if u answer some of them, they cn jazz u. so most times, whn someone asks 4 direction, i jst walk away.

so guys, it may not alwys be shakara or forming. sometimes its experience

when i see signs of violence, i jah cos i no fit shout

when i see that money is an issue with him.when money matters are too sensitive.

when hes too emotional and he reads meanings to everything and analyses everything i say and gets offended and always blocks me out.

when he refuses to solve little issues and allows them to escalate

when am alwys the enemy; the person that he is relieving all his anger and bad moods on

when hes too persistent about sex as if its his right esp whn he hsnt married me and put me in his house

when he doesnt show any regard or respect for me and my feelings

when he doesnt want to meet any member of my family,nothing formal; just my sisters,etc.

still booting

the one thing tht infuriates me the most about my fellow Nigerian brothers(especially) and sisters is the loud and lousy way they talk on the fone. no one really cares wht u r saying, so keep the conversation to urself.

anoda thing is whn some pple talk on d fone esp pple from a particular geographical area, they hold the mobile fone in front of their mouths whn they want to talk and take it bk to their ear 2 listen.they seem 2 forget that they cn both talk and listen with d fone at d side.

joe4christ: Now i see why most marraiges does not last nowadays.
The OP is right on point, it shows most of you are just adults in stature but not with your minds, cos so far i can see that you all reason like teenagers.
Ask married men who have been in marriage for 50yrs they would tell you even more.
Being the head of the family places lots of responsibilities on you and makes you the leader, you ought to be in control and in charge of all situations which u must'nt trade for anything cos it's your duty as a man.
But you playing gentlemansm would only give your wife the upper hand and one thing u must know is never entrust a woman with much power less she rule over your life.
All this just deals with wisdom cos u cannot even live with them without wisdom.

so many chauvinistic comments. a man being a head doesnt mean he hs 2 be a dictator.

u sound like whn u get married, u'l put ur wife in the guardroom or subject her to funny rules.

the best thing is to ask God for wisdom to lead ur family right in love and understanding. u dnt get respect if u dnt earn it.

whn there are too many rules, there is usually rebellion.der is also divorce whn d woman feels like the man dictates instead of love.

a man shld be a good leader bt shld remember to love his wife n family in the midst of it all.

not all men possess all qualities. i hv met the first three types and i hd to take a walk cos i cnt handle a man tht talks dwn on me, make me do wht my conscience bothers me later on, or a man that sees the world thru a childs eyes.