₦airaland Forum

Oluwasaeon:
One word - Pride !

Pride?? Be reasonable here. Why should she cook on the first date? The guy obviously sees her as a help.The first day she is invited to hus house to cook for him and his friends. Next time he will say his toilet is dirty.
That is how she will be slaving for him and his friends will be calling her "our wife" and he will end up marrying someone who does not do half of what she does.
Most guys here seem to have one kind village mentality.
When a woman refuses to be walked over, you say it is feminism or pride. So women should be fools.

Choise:
Seems Daddy freeze want his own blasting....

I see it coming

He should learn to mind his business. Must he talk?

Nigerians need to chill on SM. They carry things on their head. ..even things that the owner of the matter doesn't even care about.
If tomorrow Bovi says he is giving out 50k each to 5 people, the same people will start begging with their destiny and lineage.

Boldtrust:
you have a faulty definition of "whining", sweetheart.

Off course not. Both sentences are independent.

sukkot:
when micheal jackson had vitiligo is when he fell off the wall and got lost in the thriller night as a werewolf

Epic crap!

Boldtrust:
This write up is a total crap. The op is so narrow minded that she believes anything abusive is masculine. Men get more abused than women. Yes I mean it. The likes of you are just too blind to see it.

Unfortunately, this nonesense got moved to the front page.

So much whinning from men.
Men seem to be dominating NL

It is true that we also have abusive women in relationships who are even physically abusive aside from emotionally abusive. And the poster should have acknowledged it in the write up.

But how many men have been reported dead as a result of domestic violence?

YelloweWest:
She's a celebrity. Details of her failed marriage cannot be hidden. That's the price they pay for fame.

Look at Lilian Esoro for instance. Till today she hasn't said anything publicly. Only to the people that matter. There are other celebs that have gone through problems but dealt with it privately. Mercy is moving out of the house...she posts a bideo of it. She goess for a scan and makes it public. She is giving too much information to get public sympathy

YelloweWest:
And some people are abusing mercy agbe for pressing charges against her beast of a husband.

Dear fellow women in hope u can see where "enduring marriage" leads to!

I can bet u this man has been beating this woman from time immemorial. Now he has finally killed her.

She was a director at SEC, that's a good paying job. Why didn't she leave the marriage?

I don't think Mercy is being blamed for that. The issue is her reporting everything to SM.

Some people will come and justify the beating by blaming women. That is why it is best to walk away. Now nobody will ask whether she attacked him first or insulted him and his kinsmen. He hit her and she died. End of story!

They were calling themselves Pirates but were caught during an initiation ceremony.

Icon4s:
Let me guess.

OSU, Ago-Iwoye abi?

Secondary school in Ibadan

This cult wahala happened in.my school years back like 1998. And it was a school in the west. So Afonjas back off!!

I don't think watching porn is a trivial thing as you guys make it sound. Seems like it's only the guys adivsing here and you guys believe watching porn is normal??

Secondly, buying cheap items for the wedding list doesn't speak too well about the guy and his family. They themselves agreed that the things they bought were cheap. At least some things should be of good quality.

It takes two to tango in a relationship and the lady or guy cannot do all the work. It is obvious that the guy is not what she needs. There are better and more reasonable guys out there and not one that cannot deal with simple issues.
Poster pls move on and do not get involved in this donkey years dating.

mayorjosh:
Ope oo

This VIO sef, I wonder why they were really created.

You'll be driving jejely in ikorodu before you realize some people wearing white are flagging you down.pfffft

And they're good at generating revenue too


Btw it's my birthday nairalanders,show some love

Happy birthday. May your heart desires be granted. We may children are special...wink

Mostly for show off and to be termed as distinct.
During NYSC, one guy introduced himself as Pharmacist Frank to impress a babe and she too gave her name as Engineer Ann. Stupidity. I always give my first name...married or single, I still have my identity. Let me see the person that will call me mama this or mummy that..lol

FromZeroToHero:
No amount of time spent in God's presence is too long. Some guys can watch all EPL matches scheduled from 12:30 - 6:30 while some ladies can see a season movie for 6hours without been bored.

Very good point you have. We have to take the things of God seriously. Though i think some churches line up activities that just seem time wasting. And the attention span of people can just be cut off and they dont get the message especially when it is too long and never ending.

Wow!! What a brilliant mind. I doubt it has anything to do with luck but rather hardwork and a busy mind.
I knew this guy as an actor. I pray the 200m commitment is given.

malton:
Why do I feel like the OP isn't telling us the truth?

For someone who went on a vacation, these are too many pictures. Besides, some of the pics are old.

It's okay to show a fine place like Owerri on the internet though.

If he went to America or one country in the abroad, it won't be suspicious for him to take "too many" pictures.

PapiSmith:
Tony is the most relevant in all a big brother Nigeria Housemates

Talented dancer
Talented actor
Very good speaker
Too intelligent...but those hypocritical, suffering inflicted Nigerians decided to vote a dummy, illiterate and an intellectually low individual as the winner.

Have you seen Efe's interviews? I swear even Gifty did a better job during her interviews.

You described Bisola not TTT

2dugged:
before the advent of social media, issues like this was settled in a living room with senior members of both the husband and wife present, and there and then the issues are trashed out, sometimes it takes hours of deliberation, bickering and tantrums from both parties, and finally the matter is settled,this is what I saw growing up

Now it is two agbayas trying to get sympathy from faceless people

Adesuwa and Banky have become role models over night setting the relationship goals.
Your relationship/marriage is what you make it. If you live to impress or to be happy is your choice.
But i know too much exposure will cause more harm than good.

From what i am reading here...that means Osogbo was heaven. The camp was said to the one of the best then.
I taught in a public school and the government paid 3500 monthly...over 5yrs back though.
We might not be entitled to anything from the state but i believe that funds are made available for corpers but are diverted along the way.

pesinfada:
Oga stop dis argument.

Job no dey b say e no dey.

Ask urself d number of graduates that are sent to d labour mkt evry year,compare it to d job available in d market.

Abeg no quote me again.

I will quote you as much as i want to. Why are you quoting me??
Graduates still get jobs especially if they are employable.

Proof*

pesinfada:
That u got a job or evribody in ur house is employee is not a prove that thy is job.


most of d so called employee are under employed.

#Job no dey dis country,Even Lai Mohammed knows.

Speak for yourself and stop discouraging people with your "thy is no job".

The fact that you have not been able to secure a job is not prove that there is no job.

pesinfada:
For u to know sombdy b4 u get a job is because thy is no job.

So the jobs that are eventually secured are thrown down from heaven? It is people that employ not organizations. People still work into companies and get jobs without knowing anyone. I once crashed a bank test and since i passed, i was given the job. I have never believed that there are NO JOBS and so i always get them where others believe they don't exist. Maybe you need to change your mindset.

ezewealth:
Nawa o, an erected penis has no conscience

It does. It cannot rape "it's" mother

Welcomme:
Sir, do u have link to the telegram group?

Download

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lezz:
Finally, you admitted you were raped!

Tell me how it happened; were you drugged or hacked down?

Did they allow you get wet before the very first penetration? Or the unlawful prick ploughed through your pussy while it was still as dry as a leaf exposed to harmattan ?

How can you be so insensitive and trivialize the act of rape?

alozie27:
ikorodu and crime this days.am sure gegemu must be in there system.so pathetic

Would rather stay in a 1room self contain in surulere than stay in a 4 bedroom duplex in ikorodu.

Getting a job is not impossible. Most of the people telling you that there are no jobs anywhere have jobs. How did they get it? Dont set your mind to believe there are no jobs. You already said "only teaching jobs".
The best way to get a job is through referrals. Do not be a quiet person. Tell people around you...uncles, friendss, neighbours,etc that you are searching. ..no forming.
My next door neighbour told me she was searching and i saw something that suited her and she got the job. Most of the jobs i did were through friends and family applying for me and telling people on my behalf.
I think it is better you don't just jump straight to master's without work experience especially in a Nigerian uni. My school mate did master's immediately after service. She ended up working in her mum's restaurant for a long time because she couldn't get a job. And so many others. Even some that travelled for master's and came back.
Doing master's is not automatic job security. At the same time, it is not wasted.
Networking as the other poster said is very important. Let people know.
And there's a job group on Telegram that they post jobs daily and the success rate of getting jobs is quite impressive.
Good luck