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1 down, two to go.

God should just give me twins and let it be complete fast

mezico96:
3 and all boys if possible

I no get strength to train women abeg

You gat to have a daughter. The love they have towards their dad even from when they are babies is priceless. My husband blushes a times

So his own father who brought him into this world and nurtured him till he became of age could do this to him. Yet it is women that are the demons...


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All you aggrieved guys quoting me, both the FILand daughter share the blame. But you guys are always so quick to heap the blame on the women because of your bias.

Priam:
Chimamanda says hi

Lol...hi right back at her

BLOODYSPERM:
How can you submit if you don't love and respect your husband but can operate with the love of Christ

My point is that some women not all women don't submit to their husband as their Lord in marriage even when their husband loves and respect

Wives submission is a choice not an obligation

The bible already preaches love all through...love thy neighbour as thyself.

But these verses we are discussing were particularly for husband and wife for a good marriage. We are already supposed to have love in us to give. But the emphasis is for marriage. Men to love and women to submit. To be the head, it is easy to try to bully and lord over those you are head over, so love is emphasized.

And also, being a joint heir with Christ and a human being with emotions and a willpower like the man, it is not easy to submit, so there is also emphasis on that for the woman.

So before a man shouts "submit", is he loving?

BLOODYSPERM:
I'm not twisting it both parties ought to love but for her to be submissive she must love her husband

The verse say love your husband and submit to him

Some reason why women won't submit can be because either they don't love their husband or their husband doesn't love them or they don't love each other

On the contrary, the bible says they should submit to each other. Enjoy below

Ephesians 5:21-28
[21]submitting to one another in the fear of God. Marriage—Christ and the Church

[22]Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.

[23]For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.

[24]Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

[25]Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,

[26]that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,

[27]that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.

[28]So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.

BLOODYSPERM:
The Bible also says women love your husband

Most women can't submit not because the husband doesn't love them but because they are incapable of loving their husband

That verse tslked about men loving and women submitting. You sre trying to twist it to suit your argument. Objectivity is important

DEMZEE:
How do men take it

Submission is submission, theres no two ways about it

If the men love their wives as Christ loved the church as the other part of that verse says, the submission will not need to be demanded by the husbands.

But a man will treat his wife without love and respect but still demand and expect submission. Not every woman will readily submit at that point.

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Speedy001:
Fellow akwa ibomite you are on point

Mummyfour:
I agree with you.
In the name of submission, what women suffer eh!! Hmmm.
I support what the Bible says, but the way men take it is not the way bible prescribed it ooo.

They usually forget the other part of that verse that says they should love their wives but are quick to preach submission to their benefit.

Ddokie:
Then they are not truly meek, they are only deceiving their husband. At the right time, their true colors will manifest.

If someone is truly good, he/she won't be in the business of deceiving people.

It's just like a lady who keeps telling her friend how she can't take all the rubbish she takes from her husband. Her friend now leaves her husband only to find out that the person that says she can't take rubbish is taking x5 and still stays with the husband.

They just try to deal with their misery by deceiving others to think they are doing well.

blazepascal:
exactly!!! and you are one of them

Your assumption, your problem.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]People promote divorce based on their leanings. And it might seem like the most of such people are feminists, BUT NOT because feminism promotes divorce, but because it allows women to be vocal about what they really think. There are people who hold certain opinions that they can never share because of conservatism. Divorce on what basis? They do not even necessarily cancel each other. The movement is not promoting getting married to get divorced.

What's your assurance that you'll wake up tomorrow? So why are you doing things today or working towards certain goals? The analogy might not fit, but I'm just trying to point out the idea of what what you said seems like with it.[/color]

At one point or the other, people should be vocal about how they feel or what they think instead of suffering in silence. If they are ladies, they don't need to be feminists to do so.

And if one cannot fulfil the requirements to make a marriage work because of some beliefs, movement or principles, they should boycott it altogether.

JESHAL:
Yes , it promotes divorce which will destabilize children

I don't understand why a lady will bother to get narried when she is in a movement that promotes divorce.

JESHAL:
At least she had 3 children for her spouse what most feminist consider a taboo in today mordern world promoting single independent career ambitious women who divorce, never marry but can choose to be childless or single mothers to achieve status in society like men because they compete with men

Is feminism against having children in marriage?

starz100:
Exactly, there is no thriving marriage where at least both parties won't submit to each other

Some people just want to be woke and feel among online even if they don't clearly understand the concept of feminism.

lilmax:
I've said this on nairaland a million times


This is the first test on feminism

If she says she's a christian and a feminist, just know she's a big dumbass

And btw....I no longer see our feminists here on nairaland, what happened? Them no dey fight again

Maybe they have married and have been reset

Kuns84:
Who wants to argue with you? your posts; both past and present, is a testament to what you stand for. Hypocrite.

Robot.

Kuns84:
Of course you won't understand.when you parade yourself as a staunch feminist online despite being a subservient wife at home

No need to argue. Please post my comments that backs this your allegation about me being a feminist.

You just took what you read on the thread about choosing wife over family hook line and sinker. I just refused to argue with someone who obviously was not capable of seeing beyond his own assumptions.

Kuns84:
So you can't admit this..

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I don't understand you

What people are on social media is quite different from what they are in their homes. Those claiming feminists can be meek and humble at home but they come online and mislead gullible ones.

Let's not be deceived o

lkillbrokehoes:
You are not only a residential Nairaland feminist but also a liar, I fear who no fear you, pretender!

Ok

lkillbrokehoes:
Reporting leshurr post shows how weak you are, y'all online residential Nairaland feminist, once anyone dosen't agree to y'all opinions or banter y'all. you all run to the mods like a coward, lol.. grow up and get something doing, this is a new year.

I am laughing at your ignorance. Just look well before you keep jumping into conclusions.

Idoho etuk feminist

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I didn't initially understand the "report a post" part. That was definitely not me. What did she say that warranted reporting her post?

Nice Tshirt

lkillbrokehoes:
This is a public forum, I can quote anyone I want to quote if you don't like it, you can deactivate your account, Nairaland residential feminist
because leshur said the obvious truth you are now attacking her, you have to go through me to get to her, I have ur medicine

Happy quoting!

Leshurr:
Why have you quoted me twice on the same post?
You will be the third girl on my matter today .. lol Na by force to bash men with una?

I don't bash. The guys on this forum are already preoccupied with that. They bash for a living.

Expect your gold star for the solidarity.

lkillbrokehoes:
Get a life jare, she said the obvious truth

And you have a life? Learn to mind your business. Know when and how to comment when you are not called into a matter.

Leshurr:
Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male gender bashing debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching!

But it's ok for it to be a female gender bashing debate?

pjobaby:
I understand your view point dear. But this Moyo, no clean tear rubber will marry her, there's a difference between secret bad girl and public bad girl. It's social media age we're in, internet never forgets. As for the man, it's a man's world, he'll be happily married again.

Let's not drag this scam of bad things happen to good people. It happens to bad people more but they know they deserve it so don't moutn it while good people mourn it.

We are not judges of anything. We cannot contol how the world goes and how people's minds work. In fact, we can't control anything. We just watch and wonder. How we feel about it doesn't stop it from happening.

The issue of bad things happening to good people is not a scam. It just shows that our things don't necessarily in a particular sequence or how expect it to

pjobaby:
I disagree that any sincere man with integrity will marry Moyo!!! Even her career integrity is at stake.
Sumbo wasn't involved in paternity fraud. She was a baby mama to a star. The scenarios are different.
Only gold digging men or men who pride in sleeping with "famous" women will wife her.
Even MD won't, best he'll do is officially accept responsibility of his children.
Which sane family will even accept her as wife?

In my 30 plus years in this world, I have come to realize that nothing is impossible. A tear rubber single man with no baggage could fall in love with her with all baggage and flaws..

And the MD could find a woman that will be sympathetic and still be with him.

Meanwhile single people that have never done one bad thing in their lives will be going for vigils and praying "God when".

When I saw 2 sisters...one married as a virgin and hasn't had a child for over 20years now, but the younger sister that had several body counts before getting married has kids, I knew that his life is really not balanced.

Leshurr:
Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male bashing gender debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching!

Because you only keep your ears open for the cases of the men

The moral of the story is...don't abandon or cut off your family for any reason whether for a husband, wife, career, lifestyle, etc.

And it is not peculiar to men. Women also marry bad husbands and cut off from their families and pay dearly for it.

"Non-simps" just like to carry this kind of matter on their heads.