₦airaland Forum

The5DME:
I earn 13k a month: data, transport, feeding, taking care of myself dey chop everything. I literally have no savings; can't even eave anything. My only hope is to make it as a software engineer. Life's not easy when you are poor.

Are you for real? 13K.
God bless ur hustle.

And that was why he ended up a Man Utd flop.

I no fit laff.
Let's c how CBN go do am na.

A man with a good heart towards people irrespective of religion. Rest well Sir

phrex:
Talk 2 ya husband bout it in a civilized manner, dnt jump to conclusion base on other peoples opinion and don't ever challenge dat lady... E get y

The best advice in my opinion.

There after that, take note of his next move.

Interesting.
Let me reserve my comment because this info could just be another rumor

Iretiduro:
I am currently going through the worst period of my life right now. Everything seem not to be working and I think my mental health has been affected. How do I seek help please.

Where else do u turn to? To the one who created u. God.

I don't know what ur problem is but I am certain many have experienced worse than what you are going through and they pulled through.

I will advice that you stop giving urself to worrying and then reason through,I am sure u"ll receive insight and some form of information that will shed light on the way out.

It's obvious that Nigeria as a nation needs urgent deliverance.

Honestly,I must admit Nigeria is seriously unwell and as things are the future of this country is very very bleak.

Father, show up in the affairs of our dear nationNigeria

The guy awards are just too much.
How many hin wan pack sef?
Possibly it will be sent to him in France

Information is power.
But more powerful is the right application of the information.
Thanks op for this piece of information

Beautiful!
Honestly, Nigerians are very creative and intelligent.
Just that very few exploit these abilities

Congratulations Chelsea.

Like say na Man Utd beat Chelsea for the Super cup.
If only they won Villarreal.Past tense now.
A new season a new challenge.

7k a day?
If it is, cool but if it's per month,it's better u go to the farm or come to Lagos and hustle it out

Aonkuuse:
A picture of a 10 year-old boy identified as Bello Abdulkadir Ado, holding a gun as a security personnel sparked reactions online.

It was gathered that the boy is a member of a Vigilante group in Safana local government area of Katsina State.

The picture which was shared on social media generated a lot of mixed reactions as many were tagging it as child abuse.

I am not surprised.
Kids vote in that part of the country.
I won't be surprised if goats and chickens carry guns in this country after all they are all legible to vote.

Prayer answered.
He will be praying properly and truthfully wherever he is.

Skyfornia:
I want someone that can teach/guide me on how to make money on YouTube. Drop your WhatsApp or email if you can... I'll contact you.

My number in my signature

Thanks for the timely information.

op
Is she legally divorced?

If she is there would be a court ruling on the welfare of the children that can be enforced.
If there isn't then you may seek legal advice on this issue if you want
the biological father of the kids to provide for the kids.

And if they were not married that one na long tin. She may need to consult a lawyer and
possible go through the man's family.

What do u expect? Elections will be rigged but God pass them

Apc is where the money is and naturally our politicians love money, so y not.
U guys can enjoy it while money sharing lasts.

I am sorry about what you going through.
U'll get over it as many went passed through rougher terrains but are well off today.

The first thing u need to do is to believe in urself because without this u're sunk. People will only believe in u if u believe in urself well enough.
I am happy u're working now.
Work out a repayment plan to clear ur debts and start to pay. No matter how small you have to show commitment and stick to it, when ur income increases, let the increase reflect in the amount u've set out to clear ur debts. This won't be easy but it can be done.
Once you are committed to this, fortune will smile on u. Do not at any point give up.
And finally if ur friends are can't help u unless you join their illegal activities, kindly move on and God will help you. But don't forget to be prayerful

It's a good.one by the security rescue team.
More needs to e done to provide safety for the citizenry.

The banditry and kidnapping in this nation is increasing exponentially, I seriously feel that some guys are looking away in order to cashout from this criminal practice.

May God protect us all.

I can't even remember mine.
It wasn't of any use.

Forget the girl, forget revenge and focus on making a better person out of urself.
Keep doing the right things and in due Season u'll be celebrity with loads of wads too.

Op, more grease to your elbow.
Don't worry its only a matter of time , God will honor ur efforts and open more doors for you
for honoring your parents.

The only way to survive these ever increasing responsibilities in a period like this is to
create more streams of income by learning a skill or business or whatever.
Then double your hustle.

It has never been easy but you can get out of it and look back to smile because it had been worth it.

Lovethaa:
I bought this saving box (kolo) around may for my personal use. The plan was to open it at the end of the year but I decided to break it today to see how well I'm doing ...


. Although most times I always forget to put money in it cos am not used to it ..


See what I found today ..I'm just about to count it I kno it is not plenty but it feels like a gift to myself ..who still keeps kolo ?...

This one pay go pay somebody rent.

Nice one
U tried and it only gives you an idea of how much you can save in a year.
Just be disciplined to avoid the temptation of opening the box next time.

Nice move.
At last the deal has pulled through.

Let's see what he brings to utd.
We don't want another Sanchez o

Kondomatic:
You owe me no apology. We all say what's not true sometimes, so no problem . Dude, you misunderstood me. Getting married is a choice, loving who married is a mandatory decision.

But you can't love and respect your partner no matter what. There's a limit to what will happen and you will love them no more.

The reason you've stayed married for years isn't because you love her no matter what, it's because she also loves and respects you.

The love and respect will vamoose when she cheats on you, beats up your mom, bathes you with acid, starves of you of sex, food and attention or murders your family.

The no matter what will disappear immediately. You might just be the one to read your Bible because what I have just told you is one of the truths that Christians are unwilling and scared to accept.

There are so many conditions attached to God's love, one of them being that you must believe in Jesus. Judas was chosen and loved, he carried out his purpose and was hated, condemned and forgotten.

Let's hang it there.

Smiles
U try

Kondomatic:
The OP is an ass a big one.

I understand that the first few months of marriage is usually difficult because that's when the couple will drop some "I" and "You" for "We". It's when they learn to do things as one.

There will always be clashes of interest in a marriage, even Jesus and God had same when he said "if possible let this cup pass........but your will be done"

Sometimes you will let her win and other times you will stand your ground but when it comes to married women and church, bros a man suppose take a firm stand before things get out of hand. The Pastors are not doing God's work any more.

For a wife of two months to tell you that "you can't stop her from going to church activities" means there's already a problem that needs urgent fixing - unless she was being stubborn because they already had a quarrel.

Meanwhile she kneels to talk and take instructions from the same pastor. That's madness.

I am calling the OP an ass not because "He punished her" but because he locked her out. You don't do that to an adult, you don't do that to even kids.

And there's a saying that "two people killed each other because there's no third person to separate them". The OP should have returned home the moment his brother called. Shows she was really sorry.

That would have given him the ample opportunity to giver her some dos and donts when it comes to church activities. He blew that chance.

Lemme tell you something, the OP and his wife are in "who is the boss" stage in their marriage. It's a phase that will soon pass but he will be caged forever if he loses.


Now back to whey I am saying all these to you.

You see this thing you said in the @emboldened, please don't say it again.

Nobody deserves to be loved and respected no matter what.

God cannot love you no matter, Jesus cannot love you no matter.

Respect is given to who deserves respect, it's earned not demanded.

@ bolded
Line 1 - I will say it as often as i live. Sorry to disappoint u about that.

Line 2 - That's ur opinion. I love and respect my wife and there's nothing anyone can do about it. 10 yrs in marriage, i think i have a lot of experience already. No vex, i Love my wife.

Line 3 - I am sorry i do not agree, please, rethink and study ur Bible very well.

Line 4 - Agreed but u also have to give a measure of it to earn it.

yorubarere:
She also disrespected the man she swore to respect and honor. It is a two way street, she done hers and the husband retaliated. Case closed. This is the time they will know each others and draw boundaries.... And also fight for who is incharge.

I am not sure you understand the institution of marriage. His wife is his better half. I don't think he can tolerate what he did to his wife like sleeping on the bench outside. Irrespective of what the wife did, that was not the best way to go about it.
Two wrongs cannot make a right so i expected he acted rationally.