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Nigerians throw themselves into fire intentionally and then start crying for help.



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That's for those you believe that high crime rate in Nigeria is because of poverty.

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Candidlady:



Ihate it when women fight over men.. very low... Hades low!!!

Fighting over a waste called westernlove


If you feel she used juju on your man why not up the juju you used to get him in the first place..

Women like this disgust me

See the woman defending her husband infidelity codely... Iswear it was a single father that raised this woman no doubt

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Facts don’t care about feelings.

Women fought because of a man. Women are fighting because of a man. And women will continue to fight because of a man.

All that fight has nothing to do with the man. They are fighting for his resources.

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IyanuDeb:
My friends have been advising me to start saving money for a while now, I don't earn much but I had already decided to start saving, no matter how little, just yesterday when someone heard us talking about it, he said with the way Nigeria currently is, saving has disadvantages because my 1million today will become 500k next year.

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School will always teach you about money.

But school will never teach you what is money. If you can teach yourself the practical definition of money, you can never be poor again.

The majority don't know what is money and that's why wealth is concentrated in a few hands.

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eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

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Haven't you heard of polygamy?

Marry both of them.

What's the problem?

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There are many ways to get rich in Nigeria. The smart ones figured it out and kept it to themselves. If they dare show themselves, everyone and their grandmother will jump into in, abuse it and render it useless just like POS business, hotel business in the SE, and what they tried to do to Guiness World Record recently.

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We play too much in this country.

There is no imposition of fine without a breach of law.
There are many underhand deals (including forfeiture or fines without prison terms) in US. In some cases, some criminals go under Federal Protection programmes or snitch to walk free. But a crime must have been committed first.

The fact that a sitting President is directly or indirectly connected to narcotics in US is in itself a valid reason for disqualification. But Nigerians are quick to condone evil for pecuniary reasons until the monster turns around to haunt them.

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They choose to sacrifice themselves.

Every time there is an incident, it is always the escorts that end up dying for nothing trying to protect a looter.

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While I understand why the governor took the decision to lock shops of those who obeyed the sit-at-home orders, the first step towards restoring order would have been to liaise with the military and the police, comb the forests and eliminate all the armed groups hiding in the forests.

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Nigeria should be worried especially with the high level of anger/hardship in the land and a quasi-dictator with no military background as a selected President.

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The only reason a charlatan like Ayodele continues to pollute the airspace is because Nigeria has failed to hold these scammers responsible for false prophecies. I believe Ghana is implementing something to that effect and unnecessary fake prophecies died a natural death there.

It may seem that the sanitization of Nigeria must start from religious houses to unshackle the people from psychological slavery else it will be like playing a Russian roulette--too many morons finding solace in religious organizations.

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Low interest rate spurs growth. But the voodoo economy they are running in Nigeria makes it difficult to balance interest rate and inflation. As long as Nigerians depends on importation of every basic thing, the economy will continue to be in tatters.

Reduce interest rate, provide easy access to funding, provide steady electricity, fix the major roads, curb multiple local taxation (State and City). How difficult is it to manage Nigeria? All these Vision20XX, Tradermoni and other bullshit are from lack of vision. Someone built Dubai, China, Singapore in less than 20 years.

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PatEinstEin:
Most Nigerians especially Igbos see the idea of moving back to their hometown as a defeat. If the City (for instance Lagos) becomes very difficult, I don't see anything wrong in relocating. There are people there afterall.

What are your thoughts on this?

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Back in the days, there were no electricity nor commercial activities in the village. So relocating to the village was either for retirement or admission of giving up in life. But the story has changed. Good roads, electricity and commercial activities are present. Add possible free rent to the equation.

Many people still stay away because some unscrupulous pastors have convinced them that their uncle or aunt in the village is responsible for the fuel price hike. Every self-inflicted or government-inflicted injury is the fault of an innocent uncle/aunt in the village.
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Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

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I think I will start following you.

Nothing is more entertaining than a man who single-handedly destroys himself. It is as fun as watching a train wreck.

Advice? No! Go ahead and continue dwelling in that hell fire.

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Good one.

The people are the ones empowering the nonsense.

7 people in a Toyota Sienna bus should not be able to shut down a whole State. As a matter of fact, if the market organizations decide that enough is enough, they don't need LEA. Eg. When OMATA was led by men, this nonsense couldn't happen in Onitsha.

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Obasanjo was in the best position to make Nigeria great in 1999 and he failed woefully. He got carried away by the allure of power. It is hypocritical of him to be delivering lectures on African development. He planted this menace we see today.

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That Umunneochi axis is a hotspot for kidnapping. That's where the Methodist bishop was kidnapped. That's where Rochas Okorocha's convoy was attacked last month. Sadly Abia State government under Ikpeazu paid no attention.

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Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

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I hope you hide all the knives in your house when you go to sleep. I already know how this will end if you continue in the marriage.

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ruggedtimi:
Nigeria V I P moving around with two - three mobile Police is one of the most stup*d security measures. If kidnappers come for you they will get you.

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Those MOPOLs are on a suicide mission. In all recent incidents, they were the ones that got killed.

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LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

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Congratulations!

You have just increased your lifespan by more years.
God works in a mysterious ways.

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April396949:
It is concerning to hear that 529 foreign-trained doctors failed a medical exam conducted by the Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria (MDCN). This raises questions about the quality of medical education and training in these foreign institutions.

The MDCN plays a vital role in ensuring the competence and proficiency of doctors in Nigeria. The fact that such a high number of foreign-trained doctors failed the exam highlights the importance of stringent assessment measures to maintain patient safety and uphold medical standards.

It is crucial for the MDCN to thoroughly investigate the reasons behind this high failure rate. Factors such as inadequate education, lack of clinical exposure, or insufficient preparation for the exam must be addressed to prevent the influx of underqualified doctors into the Nigerian healthcare system.

Simultaneously, it is essential to evaluate Nigerian medical schools' capacity to produce enough well-trained doctors to meet the growing healthcare needs of the population. If the country is heavily relying on foreign-trained doctors to bridge the healthcare gap, it is essential to ensure that they receive the necessary support and guidance to successfully integrate into the healthcare system.

This situation also calls for collaboration between Nigerian and foreign medical institutions to establish stricter quality control measures for medical education and training. Efforts should focus on sharing best practices, regular assessments, and learning from successful healthcare systems globally.

Ultimately, the goal should be to ensure that all doctors practicing in Nigeria, whether foreign-trained or locally educated, meet the highest standards of medical competence and professionalism to guarantee the provision of safe and effective healthcare services to the Nigerian people.

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I beg to differ.

The question is: What is the structure of the examination?

It is difficult to study and train with modern equipment and be tested on archaic practices bordering on "cram and vomit". Many Nigerians who excelled in many professions abroad were initialed failed in Nigerian schools. Do you ever wonder why? Last time I checked, graduates from Nigerian universities are not world class. They need to update their curricula. Don't be surprised that it is the same exams that they used in the 1980s that they are still using in 2023.

Talk to doctors in your Teaching Hospitals about laparoscopic surgery or even common bronchoscopy, they will look at you like an alien.

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Worse than cancer are the Nigerians in diaspora. The ones in Nigeria may act out of poverty but the losers abroad with multiple degrees yet feel unfulfilled in life/profession will sell anyone to get a slice of government contracts.

Only Nigerians in Nigeria can redeem Nigeria.

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Can they at least give Tinubu 3 months before all these wailings, lamentations and gnashing of teeth? It is too early na.
We are still waiting on Eniola Badmus and Seyi Law to join the band of Bob Marley and the wailers.

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Slynation:
There are rules for drinking in public places...

Number one rule : make sure you empty your bottle and glass cup before going out to pee and always cover your glass cup with either your phone or the glass cover...!!

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That's Rule #2.

Rule #1: Don't go out drinking.

Prevention is better than cure.

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It is unfathomable that with the Nigerian Army, Police, NSDC, etc a few armed men would be left to be terrorizing the citizen under any pretense.

Unknown gunmen will operate in daylight without a single challenge from the police or military. There are no baits on Mondays to rope them in even though everyone is aware that they will try to enforce their sit-at-home orders. It defies logic.

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fyzaila:
That marriage is created to be enjoyed not endured. It's supposed to be a continuous love journey not constant battle and misery.

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Marriage was created solely for procreation. Love is just an integral part of marriage. The original plan was a virgin man will marry a virgin female and they have offsprings.

But since love has been forced to be the foundation, marriage died because emotions fluctuate. There is no longer sense of commitment.

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Still trying to wrap head around N16k ($20) school fees in 2023.

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Maazieze:
The reason why its harmful is due to how poor the average nigerian is, the minimum wage is low, unemployment is high, so fuel end up taking a larger % of their wages

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The problem with your analysis is that if 19 people earn N35k per month and 1 person earns N800k per month, the average salary will be:
((35,000 x 19) + (800,000)) / 20 = N73,250 (an amount greater than double the salary of each of the 19 participants).

So their calculated average salary = N73,250 which is far from reality. I hope you can see why using average in analysis is very bad.

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They better put all the material evidence in a fireproof safe. E get why.


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Blacks are quick to claim equality to Whites...
but will ALWAYS depend on them to dig them out from holes.

So without USA or UK interventions, Nigerians cannot fight for themselves? The level of cowardice that exists in Nigeria is unexplainable. Only Nigerians can change the trajectory of Nigeria. US and UK couldn't care less about blacks that exist within their boundaries, then one expects them to care about the existence and welfare of negroes that live thousands of kilometers away. I believe US and UK can't help but sit back in awe at the delusion of Nigerians.

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