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ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

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Wait!

Didn't you go for family enquiry before the marriage?

No advice necessary.

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Instead of demanding they are begging.

They are not serious.

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Is this how she talks like a 9 years old girl?

I am like...she is like..he is like...Really?

By the way, there is nothing spectacular about the sextape. Don't waste your data.

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No payment for Marketing

In one swoop, Chiwetalu Agu became the second most popular man in SE after MNK

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@ N350 per US$, the minimum wage was pegged at N30k/month.

So @ N560 per US$, the minimum wage should be N48k/month.

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Do we get free bread if we mention your name?

Asking for freeloaders on NL.

By the way, I like that office table.
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My question: Why are the Southerners very afraid of the North?

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Joysticks:
Everyone wearing plain cloth is now an ESN member to police.

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He was on covert operation as a member of the dreaded Unknown Gun Men. After he was killed, they found out that he is with DSS and the change of narratives (aka cover up) started. Apparently IPOB is not Unknown Gun Men.
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Bankole, Yahaya Bello, Desmond Elliot.

Nigeria is a place where 40+ years old men are the youths. Absurd? Don't forget a young man was vying for the position of Women leader in the North.

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Nigerians and salvaged Presidents are like 5 & 6.



They will panel-beat and respray Tinubu to look like tear rubber...then he gets there and London trips start. Right now, all we know is that he has suspension and alignment problems. Are his engine and gearbox intact? After the election holds the key.
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As long as BMCs are feeling the heat too...no qualms.

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He was shot by a police officer who claimed that it was an accidental discharge.

But as usual, they are twisting it to be Unknown Gun Men.

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Obaxxx:

Good look..

But here in my big for nothing country,even ordinary low budget Dubai self we no get . Abi na Lagos we go take compare places like that... Even our FCT self no balance reach ordinary town for Dubai self..........

Well,I don vow say if I no lash brazilian banny for this life,I no go gree die

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What do you expect when Nigerians celebrate a fly-over like it is the 9th Wonder of the World?

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Topzee109:
That's the reason hisbah ban alcohol, have you heard of unnecessary accidents in kano, no because of hisbah

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If ban is the solution, cocaine and other hard drugs would have been history. Who wan drink go drink.
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Nice interior.

No be Nigeria dem for use curtains scatter everywhere.

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The drivers do not need to buy alcohol at the park when bars and joints are everywhere.

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Idamond:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/olu-jacobs-hale-and-hearty-joke-silva-debunks-death-rumours/%3famp

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A video of him in the living room eating eba and today's newspaper displayed will end the rumour.

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Anyiodogwu:
I own a 2005 Toyota Corolla vehicle, and I have been impressed with the vehicle performance and fuel economy.

But I recently noticed a yellow light on my dashboard saying (Maint req).

My question now is what does it mean?

Please I am a bit ignorant about autos.

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Don't worry about it if nothing is wrong with your car
It is just a reminder to go for a routine check. It is like setting an alarm in your clock. Reset if necessary.

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ambr055i:
Please, I need your advice because right now I'm confused about where to go, it's a lifelong decision.

I just turned 34 last month, still living with my uncle, but no pressure on his part is a big house. Currently, I teach in a school where my net salary and my home lesson inclusive are approx. N 100000 a month. I have a master's degree in engineering, so I haven't put that certificate to use. I have a saving of 900k, it will be higher by December. Although it would have been more than that, I lost 400,000 to the detriment of a bad investment. Last two years, I had an illness that struck (ENT related), which doesn't have a cure. One of the symptoms is vertigo (a sensation of feeling off-balance). This made me change my mind about travelling. For a few months now, I haven't had the experience.

I have three thoughts, but I can only do one at a time.

Firstly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Use the rest of the money to start a business as a side hustle while working with the school.

Secondly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Next, I invest my time in a tech skill (web dev, programming or data science).

Thirdly, travel to the US for my PhD program. I have already been preparing for my GRE before now.

Thank you.

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The problem may be because you are in delimma instead of dilemma.

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The people are not allowed to choose their king anymore. Whoever is in the good books of the Governor gets a certificate and the king is only answerable to the Governor and not the people. That’s why there is no respect for the kings anymore. They are mere errand boys for the Governor. The Governor will not dethrone them; only a mere Commissioner is saddled with that responsibility. Go figure! And if the Governor is having a bad day, he may elect to divide a town into autonomous communities and hand over certificates to his minions to be the kings.

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Not until you lend money to someone who refuses to pay. You decide to go at it the hard way. But on reaching there and seeing their condition, you come dash them money join.

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Create a balance between the two. Choosing one for the other is disastrous.

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* Golden Rule*

Don’t LEND. Don’t BORROW.

Save for emergencies.

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Even if only 100 people vote in the election, a winner will be announced. IPOB should support an obscure political leader that will keep their mandate and insist that people vote for him/her. So if the person fails, then IPOB fails.
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Bighead9:
APGA should not waste their time. Election will not hold in Anambra. A Northerner will be appointed as Administrator in Anambra after the expiration of Willi Obiano's tenure.

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Hmmm
Don’t be shocked that a Northerner may make a better administrator than an indigene.
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ShadowWalker00:
These low-life miscreants tarnishing Nigeria image abroad .

E no go ever better for una .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZ2XKJ4hnyY

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They are not tarnishing Nigerian image abroad. They are just being Nigerians. Don’t talk as if Nigerian image at home is any better. They only exported their menace and local contents to their new environment.

The biggest mistake any progressive nation will make is to let a vast population of Nigerians into the country. Admit but screen the hell out of them.

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Nothing to celebrate.

Low oil price == decrease revenue to FGN

High oil price == high subsidy payment.
It is just a revolving door of inefficiency and loss.

In other words, oil price has no positive impact on Nigeria. The only solution is to have Nigerian refineries up and working.

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PROUDIGBO:
This is a very dumb statement!

Enugu is on the verge of the rainforest belt and not in it, and with the way deforestation is occurring at an alarming rate in the south-east, developing a tree-planting culture should be encouraged!

Haiti was once a lush, green and forested country! Go and look at it today, and hopefully you’ll realise the dangers of deforestation!

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Keep deceiving yourself.

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Almightyprosper:
I need reasonable people to give me some advise here on how I can deal with such a huge fiasco,
The money isn't really my problem but she cheat and she has never accepted once even though I've evidence.
Is it appropriate to help her? Or help and give her road out0 of my life cause her cheating lifestyle has caused me more trauma than everyday..
This lady knew I had accident last week for God
Men with experience I await your response

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You suckers never learn.

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codemaniacs:
humans need trees around them for oxygen and carbon-dioxide not because of any green initiative..

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Rainforest zones have more than enough share of trees. Perhaps you don't understand the green initiative.

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popez:
These people have refused to tell themselves the truth that will rescue this country from further destruction. They keep doing the absolute wrong things and pretend they don't know the reason for the agitations all over the country.



Lol. Okay o.

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But that's one man's opinion.

Blame the masses that will complain, then sell themselves for N2k and thereafter go back to complaining.

Tinubu will not hold a gun to anyone's head to vote for him.
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aikyg:
Nice job. Unfortunately, there's no space for the state capital development agency to plant trees on the road side. The government should encourage the landlords on that road to plant trees in their compounds, close to the road, to maintain the green initiative of the state's founding fathers.

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What do you need trees for or you just like to copy everything? South-East is a rainforest zone with more than enough areas for the green initiative. Some nations are desert and need trees for green initiative but not Southern Nigeria.

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