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A pastor started preaching about first fruit or first month (whatever they call it cos I don't pay attention to such bs) in an MFM church in Los Angeles. I guess he forgot that those Nigerians have monthly bills to pay. The church immediately got rowdy. Hopefully he learned his lesson.

Lesson: Take that tithe scam to Nigeria because the place can guarantee an unlimited supply of morons.

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It depends on how much is the debt because lawyers' fees may be high.

soberdrunk:
The fact that Amara hasn't tendered a 'public apology' yet shows that Kanu cannot control his wife, see how she has turned his brother to the joke of the year, my elders say "if my brother is put to shame and i say i am not ashamed it means i have no shame". How can any 'responsible' 'real' and "complete" man sit back and watch as his brother is rubbished in front of the whole world!!

LOL.

A Nigerian lady married and trained abroad has unshackled herself from the misogynistic and patriarchal philosophy of the shithole (thanks Trump) called Nigeria. In terms of finance, it is every mallam with own kettle.

Note: If your brother is married and you are married, limit or best stop depending on him. Be your own man else the insult will come in bundles. Of course, it will be from the wife.

It is this silly mindset that brothers and uncles will throw a widow out of the husband's property because they have the thwarted sense of entitlement to his property supported by dictatorial Nigerian custom. Only weak ladies succumb to that nonsense. Ojukwu family tried it with Bianca and got burned.

I stand with Amara on this one.



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omonnakoda:
So he should write a rebuttal
is that what a sensible man would do if he does not consent?
There is no sense in what you have just posted.
Even if he was to do that it is early days ,there is plenty of time but that is what a small man or one who reasons like a woman would do.
Kanu has no business responding to what is clearly a childish tantrum.

When Obasanjo's children were making allegations against him did he join issue with them publicly?
In your logical world that means consent. Your reasoning is emotional and lacks manly clarity
A man in control of his household can never respond to that statement publicly rather the woman should me made to apologise and retract the statement in the same medium
Quite how Kanu can consent to a statement that ridicules him is strange logic.
No one knows the other people and Kanu is not helped by this outburst rather it wounds his image
Funny dude trying to turn the table.
It is too late for that now. You are the one on a campaign against leeches and projecting your personal drama into the story saying how she exploded because of years of frustration. WHO is taking it personal?

I have no interest in any of them but maintaining our values. I don't believe people should bring a matter like this to the public.
The only thing presented is Leeds United ticket and the reaction seems way out of proportion.
If anything the real victim is Kanu because he is the one we know. The other two are defined by Kanu
Mathematicians would say they are functions of Kanu and so if anything he is the one I sympathise with
My position is we do not need to know this. This is part and parcel of marriage in our culture. Other cultures have their own peculiar issues

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A third call out by Amara will confirm my assumption/suspicion.

It sure will come sooner than later.

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Go with your first instinct.

No food? You can sort yourself out.

No ring? Questionable.

No ring and daring you to do your worst? Bingo!

Yes. She is cheating on you.

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omonnakoda:
This thread is not about Nigerians but a named individual.
As such all your philosophy is not useful in a specific case without facts and the right to reply.
The only fact on the table is about a ticket.
There is no adjudicator with a brain that can listen to the facts and find for the woman.
Your argument is akin to saying the Fulani herdsmen must have been provoked well maybe they were but if we accept that they did the killings the onus is on them to justify.
Ogbonna does not have to justify himself,the onus is on the person who came out to call him names to justify her behaviour to the public. . That is natural justice. Any fair member of the public should not be speculating but should pay attention to FACTS.
Did he steal the ticket? What exactly is her complaint? That her husband gave him the ticket or that he stole them?
How do you know Amara is venting after years of suppressing anger?Anger at what? Is she your associate?
You are just projecting yourself into the story psychologically . Do you have information we don't have?

The other party to this of course is Kanu himself what does this do to his brand? Does it help.
At the end of the day they will have to reconcile I hope but this will be very hard to repair.

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Silence is consent.

Did you hear Kanu write a rebuttal? Remember that this is not the first time she called Ogbonna out.

Kanu's brand? Let them worry about that. Are you in Ogbonna's shoes? You seem to take his treatment personal.



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metronaija:
Twitter user, Zigi has sparked outrage after saying that Nigerian-American ladies make better wives than Nigerian born ladies. See her reason and tell us what you think below...

http://www.metronaija.ng/nigerian-americans-make-better-wives-nigerian-born-girls-twitter-user/

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With Nigerian-Americans, you are dealing with the devil you know. Why would someone travel back to Nigeria to marry the devil he doesn't know? In this 2018?

It boils down to how the parents raised their children in US. The ones raised in stable homes are 1million times better than the packaged pretenders from Nigeria.

Learn from the mistake of others. Marry someone from where you live.

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omonnakoda:
You are free to support her, that is your right but do not try and dress it up in rationality unless you have some other information that the rest of us don't have. If it is for more than Leeds United ticket we would like to know and what actually happened with this ticket,
Did he steal it.
My guess is you are projecting yourself psychologicallyi into the situation and are on a campaign against all leeches everywhere
This is no different from getting psychologically involved in a film as if it were real and then you start to literally hate one of the characters forgetting that it is a film

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Nope.

Nigerians and awufu are like 5 and 6. I know the "my brother is rich" mentality. It is never enough. A bottled up anger and frustration pop at the slightest of all provocations. We can tell that it is not about the tickets. Amara is venting after years of suppressing her anger.

The best thing a man can do for himself is to go out there and hustle whether the mother, father or siblings are rich.

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omonnakoda:
You talk so confidently about family issues you know nothing about.
Unless you hear from both sides you don't know and you are just taking this opportunity to get off what was on your chest before.

Leeches? Really? That is a very heavy word. Very heavy indeed. On top Leeds United ticket?
Did he break into their home to remove the ticket? I doubt very much that if he did so he would post it on Social media.
Do you know how much Kana spends on her own family.?
Generally it is better to be silent when you don't have facts that to project your own drama on to another person's story.
If he complains to her about family pressure would she be the first?
We are not given that information and since we are not it would have even better not to give us any.
The only information we have is about a ticket
And she comes on social media to call him borrow pose,oloriburuku etc, where is the proportionality?
Would she do that to her own brother Would Kanu do that to her own brother.

There is no justification for this even if not on moral reasons but on strategic ones. What does she achieve by doing this? What is her strategy?
She has shown her hand too quickly and too childishly.

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Either way...I support what she did.

Quote me any day.

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efavour:
wrong, how did ogbonna get the so called ticket? Is it not through his brother. She crossed the line. I once threatened my hubby to tell off his brother and friends for some interferences if they didn't mind their business. It got him. He didn't want me disgracing him that way by insulting his friend or brother and he probably took care of it even though I had no intention of doing that to him.It was just a threat. Not to talk of your wife coming to disgrace the whole family on social media. Kanu wouldn't have supported that cos the disgrace is on him actually. Very foolish woman. Yes am a feminists but family is family. Every family covers each other shame when outside. You can insult them inside.

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That's your family. I don't think you expect every family to respond to issues the ways you do. After all, brothers have killed brothers before.

There are many times a man will go to bed bitching and whining to his wife about financial pressure from his family/siblings. The wife sees the stress on the husband and will act or talk. She gets taciturn support from the husband who would still come around to play a peacemaker. How long do you think this leeching has been going on? She finally reached her breaking point. Some people have no shame and Ogbonna fits the profile. A rich fella who handles his siblings with kids' gloves will live to regret it because they tend to be insatiable. How long has Nwankwo been supporting Ogbonna? Folks who have married as long as Nwankwo and his wife are usually partners in decision especially on family matters. Kanu is currently under financial stress and needs to cut some liabilities. The post by Amara makes a lot of sense to me.
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degamemaster:
Aisha's actions and utterances against her husband the dullard clearly has proven us right that the man in aso rock is not buhari but jubril from Sudan and madam is already tired of the conspiracy and fucking a Sudanese terrorist just to cover up. Madam aisha don taya abeg.

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Not when one deluded woman (btw whose existence is not known to Buhari) known as Ngeneukwuenu thinks she knows Buhari more than Aisha and Zahra.

The mind is a dangerous thing to waste.
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Mztarstrechy:
As shared by John Bello.....

'Behold, the handiwork of demons in Weppa Wanno town of Agenebode.
A servant of the Most High, the Lord of Hosts,
APOSTLE JOETINO PETERS ODIDI,
was brutally attacked in his sanctuary after evening prayers on Thursday, Jan 18, 2018 at about 7.30pm, local time, On the order of the OKUMABGE OF WEPPA-WANNO KINGDOM, HRM GEORGE OSHAPI EGABOR, JP, PHD OMOAZE1.

He orders his boys/thugs to beat the man of God up.

Let it be known that the OKUMABGE is not above the law.

The OKUMABGE must face the law....

Just as my distinguish Senator DINO MELAYE SAID: IF YOU DONT TALK YOU DIE.IF YOU TALK YOU DIE.SO LET TALK AND DIE.

OKUMABGE brutality in WEPPA-WANNO kingdom must stop.

Enough is enough'


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/01/traditional-ruler-orders-thugs-to.html?m=1

What did the pastor do?

Beatings do not fall from the sky.

Did he mess with ruler's property, money or wife?

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soberdrunk:
Which wife? The one that can wake up tomorrow morning and "Eboue" him? I have friends that are more important to me than my future wife will be!

LOL.

Better change this mindset. Friends more important than a wife? And you wonder why there are more widows than widowers.

By the way, don't think that Kanu Nwankwor had no idea about her post. There are certain battles a man leaves for the wife and claim ignorance. Voice of Amara, hands of Kanu.

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PointZerom:
Why will you thank your parents for sending you to school and neglect the teachers that suffered and sometimes taught you without salary just to bring the best in you?.

If we must follow the teachings of Freeze here, it's the teachers that we should thank not our parents.

Your teachers did not sign up for voluntary services.

If their employers didn't pay them, that's their problem that they need to sort out with their employers.

Nigerians love to abuse every opportunity. They have taken christianity to another level which sadly moves in tandem with higher moral decadence in the society. Who is fooling who? Proliferation of religious centers in Nigeria has not had any positive impact in Nigeria -- hypocrisy of black nations.
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PointZerom:
When you graduated, who did you thank.... God, Your parents that sent you to school or the lecterers that taught you?.


Your sincere answer will make you know that Freeze is mad.

If you didn't thank your parents, that's your problem.
Some people get good jobs and buy cars for their parents.
If you choose to buy a car for your pastor instead, then you need to listen to Freeze more often.

A gift to a pastor is not a gift to God. Thank the right person but give glory to God.

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Rachelsblog:
A Georgia mom is earning high praise on social media after she made a post on how she makes her 5yr old daughter to pay part of their rent, in other to teach her the value of money.

According to Essence Evans everyday she gives the little girl $7 and collects 5dollars back, which she saves in the girl's account, so that when she turns 18 she can start her life of her own, how nice, How many Nigerian parents can do this?


see her post which has since gotten over 220,000 likes, 300k shares below!!


News From Ebiwali--http://www.ebiwalismoment.com/2018/01/proud-mom-reveals-how-she-makes-her-5yr.html

Good idea but it doesn't make any economic sense.
15 years from now, the $3k adjusted for inflation may not worth much.

Threebear:
Even doctors believe in medical miracles.
Besides doctors charge for their services, it's not like they do it for free, appreciating God is never a bad thing. Some people went for that operation but didn't wake up.

You missed the point.

anigbajumo:
Ae u telling me all d ladies out there has all the diseases to ar referring to??

I still can't believe a reasonable human being will choose a toy /artificial scientific innovative over a real beauty, natural boobs,romantic lips nd thight punny over a toy like log of wood.Toy can never satisfy you as human being.

I never in a bit prefer toy over a real ladies out there...

I like how you keep saying "I" -- it is a matter of choice.

People sleep with animals, corpse, plastics, fruits.

Dolls are infact an upgrade to what humans can sleep with.

On the flip side and in line with your argument, one can question why ladies use vibrators and dildos when they can get the real thing.
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Fact: Build yourself as a man and sex dolls will be the least of your worries.

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Uyiii:
na to arrange one Toolz-like sex doll o
no time to waste time abeg, this is 2018.
we can't be toasting upandan naa, we don taya abeg.

P.s: I heard some slay-slay are seeking solace in saying broke niggas can't afford a sex doll. my dear sister leave story o, na to close eye buy am, after all it won't disturb you to take it to dominos or Kilimanjaro later on, that money don still save for one corner first.

Lemme tell you a secret about guys, we can do joint collabo to buy that sex doll and of course gängbang the thing together i.e threēsome or foursome. boys dey vex o, nor go there;

A good business model will be to open a silicon moulding company in Nigeria. Guys bring in pictures of their specs and you mould at discounted rates. You will give oyibo run for their money. Toke, Toolz, Linda, Tonto, etc will be ready for delivery. There will be no lawsuits as long as you give them fake names. Just my Aba business brain thinking...

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anigbajumo:
It amazed me that a reasonable person will choose a machine over human.. Sex doll?? I dey craz

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You mean choose sex dolls over humans with possible HIV, AIDS, Hep C, Herpes, genital warts, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc?

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All is fair.

Dolls for men.

Dolls for women.

Money for Brazillian hair, iphone and sundry expenses will be the determinants.

Who will hurt most?

As a core feminist, I have always advocated that men should leave women alone. Don't toast them. Don't buy them gifts. Don't give them money. Let them be for Christ's sake.


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sekxyqueen:


like seriously what's wrong with our young guys..

is it that they have lost it

I am ashamed of this nonsense..

That's how it started...

Iphone, Samsung galaxy were pricey (up to N400k).

Then China showed up. Android phones now go as low as N15k.

Dolls are N800k now but in two years, Chinese version will be in the market for N10k. All man to himself.

I can see Dino Melaye posing with one soon.

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Threebear:
To be honest, a man that can sleep with a sex doll can sleep with a corpse.
Sex is something shared between people, what pleasure can One derive from a plastic?
This will only give increase to psychologically damaged people and unhealthy sexual practices .

And a woman who uses toys for sex, what do you say?


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Freeze did not claim to be a pastor or man-of-god.

He has been pointing out the hypocrisies of the scammers called pastors with special emphasis on tithes.

The lady is seeking unnecessary attention.

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Let the Middle Belt, SW, SS and SE continue wailing in the face of overwhelming evidence that Fulani herdsmen and their sponsors are out to kill.

If they cannot get together to defend or fight these marauders, it means that they have accepted to die like sitting ducks. Not my problem!

Even certified cowards cannot bend over backwards this much to accommodate terrorists. What will it take to face these terrorists and dare the consequences?

Looking at the pictures, I see a lot of moving targets.
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The only tool that shakes the Presidency is Impeachment.

Once they seriously make moves to impeach Buhari, he will sit up.

All these cowardly meetings, sessions, etc are colossal waste of time. Some people don't know how to use the power they have. Eg. Nigerian legislators.

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thesicilian:
That is a worldly philosophy, it is not biblical. How does Heaven help someone who has already helped himself?

You put in the work.

Then heaven blesses your work.

That's how heaven helps those who help themselves

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TheHistorian:
Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Patience terrorized FCT in her days. Can we forget closing the airport and streets down for hours for PEJ? How about "dragging" property with Turai Yar'Adua? How about confiscating and demolishing estates belonging to MoSaraha?

Payback is a demon. No condition is permanent. It is ironic how all her cheerleaders disappeared as soon as the husband lost the election.

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thesicilian:
Jesus did not preach self defense.

Were Fulani herdsmen killing during the time of Jesus?

Did Christ support picking your nose? Why do you pick your nose? You expect Christ to cover every facet of life? God gave humans brain and common sense for a reason.

Continue praying then...

I forgot...God helps those who help themselves.
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Divorce her.

Don't look back.

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All of you should be organizing Community outreach programmes on how to defend yourselves instead of wasting your lives online. Serious armed crisis is brewing and playing an ostritch will not save anyone. Forewarned is forearmed.

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