₦airaland Forum

LekinsRibirth:
I'm currently on a crossroad and I really need your cordial insights on this issue.
I graduated two years ago and I'm currently 25years old and God has been extremely so good to me.
I was recently able to secure a job in a multinational firm and I receive a very good pay.
I've been able to put a lot of things in order and I feel I'm ready to settle down.
I proposed marriage to my girlfriend who is currently 23 and she accepted. our families have been friends even before we were born. myself and her grew up together and we are literally best friends( we've officially been dating for the past 4years).
I've stated my intentions to my parents and hers but they both disagreed .They said we're too young to start a family and we should wait for a minimum of 4 to 5 years .
I'll be travelling out of the country next year with my company to start an off-shore business unit and I planned to get married to her by December and take her along with me.
I really don't know what to do as my family has become my enemy in this issue.
They threatened not to give me their blessings and never to accept money from me if I go ahead with my plans.

ceejay4real:
That Uche Elendu looks like a big time whoree to me. No be Fedy babe for Owerri? Na their way! Mostly gold diggers and fake bitches!
Serves her right! Don't pity her cos I have a feeling she's a nymph!

manny4life:
How is it 1990's?

stwazobia:
You dont get it bro... Guy no place like home. Marrying in a foreign land is a gamble, a risky one. there is no advice there. what he need to do is to ask his people to look for a wife for him," there are people that do help people to get a good wife( we call them: Onye Mbuba) , once he is back he will be visiting the house of those ladies(2 or 3) without making his intention known to them. My brother came back from China on Xmas with the help of the onye mbuba he got a wife( nothing like relationship) within that month. They are happily married with kids. The lady is a good wife i swear.... While preparing to travel, i said to myself: wherever i found myself i will marry there, this is 2yrs here in Turkey.. nothing nothing. Guy,, me am coming back to get a wife this xmas... no show for here.

kabukabu:
I got to go back home jor and get a fine,thick, smart, intelligent,chocolate Naija girl who can make jollof rice and other sweet things oh.
US naija girls don't cook, they want to eat out at fast food all the time.
I'm dead serious

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

Fervante:
China is a communist country like Russia where the government decide what is right or wrong based on their perspective and plan, it does not mean that all their judgement is right for the rest of the world. What works for them may not necessarily work for others. When facebook was trending in every other part of the world China resisted it, don't get it twisted everything in life has positive and negative fields it depends on application. Nigeria is running a democracy and a capitalistic economy, the CBN do not have the power to ban a peer-to-peer transaction which is what MMM community is. The people retain the right of association!

adindril7:
Hey Guys,

Im planning to build a shopping center on one acre of land and have no idea of how many shops can be built on it or what the structures would be, im pretty open to any ideas.

I was referred to a building contractor by a friend.. He gave me these pictures and he said he could be able to build this for 120Million naira
( First two pictures) [img][/img][img][/img]

During the course of our discussion, he also said he could be able to build 9 shops and 1 eatry on the site for 36 Million Naira.

He now sent me the plans of what he's proposing.

I also contacted another reputable construction company, they said they could be able to build 10 - 13 shops on the same land for between 65M - 85M, they've already done some projects for me which im impressed with.

Now im confused, i would be saving a huge amount of money if the building contractor handles it because what he's proposing is way lesser than the big construction company, but im a little bit concerned if he's only trying to scam me as i've never dealt with him before.

I dont know how to attach photos to this site, but the first and second pictures are what he said he could build for 100 Million naira..

The Third and fourth pictures are what he said he can build for 36 Million naira, please who do you think i should trust with this project. Im a Nigerian in abroad, i need to make a decision this week or next.

dammybounty:
I believe that anyone participating in mmm must be an adult which means they can take responsibility on there own. I don't see any reason why u should judge or condemn another man view of a scheme. My question is if anyone loses money will u help them with ur money. All the ponzi scheme that has been taken people's money did federal govt pay anybody back. Even now if MmM crashes will they pay anybody. If you can't join shut up, it is as simple as that. My money is not in MMM but I believe we are all responsible for our actions. God bless

yahyamay:
please do u have an idea on the terms of the contract,the answer is no. so you should have asked.
In the terms and conditions (pension, leave allowance and other benefits are included).so no sane person would fight for what's not documented. The last paid pension was last year October for CNSSL ILORIN. Leave allowance for this year has not been paid and it's due by September 30.Salary not paid yet as stated in the terms that its on or before 28th of the month. etc. we have to voice out so as to be heard. hope you are getting the picture of the situation now.

HungerBAD:
Barbarians.

Do people really believe in witches and wizards?why do we give so much powers to none existence things?why are we Africans still shackled in the Caveman's mentality?

Billyonaire:
Mere looking at the Hotel structure, you could tell that they died of hypoxia. The windows are not only tiny but must have been permanently closed and even if they had AC on, it may not have supplied enough oxygen to the rooms and to the brain resulting in oxygen debt and 5 minutes of hypoxia is enough for one to faint and die. They should slow down the body temperature of the ones that are alive with ice blocks and water and put oxygen mask on them, so their brain dont malfunction.

Its a pity that millions are educated illiterate about basic survival knowledge.

ipreach:
According to information shared by Fayose's aide Lere Olayinka on his twitter handle, he accused the APC of planning "change the result by midnight.

"PDP my PDP people in Edo state, beware of APC #EmpireStrikeBack. The operation to change results begins by 12 midnight!

https://mobile.twitter.com/OlayinkaLere/status/781246169926266880?p=v

Amelian:
People can lie for Africa...
It's total rubbish.

sammyj:
The Senate especially Melaye should be careful not to run this company down in order to save the job of the Nigerians working for this firm!!!

Amelian:
Wow

Mehn that's calculated scam!

intbizoil:
mmm is not ponzi old members still put in money

Amelian:
The husband try... Men like this are scarce to meet.. Lord bless my near future husband the goodwill and success to change my car to brand new, amin Jesus... And May the good Lord bless their union amen.