pocohantas:


It is on NL I read that 99% of Nigerian men give money. In reality, unemployment rate is in double digits and less than 5% of the population control over 90% of the economy.

But on NL, undergraduates littering Romance section are so rich that they sponsor girls and buy them cars. Anyway, even 1k na money. If the girl get am, she no for beg for am.

People that can't comment on posts outside toto and breast, will also claim they offer career motivation and support. Wetin Musa no go see for gate.

I'm just shocked.

franchasng:
That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born


Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte





Telling that guy you quoted that its the ladies he has met is wrong, all men cannot be wrong, all men cannot be saying the same thing and you are here saying its the ladies they have met, so who are all these men meeting


We hear everyday how much Dangote, Otedola, Ned Nwoko, etc are donating and giving to their communities and people, how many times have we heard how much Alakija, Aisha Buhari, Oluremi Tinubu, etc have given to people or their community

Nigerian women are selfish, stingy and wicked to their society and men, say the truth....only few insignificant women are exception, very few

Cuppy that has a foundation, ladies that have NGOs even in Nigeria here? Madam speak for yourself. Women have helped me, men have too. And I've helped too. You are another person that should change her circle.

thesicilian:
Sometimes I just shake my head in silence and move on about my own business. Because it seems the whole world has lost sight of what the normal is, so much so that they can't even see it on their rearview mirrors. An underaged girl fixing lashes to school, and the mother doesn't see anything wrong with that, even fighting the security guards at the gate (mind you, the security guard is supposed to be the "uneducated" one).
Maybe they should also check her bag for cigarettes and condoms!

The mother is fighting because her daughter was manhandled!

Money ke? LMAO. How many men give money these days?

philip0906:

It is a known fact (I say this with extreme caution), that women excel academically more than their male counterparts. In my uni then, women were knocking off grades with reckless abandon...

That is the reason why many of us see feminist activism, as pure bull sh1t, because there is absolutely nothing stopping any Nigerian woman, at least in the free world from excelling.

Unfortunately, there is no correlation between these brilliant academic success and the real world success(industry, enterprise, value entrepreneurship)... A good number of these women tend to drift off.

They either turn to needless social media feminists activists/noise makers, join their fellow women in selling shoes, bags & creams in the name of entrepreneurship or just become ordinary job hunters.

In my department, we produced 2 first class students who were girls. I dare say, that none of those girls is doing better than a number of us who didn't finish with first class degrees. They have drifted off (like I said earlier)... Selling shoes and making useless noise on social media, blaming men for their woes, while the men are grinding out there.

The problem must be your school and your environment. You need to change your environment.

safarigirl:


It is because out there, in the real world, people don't care much for a woman's brain as much as they do their bodies. Women have to work twice as hard as their male counterparts for similar accolades.

Men can grind, because they are not exposed to the same level of dangers and discrimination as women. Do you know how many women get propositioned for sex at job interviews? How many men, on the average, can say they have had such experience? Do you know how many jobs prevent women from getting married and building a family? Has a man ever been rejected from a job because he is married?

Not to mention, the dangers of simply walking about at night as a woman.

They blame men because most of the time, it is men denying them jobs because they refuse to sleep with them, or because they are women and they think they will get married or get pregnant in the course of doing thejob. It is better to sell shoes in peace, than to work in an office where everyday is spent trying to escape molestation.

You and that man need to change your environment. It is really affecting your mind set.

midnighter:


It doesnt add to weight gain directly but it still messes up your metabolism and puts you at risk of certain diseases.

Ideally you should have done with food some hours before you want to sleep

Diseases like? Studies show that sleeping actually increases your metabolism. So imagine burning the food while sleeping. Eating healthy meals at the right proportion at whatever time of the day wont make you gain weight. Imagine the man eating junk and unhealthy food by 12 pm everyday and me eating healthy meals full of vegetables by 9pm everyday. Who is at risk for diseases? This thread is about weight loss by the way.

alBHAGDADI:

Was he supposed to tell her to go and continue sinning?

So he told her to stop sinning when he knew it was impossible? God lies?

alBHAGDADI:


If it were possible for mankind to abstain totally from sin, would they have been any need for Jesus to come?

Answer my own question first? Why did he ask her to go and sin no more?

alBHAGDADI:


Where in the Bible does it say saved people who continue in sin will go to hell fire? Nowhere is such found in the Bible. Saved people who sin are only punished here on Earth by God their father. God scourges as chastens his children who sin to keep them obeying him.

Hebrews 12:6-11 (KJV)
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.

The Bible also states that our earthly fathers correct us when we do wrong. How many earthly fathers have you seen feed their son to a lion? None. Yet you think God will send his own children who carry his spirit to hell fire?

Hebrews 12:9
Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

You are here expecting man to be without sin. If it were possible for man to be sinless, there won't have been any need for Jesus to come. During his days, he said "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone". No one could cast a stone because they were all sinners. Yet you believe a man exists today, in this corrupt and immoral world, that is without sin.


1 John 1:8 (KJV)
If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.


You have made God a liar by saying man has to be without sin before he can make heaven. You made God a list who said we are all sinners and there is none righteous, no not one.

1 John 1:10
If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.


Well, you are a liar, that's why you believe one has to be sinless to make heaven. Whereas, the word of God says we are all sinners.


Romans 3:23-26 (KJV)
23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;
26 To declare, I say, at this time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.

As seen above, we are all sinners. The only ones justified in the sight of God Almighty are the ones who have been justified through their believe in Jesus, not the works of righteousness.

We will always sin as long as we exist in this flesh because the spirit and flesh are at battle. Guess what? The sins don't send us to hell. Why? Because Jesus Christ is our advocate who ensures we don't come into condemnation.


1 John 2:1 (KJV)
My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous:


The Bible also advised us to not grieve the Holy Spirit which is what happens when we sin. However, that same Holy Spirit has SEALED us for all eternity and just waiting to redeem what he has sealed.

Ephesians 4:30
“And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.”

The reason we are afraid of sinning is because we fear God and don't want him to visit us with the curses in Deutoronomy 28 which he places on those who disobey his commandments. As for sin sending us to hell fire, that's a lie.

I've gone against you with the word of God. All you've done is spew your own understanding. What has Satan promised you that is making you so eager to hinder people from getting saved?

When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
John 8:10 KJV
She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
John 8:11 KJV.
If it were not possible to abstain from sin, would Jesus have told her to go and sin no more?

Ishilove:
So what's wrong with wedding in Nigeria?
All these unnecessary wastage sef

Na wa o. Is it not their money to waste?

LoydJ:
If only the owner of the House could convert the House For Tourism he would be Making his Millions in a Giffy.

Jiffy.

FreemanTJ:


Thank you for pointing that out. The gf is now the bad person because she isnt the married one. As women they really dont know what they're capable of until they're in someone else's position. She could have forgiven me. Kept quiet about it and insisted I divorced my wife which I was planning to do anyway.
Instead she reached out to my wife, asked for forgiveness and asked her to fix her marriage. At that moment it may seem unreasonable but if I choose to stay in my marriage I think she triggered it.

That girlfriend is a nutcase. Opening an account and forcing your wife to put her pictures online. She should be arrested for that. Just look at the insult you brought to your wife. God forbid!

0ppa:
You impregnated her, and not 'she eventually got pregnant.' If you were so up and doing to get a lady pregnant, be ready to father the child; and stop thinking she needs your pity..and mind you, she is your wife now (even though you have both sinned on pre-marital basis). About your affair with the other dame, it is quite appalling many men are so indecisive in important matters. What I deduce from all your tales is that you are irresponsible -- please believe.

You nailed it.

nlPoster:
Rehab

The weird thing is the man does not look insane, it's his appearance that gives the impression.

Tautology.

KuwaiitiDinar:
I am suspecting something, go to save a life mission hospital and they will book you to see a good gynecologists, since you don’t feel pain but movement. It is important you see a very good gynecologist. Please do not look at cost it is your life we are talking about here, do not delay, it might be late.

Gyne..... what??

Route99:

Hmmm. 90% is approximately equal to 'all'. There will definitely be exceptions to the default mode. I'm not here to say who is superior or define what superiority means. I just think you don't need to fight facts to prove your opponent wrong.

Nobody is fighting. I'm only surprised at how some people reason in 2019. I'm sorry nobody trained me to believe that a man is superior to me. So please don't blame me for being shocked. 90% and all. Whatever that means.

Mrpsly247:

When u put it like that... U bother it along the lines of misogyny and bigotry.. Men and women have different makeup and personal differences that kinda complements each other.. The ability to focus on a single idea till its completion puts a man in a superior position to their female counterparts and the use of logic over emotions.. Though I wouldn't advise anybody to go about saying how men are superior as that would make you an arsehole

So all the women around you use emotions over logic? You need to change your environment. If you think like this, you are really an......

Premiumwriter:
No

Why am I not surprised

Premiumwriter:
A man is superior. Stronger. Fearless. Domineering. More resolute. And always in control.

If this makes you shudder, then go look for a MAN to hold you. He's not easily shocked

Just listen to yourself. Are all men stronger, domineering etc? You've not met strong and domineering women?

Premiumwriter:
a lot of things.

Even psychologically, it's default for women to bequeath the leading role to a man.

These things are ingrained deep inside us. We can all deny with our mouth but when push comes to shove, a woman will know a man is still the man

I asked you to name something. You couldn't. Nothing was ingrained in me, I was not raised like that. So speak for yourself. And remember to teach your daughters that their brothers are superior to them. I really don't know how some of you were raised. *shudders*.

shortgun:
I am always harassed by women anytime I go to the Market to buy food stuff.
They are always making bad comments about me coming to the market as a man to buy food items.

If I buy fish of 2k, they will say this "one u are buying fish of 2k today it's like madam is around"; I will tell them I live alone, they will be like so na only u go finish fish of 2,000.
The other day, two women that came to buy stuff were saying to my hearing that it's only stingy men that don't want their wives to chop their money will come to the market to buy food stuff.
They said serious minded men don't have time to go to the market.
They were almost making fun of me but I kept my cool.
Me that is single, where is the wife?

I was waiting for my turn another time for d woman selling vegetables to attend to me, she finished selling to d woman before me, instead for her to serve me next she turned to a woman that was behind me I said to her, "madam how much Ugu u want buy"
I didn't say anything to both of them, when she was almost done slicing the vegetables she now said but "madam this Oga first you come"
The woman said, "madam leave this Oga him no smart, I sharp pass am, that's why and I am a bully, I can bully my way to get what I want
Correct men don't come to the market, this one na woman."
I don't know if I should be angry,sad or just disappear
Even the way they look at me with disgust is enough to give one heart attack.
They will keep telling me things like, Oga u be fine man and u get money, why u no want marry
Is a crime that I like to cook my meals myself...and cook good, very good
Is it a crime to be a single Man in this country?

Pls what can I do to stop this harassment by women in the market?
These days I will drive to a market far from my area to get stuff.
Not that I can't talk back at them but u know how sharp their mouths is
Is food stuff market only for women?
Local man is tired.

I cant see the problem here. Even if you were married, you will still go to the market and cook. So learn to ignore them.

Thermodynamics:


A woman is inferior to a man, I have nothing against women, but that's a fact.

The only thing a woman can do that a man cannot do is to get pregnant and give birth.

But there are tons of things a man can do that a woman cannot.

Don't get it twisted, I love women so much, they make the world interesting and fun to live in, without them, the world would be dry, I personally can't stay without a woman.

But

Men are superior to women, it's just a fact, that's just how life is.

And what can a man do that a woman can't?

sonature1:


Most of our ladies are doing well, so it's good to encourage them to do even greater things.

With that being said, comparing them to guys is just irrational, to say the least.

Even women know that guys are miles ahead of them in everything. Stop the comparison because there's no basis for it.

By design, men and women are never meant to be equals...we just complement each other.

Men are miles from women in what exactly?

How did you guys manage to understand this writeup?

LieDetector:
since the man isn't anywhere to be found, what should happen ma?

Stop asking these questions. She and her baby will eventually be fine. If you decide to go ahead and support illegal abortion and it kills her or damages her womb, the blood will be on your head. Let her live with the consequence of her action.

LieDetector:
do you accept to take care of her and the baby?

The person that decided she was old enough to sleep with a man and the man involved will take care of the beautiful baby.

LieDetector:
Please help guys. I don't want her to have the baby

She must have it. Abortion is illegal in Nigeria. Unless you meet a quack that may end up killing her or damaging her womb.

1StopRudeness:



Please...:which one is calm down....who is fighting you??

did u read the part he said “however, Due to certain issues I found out after the marriage”

So what did he find out exactly....why is he using “however”... if not to connect the initial statement that the wife had a baby before....I don’t know how u read ooooo...obviously it’s different from how I read..

And that goes for u too thebutterfly

You really don't know how to read o. You connected 'however' to that? For real? Me sef don tire abeg.

1StopRudeness:


Can u explain what the OP said annoyed him and caused him to travelled abroad

Oga calm down and read the story well na. The man stated other issues came up after the marriage. He knew about the baby before the marriage. Read well.

generationz:


A woman who has no steady/ known source of income can scream without shame that she pays 1.5m as school fees for her son.

This world is messed up mehn.



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So Tonto Dike should put her source of income on instagram for you to see? Na wa for some of you.

fergie001:

Typographical.....

The make-up was too loud.....
And it was in Dec during the harmattan period, we wanted to take the corpse for lying-in-state.
They told us it will fade out.

We refused, so they asked for space and reduced the stuffs.

I understand now.