ashewoboy:
this his bride is not a virgin. her pose is a turn on. she will know how to satisfy a man. she is wild.

Passion can make up for lack of experience. Did it occur to you that maybe she's really into him?

Yuneehk:
Handsome man and a stunning wife.
These are beautiful photos.

Lol. He's not handsome but okay.

When a cute or beautiful woman marries a disabled or ugly guy, no one says a thing. The other way around? Something is wrong or he needs to be given accolades. Nonsense.

stanliwiser:
This post your wrote is very shallow.
who has talked about an assault here
Get out!

Abeg, get away! I only responded in kind.

BigDick70inch:


Can u pls read to understand pls??

I understand plenty. Leave that woman alone.

stanliwiser:
A No is one word never to take seriously with women, even they themselves know it. A No could mean
I don't trust you,
I am afraid,
It's too early.

But annoying things is that guys fails to read the mean and still comes back samw way, which will then become annoying.

You're going to end up assaulting a woman and when the police arrest you and ask you why you did it, please tell them the same explanation you just told me. Nonsense.

First, the guy looks crazy with the wig on his head or did he relax his hair?

Second, this magazine basically ripped off the CQ cover of Kylie Jenner and Travis Scott. See for yourself. We always copying others in the most obvious ways.

This is the problem with you and other men: if a woman says no, you'll keep pursuing and bothering her until she says yes. Can't you just gracefully take the rejection and find someone else? Haba!

Serious question: how would a tall, beautiful, light-skinned woman compliment you if you've admitted you're not aesthetically pleasing? Don't you know women wants handsome or cute to look at every morning?

FairCritic:



You just broke Rule 2. It won't cost you anything if you learn to be decent.

You had better leave me alone and you had better stop quoting me. The amount of blanket statements and generalizations you've made about women on this site just shows who you are.

Not all women are the same so not everyone will ask for money.

She shouldn't have insulted you about the number but you should've just let it go when she said no the first time. You're not entitled to it.

Why does everyone think when a woman makes a decision, she's doing it to please someone else? Can't a woman just do something for herself?

izibili44:
Why you go call that man oyinbo man.Dat man is from south africa.NO OYINBO FOR AFRICA.

I'm confused. So is South Africa not part of Africa?

Naija people and superstition.

Tell her that you've been to the doctor recently for a checkup and he/she told you that you need to reduce your sodium intake. Simple.

If she's smart, she'll take all this money she earning, buy real estate (especially near a university), build some apartments and hostels, always have a continuous cash flow.

OP, fuxk your old boyfriend. He doesn't deserve you for what he said, he's missing out, and he's probably broke anyway. As for your scars, you can either embrace them, try scar cream or silicone scar strips. The last one I highly recommend. Google it or go to amazon and you'll see that it can do wonders for scars, old and new. Because yours are older, it might take longer for them to fade but keep using them if you can get them. Good luck.

iykeklef:
op..you are not the person on the picture, i've seen this actual pic on different site countless times

If you had read her post all the way through, you would have seen OP said, "it looks something like this" meaning that her scars look similar to those in the picture. Reading is fundamental, ya'll.

She might be shy or ashamed about her body. If it's really bothering you, have a serious sit down with her and talk it out. Stress that you're coming from a place of concern and let her know that no matter what she looks like, you will always love her (if you do) and you will always be attracted to her. If she still resists, don't push it and respect her boundaries.

Seesam:



Bro you spoke from your heart i believe. But your words are very hard. Do you think you cant possibly find yourself someday in a worse situation?.
When you are not sure if you are dreaming or not.
About my children, they have never lacked anything good that i we could afford as parents. But 2018/19 has been wonderful.
As for the lady, i was helping her manage a small company that i helped her.set up ealier this year.
That was how we became close. This is how i have been.managing since then.
I never intended this going beyond official work but then we started dating and it was like i had my family back. She was a good kind person.

Why are my explaining all this?. Its to bring clarity to this complex situation at hand and moreover anyone can be a victim of a the same or even worse situation.
My wife is a good woman and i know i took the wrong step to balance the imbalance created by her absence.

Just from reading this response here, it sounds like you have emotionally left your wife, OP. You spent three paragraphs gushing about this other woman. Prior to her getting pregnant, I would wager that you'd would've preferred things to stay as they were: your wife away from you and with the kids, you visiting them occasionally, you being intimate with this other woman, everyone in their place. You can resolve this but I feel like you don't want to face the consequences of your choices. Consider the following:

1) Tell your wife what you did. You need to come clean and just end the marriage. What's the point of it if you've already emotionally left your wife and the only thing you can say about her is that "she's a good woman?"
2) Spend more time with your kids. Occasionally seeing them is not enough. Your children need to know that you're a constant presence in their lives. That means having them stay with you for at least a week so you can make school runs, help them with their homework, encourage them to participate in extracurricular activities, teach them how to be self-sufficient (cleaning, cooking, budgeting, doing chores, making small money). Giving them money for upkeep is NOT ENOUGH. Your duties as a father don't stop there.
3) Why did you put money toward this woman's small company? Don't you have kids to mind? Doesn't she have a husband?
4) Since she is pregnant now, A) either she keeps the baby and you go away, B) either you take the baby and go away, c) both of you put the child up for adoption, or d) both of you come clean to your spouses, divorce your spouses, and officially come together as a couple (and eventually a family).
5) Start wearing condoms. Better yet, get a vasectomy.

Geminita1:
She is beautiful, and the dress is dope. He is handsome and seems to adore her. What's there to hate?

That man is not handsome, in my opinion. This isn't even about hate either. Haven't you noticed that these white men, once they're old and fat, once they've been married before and got teenaged or grown kids, go to countries where there are a lot of black and brown women to catch their fun or marry them? Black and brown women weren't good enough for them when they were young men. Oh no, they wait until they're fat, slow, ugly, and no one is checking for them to come after black/brown women.

Old men who don't know how to go away.

Maybe the gray hairs are hereditary, maybe it's something else. At the end of the day, your cousin is still 25. He just needs to have the confidence to rock the gray hair.

igetdata:
after watching the Liverpool and Tottenham game, I decided to get some foodstuffs from a nearby store this evening.
when I got there, i met a couple of other customers, so i idly waited for my turn. it took quite some time but I was finally attended to. during the process of buying, some guys came around to buy as well. from their conversation it was apparent they were returning from the liverpool game so I easily chipped in. not too long after a young lady joined us, she was quiet and totally uninterested in our conversation,she just asked the seller for what she wanted and got an Immediate response which was odd since the store normally had a "first in, first out" queuing policy. I wasn't bothered as I normally let people have their way anytime I come to the store even though I came before them.
the seller simultaneously attended to me and the girl, but it was obvious she was going to leave before me. at that point I saw two girls approaching us so I told the guys that I hoped the seller finish with me before the duo get to us because from previous experience girls tend to be sharp mouthed than me and always get attended to first b4 me.

the guys laughed, and I smiled because they got the joke.
funny enough the girls came around and without regard for the queue immediately asked for 3 bags of water. this provoked another round of laughter from the guys and even the seller due to my correct assessment.
however my assessment didn't go down well with the other girl and she lashed at me. so you think because you are a guy, girls should not be able to make their claim. since I came here, you have been talking and now you seem to be having a problem with girls talking. seriously, you think girls should not be able to talk too.

I just looked at her with confused amusement as she ranted angrily, while murmuring profanity under my breath as she embarrassed me. she immediately stormed out of the place when she finished ranting as if I was the vilest person on earth. l looked around me and got sympathetic looks from the guys and just smiled.
I Immediately recounted everything I said to see where I could have caused an upset but there was none I could point out. what I said was purely meant as a joke. the way I said it showed that, everyone laughed, even the seller who was a girl also laughed so why would one person see only negativity in a sentence that never had one. I used sharp mouthed but there is nothing wrong with that or did she think I meant girls were parrots.

realization dawned on me that I had just had a faceoff with a feminist and due to her insecurity she had totally misjudged everything I said and me as a person.

I got very angry at that realization and looked at the direction she had gone through, and contemplated whether I should follow her so I can have an honest mind resetting conversation with her. I eventually let it go after convincing myself that she was the one with a sad soul and not me.

At the end I simply understood what a lot of young girls see feminism to be and it wasnt close to what I read about the real thing. it was just a bitter mentality of women thinking that men hate them and reciprocating that hate is the only way of survival.
if this is what most girls have there in their head then they have been taught a lie and it would be best they unlearn everything their brain was taught about feminism

This was an idiotic write-up, and you've just played yourself into a stereotype of what a feminist is. Look at the language you used: angry, bitter, ranting, insecure, reciprocating hate. Abeg.

You see it? OP stopped responding because he realized no one here was condoning his behavior.

hopexter:


Then go quote your mummy

What kind of response is that? It's not even clever. Jeez, just shut up.

Writercruze:
Cheating is in the nature of most men. But with discipline, you can be faithful

Please stop spreading lies. It's not in men's nature. These Nigerian men grow up in a society that tolerates or turns a blind eye to their cheating and unfaithfulness.

Why can't your girlfriend just block the woman's number?