₦airaland Forum

The mistake girls do make is that they think men will always want sex.
The longer you keep a man waiting for the first sex, the faster he will run after IF you have nothing else to offer him apart from sex.
But if you offer
1. Financial management
2. Peace of mind
3. Respect
4. Some form of income to take care of your small issues
You may be considered for keep

Sirhush:
I shake head for the coming generation.

The last years of IBB was worse, the only savior then was that at least every family had farm produce or relatives in the village that send food stuff
We still survive and your generation is doing better

Wetin Alabukun dey do sef

1Alex:
If the person is hired to play, you must pay him oooo.

But if na church member who is willing to play free of charge..............

Problem starts when a brother is absent maybe cos of ill health or travel and you hired a temporary replacement and pay him 10k for a day.
Bro will feel bad when he comes back and hear this

Nothing confuses a woman more than a good prick and money

In other words, they might allow the dollar to reach 3k, then next month, they reduce to 2k and start celebrating it

First quarter - big English
Next month - better English

When someone uses big English to explain something, know that he is lying

At 80,expect her to talk anyhow but for you to be expecting her to change means you still care about her.
Just be managing her till the Lord call her home

See bandit for your back

With what I know today, I would probably marry a single mum only if
1. She is working (skilled self employed or government)
2. Her kpekus is still tight and neat (no tear or natural earrings)
3. The child is a girl

Reason is, when you marry and the first baby comes, finding help is very risky these days, so why not use someone already related in the family - my stepdaughter.
Even if the real father comes later, it doesn't matter because even if I had pick a house help from anywhere and train, she will still go back to her parents but at least, she was helpful while with me

I'm not impressed

But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members

She wants you to be seen as her bf and possibly fiancé and that's what you would do. And you must do it well

The problem we should solve first is accreditation, we can handle transmission later.

Because without BVAS ONLY accreditation, issues of over voting, ballot stuffing and hijacking of election materials will still affect the outcome.

If we can make sure that only real voters are counted, I'm sure we won't mind how the result are transmitted

The 8% are those who can afford their services not the average citizen

As in una no get workplace to report to early or a client meet up to prepare for?

Thanks be to the bandits.

Where's El'Rufai when you need him? Send those boys some money

cucumbar:
It will be clearly stated bro,. There will be no deceit about it. You will know what you are going into, so that you’ll have to make a choice weather you want it or not.

Like today you can decide whether you want NIN or not to go to NYSC, which gives you discharge certificate to enable you get your dream professional job

The misconception is that people will line up and get the number. No

BVN, fingerprint, token, secure pass are just the starting. First they will make it appear as a better, simpler alternative, then they make it attractive (discount on payment through those channels), then it will be a standard and finally necessary.

In all these, we will be thinking it's an upgrade

Quality20:
What kind of nonsense is this? Our folks down south will engage in defiling and prostituting underage primary n secondary sch girls and then turn around to claim that men in the north are harming females by marrying them out as teenagers. Is this not hypocrisy or even worse? Turning underage girls to sex workers will always be a crime anywhere,anytime

The law against sex with underage is in force in the south, anyone caught is dealt with but in the North, it official and once married, their education is terminated and they live out the rest of their lives as liabilities that's the problem

Anyone that can withdraw his statement and apologize within a week is not fit to be a leader in my opinion.

A leader should never make a public outburst out of anger. Shame on him

The whole southeast should make Chinese compulsory from secondary school

Ravenna:
Very Stupid idea..

In 2019, I bought my first car at 650k, now the car is worth N1.5.

I never regretted buying the car- Comfort, protection, luxury, Class.. what else can give this?!

When you say the car is now worth 1.5, can that 1.5m in 2024 buy the same goods, you could have bought with 650k in 2019?

It doesn't appreciate, it just hold the value to some extent

You can use car to hustle and get money to buy land
But if you can, get land first (not build) before you get a car

As in, you stayed with your wife and mother under the same roof for 3 years and she no carry belly and your mother is comfortable .
Na understanding o

rentAcock:
Absolutely nothing wrong with it, as a matter of fact, that's what I did. I got married and lived in the same house with my parents and siblings. While living with them, I was saving massively. My wife and I went back to school as well and got masters degrees. We had no kids for the 3 years we lived there so it was manageable. This allowed us to save enough money to build our own house without any debts. So it is financially wise to live in your parents house while married. You get to know each other more, it strengthens the bond between your wife and her inlaws and there's this sense of appreciation you have when you finally get your own place.

Find an elderly person the two of you respect, preferably her parents and warn her in front of them of the consequences.
Don't tell her about the CCTV or how you knew (no matter how she deny it)
Only present your source when you want to take action and be ready for tears and please forgive me

AfahaAbia:
Hmm tis in a single room apartment isn't so cool. Why can't he use the money spent on pop to add and rent a one bedroom apartment instead

Na the question me dey ask o

Trust Nigerian employers to bend the rule

I know the feeling bro.
The second one has no value but she get yansh and it's a big confusion

My submission as a liberal man is that it is too close bro.
Forget abomination, unfaithfulness etc., it is damm too close and it would not be easy to walk away if need be.

Tell her your wife is suspicious already and you two should stay away for a while

adesegun121:
But to set up this type of apartment in this economy
That person na big boy ooo

Big boy in face me I face you.
Except you are in places like Abuja where you have the money but no suitable accommodation, get a one bedroom/Parlor apartment and stop exposing your life history is one room crowded corner