₦airaland Forum

Acidosis:
We've seen cases where matured and older ladies wear certain dresses to look younger, so as to attract potential husbands. As soon as the ring gets to the finger, they immediately turn to lovers of Senegalese, bangles, and other attires that can make an 18 year old girl look 70. These things happen ma.

Your dress pattern would equally change as you age. Don't tell me you would continue to put on your tight and revealing trousers @ 60

Eddygourdo:
After all this epistle, a mumu stud will be sleeping with you, while you friendzone the good man in a no sex till marriage agreement.

Women never know Wat they want in life and whenever one sees a woman who says she does. One has just seen the most clueless of the lot

Acidosis:
Certainly, some attires are not ideal for married women.


When you're off the "market," you dress to please and appease the sanctity of your matrimony, not some f*kboys.

MadCow1:
Her excellency Ma..


About to cook some Efo Riro for the Vice President..

Y'all place too much emphasis on food really. She could be cooking for herself too you know?







A good Wife is better than a Hot sidechick all day.

agbomere12:
me and my wife are currently living in a house built by her....she has never for once called it her house nor our house.....instead she calls it *my husband's house* mine is still under construction n that is not an issue with us. her salary is five times more than mine....no be my fault...na condition make crayfish bend.....but people dont know.....they think I'm the big guy...for their mind.... abeg, me & my wife na one.....she & all that she has are mine....just as I & all I have are for her.

grandlexuz:
I didn't cone here to argue with you o. I just found your comment ironic. So a man is required to pay a bride price sometimes in the millions before a woman can be called his wife. But are women allowed to. Issorai.

omron:
This is not a new thing
It happens in my parent home
My mum built a 5 room apartment at somewhere in lagos and during the time she was building the house she carried my dad along and because of love relationship that exist between them they always go to the site together for site development
So it got to a stage where the house has been completed.
It was not eazy for my dad to follow her to the place he thought it looks somehow and degrading to him so he ask my mum and we the children to go there and live while he remained at the rented apartment where he married our mum...
My mum and my other sister planned for him since he said he won't follow us go new site so hey packed all the property bought by my father to the new house without his consent when my father came back from work he was curious he came to the new site with Fuel and matches and set the house ablaze but thank God neighbors came to our rescue the whole house would have been consumed by fire it is a memory that will linger in my mind till the end of time though after much persuasion from people and families they begged my dad to come to the new site with us and after like a year he came to the site to leave with is peacefully for like 11 years before he died
And my mum has never for once raised the issue of who build the house or not during any argument and I remembered a day my dad locked my mum outside the house and my mum was begging my dad to open the door.....
She didn't because it's her own house talk to my dad anyhow
I think for that kind of situation to work
There must be understanding and genuine love between the two parties
Then the woman must be someone who can control her mouth even when angry
That is it
But for me I dnt pray such tins happens to me I can't say if I will follow the woman there oooo
Cos as a man u shud shelter ur woman and not your woman sheltering you
Though my dad built his own house sha before he died

Orlarmie:
Ego and Men dey follow from bible so na normal thing

sukkot:
how many men with houses have married women with nothing ? billions of men. how many women with houses have married broke men ? none. CASE CLOSED. LOLZ. you women cant handle success if you have a partner who is less fortunate than you. you cant control your egos

armylord:
haha , I might be ur bf ?? who knows?

9jatatafo:
We live in my own and she can rent her own out or do whatever she likes. Women are terrible people no matter how sweet you look at marriage from the outside. When you are inside then you would understand what I am saying

sukkot:
yes i can but only if i have my own house as backup.

cuz women be on that ego tripping shytttt

Idrismusty97:
Every wife was once Humble, Respectful and well cultured. That is why you married her in the first place. To avoid unnecessary embarrassment in the future it is best you don't even live in the house built by her or if you must make sure you give her more than half the costs of the house. Never be indebted to any woman(Especially Nigerian women), They will use it to embarrass you in the future.

RadicallyBlunt:
Its a super taboo for me. Dem dey live house weh we men build sef, dem wan use wahala kill person. A man's relative no go get peace for him brother house bcus of wife let alone living in a woman's house

Its not even to be heard of..its a wrong formation to me. Life has made a man higher in brain than a woman. They may be richer though, but there's just this thing about men they'll never seem to understand.

No matter how nice they are, they're still women and their best position is to have a man to look up to especially on shelter issue.

spill:
For me I don't see anything wrong living in a house built by your humble, respectful and well cultured wife.

But for the selfish wife without manners please don't live in a house built by her, because she will always frustrate your life with the "this house is my hard earned money", forgetting that wives are helpmates to their husbands.

joey150:
most times when a guy/girl give me a girls number. They are like dont mention my name or stuff. So its in a bid to keep the giver anonymous that we use you girls to play "ludo" ..but forget how the guy got it..if he's a good guy your gain..if not..you delete him . its still a win-win . and along the line he'll still tell you even

BiafraBushBoy:
Forming Badass on Nairaland... Whereas, they are all shy, stupid and senseless hoes outside this Forum!!

joey150:
. some girls that number question is a wicked trap..no matter what you say they must find fault and either snub or delete you.. So i guess guys got creative too.. Blame us not. We sef will tell you fairytale.

thesicilian:
Its an evidence of the moral decay that has become the order of the day. I remember those days when it was some kind of shame for a girl to hang her undies in public. After washing and hanging all other clothes they'd take the under wears inside the house to hang.
Then they stepped up to not only brazenly displaying them on public lines, but also wearing undies alone for outings, under d guise of 'bikini wear, etc'

Now they're going bra-less and pant-less.

In a few years time it'll become transparent wears or total nudity.

MissGdope:
I always reply to a "hi" or "hello" cos I'm friendly like that

BUT the convo goes sour for me when y'all do the following...

1. Talking about love! like really?
2. If it's whatsapp and I ask how you got my number, just say the truth instead of lies from the pit of hell such as " I just bought a new phone and found the number on it"....seriously? do I look like mumu to you
3. "Tell me about yourself". okay I don't know about other people but I find this really awkward and annoying cos why should I start listing random things about myself. Instead, ask more specific questions like "how old are you"
4. Bad spelling. and I dont mean typos oo, neither am I saying you must spell everything perfectly....this is what I'm talking about " u r xo xo pretty. Will wana knw u beta". Once I see something like this, I don't even bother replying

This is just to name a few but I have noticed these things so much that I can now tell when a Nigerian guy is texting me without even checking the number. Not saying they're all the same tho but I can tell

Youngpo413:
wife material don't open legs to someone she is not married to, wife material indeed.