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Exmilitant:
Stop the insults! Everything he said was proof from the bible.

Bros there would always be proof of World happenings in bible, because that's what Christians consider to be their supreme source of information.

I don't know if you've noticed, but it's quite easy for humans to warp reality in order to fit their own narratives(or in this case, their religious books). It's the reason for many false predictions and prophecies.

Are you seriously telling me that living in the bronze age, where a whole country could be laid waste by a higher civilization with barely any consequences was much safer than what we have now? Truth is, it's a matter of opinion.

I'm just pointing it out to you that there's was never a point in human history where there wasn't some form of turmoil or the other.

We could discuss about signs of the end time for the next 1,000 years. Its doesn't mean they aren't true,but barely anyone could point with absolute certainty as to what time frame this is supposed to take place. A 100? maybe 1000? No one can tell!

Now taking an individual case such as this as a sign of the end time is so misleading,and feels like a tragedy has been used for the purpose of religious "chest beating".

wellmax:
This is the only reason I like Teni.

Talent over unclothedness

Bros leave that one... Are you so sure if she fell under the "sexy" category she wouldn't have hopped on the naked train too?

The allure of validation is too strong for most ladies to resist. It just pricks me that stripping naked, is to most ladies the closest thing to being "daring". Like, how superficial could one be?

It's one those western practices of "self love" that totally misses the mark. Now we just have ladies seeking validation for things most people don't give two sh*ts about. It's so annoying

urchcoded:
Well if that guy was not a cultist, they wouldn't have murdered him. It's as simple as that

That's a very silly conclusion bros

Exmilitant:
The Jehovah's Witness studing the bible with me mentioned something like this, he said it was signs of the last days.

He's mad... So they didn't murder people when Jesus was on earth abi?

Honestly from what I've read, you do sound "neurotic". Not to bother though, because most peeps are in some way.

Your non-violent stance towards animals may be more fear than love-based. I've never killed a chicken in my life, i also don't like to watch animals being slaughtered. I have killed wall geckos before, but they still give me the creeps, more so snakes.

But having said this, it's important to know that many of the things which we choose to partake in, or abstain from may just be as a matter of convenience. Simply because we could afford to. And trust me, it's a very interesting game. The game being; "how many things can i avoid doing".

But if taken too far, something your mind may very well be doing, you might begin to get "boxed in". Just imagine if all the edible plants in the world were gone, and so were any frozen meat. And the only option was to hunt and kill animals, what would you have done? Would you have just sat in one place until you died of starvation? I highly doubt that.

The fact that we're civilized now and obey societal norms doesn't mean we always were. The fact that we have certain "natural dispositions" towards things doesn't mean they can't change over time. We're full of surprises under pressure. Just make sure you follow a sound rationale before doing things. Some of the things you said are reasonable, some aren't. If you thought all were, you wouldn't be here. That's my two cents!

BeerParlour:
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Every state should donate money to herdsmen, they need money, maybe they will stop killings if we give them money

Pay money to stop indiscriminate killing?... That's the stupidest thing I've heard. Don't let me start on why that idea is absolutely preposterous

Benevento:
(1) Virginity

(2) Unconditional love

Bonus : Beauty.


1 and 2 is a must, ain't gonna marry a hoe, give me your virginity and I will love you more than my mom.

Are you a virgin? No vex say i ask you o, i just wan know

Dpharisee:
Russia has conducted 6m tests while the 'giant' of Africa has conducted 10,000 tests and ran out of kits even with billions donated

I don't think Nigeria should never be mentioned together with any commendable effort. Beacuse if you look closely, you'd only be met with the severity of our chronic underperformance. We just can't get things right. We have only ourselves to blame, to be honest.

oz4real83:
The major opposition party in Nigeria always work at cross purposes with the ruling party even when the ruling party is carry out laudable policies or programmes. Almajiri issue is one issue I would have loved to see PDP support APC in finding solutions to but unfortunately, they will always want to use every opportunity to show themselves as better alternative. APC would've also done same if they were in oppostion. We need to scrap these parties, they can't help us.

Bros sense no go kill you. My thoughts exactly. They are both trash

Simplyleo:
Okay, I'm a black man, so my mentality must be that of black man.

But you being a white man, will you mind taking your mentality outta my mention?

Bros you just don't have sense. So any politician who donates facemasks is above criticism abi? It's your type that our politicians love. Because you're easily swayed by gestures which feed your need for immediate gratification. I just pity you and the vast majority who reason like you. Following politicians and their parties blindly just for the sake of it.

emmyboy162:
Every death now relates to Covid-19?

I tire bros... Nigeria where ppl first dey lie chicken before. All of a sudden na only corona dey kill person

tuzle:
Don't u think lock down in just some selected states is kind of useless, for example ogun state is on lock down but Lagos is not, after the lock down at ogun, people will still move from Lagos to ogun thereby carrying the virus back to ogun. Doesn't that kills the motive of the lock down

Our leaders only reason politically. They can't reason anyother way.

Bird was looking "sick and tired"... And you still caught it... Do you not like you life?... Do you think bird flu has totally disappeared?... Look at the way you're even stressing the bird sef, turning it upside down and all. I don't like the way most Nigerians treat animals, it's sickening. You should've just left it where you found it.

astana1:
Sorry. I am Hausa and a Yoruba man will never do this. They are not this wicked.

Oga shut up there! And stop taking sides jare.What of all the religious and ethnic violence that happens in the north year in year out? There doesn't exist any region in the country as volatile as yours, and you've got the nerve to call a particular group heartless. I'm not even igbo, but we need to start calling a spade a spade. It is detestable, yes, but it doesn't give you the right to blackball any ethnic group. Be wise

Let's stop wasting our time chasing shadows. You're a Christian, and so am i(although not a staunch one). In the end the solution involves winning them to christ,reforming their mind and all that. And that, many would reject. Because it's a free world, and freedom implies the ability to express one's self whether sinful or otherwise. So far as the common laws aren't broken. Besides all this you would find trying to make people "decent" a messy and totally futile attempt. You can whitewash society as much as you want, to give it the appearance of a sane and morally upright one. It's like spring cleaning your house, but in the end where would all the trash go to? Well, the answer is "somewhere". Immorality is here to stay. For all we know Nigerian law is anti-narcotic. We don't even allow cannabis use even though alot of the developed world allow for it's use. But, in the end drug use is still a prevalent problem here. Y'all should stop wasting y'all time

kalufelix:
Those outrageous artificial eye lashes is a huge huge turn off... It gets you all the attention but in a rather b!+chful way.. I wonder who deceives this girls into thinking that shii is attractive... Babe those lashes are super uncool and enhances your ugliness..

I was waiting for someone to point this out. Fake eye lashes have their place(expecially for ceremonies), so i don't dislike them completely. But it just comes off as trashy when they rock it all the time. As much as i avoid using stereotypes, i can't help but notice the girls who wear them the most are "street girls". They've practically owned that look to be honest. I know it's a free world and all, but i just can't imagine any sesible girl rocking those, expecting not to be judged by it.

delugajackson:
You are a disgrace to every responsible man out there. When others are thinking of how to better their lives through legit means, all your dead brain could come up with was being a male prostitute. I spit on your shapeless, good for nothing head. Get the hell out of here!

Bros the bolded part almost killed me. Some people are just so crazy

Happyfela:
They are always stupid on whatsap status. One beautiful lady I picked up in my hood during lockdown, her status na mumu things

I feel like ice cream today, God bless the man behind my smile etc

Ha ha ha... Bros, girls like this annoy me to no end They just don't know how uncool it is.

Chuky7:
she walked out on me on my birthday...she was jealous of how I was always rolling with my guys every time...
The day of the birthday she and I were to go out to a nice guest house n chill. we were to meet at a certain junction. on getting there she my friend with me and got pissed off and went home. saying stuff like we were supposed to spend time alone and together. I was so fvck pissed off I went to the guest to chill with my guy instead. ordered drinks like mad.
Girls get moved by stupid shit sha

Nah bro... You were at fault there

emkz:
These ones are nudists; they just needed a lame excuse to strip. They could have passed their message without their unclothedness.

Oil dey your head jare. Exactly my thought. They're just having fun in the guise protest. Germany has managed the pandemic quite well, so i don't even think their doctors are that overwhelmed sef,if at all.

Theundertaker:
Good evening house , I need ur help

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than a year now and our relationship seems perfect , but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too but this her boyfriend has been our obstruction. I don’t want to leave her , that’s not an option, She doesn’t want to leave me too , She’s so perfect for me and I think I am done searching.
I am thinking of plotting a way to make the guy know we have been dating , without it coming from me , so they can break up . My sister is discouraging me but it’s my happiness.

What else can I do ? leaving her isn’t an option, I have tried dating other ladies but non of them seem to meet up .

The problem isn't her bf. The problem is you're an idiot. Infact i no get wetin to tell you sef. Just stay safe. Because if i were Covid-19, you're the type of nigga I'd want to eliminate

AlphaStorm:
OP, When jesus wept in John 11:35 and said IT IS FINISHED in john 19:30 , he was actually referring to your sense.

He wept because u are a VERY mumu man and said it is finished because ur sense don dry

Bros eh, you too savage abeg

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Honestly, i wouldn't recommend your advice to anyone in this situation. Because it totally absolves the accused of any blame.

What happened to simply telling one's partner of his/her lapses with regards to giving adequate attention? And of course there must be a reason for a lack thereof.

Now he's got to "win" back a wife who knew fully well the implications of her actions and still went ahead? And from the clutches of another idiot who's only bent on causing trouble, and would probably flee when shit hits the fan. That's preposterous!

Hope you know there's such a thing as "emotional cheating"? It doesn't need to end up in the sheets for it to be deemed cheating. Afterall, of what use is a relationship if one or both parties fails to be emotionally intimate with the other? Let's be honest bro, sex would be nothing but a recreational act without the emotional implications.

A person could fall out of love with his/her partner without ending up in another's bed. And still, one could cheat and remain inlove with the one who has been betrayed. It happens man.
I'm not advocating divorce or anything. In truth, both parties have faults, but the wife needs a strong telling off if his suspicions are true. It's simply unacceptable

NwaNimo1:
Inject 'Disinfectant' directly into and around the affected gum area......

(maybe.....I 'Dunno....)


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Idiot

PMPhoenix:
A Song about Daylight

I made this one sometime during the first quarter of 2019. I got the idea for it after feeling jealous of how a friend of mine communicated freely with his parents. Now this might sound like a strange thing to be jealous of to some of you, but after experiencing the way they talked so freely (right down to even personal events and sex life) and looking at what I and a good number of other people have going on in our circles which is a far cry from that, I couldn’t help but feel bad about it.

I know no family is perfect but the effect of this one on me was strong. By extension, there’s a lot of well to do individuals who, despite having enviable financial/social statuses, don’t have genuine and honest relationships with family members or other people in general, there are guys and ladies out there right now who pay people to just spend time with them, who am I to judge though?

This drawing was inspired by that complexity. In the image there’s two subjects, the female subject is affluently adorned to represent the wealthy, the male represents the powerful as he wields an ‘ofor’ (a short staff usually held by men of leadership status in Igbo land) and is also wearing a chieftain cap. In a mannerism inspired by Michelangelo’s painting ‘The Creation’ both are reaching towards the central portion of the space which is lit up slightly, the central portion represents the simple joys of life, peace, happiness, acceptance, trust, friendship and love.

Both models in this drawing are actual family members. I wanted to photograph family members for the image to retain the spiritual potency of what initially inspired it.

The daily struggles we face as Nigerians tend to make us misplace the value of these virtues and on the long run when we do acknowledge them, they might not be so easy to get back.

I know the feeling bros... I've got friends who talk to their folks as if they were pals ... Nice work by the way

I think the real question here is "Must you remember them?"... Do you think there's something you're missing? The answer to this lies in what you believe. Even if you hope to get divine messages through them, dreams aren't the only medium God uses. Stop stressing yourself over nothing.

NaijaOlosho:


So all these while I thought there is civilization in South West.

So these Yoruba people are this local and ignorant??

So where is the social distancing??
These people don't care about Covid 19 increase rate in Lagos

Ignorance is a disease

What's the difference between these people and the Hawusa foolany

Social distancing when people's lives are under threat? Or do you think those armed robbers are practicing it? Carry your tribalism away from this thread jare. Dufus!

sammyj:
This is height of irresponsibility displayed by the former Sinator!!

Bros they are at a gun range na, can't you tell

Questions like this have become redundant i swear. It comes from people who feel reluctant to give, but at the same time can't deal with the guilt of not giving.

My friend ask yourself if you've always felt "compelled" to give your tithe, or have always given of freewill. The first is borne out of guilt, and therefore can never be sincere. And the second can't be forced by any means,because it requires selflessness. Giving without expecting anything in return.

But guess what? Most humans always want something in return! And that's perfectly okay. It was why God gave incentives; promised to bless us, and so on...

By now you should know if all of those are true. From your own life there should be proof for your tithe giving. And honestly, if you feel there isn't, why give? Why waste money that could have been used for something else? You know quite well God doesn't need your money for his upkeep.

Don't be like those foolish people who drag their feet to the tithe basket and have to always convince themselves to give even though they'd rather not. Beacuse they can't bear to stand the constant gaze of God's disapproval(which of course is plain ol' guilt). So they console themselves with the "belief" that God must be blessing them, even though they can't tell for sure. But at the very least they're alive, right?

If you have to consult the church every time in order to know what to do with your money, it means you're confused. That's the plain truth. Because next week it could be "my friend dashed me 5k,should i pay tithe?"

Wisdom is profitable to direct

I've never complained about your incessant posting of pornographic material... But this is absolutely uncalled for man... You should know that peddling child pornography is a serious offense. Stop this sh*t bruh

tyup:
An old wise Ijaw grandpa once told me a special extra curricular activities of an average Ipob man when business is down is violence

From my own angle I'll just suggest they're allowed to do what they're known for to atleast boost their technical know how senses

And ijaw ppl don't fight abi? They only hug and kiss each other. Rubbish! ... Someone will just open their mouth to talk drivel about another ethnic group. It's funny how many people who aught to be knowledgeable believe such crap.

iLegendd:
I give you compliment, wahala. I ignore, wahala. I attack back the same way you attacked me, wahala. If I deactivate today, wahala. If I continue to stay on Nairaland, wahala.

You only have 3 posts on Nairaland since 2016 and I have more than 500 posts in my main (now deactivated) account since I started posting in 2016 and more than 500 in this current account since I started posting in 2017.

In summary, our two have been here since 2016, but you have only 3 posts while I have more than 1000 in total.

This is to say, I received more abuse than you'll ever receive and to handle these abuses, you need to pick your battle and don't fight with every Dick and Harry you see.

For you, you've been keeping it safe and hiding under the rock (just to pretentiously appear humble and loved), but now hunger has chased you out, you're here to add to the abuse.

You pretentious being and name callers have not been in my shoe and you don't know how it feels to defend yourself when all eyes are on you and are ready to eat you alive at all posts you create.

You must be crazy and fierce to handle these people. It's not about being pompous. If it's that easy, why have you been hiding? Work? Family? Or what? If it's work or family, then go back to the work and stop chipping in your unsolicited words.

Anyway, enjoy your humble life and keep off.

Aiit bro