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I'm not photocromatic, photosynthetic, photo bombastic, photostatic or photoshopic...if I smile in a picture...it's not going to look good....
See me in person...I fit charm birds outta their nests!

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I do not wear wristwatches or anything on my wrists and fingers

I do not drink Lipton tea with anything...no sugar, no milk, nothing.

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Oh boy! Are you talking about me We share the same weirdness.... only that for extra...I love to look for the clock first thing as I step into a room, no clock, I quickly want to leave....

So cheerful always! Those were songs to listen to and enjoy!. Good to see him again and smiling

Rozz:
Amen sir,may almighty God answer your prayers for your daughter.My Dad is a rare breed,i am also happy that we still have very few of your type around.Only if you have a son I can grab lol God bless you sir .

Ooooohhh my goodness! Thanks for your response and prayers. May our Father in heaven answer us richly. Amen.
Unfortunately my sons are 17 and 14....they still have a few years! So...God will make you the virtuous woman for a godly man soon. Cheers

Rozz:
I will marry someone like my dad over and over again.Infact I have been looking for someone with my dad's qualities but it seems to have gone into extinction lol.

I'll hope with you that you find that kind of man. ..do you know why? I've a daughter, she's 10 years old...I pray my behavior towards her will make her want to marry a man like me! I'm doing everything (prayerfully) to teach her by character and actions towards her, her brothers and her mum to see how a husband should be when the time comes for her to make a choice...
May God give you your heart's desire...

lastmessenger:
after reading Bible the next thing is to meditate on the world that you red. Of what use is reading the bible and then the next minutes you are on top your wife.

You call that carnal? So...I read my Bible, I pray go to bed, hold my wife and we make love... that's carnal....
Ok...I read my Bible, I pray, I go to bed...I should have no desire whatsoever for sex right?
So, on days I desire my wife I should then not pray or read my Bible....
See, it's this kind of situation that bring about unsatisfied spouses, I mean the kind of stuff you have to say...go and read your Bible well and see what God says about sex and marriage...if you can't find the verses I'll help you...but first go and do the research.

lastmessenger:
you are Carnal

Sincerely Do you define carnal as one who goes to his wife just after reading his Bible?? Enlighten me....

HoliMaree:
What happened to taking Viagra and other sex enhancing drugs? the issue is more than you think. The man is angry over something

Thanks for your input...the wife is considering giving him some sex enhancements drugs too.
I've also asked her if there's something she feels or thinks he's angry about...so far she says none that she can think of.
The floor is still open for more inputs...

Kobojunkie:
There are medical treatments for conditions such as these. @OP, maybe you should advise the man to see a doctor for help with the problem, at least for the sake of his wife.

Thanks sir... exactly what I have in mind...

lastmessenger:
Op must you fvck ? Why dont you carry your bible and read

In the Bible God made us male and female...that means He gave us authority to have sex!! I'mmediately I read my Bible...I can get down to business with my wife!

femi4:
Majek Fashek in a new york york york

Dread dread dread dread Natty dread!!

SweetCunt97:
What of men who are infertile and yet marry without telling their wives?


Worst is if the kini cannot even get hard at all

My brother!! I've witnessed such o! Conc church members o...guy was getting older people thought he could not get courage to woo a lady...not knowing that something was amiss...they persuaded him to take one faithful Sister...boy....on the day of reckoning my brother was praying for weeks... until my sister decided to shout! ...the cat then flew out of the bag!! To me...it's sheer wickedness on the part of the guy!!

Kpokakpoka:
You are very wrong if you are directly linking libido to fertility ...A man can have the highest libido in the world and still have low sperm count.....
All a man with low libido would have to do is to find a lady with a similar level of libido as himself....

I'm not equating libido and fertility.
Like you said...low libido should find low libido and marry....but how can one tell? Now the couple I mentioned are married! 8 years going...

Klass99:
Your story reminds me of a similar one I heard Actually two stories I have heard of, not just one.

In my own version, the hubbies were gay and only got married to conceal this fact about themselves.

Reading your story, I couldn't help thinking ''this guy is probably gay'' no offence meant.

The part of your story I quoted, is exactly the same thing that was happening in one of the marriages I mentioned.

Thanks for this imput...and you.may have a point there too!
The hubby is so gentle and unassuming...at least from what she says about him. But ....who knows! This world is really deep!

Here's a true story.
A man sees a lady, he tells her he wants his son to marry her. Soon the son comes and they're introduced. He likes her. She goes for national service, he meets her there, they agree to marry.
8 years gone into married life, she's unhappy.
She's not pregnant
He's not showing concern
She's trying always to seduce him enough to keep them sexually connected, he's not impressed. He blames tiredness, too much work at the office...
Despite her attempts to make more time for sex, his libido is under par!
....and hers is growing....
Then I ponder...why punish a woman when you know you don't want sex often?
When engage in marriage when you know your sexual capacity is low...
Do you think a woman should endure just because you can??
What motives has a man when he's thinking about getting married knowing this about himself
Can someone offer an insight to this??
What can and should change? Should the man improve on his libido...or woman should decrease hers?
And how can either be achieved
A marriage needs help here! The floor is open....

emror4u:
Lol, any thread you want to see on FP, just add the word "snake", that's all

It DID!! ...hello Are you there

I would have made FP last week if I had kept the snake my workers killed at the site o...I changed my mind cos it was tooooooooooo thin! Like a thread! Let only heavy weight kills make front page please...

Donald3d:
You're lucky
That's a cobra !!!

Wow! Very appropriate name too! I bet you I'll be quivering in my boots if I meet a group of them!

Solomontroy:
What you just Successfully Committed is a Logical Error: The Hasty Generalization Fallacy.

Just because you have been with a girl or more doesn't give you bedrock to Categorize all girls going for Nysc as Cheaters and advising guys to terminate the relationship.

We still have girls that served or are serving that are still very much loyal to their Boyfriend

Thanks for this...I even know 4 girls that served and left without a blemish!

I was very reluctant to serve in Ebonyi when I was posted for NYSC back in 2001, but getting there and meeting people who have become my friends for life...and seeing what's happening there in terms of development by Dave Umahi...it's very commendable!
Years later I still regard that place as my adopted state of origin!!
Continue your good work my able Governor!!

I was only halfway through the story before I stopped reading...
Anger... shouting...spark...war...left... scolded.... don't talk to me like that... refused to accept wrong....no apologies... hmmmmm!
The soup ingredients are complete...
OP, you're about to be served... problem is: will you be alive after eating it?
I read where you said breakup is not on the cards and I knew you were like that fly that's going into the grave with the corpse.
Listen to the voice of reason....R. U. N!!!

Peterobi90:
The problem here is unemployment... if she had a mean of livelihood, she would have been able to cater for her child.

Being unemployed is the reason why she should have been careful not to engage in making babies in the first place!!
What stops here from peddling pure water or gala or even plait hair for a small fee?

illicit:
hmmmm
I went to get my shoulder fixed too.
The doctor told me to lie down on a sort of bed.
a nurse and my boss were there.
The doctor kept talking to me and asking questions, then he said we have to wait for someone meanwhile he starts to inject me.

mehn.

That was where I lost consciousness but I really thought we were still having the conversation.
When I woke up later, my boss and the doctor had left, infact my boss was already in the next town. Only the nurse was at the foot of the bed and she was just laughing.

When I asked her where are the others and the person we are waiting for, she laughed more and more and finally she told me to work my shoulder that it's done.
I was surprised. I never knew I had passed out.
she asked me if I do drink alcohol, I said yes, she laughed the more. I asked why. she said she just knew.... I still don't know how she just knew till now.

But the kind of sweat I sweat as the drug was wearing off ehn, I haven't seen such before and never again. I was sweating like I was being drenched in rain and I felt groggy.

When my boss returned with my lunch and to take me home. I had lost appepite.
In the car I was at the back seat and he left the windows open as he sped off, I was still sweating that he was really alarmed.

At home, I left the lunch on the table, left my door open and slept for almost two good days before I became my normal self.

Wow!!! What an experience!!

Since the discovery of anaesthesia it's been very helpful in medicine especially during surgery.
Being under it one is bound to lose consciousness and control of our minds and senses therefore leading to hallucinations and spurting out words and sometimes leaking secrets!
In 1997 I needed to go under to get my shoulder fixed...as soon as I was asked "what's your name?" I recall losing consciousness and seeing myself "somewhere" I can't describe now...but I remember asking loudly "am I in heaven? And answering myself "no, cos if you're in heaven you'd be very happy" then I asked again "am I then in hell?" I answered myself saying "no you're not cos obviously you're not burning up!"
If you're able to recall some or all the things you saw or uttered let's have fun here!

dulux07:
Op, don't mind what those above are saying, many so called christians don't follow the bible that is the problem we have today, they try to justify their own ways.

I am no saint, but the fact remains, ANYTHING THAT CONTRADICTS THE BIBLE is not christianity. Sin is sin, right is right and wrong is wrong, you don't need the angels to come down to tell you somethings are wrong.

The good news is christianity is not enforced, hiding under the name and trying to manipulate the book to justify your actions is foolishnesss.

Matt7:21 not everyone that says LORD, LORD.... only those who do the will of God
Jesus says: let them alone, they're BLIND LEADERS OF THE BLIND...both will fall into a ditch... Matt 15:14

Dicktion:
too much bro... Ha!

Ok....
Usually, this doesn't end well....

Heed the warning to flee before it's too late. Any married woman that's giving you the come on signal is as dangerous as COVID-19, she traps you, you can't breathe cos she suddenly wants you more often... chokes you cos now your time is hers, and quarantines you as everyone else will be shut out from your life. Thennnn....she no longer needs you when her hubby is back yet and soon she will give you away to her husband saying you're the one who toasted her, at this point, you have no defense, it's your word against hers and she is going to win.




Then.... you're dead... from maybe a pistol shot or by a mob mistaking you for a thief....it will be years later the truth will be known...but by those who mourn you....
Be VERY CAREFUL

illicit:
I suspect that it is Madam's husband that first suspected

I suspect your suspicion is surreptitiously serious! Correct guy....it's happened before...

Mavrick2012:
I heard my neighbor asking another neighbor if he can pay tithe from the 20k alert he got from government.

This got me thinking.

Are members expected to pay a tenth of whatever they get at this difficult period?

A cursory look at the Bible teaches us that tithe was paid ONLY by the Jews to the Levites only in Jerusalem and it was NEVER cash!
Sir, if you really want to know what the Bible says about TITHE...we can have a private chat. We can have an objective look at the topic from Bible study.
I'm expecting. Cheers

dannyrhymes600:
i have a friend that will never read until a day before the exam. ( no exaggeration) dude can cram 20 - 25 pages perfectly within an hour.
first semester result came out and he had 3.98 out of 4.00 topping the class. I think he wasn't given 4.00 because of his staggering attendance. he also screams at unusual intervals.


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Hehehehe...I can relate on that reading aspect!
For me, I can't prepare in advance for exams, I can only read and understand few hours to exam. I read through quickly...then browse over once...I drop the book...any attempt to open that book again..my memory deletes! I'm doomed to fail that paper... unless mercy is extended....

crafteeworld:
Happy birthday to the unknown.

Architect, your 3D needs to blend color to attract the client. This one is too dull and colors clashing make it unattractive. Then the cars seems out of proportion. Can you fix all that and let's see it again?

My Avalon