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meobizy:
The link hard you to post?

Link attached Sir!

meobizy:
This is a Quora answer. Post your source.

That's why I left it as COPIED!

From watching literally thousands of men I can tell you there are a few commonalities……especially in the expat community in the Asia-Pacific.

Men that pick wisely in terms of marriage partners, tend to be wealthier.

“Behind every great man there is an even greater woman”. Sounds old-fashioned but is still often the case today.

Conversely, those that spend too much time chasing money when they are single, and having multiple divorces later on, often lose long-term.

I have often spoken about the importance of spending habits on these answers, and not just income.

However, what is the emotional reason behind over-spending? There are many, but for some men, spending money on impressing women is a huge thing.

The best clothes, suites or whatever. Go to any flash nightclub, almost anywhere in the world.

Honestly, pick wisely with your life partner. My wife complains if I don’t reuse my shopping bags and is probably more frugal than me.

Some people will tell you things like “no money no honey” but it isn’t true.

Women aren’t a monolithic group. It isn’t true that literally 100% of women or men are exactly the same, in terms of values and money.

Pick the sensible types. Just date the shallow ones at most.

https://www.quora.com/Is-it-true-that-you-will-never-lose-women-chasing-money-but-you-will-lose-money-chasing-women/answer/Adam-Fayed?ch=10&share=d887e94a&srid=GrZ08

mrchineke:
Ok, next time state clearly that you are merely expressing an opinion. You did put across your point as though it was a fact.

Apologies.

Apologies accepted buddy!
Next time I'll surely do as you said...put it forward as my opinion.
Thanks for the clarification.
I apologise for shooting back at you too... please forgive...

mrchineke:
Just shut up there....which nonsense karma? Who told you being alone is a problem?

Unsatisfactoriness becomes your companion for life? Pardon?

This fear of being alone is the reason so many men and women pass through life miserably.

Sir, I only expressed my opinion. I'm sure if you are also doing the same. I'm just shocked that you can start your statement with "just shut up there"
Maybe you're just nature's gutter.

Advancedman:
She stage it to trend if not she wouldn be the one talking. Not even if it's a USA specialist hospital.

That's another angle! Honestly gunshots to the head o! 10 pellets!! The head would be so swollen your tongue will not move!!! Recovery self is not a matter of days!

(1) A prostitute is the most honest woman in the universe.

Your girlfriend breaks up with you only when she has a better option than you. She will never accept this fact but will always find fault in your love.

Whereas a prostitute will always honestly admit that she has better options than you, so she is giving more attention to someone else than you.

(2) 99 percent men who wish to have sex with a woman by walking on the path of truth and honesty and think that they will get love in return for love, always fail.

Yes, you have read it right. The emotions a true lover's love instills in a woman's heart, a true lover gets the same return.

If you try to keep her happy by giving her solace in moments of sadness, then she will come to you only when she is sad.
If you try to solve her general problems and keep her happy then she will remember you only when she is stuck in a problem.
If you try to entertain her to overcome her boredom and try to keep her happy, then she will come to you only when she is sad.
If you are able to overcome her problems by giving her financial support, then she will sit next to you only to cry her financial troubles.
If you are supporting her more or doing something for her so that her future can can be improved, then she will be giving you a lot of false respect.
And the day you want to get her love in return for your love, she will be telling you very comfortably that she just sees you as a good and true friend and she never saw you as a lover (while she knows about your desire from day one).
And finally, if you tried to pressure her to ask for her love in exchange for your true and selfless love and gratitude, she would bluntly blame you - "Oh, this means that you used to love me so much, and did all these favors on me so that you can gain my body"
And she says this to you when she has met a scholar with whom she makes a physical relationship less than 24 hours after the first meeting, because that great man is able to create in his mind only one feeling called sexual feeling and attains the status of a true lover.
And our innocent true lover (a true sympathizer and friend, a companion in happiness and sorrow, dedicating body, mind and wealth) can be described as follows: -

mareeje ishq par rahamat khuda kee,

marj badhata gaya, jyon jyon dava kee.

(Poem in urdu - God bless the sick of love. The more the treatment, the more the disease progressed.)

Note : The comments feature is not discontinued, readers and authors (including women, if there is any objection) can feel free to express their opinions.

Thanks for reading.
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chival:
She probably meant shrapnel- like fragments or something of the sort and not bullets per se. Whatever the case, thank God she survived to tell her tale. I like her but she's becoming rather controversial.

You know most of us love drama. Therefore knowing that the best way to portray the event is to use the word bullet. I'm sure she doesn't even know what pellets are.
Make we jus sympathize with her! At least she has seen something about life and death maybe it will help her understand life better!

EvilPOTATO:
what has my moniker got to do with this?
You know I could also say you are a babalawo based on your moniker

No offense my brother take an easy...

SeeMeForLAPTOP:
I strongly believe the bolded excuse is for lossers.
So far you are alive for get about using dead people for an excuse for not working hard or excelling.

OP hunger is everywhere and everyone makes it look like it's all man for himself. Men have made it worse.
No body will help you If you don't have a pvssy, you have to work very hard.

Great advice.
Yes the bolded. I want to say the context was used to encourage the posted to see that as long as he's alive he's better off and can still make it! Some of his mates are "alive" yet dead to hard work!
I like your statement "nobody will help you...." It's the kick the poster needs!

shugaboy6102:
thanks your words brought calmness to me now

I'm really glad to hear this! Maybe if I were in your neighborhood I'll buy some chilled Coke and we eat with biscuits!!
I'm praying earnestly with you!

shugaboy6102:
am deeply encouraged am moved by your words. God bless you for this wonderful advice

You're welcome! Prayerfully go into your Marriage. It's destiny is in your hands ( both of you I mean)
Best wishes!

shugaboy6102:
thanks a lot. I remembered vividly one of the days we had an a bitter fight and she told me something that bruised my ego, between God and man she said that no woman in this life will ever fall for someone like me that am a useless and a worthless person. I am not a man that goes after women or looks outside but those words pierced me deeply and I didn't know when I fell into the arms of another woman. I did it out of ego but am falling for this woman

I'm really sorry that she spoke out of turn. But you see, women are like that! In anger frustration and confusion they shoot without thinking and still will not agree they're wrong! As a mature man you let that slide else you won't be able to live with a woman (old or new)!
Take it easy, step by step and get it right! It may take time but the end may just be better than the beginning.

New love is like a mirror, the front is shiny and bright, turn the back it's dirty and rusty!
Cool down Mister! You're only infactuated by the new lady because you have a sad situation at home and you're not trying to sort it out!
Why would you chat another woman and expect your wife to feel secure especially when you have not completed the rites of Marriage with her? What's keeping you from doing it? Money? I don't think so. If you cherish your well being, go to your home right now and sit down with your wife and talk about living well! Forget and forgive the past and love yourselves again like it was in the beginning.
Let me tell you something about karma. You think you can just do away with a relationship? No way... here's what happens: you're going with a lady 5 years suddenly out of the blue you think she's not fitting for you or no appeal again, then you see fresh meat and jump ship....that fresh meat will last just shy of 5 years...then you will move again and fall just shy of the second, then jump again and the days keep diminishing till unsatisfactoriness become your companion for life!
Don't let karma visit you... better do the right thing and cheer yourself up. The reason you have given holds no water! The best of marriage life has deep issues only the wise make it look smooth....and lovely. Best wishes

Ah! With a moniker like yours, I really wonder how you look!
Anyway, there's a time for everyone, if we only learn!
Next, your mates are preparing for December, yes! Some of your other mates are off in the great beyond already! So, appreciate life since you still have it.
Next, this lesson is for those who are still in school and hoping to land a job in an office somewhere, instead of using you small data to insult others and government, use it wisely to learn a skill online. Doesn't matter if your parents are rich or poor! You never know when you will need it.
So guys, be proactive, never give up and push hard. Submitting CV and being rejected isn't the end.
Do odd jobs, collect your neighbors clothes and wash for a fee, follow one carpenter at your idle period and earn "daily pay" use your small computer skills do a logo, banner or something... join some wedding food contractors for next weekend and receive small pay..the list is endless.
BTW if I didn't do all that as a young man I would not have told you. I'm a master's degree holder yet have not seen my certificate since 2001 cos I engaged myself in any legit thing available!
Do it while you search for job(if that's your goal) you won't regret! Cheers.

Look, it's not about receiving calls then making a comeback, what are his playing stats? Goalscoring stats? Fitness?
Ighalo, look well o, a certain Victor is on fire at the moment, don't come and begin to dampen his quality by claiming senior player...

My guy, the Olympic games 100 metres record is waiting to be broken by you if you want to avoid trouble! Your cousin, his wife, kiss, lips, ....recipe for well cooked disaster that will generate ripples for a long long time....R.U.N!!!

Maxymilliano:
Date of birth - 1995

Experienced symptoms of disease in 2013 at age 18

Experienced another stage of disease in 2016 at age 21

The question is, how did he joined the Navy with such health record ?

Good question!
Sometimes we think that taking short cuts or godfatherism works like magic but the end result is usually not funny.
No organization would have taken him based on the health issues but I guess the Nigerian factor has won in this case...yet the victim becomes the loser!!

lavylilly:

Don't worry I'll send the song to you...it's a very interesting song. Note some words in the song and observe how the words were used to describe situations!
Let's have your email

lavylilly:
Da grin

Naaaaaaa...
You have to go back to music of the 60s/70s!

lavylilly:
Westlife

No...try again!

The couple in the next room
They're bound to win a prize
They've been going at it all night long
I'm trying to get some sleep
But these motel walls are thin
Lincoln Duncan's my name
And here's my song....

laivwire:
Was the car repainted prior to the accident?

Why didn’t the airbags deploy?

Quite obviously! The respray is evident!

Silasloaded:
i will give it a try

You want to give the accident a try?

Elxandre:
Person wey dey sleep for 2 hours dey advise too

Yes sir! Three weeks now I've been busy sleep time less than 4 hours but since Wednesday I dey bed I dey only get up to bath and chop sake of say I don complete the work at hand. Another one come now, bed no go see me regularly! Na so we dey do am!

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahahaha

Superman!

James Bond 007 or Jason Statham

Hi, sometimes packaging helps sell your wares. Why don't you park that very clean Mercedes in a neat environment just like itself and take clear pictures then post it!
I'm sure it will enhance the advert. My humble submission.
Cheers and happy sales

Hehehehe... maybe she hasn't been told about marrying an architect! We don't sleep! We can stay up late, wake up too early, etc! My wife goes to bed wakes up meets me in the study working by 2am complains, goes back to bed, I join her 3am and still wake by 5am to warm water for her and kids to bath before going out!
Unfortunately when they complain it's to do with SATISFYING them either sexually or just emotional needs! Funny that they don't think about supporting the husband by staying up and maybe dozing off in the living room with him while he watches TV or do some work!
Wives, please show higher degree of support for us hardworking husbands and cease the excess "you're leaving me alone to sleep on this large bed" all that belongs to telenovelas!
Only advice I've for us men that stay up late, don't do it to the detriment of your health. Daz all.

imageghana:
Oh k...It isn't too far off from Amasaman. Nice to meet you and Thanks for the push

Yoooo... best wishes for the season!

imageghana:
Thanks Shola...Do you live around Amasaman?

Oh no. Live around Sowutuom. Just helping to push your image forward. Cheers!

sholatech:
Cool. Where is the location of Marion Hotel in accra?

Sonitra Road Amansaman...