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RoyalBlak007:
7. Choose their hobbies and interests
Mom wants her daughter to play the violin and is ready to take her across the entire city to music school 3 times a week. And Dad wants his son to play football every evening. And parents often subconsciously try to impose a hobby on their children.

What to do? Be patient, and watch your kids. Notice their interests and inclinations. Ask them what they like, and then let them develop in this field

aaaahhh! I saw how interested my boy was about soccer and I did for him what my parents never did, bought him a pair of boots...I was shocked to hear the crowd watching him sing his praise in a match! thanks op for sharing this.

obiorathesubtle:
Mothers will avoid this thread..

very well!

RealGucci:
avoid aboki transport they are killer drivers

and who has the safest driving records?

the road is very bad, true, then why drive recklessly
my tires are worn out I'm just "managing" them, true, then why drive on high speed?
my oga needs me to meet up the day's account, true, why not explain to him the constraints?
I need to meet my family's needs, true but why not remember that you should arrive alive?
I have prayed against evil forces, true, but why not be sober behind the wheels?
this mixture or drink or cigarette will help my intuition, FALSE, it only numbs your reasoning!
human error, ignorance and sheer stupidity accounts for 80% of road crashes ...if we're careful no matter the conditions of the road we won't be so hurt when we arrive late or fall short of our "balance"!
may we grow wisdom
may the souls of the dead rest in peace.

Nutase:
This is what reading too much of Mills and Boon's causes.

those books! those books caused many of our ladies to miss out on the rawness of real affairs. the telemundos of today is having the same effect on wives and girlfriends still!!!!

sisisioge:
You need a lawyer to advise your friend. He ought to have adopted the child legally when she was born. But case still dey...seek legal advice.

thanks. as at today he told me the lawyer adviced him to claim some financial benefits ...they're on their way to the village now to sort issues....will keep you updated

Talkingboy:
I no understand did ur story OoOOooOo

where ? make I clear you!

over the weekend I met my dad's friend and having not seen in a long while he kept me and opened up to me concerning a situation that has been troubling him greatly.
he'd divorced his first wife and went to his village and picked up a young girl. unfortunately he paid the price of age difference as the girl couldn't resist younger guys in the town!
anyway that's not the story. he'd confided in me the new wife was pregnant before he married her but he didn't care because he loved her. subsequently she gave birth to a beautiful girl....
that was 15 years ago and all the while he'd catered for the child as a loving father would. as I mentioned earlier the wife couldn't resist guys who came for her despite her marital status because she knew herself as beautiful. therefore the marriage was fragile... she often left home for days...unknown destinations... then it turned to years...
suddenly news filtered from his village that the daughter has been claimed by the man who impregnated her before she married my dad's friend... of course he was furious!
now he's wants to take the case to court ...
what choices has he ?
please help me so u can also advice him.
thanks nairalanders!!!

iHart:
hahaha, see what is written in his shirt...

I thought I was the only one who noticed!
then look their noses too...kinda similar!

lovingyouhun:
I like you already

I think we're looking in the same direction! thanks too!!!

lovingyouhun:
His anus should be raped eith a big wooden stick

yea...a police baton will do just fine!
I despise rapists and sex pervs!!!!

seen it before! the day my first son was born a woman actually gave birth right at the card section! though besides the attendants I was the only non attendant! just watched the whole process and I knew the Almighty has no equal!!!!

darlenese:
are u obsessed with punctuations ?

yes I am! but I guess it didn't work in this case.... I apologize!

darlenese:
how's that a problem ?

how? 's that a problem!

darlenese:
how's that a problem ?

how? 's that a problem!

coolfredo:
did he said he got married 5yrs ago? I dont know why some people cant understand

ok...I don understand! thx

wait o! 4 kids in 5 years? na wa o!!!! miyetti Allah!

your hubby is a gynaecologist... it means he sees and touches privates of ladies daily. when he courted you why didn't you decline his advances? if the reason you accepted him is genuine then you must live by that reason. I find myself in a situation that brings me close to people and my nature is I like to relate with lots of people...now my wife doesn't agree with that and keeps fretting especially when those who come are ladies...this is normal. therefore since he's sincere by telling you things then please be strong and keep him in your prayers daily...its his job therefore he must do it...I suggest you brave it and ask him about the experiences once a while...that way he will have less pressure on his mind about telling you and he will also keep his work more professional... fretting and being paranoid will only worsen your emotions and strain you!

question: 1) who are her parents? 2) who are her relations? 3) are they aware of this pictures on the net? 4) do they approve? 5) does she believe in any deity? 6) what does she think concerning the future of her social status? 7) is this going to improve her standing in the eyes of would be husbands? will she answer these questions?


abeg...help me as am!

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

send mail make we discuss... your case isn't impossible

agbonkamen:
No they should learn how fu*ck pussy....Nigerian men are not romantic at all 0%

hmmmm...if you find a romantic guy would 99.9% of women know it? don't think so...most ladies think splashing the cash equals romance therefore once they see a guy showing domestic tendencies they call him a loser!....... til it's too late and then they say men are not "romantic"....

MrCross:
I'd rather stay in my house and play FIFA 18 on vals day than waste my time and money on any undeserving babe.
Option A is cool for me.

enjoy your option bro!!!

MrCross:
we wey no come get babe(s) nko now?

you have two choices...
a) just watch the match and let euphoria wash you to the beaches of pleasure...
b) look out for any babe sulking over a botched date...and let her desire for company wash you up the beaches of peasants love games!

...and who's son is that?!!

OneCorner:
Kidney

stop "kidneying" me!

is this story true?
I ask because it says..."I had opportunity to work with her during last year's Christmas ....and we dated for 3 months..."
we're only started January!
abi na old story?
anyway...you moved too fast I think because you didn't tell if you asked about her family and background before popping the question to her!
as a pastor you would have convinced us she's God's will for you if things had gone the way you want...here you are now asking us to contribute!
maybe your senior pastors will gave better advice than what can be offered here...just maybe!

Madam, if your hubby smiles at a lady in his workplace I'm pretty sure you will have sleepless nights! if he calls her on the phone during nonworking hours I'm sure you will conclude he's planning to sleep with her...
this is what I mean..you're feeling ok cos YOU are the one making friends with the guy...consider reversing the situation... you will notice how uncomfortable you will become.
please save yourself the tears and "I didn't think it will lead to this"....use that time you talk with the guy to talk with your own husband... he will love you more...call him more often and he will appreciate you more...that guy also needs to focus on his own family... they will love and appreciate him more..
finally, Bible says..."can a man carry coal in his bosom and not be burned?"

Longinus cyracus Ignatius sixtus
Cletus Cornelius Hyginus... dem still plenty...when I chop finish I'll remember more!

the world is showing us sense. with inventions and innovative tendencies... our ladies are showing sensuality and sexualized innovations!
sometimes I just wonder...when they view these photos how do they feel? is there any thought in their hearts about where and how far does this show get me?
I need someone to help me think please...

that blanket is Fulani's favourite! it's #950 only ....

Zykod:
I'm just a small boy. Thanks Sir

no small boy for ability o! I'm impressed all the same! cheers.

Zykod:
You are not seeing it the way it's happening. I'm a man let me explain, the man doesn't give two hoots about the daughter, he also cares less about the family.

The man is all about the money, he wants the woman to make the money, give to him and he'll do what he wants to do, anything less than this is a NO-NO for him. He can't afford the woman making decisions and ascribes it as pride, the woman may be willing to work with him, but he wants none of it.


I've seen this kinds before, they want to be the one dishing out goodies at all time and won't settle for being a beneficiary of anyone's goodies, she married a man who needs some psychological re-adjustment if the home will stand. Little wonder why single lades are not taking some of serious. If i have a wife that can bring something to the table,i'll gladly accept it, call her to the dining table, and discuss, this and that is the way forward this is what's gonna happen.

I'm too-rich for now, but you take the lead, while i go hustle, but na lie, the pride-demon in him will not let him to the right thing, she should be helpless while he should be the one doing the sepnding is his fixated ideology about marriage. This woman here has no issue oh, her hands are clean, its the man that needs to grow up..


Not a prophet of doom, but the only way this woman can enjoy her marriage is only if the man earns more money, which wont happen, no be curse, God seeing and knowing the kind of man he is will bless this woman more and more, and more. She will keep earning more and more than him, and if he can't deal with it, it's going to create more tension between them....Divorce is not the case here, i suggest oP settles for a long term rocky relationship. This is not a happy union obviously....She married a wrong man.


Give me a woman that earns more than me, and i'll happily pull my chair saw woman kneel down, pray for her to continue to earn more, ask her to make me chicken peppersoup every night, while i hustle, i'll enjoy her success without envying it. Marriage is not a battle ground. Competiton creates strife even in marriage, the both genders are meant to complement one another and not try to kill one another in the name of you earn more than me and i can't take it. God give me a millionaire wife, i will gladly accept it, as long as it comes with humility, submissiveness and Godliness...

yea man...I like your analysis! kudos...