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i really thought it was going to be Mikel to lock out Messi but all i saw was an anonymous Mikel and a boisterous messi
we need to go back to the drawing table on tactics and team work... we need to grow a team not pluck a team from nowhere!!!

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happy birthday oooo

Craziestgirl:
Hehehehehe
And I thought guys have balls. 2 little ones in their boxers and 1 big one in their head!

You are housing your Ex,
and fraternizing with your Judas.

you just painted a classic picture! they say a picture tells a thousand tales!!!
let's reverse the case for the OP to reason...if it was he who was comfy with a babe and refs to her the way this lady does...does he think his GF will let it pass?

Stallion93:
thanks bro, but somehow I've gotten used to living this way, Most times I try to socialize I just end up Embarrassing myself Super introverts try to over please people to camouflage being introverts so they are taken for granted most times. Worst is in Nigeria, everyone wants u to be sharp and when u show otherwise then you're a weakling. God help us all, but I'll never raise my kids this way nor in this place

glad to hear from you bro...
your determination to break out of that stereotype shows you're on track! Yes, in Nigeria everyone thinks being quiet is a sign of weakness... just be yourself and keep your head high those you relate with will surely come to understand...
I'm happy to hear you're not going to raise your kids in that manner... all the best in your endeavours...

Stallion93:
Me too, I'm a super introvert now and all blames to my parents. My self esteem is zero, I can't get out of it so most times I just stay isolated, alcohol helps me tho, I feel much better after some booze. I guess they're lot's of youngsters like me out there too on some serious substance abuse or who just turned psychopaths. Such is Life

oh dear oh dear! now you have added to my heart break!
but there's a way out...its not via alcohol or any of such...you need a true friend...that's not easy to get but keep focus and you will soon find one...male or female. but that person will be one who puts you first in thoughts and deed.
make a conscious effort first to go to a movie or dance with someone and try to probe him or her to tell you about their fears and tears then you will see that everyone has issues but listen....Paul Simon said in a song...."if I have weaknesses I don't let them blind me...I'll camouflage all I'm weary of"
so....let's start...take a walk this evening and feel the wind in your hair...your head....and your heart!
you're whom you say you are....STALLION!

Stallion93:
For real, U can imagine parents yelling rubbish at their children , things like "Shut up! Don't talk! C'mon get out! Useless boy and Foolish Girl!" Too much to list them out, Completely killing the child's self esteem. How a child crying after receiving a serious beating is being beaten again to stop crying

this is really what breaks my heart! when a parent begins to say such of course the child's self esteem gets eroded!
my God, I know what it took me to build up when I reached adulthood!

largely true! routine helps a lot especially when you fine your kids seem disobedient to you. arranging chores by time will help put them in a better frame of mind! I've applied that principle since with my kids and I find that the lazy ones also don't mind the work!!
thanks OP you did a good job
please try to do one in the setting of our Nigerian families.... we don't read stories to our kids!

mein Gott!! fantastic!! I'm hopeful we shall talk soon enough!

formidable!!

shinarlaura:
Oh my... You re such a fan. He is a beast when it comes to Sax. You should check out for Richard Bona too. His songs are dude.

heyyyyy....I took your advice...Richard Bona is tech!!! I love the "appeal" in his voice....I'm enjoying his songs...thanks!!!

this is devastating! it's a pity my bro. take heart for there's nothing we can do than help you regain composure. may their souls rest in peace. Amen

this really cracked me up! thanks for cheering me up tonight OP! hope they've heard and are not going to argue!!!

tizzdi:
Hausa people are always on codein or tramadol diet

and yorubas and igbos do not do drugs?

LFC all the way to the next Galaxy!!! YMWA!!!!

ImaIma1:
Some men are just plain lazy and selfish.

...some are...some are not!
ladies often fail to notice this aspect of men during courtship...
study a man first about his ability to help domestically before you really fall for him...because eventually it matters how you look at him when he just sits around doing nothing. ...most times you begin to grow a dislike for him and ultimately it affects your general psyche and love towards him leading to a downward slide in marriage! Domestic ability before true love....and there won't be much complain.

ImaIma1:
Wow!!! 23 years. That's awesome. We should be looking up to you o. More happy years for your family.

thank you dear....may God do for you greater than your expectations!

paix:
Hahahaha, thank you sir. My regards to the family. Remain blessed.

thank you too sir! they will hear your salutations!

paix:
wow, that's good to know. You have really come along way. God will continue to lubricate your marriage with all the good things of life as you guys age gracefully. May you reap the sweat of your labour. Amen.

oh my God!!! you're blessed my brother!
may God give you even more than you wish for me Sir!
OP make my belle sweet in the morning... you come make my belle sweeter this evening! cheers sir!!

SoapQueen:
Lol..My coursemate back then kept complaining that her husband ran from the house because she was always disturbing him for seks..She was sad that day in class because she claimed she was Hot and her husband wouldn't pick her calls.


Chai! Women, we rock!!

women!! you rock ooo!
your friend's husband only RAN! me....I'll ESCAPE!!

paix:
Lucky you, man. Notwithstanding, please love her the more.

sure bro! started our affair 23 years ago....we're growing old together....

BiafranDel:
that was why i sent my wife away to the village to stay with her mom when she was pregnant. i hate what i dont like. i dont tolerate nonsense. i am a very disciplined husband!

hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaa! I fell out of my chair just laughing at your statement!!!
disciplined husband!!!! I never hear this before ooooo!
when you were busy swinging your hips and grunting in desire and hot coitus hope you remembered that there will be consequences ONLY your wife will carry for 9 months on her body!
anyway...try dey there when she wan deliver... maybe you go be more discipline in reducing your "disciplined husband" stance!!!

Switruth:
True bro..... My wife told me to go home and rest the night I took her to delivery Ward. She called me in the morning to come and see my baby.... She pity me Sha....

congrats! the product of love is your prize...stress or not we will rejoice!

paix:
How old is the pregnancy?

ah! throughout her pregnancies (2 boys and a gal) never was a time I saw stress my bro...kai! I dey thank God...I really feel for those who are going through the time just trying to help their wives cope....God will see you all through!

cheered me up this morning OP! I'm so lucky my wife never put me through any stress!

my wife reads it mostly and I saw it as a forum for expression....

WarriAproko:
Wow. And my state a 10km road will cost 10billion naira. Were did we go wrong in delta

you know, the geography of delta is quite different... not as easy to work on like the northern parts...that's why the cost is higher!

reading through comments here I was not a bit surprised. everyone is throwing the blame at the old brigade and no one has proffered a way forward. and basically that's why we are where we are!
some of us became so lazy and indolent always waiting to be fed.
looking up to my dad to get a job for me
waiting for my uncle to send pocket money
devising ways to scope my older brothers aunties and cousins to get extra cash to spend in school....
the result is what we have today...we forgot to collect ( by force if there was resistance) the mantle of leadership!
now we're in quandary and still looking to blame the elders!!!
I'm very sorry to say... it doesn't work that way!

very unfortunate!
humans should know that mother nature will one day ask them to account for many gifts and inheritances we took for granted and misused!
this is seen all over the world!!!

thorpido:
The day you went to the hospital,how many more people did you see in the waiting area who wanted to see the doctor too?
Doctors in Nigeria are sometimes overworked.

really there were lots of people!
I agree they're overworked ...
I think that makes it hard to be thorough!

over time I watch on TV how courteous doctors are in foreign lands and how they take time to counsel patients and the confidence they infuse in people once a patient is in their consulting room...I'm always impressed and likely that's why our people always find means to go out of the country to treat the most minimal ailments.
feeling a little funny last week I went to the general hospital... the nurse sat me down and took my BP...then she declared "you have BP o!"
I was flabbergasted... I was then ushered in to see the doctor ...he only asked if I was diabetic to which my answer was negative...he proceeded to prescribe drugs for me to take care of the BP...and asked me to go to the lab for further tests...blood and urine...I did submit the day after...
I started on the prescribed drugs and boy! the discomfort was pronounced as I was usually very groggy! a week later I was at the hospital to submit my lab results and see the doc again... my BP was taken...it was initially 170/140 but now 90/60!!! hey!!! it was checked again by another nurse and again 90/60!
I'm 6ft and 95kg...
I felt there should have been more questions from the doc about my health history before he prescribed drugs etc...I hardly fall ill and really I felt they hadn't the patience to find out before diagnosis..
I felt my situation may have deteriorated had I not come to see them ....
anyone with experiences from our general hospitals can share their near deterioration experience here arising from lack of thoroughness from our respected physicians...

Originakalokalo:
Father and first daughter relationship is great, beyond words.

I have a daughter and from the bond I have developed with her, crying on her wedding day is inevitable.

You won't understand if you are not a committed father.

honestly that's my greatest dread! my daughter and I are like glue! bound from day one... I jus keep dreaming of the day she will be starting her own home....I'm already seeing the day!! oh Lord! help us to guide them safely into blissful married life!