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sogud:
Oga......wat am telling u is dat, cheating on ur wife because she's cheating on u won't solve anything, two wrong cannot make a right, u re d man, paying her bck by cheating on her also is immature n irresponsible...stand on ur ground,.give her conditions, if she cnt abide by ur rules n regulations is better u send her packing to her family or meet d pesin she's cheating on wit, dan for u to cheat also, claiming u re paying her bck............word of advice

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sogud:
Bro i disagree with ur decision, ur idea is wrong, if u take such step, den u re nt acting mature.... bro, it ur house, she's ur wife.....if ur wife cheat on u or she's cheating on u, dat dos nt min u shld do d same.....act mature n fix ur home.... cheating on her also won't solve anything, rather ur home wil ctnue to scatter.

Bro act like a man, sit ur wife down n put sense in her head.......let her know ur real mind

Oga, na your opinion be that. For you, a lady's mind is similar to a child's. For me, a lady of 18 years and above is already aware of what's good and bad. She is capable of making responsible actions. It is this mentality that informs my potential response. I hate when people justify bad behaviour with silly excuses, as that is the perfect way to embolden a "terrorist".

Wolfeye:
If you can get $ below 480 please show me where. LMFAO.
These old cargoes are just predictable.
Forget google, go and buy and show me where you will get it any less than 480.

The rate on Google is the official exchange rate. That's what the likes of Dangote and other well-connected individuals buy their dollars. It's not for the common man on the street, unless you fit wait for six months, and even at that, the rate is not guaranteed to be given to you.

#487 is the normal parallel market rate

sogud:
Tel ur wife to choose btw her male bestie or her marriage.... simple question

because sum women re too stubborn to listen to der husband, give ur husband wat he want n let d marriage b in peace, except if der is sumtin btw she n dat bestie......der is no oda n better bestie dan ur partner, oda bestie cn go bt ur life time partner is ur better bestie...... caution ur wife n ask her to choose btw d male bestie or u... simple

If you see as I just dey look you as you dey talk your "choose between husband or bestie" demand. Common husband Is he the only husband in the world? Abi he's the first husband ever? What is special about his own "husbandry"?

On a serious note, some people don't understand the gravity of their actions till you mirror them, or even get better than them in the act. If I'm in op's shoes, maka Chukwu, I no go complain even one thing. I'll even be acting as if I'm enjoying their conversations. But trust an educated Aba boy. I will definitely have my own bestie, who I will be inviting occasionally to the house. By then I've stop eating the silly girl's food, so that she will not poison me. Sex sessions...until further notice. Even if she initiates, I won't do it still. If she starts her own, no problem. I will go a notch higher. What I shaa know is that my madness must be higher than hers, whatever the case may be. . The worst that can happen is that the home will scatter, and I'm already comfortable with the idea. I no kukuma fancy marriage like that.

The point is this: TERRORISE THE TERRORIST without lifting a finger on her or saying a word. You will see the same "22 year old" girl everyone is regarding here as immature for marriage develop "Aristotelian" wisdom by herself. If person dey craze, I suppose craze pass am. No time for akuko uwa

Cakhama:
Stop blaming the women when you know that this type of girl will have more marriage offers from men than your average homely girl.

It's only online where I see men cursing gold diggers, yet selling their blood and kidneys and borrowing bank loans for them once they log out.

Instead of you coming clean to state that these are the type of women MOST men find appealing, you're here blaming them. Is it not a man who wifed her? Is it her fault most men prefer her type to the homely ones?

When you men keep complaining about the same type of women you keep picking, you send very mixed signals out there and it's no wonder no one takes you guys seriously.

Nawa o. Men and their confusion aside. How about being true to yourself? Or do you live for men?

stinflame:
They are all time dependent. Even men are but we choice to turn the other way.

you and who dey dependent? Abeg carry your own personal cross jejely

stinflame:
Your last point was well define, to that i won't oppose. But let it be known provided you are earning and doing well,do your self a favour and marry, getting the perfect person should be the idea not the nonsense 'Avoid Early Marriage'.
One can't denied the fact that we are sexual being and if that isn't sorted out the nearest brothel or the closet call girl becomes your companion.

Girls no dey use ear hear say guys dey avoid marriage. That ideology is a threat to their existence

Ferdinandu:
Oga calm down you don't know anything about investment. You can make such profit on forex in some months with your little money but when you open to the public it is impossible and the guy knows that, it is people like you who are ignorant that doesn't know. He generated 2billion from fools contribution. A foolish man will always part with his money to the smart cunning man

Bros no mind that guy and his likes. Dem no sabi basic rules of money. As far as I'm concerned, all the money wey dey this world has been allocated. Every money in the world is owned by someone. There is no free money lying carelessly in space. Thus, for the status quo to change, there has to be a redistribution of wealth, which occurs in when people buy/sell goods or service, or through some other means apart from the aforementioned two.

Now because there is no free money anywhere, what happens when wealth is redistributed through certain legit or illegit means is that where one's monetary worth is increased, another's is decreased. Put simple, when one becomes richer, another elsewhere is made poorer. Even the Bible itself acknowledged that there would always be rich and poor amongst us.

It even offends my sense of perception when these fraud-enablers call themselves "investors". The appropriate word is "gambler". They are promised huge returns upon investment by persons who are neither Bill Gates nor Jeff Bezos. Shebi dem go pluck money from air give Una as returns? The worst is that people who fall these scams the most are people who had formal education up to tertiary level. This cryptocurrency era has been amazing. I don't know how they did it, but they chose to give some virtual coins such monstrous value. As for me, I think it's the same as going to worship, adoring, venerating and offering libations and sacrifices to a mango tree in my village compound. Time will tell shaa.

After MMM, you would think the world is now wiser. Story. More fools were even born sef

olisaEze:
Abeg na scamming gang be dis. Naira Marley be there deceiving only yasef, condition fit make crayfish bend but e know say e no fit turn cheese balls. No Nigerian mother will engage in sex with a man and the fruit of her womb at the same time on the same bed. We're too conservative in this country when it concerns sex.

Bros never say never. NEVER!

No father or brother can flog his own grown daughter or sister with such ferocity while the later is completely naked. Forget the "Daddy and brother" shouting. It shouldn't even cause any iota of confusion. I call my girlfriend "Mummy" at times while she calls me "Daddy" too.

I repeat, no father or brother can flog their blood relation with such ferocity while the latter is completely naked and then video-record it for the world to see.

larryjonze:
I get your view, the scope of my submission so far is "Desperate times requires/deserves desperate measures" ... all those instances you gave were under normal economic flow.
My point remains things are different now and its not business as usual hence the need for regulatory bodies to come up with policies that will cuisine the pandemic effect, covid is here no one planned for it, fifa should have done something about it earlier there failure is why some clubs are making seperate moves buh now with the wake up call ... if fifa can't regulate wages cut, i am certain they can regulate transfer window, no ridculous bid and players must not be offered more than what they earn in there respective clubs till pandemic is over @least

My brother, I get your point. You type like someone's passionate about the game and won't want to see this silly coup become successful. But at the same time, I think we are arguing too much. Let's sit back and see what the big dogs would decide.

larryjonze:
I don't see how socialist or capitalist applies here, as a matter of fact every profession as a regulatory body vested with the responsibilities of protecting all registered members interest.
UEFA & FIFA are richer & more powerful than any club, they are not @ the mercy of anyclub hence why they can sanction any club, so far you can see most of these clubs are retracting there move.
UEFA & FIFA is acting in accordance to there statutory duties its not out of place and not just about money. the big question is can those clubs bear the sanction/repercurssion

The "socialist/capitalist" talk came up in response to your saying that FIFA/UEFA should be empowered to intervene in a club's spending. If that's the case, then Messi should be playing for Newell Old Boys(just saying). But then, reality suggests that these players would always go to where the money is. Else, why would some of Europe's best players be moving to China and the US Ramos is currently embattled at Madrid because he won't accept any paycut. We are talking about the club's and country's captain here, who should be leading by example. Ronaldo left Madrid when he demanded for more bucks. This is a player who was doing excellently at the club then. Neymar followed money to PSG and broke the world's deadliest trio into pieces(and my heart too). He left his friends and went to meet unfamiliar faces in France. Tell me you don't see anything about capitalism in these instances. You think this thing is about passion? This is strictly business, and the clubs are doing what they can maintain buoyancy, and their lavish spendings that apparently gives them some form of prestige.

Furthermore, saying that UEFA and FIFA is richer than any club is the same as saying that Joe Biden is richer than Bill Gates. Maybe more powerful, but definitely not richer. And about the "power" part of the argument, I'd believe you when these regulatory bodies force the "Super League" clubs into submission without even an inch of compromise from the former. Time will tell.

larryjonze:
There will alway be judas, you have a point and i get you, here is were FIFA and other regulating bodies come in, the fact that most of the favourite leagues in the world are registered under FIFA is enough leverage to curbs instances of "Judas" ... fifa might not have the power to enforce pay cut but they can absolutely regulate the transfer market in such way that no club will be able to snatch players with high price/wage.
For instance, creat a law no club will pay higher wage than what any player is currently earning, thats fair to all

How do you create a socialist law in a capitalist circle? Can a square peg fit in a round hole? Those regulatory bodies you don mention sef dey find money . If their palms are greased adequately, they would turn a blind eye even when their own regulations are broken. Money speaks, B.S. works.

The only reason UEFA and FIFA is threatening fire and brimstones is because apart from their relevance being undermined, their supply to the cash is under attack. And if I know this world very well, poor man no dey make laws for rich man

larryjonze:
The most feasible way out is pay cut to those players already i strongly believe they are been over paid, if all club management unite to enforce a pay cut nothing those player can do.
whatever covid did to FIFA will still happen with super league because we are talking pandemic here ... to save time, energy and resources the most viable option is a temporary pay cut.

Bros, in every twelve, there's a Judas. There is a club out there whose finances weren't shaken by the Pandemic. Even if all the big clubs make a pact of temporary but complusory paycut for their players, which consequently these players would whine about, a "Judas" club would just offer them a better financial deal behind the others' backs and buy these dissenting players up. Bros, don't go there abeg. I own a business and I know what it's like making such pacts with other businesses. At the end of the day, it's personal interests over any stupid pacts. Las las you carry me go court. But I don buy your player

I don't know why we guys are slow to read obvious signs. After we go dey call the other gender "fish-brain". Just negodu this thread. E fit be say na we be the main "fish brain".

Girls wey naturally talk pass parrot. My girls, both past and present, did most of the talking. They were also freaky and free with me. Maybe it's because I hide my judgemental side very well and act like I'm more free-minded than a freemason. Sometimes I'm even tired of hearing them talk.

Trust me when I tell you that if you've to initiate every convo with your girl before she can participate, then she isn't feeling you. A girl who feels you, is similar to a parrot

mathong:
Sit her down 2 to 3 times max, know really if she's aware of what she's doing...

Some girls are like your 5year old kid in imagination.

*He just asked for number nothing else

*It's only calls nothing else

*I don't have anything doing with them just calls

These mostly are such childish girls response

Correct her like a child, and watch again, but pay attention to her response to you coz not all are worth giving another chance!

You've lived with her, you should know her better hence your heart should have the answer even before you ask

I don't subscribe to this kind of thought at all. A girl is not a child. Stop diminishing responsibility.

Gentle0wavez:
Eyaah, well I'm sorry for the insult. Na that leech part pain me although its not an excuse I still apologize.

No hard feelings man

Gentle0wavez:
Chai!! Human beings and using WORTHLESS validation as a tool to manipulate. You see someone say if you don't act this way I will loose all my respect for you or if you don't do this or that you are not matured, you are still a child or you are not a real man

Instead of you to just say your opinion that you think it's best he leaves, you are there talking like Mpki.

What if he stays and picks form and start scoring goals?? So the worst thing that will happen if he stays is you seeing him as a leech?? Pls stop that manipulative talk

Bros, na opinion my talk still be. I no Barca President na . Messi sef no even sabi me. As for the mkpi part, I overlook that one.

But whether he picks form or not(and he's in form right now), Messi has to go, at least for the sake of his legacy.

I still don't have any doubt about Messi at all, both after last night and every other disappointing nights in the pasts. I still appreciate how he has made me smile and wonder with awe on those glorious nights in the not too distant past. He has been a joy to watch, and he's still a joy to watch. I will never blame him for anything. Baba can do no wrong. Right now he's the two-eyed king leading a pack of blind men.

But if after this season he doesn't leave this sinking Barcelona, then I'd blame him for all Barca's woes from 2016 to date. Then, I'd no longer see him as the god-king of Barca who deserves huge financial rewards for his awesome services, but as a leech who want to ruin Barca into bankruptcy. Messi is not the beginning and end of Barca, let alone football...and it will be sad for football if he still stays at Barca next season to earn such ridiculously large amount of pay at the expense of the club's financial distress. He has to go after this season, for his and Barca's sake

Harddiskng:
You are obviously not a daughter of Zion. Plus you are exceedingly dull, where did you read I’m looking for a woman lol. No need to exchange words with you.

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I do have an uncle doing extremely well. He is a project manager for a man, some political powers use as a front to establish business and control cash.

We usually have talks about women. He has a good wife, very homely but oneday he mentioned one of his regret, I would never have guessed it. It was “Getting Married”. According to him he was no longer a free man. I still ponder on his words till date.

Abeg no mind that girl. I don see their type tire. They see a peaceful person and they automatically think he's stupid. As if dem fit stand if dem meet acute mad men . Abeg no dey bother yourself.

My own be say, male or female, if you change am for me, I go change am for you. And I go make sure say my change pass your own so that you must get the point. And even when you don get the point, the change still continues. I no dey endure fools at all

Prosperisaiah1:
Don't mind them

I now understand why our forefathers sacrificed some people in the olden days

;DUmu ndi ara

BabaIbo:
You are ignorantly stu.pid.

From your writing, one can deduce you're "still" a kid and you need to go back to class to work on your writing skill/level, it is poor.

That is by the way.

Back to the topic.

There is difference between right and wrong.
There is also difference between when you do something wrong and you realize it and when you don't accept it.

LoL, thick skin ... Even female celebs that do wear revealing or skimpy clothes e.g Tasha, Toke Makinwa, one other BBNaija housemate etc, spoke against it.

That is why the "so-called" women(some because not all are unreasonable) of this generation are lacking in many areas, which everyone knows except people like you that lives in denial.

Who are you?
Your wack opinion formed by a decayed way of reasoning is irrelevant.
The post/message has been made/passed, you can go and hug a transformer if you don't like it.

Anyway, tell your sisters, your gf/wife etc to join the challenge and post their naked video on social media.
If not, I won't reply your trash of a mention again.

Don't mind those animals pretending to be human beings. Fundamental human rights shouldn't be fundamental for some people. Because they have human rights and freewill...the foremost thing on their mind is to be stupid.

When it comes to issues that would advance mankind's interest, you no go see them. I dey even go too far. Dem don even help their own immediate family Umu idiots

zoedew:
Very good. For JSC who live up to that age it is an opportunity to contribute more to our jurisprudence. The older an erudite and incorruptible Judge lives and in service the better for Justice.

If you understand the intention behind this suggestion, especially as someone who is very conversant with the Nigerian way of doing things, you'd delete this your comment yourself.

For a start, ask yourself, what is the hope of the younger generation of adjudicators in attaining the height of SC justiceship if the older JSCs would now have more time than usual in the apex court? And what will be the fate of the concept of justice if left perpetually in the hands of aged men who may not be attuned with trends in vogue that would need a new interpretation of law other than what used to be?

My own 2kobo...if you want to make stupendous money, provided you have a fairly secured business and you know the system very well.... you'd make far more money in Nigeria than you can make in Canada within the same range of time. This Nigeria sabi favour already financially-secured hustling people die. That's why the rich gets richer non-stop here.

But if you want a sane environment where the system is fair to everyone, then Nigeria is definitely not the place to be.

tnerro1:
Just want to know ur opinion. I think baby mamas will replace marriages in the near future, what do you think?

Baby mamas should take over, unless something extraordinary happens before then, like the end of the world ...and other heterosexual partnerships that would mirror marriage, but in which the persons involved can opt out of the relationship at will

tnerro1:
Just read a story of a pregnant woman sending her nudes to another man and the husband found out. I wonder if she was sending them to her doctor so he can access her medical state

Don't mind that fool bleating about trust. Me wey no even trust myself

My problem no be say the women dey cheat. Anybody can f**k who they like. My problem na say we go part with a reasonable portion of our resources in the name of bride-price and wedding. What a stupid universally accepted way to waste funds

Gokoyer0:
My sister is currently learning hairstyling right now while waiting for her NYSC call up letter. We are really close and she is staying with me.

She used to tell me about women coming to their salon to fix their hairs or nails. Sir, married women cheat more than the single girls right now. They pretend to be satisfied sexually with their husbands but they keep on giving their husbands money to younger guys who are f.ucking them seriously outside. There is no week that my sister will not gist us about promiscuity of married women. The saddest part of it is that, while they are talking about their sexual sprees outside their marriages, they used to laugh it off and some of them are so trusted by their husbands. No conscience at all.
DNA test will be done with 100k naira. I will encourage every men to go for it in this present age.

My brother, any guy wey sabi whassup know say women too like d!CK, especially the ones wey sabi perform. I grew up among ladies so I understand their hypocrisy wella. Even the ones I'm in a relationship with would always say that I understand them more than the average man does. And the truth is, these girls are more lewd than we know already. It's just that we guys are too trusting. On my own, I try as much as possible to create an atmosphere where my babe(s) are real with me. I don't judge them(at least not openly), and it makes them comfortable enough to show me their "animal" side. For example, if I catch my girl talking to another guy on the phone in a way that suggests something more than ordinary friendship, I will either pretend not to notice, or I will reassure her that it's normal for boys to stalk her since she's beautiful. All these I do with a smile, and without the slightest hint of jealousy. In fact na that day I dey smile pass. She on her own will start telling me more things about the guy, trying to reassure me that there's not much going on between them. Me on my own will tease her that she's so attractive that all men can't help but fall for her, and that guy is just doing a normal thing by admiring her. Meanwhile, in my innermost mind, I have thrashed her.

This and other tactics have helped me in understanding women and their games, and these days they are as real as f**k with me. What most men don't understand is that women have a mind of their own, married women inclusive. You're all about her, while she's all about someone else. You now cage such human being of independent will into your bondage called marriage because you want to be the only one with access to her body. I laugh in Urhobo . Besides, even if the man was her fantasy at one point in time, her sexual choice may still change with time. As a guy, there were girls that I fancied once upon a time that I can no longer look at twice these days. It's the same thing for women. Their sexual choices may change with time. That is why I keep on saying that the marriage institution is stale to a large extent.

Women are just as sexual as men. Know this and know peace.

baralatie:
authorities that you claim who do not have a publish work on lions?
abeg!
visit national geographic for a full subject on lions wether it is
the lions in the kenya or the ones in zimbabwe or the ones in the desert of Namibia or the restoration of the lions in the parts of Uganda.
Or if you are still interested you can trace the last one that still exists in yankari game reserve

Send me money for all these trips na. Lol

So you...have you published a work on lions

Ladyhippolyta88:
My phone,my data,my time,my opinion and my choice.
If e pain you look away and suffer the consequences later no one forced you to take a test to begin with hopefully you attract cheats since you guys wanna be doubting Thomas' and find the paternity fraud you small boys are looking for

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Reply the above

The only thing I'm able to learn from this thread is that there is more cheating in marriage by the ladies than we already know. Else, how can someone spend her time since the beginning of this thread till this current page trying to blackmail and discourage men from conducting DNA test? Mentioning "loss of trust" in the home and other bla bla bla? Which kind scam you wan scam men like this?

Finally, na who no even sabi women well. Women are just as sexual as men, forget the facade. On a good day and place where they won't be judged, a woman would give her coochie to the guy she loves(whatever that world means), the guy with a reputation for being good in bed, the guy with the mulla, and so many other guys that she just got attracted to for even the basest reasons. The same way men admire beauty in one, big assets in another, swag in another and good-in-bed in another.

In conclusion, the basic human mating instinct is polygamous in nature.

baralatie:
let me educate on lions

a pride consists of a dominant male lion and a group of female lions with a dominant female (who is the queen).the dominant male has exclusive sexual rights over the dominant female and the remaining female lions and the dominant male lion will kill any offspring that is borne by the lionesses if it is not his.also the dominant lion will kill any male offspring of his if he tries to smooch the female lions in its pride and domain(that is why once the male offspring get to a certain age the male dominant will banish them out of the pride for them to go form their own pride).
it so happens that inter pride war exists and as a result the pride that survives are prides with a large number of mature male and female lions which have formed a coalition.a coalition in the pride means two or more mature male lions (usually brothers) will form a bond to lead a pride of female lions.
amongst these coalition of brothers will be a rift to know who is the dominant male of which the female lions will easily determine.the dominant in a coalition takes the dominant female solely for himself
no other member of the coalition can mate with her(any attempt equals death).
the remaining females get shared by the remaining members of the coalition by level of rank I
e the 2nd strongest male takes his turn before the 3rd.
so lions don't go yanshing each other but will kill any thing that threatens their existence including their females

any female that wants to survive will follow the rules or else it will be relegated to eating scraps.the female lions don't open t.o.t.o anyhow

you don write am as if to say you and lions dey live. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.countrylife.co.za/conservation/10-facts-lions-love-may-not-know/amp

The more you try to teach me off-hand, the more I learn the opposite through real authorities in animal knowledge. It's even the lionesses that approach the lions for mating!!!

gregyboy:
Bro, that is if the dominant male lion, allows other male lion to mate with his pride, most wont allow,

To protect territorial influence

Bros, na Encyclopedia Britannica be this. Besides, most times a pride has more than one adult male lion as governor. A single male lion may not be able to protect a pride. Other males are often involved, and they have the privilege of yanshing the lionesses in the pride.

My point is, even lion understand say lioness go give im toto to any other lion wey im like. I don't know why human beings would want to monopolise another human in the name of marriage. They say we are different from animals. But the core issue in this thread suggests otherwise