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gregyboy:
Yep

Guy no dey lie give me. Even if I no sabi about lions, Google dey there for me

gregyboy:
Guy animal while fight another male animal if it comes closer to his wife, example is lion

Does the male lion lay claim to the female for lion? Like for life?

There's nothing I hate like hypocrisy. Biology told us as students that we are animals, though higher animals. Some other "woke" folk come dey claim say we no be animals. But when it reaches time for action, even animals go dey fear our animalistic displays.

Have you ever seen two dogs, or any other animal in fact, doing some sort of ceremony that pronounces them as husband and wife? Have you ever seen one animal lay claim on another as though its name was written on the other's genitals? The answer is No. Animals can go about and f**k whom they like, and reproduce with whom they like. But human beings, in their twisted wisdom, want to lay claim and monopolise one another in the name of marriage and wedding. Make we dey see na.

The institution of marriage is no longer viable, given the raging vices of selfishness, hypocrisy and greed in the society today. We should just welcome the babymama trend. If two babyparents then decide to be absolutely responsible and loyal to each other, then that's their private business.

I approach this matter this way because I'm a businessman, and a shrewd businessman would do anything to forestall losses. Marriage these days is a wild gamble. You can't part with some of your resources in the name of bride-price and then your wife is bringing another man's babies home for you to train. Na heavy loss on its own be that. Let's just stop this marriage stuff please. It's not making sense again

Told Zinny same thing I've been telling other girls. That I want a FWB stuff with her, since we fancy each other very much. No need to commit since it involve more serious emotions, and I will definitely not ask for commitment. Still got the same answer as before: No. No commitment, no "entanglement". You are only free to run your hands all over my whole body the way you like, and I don't mind taking off every piece of cloth on me for you. But my honey-hole is out of bounds....till you commit. I committed, and enjoyed wifely duties from her and the girls before her, and even though I didn't ask for it, they were submissive to an extent.

I'd prefer to run things with the Kemis of this world, at least since they won't need commitment too. But the truth of the matter is this: women are very possessive and territorial, and the moment a Kemi meets the man of her dreams(a man of higher social & financial status as well as good in bed), she will demand commitment from him, and will submit to him. It is just natural for women to submit in heterosexual relationships. The question is if the man is worth the submission in the first place.

For those who would mention me for counter-argument purposes, no much need doing so. The marriage institution may be living its last days. After that, baby-mamaism and other related cousins of relationship with marital strings attached would take over. I would love the new development, because I so much hate the idea of bride-price. Let's see which gender will enjoy the new order more

GOOOGLE504:
I fear PESIN WEY NO FEAR WOMAN OO

She knew it would get to this the very day you paid her bills and she gave you her number. You walked into it man but i understand our needs as men. Dont be far from prayers, God will see you thru.

Meanwhile don't let your dvck n conji lead you anymore, these ladies are using their brains to think and can be smarter, craftier and more dangerous than we can ever be as men.

Bros forget that thing. Women smart, na im men come dey invent all the "inventables" alone? How many inventions and other things wey don make mankind life easy be woman invention?

The thing is just that women have the advantage of "presumptive innocent". The average man hardly believes that women are quite capable of evil...not until they have fulfilled the act. It's just the way the average mind is aware, probably because women are more feeble in nature. Also, they look more attractive compared to their male counterparts, hence the term "fairer sex". So they are hardly suspected as being capable of evil till the deed is done.

saajus:
Don't be angry. Just talk to her about life. She has already started, all you can do to help now is advice. Just laugh with her, form a similar story about your past that will make her relax to talk to you. Even if you are not a bad guy when you are at that age, just cook a story. After that, advise her about sex. Let her know how her moves now can affect her future. Don't tell her not to have boyfriend cos she has started already.
Tell her the kind of guys she should be rolling with - Cook a story about how a lady was unknowingly dating a cultist and she was killed by a rival gang one night that she slept over in his house.
Tell her about heartbreaks - Cook a story of a lady friend of yours that ran mad after a heartbreak and she couldn't continue school.
Tell her about STI's - Cook a story about how a strong Christian sister you know got HIV through her first sexual intercourse.

Right now, you want to be her best friend, not uncle. After leaving, make sure you keep good contact with her and always advice her. Every time you call her, ask how many boyfriends she has now. Be her friend, she will trust you.

My brother, how I wish the young woman, and women in general, would understand this "nice approach" of yours. But No!...e go even add to the "see finish" sef.

Once in a while, show madness. Like better werey. If possible, pull heaven down. Then turn around and start acting nice again. I tell you, even queen of the coast herself go dey mellow down for you.

If I be the uncle, for house wey I build or dey pay rent for, if my niece has the effrontery to take a guy into a room that I just leased out for her to stay, then I also have the effrontery to embarrass both her and her lover too. Tit for tat. Life no hard na. Na golden rule things

Op, you no overact one bit. No just feel guilty one bit. Me wey be say na me and my God cater for me and my immediate family since my father passed on prematurely without anybody's shin-gbain... hmmmm...I no go even hear any story. Like all man go see pure madness.

Thank God say the father-in-law get small sense. At least just mellow small because of am. But next time similar sh!t happens, just package im daughter give am back. After all, when the old man dey f**k im wife, dey cum inside her to bear children wey im no fit train, im no remember to call you

ThierryJay:
Hmm, where do I start from. First I ain't a kid. I probably started watching ball earlier than you since you said you thought Maradona was an average player. At least I had known he was head and shoulders above his peers since 1994.

While you have put up a number of reasonable points in your post, permit me to correct some over exaggerations. First, it is a misconception that the quality of defending is based on the frequency of rash tackles made. In many African countries today, those sort of tackles you described are still common with poor pitches. Yet when these rugged African teams take on a a Manchester City, they'd still get walloped 7-0 with a Raheem Sterling probably scoring a brilliant solo goal amidst the rough tackles.

Elite defending takes more than rough tackling. Until the 1990s when player fitness levels improved due to technological advancements, the level of defending was not as good, as defenders where slower then and typically left more spaces in between. They try to make up for this defect with last gasp rough tackles. I watched many of Maradona's games (recorded tapes) for Napoli. Teams were not parking the bus against him, so most times defenders approach him individually and get rough on him. Messi has faced a whole bus parked defence in over 70 percent of the games he played. Watch Maradonas goal of the century and Messi's similar goal against Getafe. You'd notice that the English defenders were slower and Maradona eliminated them one after the other, but in Messi's goal there were two markers on him at the same time on at least two occasions, so he had to dribble faster than Maradona, to break through.

And while it is true that red and yellow cards were introduced in Mexico 70, players had always been cautioned and sent off long before but by word of mouth from the referee. Placindo Galindo of Peru was the first player to be sent off in a world cup match in 1930. So the card thingy does not imply anything of note in this debate.

Talent will always be talent and will stand out regardless of the era. Personally I believe Messi especially the (2008 - 2013) version will make a mince meat of the sub-par defending of the 60s to the 80s, regardless of the rough tackles. FYI, I hold Pele and Maradona in high esteem and have never underrated them. And I have stated many times here that I consider Messi, Pele and Maradona as equals and nickname them the three GOATs on the basis of their supreme talents.

Bros, your analysis too much abeg. See as points full am. Abeg just manage my "like". I wish I could do more.

"Elite defending takes more than rough tackling. Until the 1990s when player fitness levels improved due to technological advancements, the level of defending was not as good, as defenders where slower then and typically left more spaces in between. They try to make up for this defect with last gasp rough tackles. I watched many of Maradona's games (recorded tapes) for Napoli. Teams were not parking the bus against him, so most times defenders approach him individually and get rough on him. Messi has faced a whole bus parked defence in over 70 percent of the games he played. Watch Maradonas goal of the century and Messi's similar goal against Getafe. You'd notice that the English defenders were slower and Maradona eliminated them one after the other, but in Messi's goal there were two markers on him at the same time on at least two occasions, so he had to dribble faster than Maradona, to break through."

I will never forget these lines. NEVER. So true to a fault

In a relationship where the couple involved is seriously attracted to and fond of each other, this question will hardly arise. A babe can't see a guy she really fancies starve of sex and she won't help him out gladly, and vice versa. It's part of the first sign of love, which is free giving. Lovers are givers. Even the most religious babe has a guy she won't mind giving any style he wants, so far as his urge of sex is satisfied. I've dated one, a "mama" in one of the notable campus fellowships, and only I knew how wild she was in the other room

Cases where couples use money to trade for sex are cases where the couple are not "naturally" attracted to each other, and this depends on how they met themselves. How can you as a guy go out of your way to toast a girl who isn't feeling you in the first place? Truth be told, the toasting stuff is rubbish. From experience, if a girl is crazy about you, she would make things very easy for you.

Lemme just stop here.

HBB1:
Ronaldo is a wonder to behold, but for anybody to say he outplayed Messi yesterday is just sheer madness!

Na them sabi

HBB1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TL14EZL_O_Q&t=39s

Messi's highlights



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUZIbKt7NaY

Ronaldo's highlights.

Who played better?


Make we no dey decieve ourselves abeg!

Bros no talk too much. I no sabi wetin Ronaldo fans dey follow, but I'm sure it's not good football. They can check 02:33 of the video and see how their ewu was "MESSImerized" by the true GOAT

Without the goals, Ronaldo was boredom personified

Coldie:
D Nnamdi KANU that was running his mouth declaring bounty of #100million on wike while ipob cheered him on is now calling on international community to intervene.

Ipob can't see how unsteady the guy is they just keep hailing him like I always tell them e go clear for there eyes

Seriously, NK is a case that needs to be studied. Sometimes I force myself to believe that some things he is alleged to have said were not actually said by him. That someone else is trying to frame him up. Like how on earth can a bloody civilian say that he is placing a bounty for an incumbent state governor's head? ;DHow? How?

But if actually he said the above, then being mentally unstable and articulate at the same time is a variety of insanity that needs to be studied closely. It's not as if he even commands any standing army.

RedPhoenix:
You'll be fine


See your therapists to book a session. Ewu

Thank you.

Now go and tell the same to the soldiers at Oyigbo. They will thank you too

RedPhoenix:
Tell what's happening to whoever. Post pictures


Tell the stories. That's what is done to help fellow brothers in help from outside danger zone. Anything but passivity.


Just a very good video compilation out together can go viral and put massive pressure on the president. The onus lies on us as young ones not to just spectate or talk but to do what we can within the ambit of our capacity. That's what I expect. Me. I've shouted on several issues and luckily a few got attention and issues were raised towards resolving the concerns I shouted about.



If a loved one is dying, we go all out. That's the right thing to do. Go to all social media influences Instagram handle post videos pictures etc. That's an action.

this social media people sef and their mentality. See eh....UN and the ICC is not as saintly as you think. Have you heard of any trial of any member of the Allied bloc being tried for war crimes after the second world war? Or you think only Hitler and his friends committed war crimes?

I'm Igbo. From Enugu. And I'm a youth too. But after my father's death, I learnt one thing: YOU are the only person who YOU can trust to always come to your own rescue. If you like, tag UN and the ICC from now till whenever, if they are not interested in Oyigbo, they are not, and nothing will change that. What you should do is to find a rifle and some ammunition and go and face those Hausa-Fulani soldiers as you call them and reply them fire for fire, or you shut both your hands and your mouth and act like a decent citizen of Nigeria that have a life to guard.

Oyigbo youths burnt police stations and even shot at the Army...and your Nnamdi Kanu even placed a bounty on an incumbent governor's head, only for you lots to cry blue murder when the action set .......abeg don't be ridiculous. I expect better from you lots, seriously

A guy who doesn't ask how a female stranger got his contact to initiate some convo, in this 21st century....WILL PROBABLY DIE LIKE A FOWL. The person on the other end may not be the beautiful girl you see on the profile picture. It could be a "village people", fraudster or even assassin trying to monitor you through your SM accounts. Personally, I don't woo my ladies online, neither do I accept online wooing. If we can't do our wooing offline where I can see your face as well as your body expressions, forget it.

matrixme:
Where is MLS, the only enlightened northern prominent person in times like this? Why the strange silence from his quarters in this situation? If not that this is an ISLAMIC, NORTHERN, MUSLIM FAMILY affair, the rest of us down south who are deeply concerned could have been able to raise our voices but for the peculiarity involved in the case

Oga, this situation is going to be a huge milestone in the history of this silly country. There's nothing like "family matter" here. I expect the South to wrestle the young man away from the hands of his bloodthirsty brothers. Anything else, like this stupid silence all of us southerners are observing on the matter, and we only have more courage to an already bold monster.

Give a man an inch, and he will DEMAND for mile. If the North successfully execute the young man, then I'll mark it deep down in my heart that irrespective of whatever I learn in the varsity and at law school, Nigeria is an Islamic state.

Moura7:
Bro cmon.. Grizz played the no9 role countless times this season...even when Suarez was injured twice. We even said he's not a natural no9 as he's better off being an SS and Valverde also played him in that position too, still nothing. We've just been seeing some flashes of the player he was at ATM, nothing consistent. But it's just one season tho, he can improve much better next season.

Griezmann might have been poor, but he's definitely sharper than Suarez. The latter is a clumsy "only-active-in-the-box" kind of striker. He is just in the first eleven because he's Messi's friend. Even Alcacer was better.

eni4real:
Pique is having a very poor Defence record!!
Barcelona should buy quality defenders

Stop blaming Messi for conceded goals too!!!

Messi is the greatest, you don't expect him to keep quiet when he see anything wrong!!!

I don't care about Pique, as Pique is not among the subject of my analysis. And no matter how poor you think Pique is, he is among the best 10 central defenders in the world.

And please, I don't doubt Messi's potential on the pitch for a day. He is surely the GOAT, Imo. What I don't buy is that his character is faultless. He's using his influence unduly, and it is affecting the club.

This is the last time I'm making my stand known to you. If you misinterprete my opinion again and involve terms that are initially alien to our argument, I will ignore you

eni4real:
Messi's Leadership is not the problem

Are you saying Pique is a better leader?? How?? Where else has he being a leader??

Are you saying Sergio Roberto is a better leader?? A kiddo!!

Barcelona should fortify all departments on the field and fire all players and coaching staff that contribute nothing significant to the team!!

Infact, Bartomeu should just go!!

It is a systemic problem!!!

Pique jazz is working on you tho!!!

He did a disasterclass in Roma, Liverpool and Celta , yet Messi is your concern!!

Is that how you treat the GREATEST??

I'm talking about something I perceive as Messi's fault...instead of addressing it, you pick someone else and make him a scapegoat. Oga, put sentiments one side. I will acknowledge the good and the bad about Messi, and presenting Pique in my face in scapegoat manner doesn't change anything

Moura7:
I get your point, trust me I do. You talked about Suarez getting a full 90mins on the pitch but let's be honest, is there really a replacement for Suarez? Greizmann has been given the chance times without number and still no improvement. We've adjusted with countless formations to try and fit him in but still nothing, let's not even talk about the fact that he's still played more mins than Suarez and still has fewer goals than Suarez. Then the Vidal issue, Vidal offers something that barca doesn't have at all and it's that surge of power, aggression or let's just say ginger. After Messi in this match, Vidal was Barca's best player. Dude was defending, marking and even attacking, only him. You watch lots of barca matches and you see how nonchalant the team's marking is, it's like they are scared to go for the ball.

Griezmann has been poor at Barca, that I know. But if i remember clearly, this was the same Antoine Griezmann that shone at Atletico Madrid and in Russia during the world cup for France. I recognise how good he is. He is certainly an A-list player.

Surely, Griezmann has a position that absolutely fits him in Barca's team. Even the commentator of tonight's match made a remark about this. He said that Griezmann's ideal position in Barca team is not the left wing, which definitely suits Ansu Fati. And it's true. Even at his former club, Griezmann was not a winger. In fact Griezmann has never been a winger. The commentator further remarked that the positions Griezmann would have done well on have already been taken up, and it's Suarez's position. And it's true. Griezmann is better off as a no. 9 than as a winger. But since Barca miss Neymar and the role he played together with Messi and Suarez, they would do anything to replace the energy that flows from that wing, even if it means buying players at overrated costs. And this has cost Countinho and currently Griezmann their careers. Dembele was the best replacement to Neymar since then, and he's very injury-prone.

In conclusion, I long to see the day when Barca would start Ansu Fati at the left, Messi and the right and Griezmann in the centre. Suarez is now a shadow of himself

Goldeno:
well said

but remember even Luis Enrique had to force Barca board to choose between him or Messi who was in charge that January before barca went on to win trebble

And that was Luis Enrique's last season. Let's face facts: Messi is currently bigger than Barca, and he's using his influence unduly.

eni4real:
Nonsense!!!
Bad leader?? He should defend too?

Pique jazz is working on y'all!

If you think you love Messi more than me, you make a mistake, which is normal for any human being. But if you think that because I'm a Messi fan, I shouldn't point out his weakness(which has contributed in no small measure to Barca not winning elite trophies like before), then only God can help you, because I will surely be as honest as always.

Beside, I never said anything about defending. I obviously referred to club politics and undue use of influence.

Goldeno:
I don't think it's the decision of the coach , player power as become too much in barca, that players question the coach decisions, from lineup to subs to tactics, all no thanks to the incompetence of the board,

they even dictate what the coach should and shouldn't say to media
Suarez, Vidal shouldn't be starting marches, Roberto, Semedo, Arthur, Rakitic all need special training on how to attack.

players like Messi now feel they are doing barca a favour staying , no wonder all the coaches they approached rejected them,

Bros, you get the memo.

I'm a huge Messi fan, but there are things Barca have done in his favour that have set the club offtrack for some time now. Truth be told, Messi is big, but the Barca board making him bigger than the club is a huge mistake. No matter how much he tries to hide it, Messi is visibly power-drunk. How on earth would Suarez be playing every game for 90 minutes even when there are better options? He's now irreplaceable, thanks to the influence his friend Messi wields in the club. And I think Vidal too is in Messi's highly sentimental good books. Simply put, Messi's amount of influence is damaging the team. He needs to be cut down to size.

Little wonder Barca have not employed any reputable manager- and they themselves have not been willing to come to the Camp Nou. After Guardiola, the other real manager Barca had was Luis Enrique. Others have been Messi's puppets.

In all, Messi is the greatest footballer ever lived, in my opinion. However, he just has to stick with the magic his feet can produce. He's not a natural leader, and stripping him of the club's captaincy won't be a bad idea. His influence in Barca's internal politics is toxic, and will hurt the club both now and after he has hung his boots

IpobOsuIgbo:

I can NEVER pay any individual I don't know personally or know someone who knows him/her for online transaction. NEVER!
Never in this shithole filled with corrupt bastards

O boy leave matter. Na condition make crayfish bend. When you're at your wits' end, you'd do exactly everything you thought you would not do.

The thing is, just be observant enough. Once any ref flag is noticed, call the deal off

gartamanta:
In other words, Yorubas had no problem problem with the Northerners slaughtering the Military Governor of the West, chasing Ogundipe who was supposed to be the next president, out of Lagos and occupying Western Region? But the same Yorubas were suspicious and annoyed that Ojukwu was coming to occupy their land? Lol

Something like that. They prefer the Fulanis to the Igbos in terms of looking for which master to submit. I think some of them have even said that on this forum. Harsh as it may sound, it's the raw truth

gartamanta:
Yoruba land was already occupied territory. The Military Governor of Western Nigeria, Lt Colonel Fajuyi, had been murdered by Northerners and the next substansive head of state, Brigadier Ogundipe, was hounded out of Lagos. In the letter, Ojukwu stressed that Biafran troops would only remain to allow Yorubas to consolidate. Ojukwu also stressed in the letter that after Banjo became leader of the West, they would meet to discuss how long Biafran troops would remain.

What I find amusing are Yorubas who say that Ojukwu was coming to take over the West. The same Yorubas never like to admit that the North had already taken over the West.

My dear, this is war. You talk about giving Yorubas time to consolidate, something another would misinterprete as military occupation and annexation. See bros, wetin you dey think and how you think am dey your head alone. You no dey inside another person head to control im thinking. Abi you are new to the stories of liberators who later turned to slave-masters? Or you never hear about "from frying pan to fire" before?

If Ojukwu was fair and transparent towards the liberation of the Yorubas, then his every action and intent in this regard must leave no doubt at all. Forget the Hausas and the Fulanis. Those people no pure one bit, and I no plan reason their matter for this my opinion. The "consolidation" of Lagos by Biafran forces was unnecessary, except you can convince me that Lagos is the border-town between Biafra and Nigeria

I'm Igbo, and certainly admire Late Ojukwu, but this letter to Banjo reeks of arrogance and a desire to dominate the western region. He completely missed it here. Why would Biafran soldiers occupy Lagos after anticipated victory? Is Lagos the citadel of the enemy? Why would a fellow liberator like you take orders from you on how to govern his own land?

Looking at this letter, one thing is visible. Ojukwu wanted Biafra, with Lagos and probably all Yorubaland as part of it. Another astute warlord would have stopped at the River Niger, and then stamp his authority from there. He would have liberated his own tribesmen- other parts of Nigeria not comfortable with Hausa/Fulani domination can then start their own secession project.

Nevertheless, the war has been fought, and we have learnt our lessons

Emmanuelcann:
Sex as a weapon and bargaining chip, it's inevitable! Do you expect that things will always be smooth and rosy in a marriage? No? So do you expect that a woman will be happy to engage in love making with a husband who has offended her one way or another?
Marriage for a man is a time to learn that you can't always have what you want - unless you are a polygamist. Learn self control!

"Marriage for a man is a time..." Like marriage is now a time Something that starts from late youth and continues into old age till death is now a time?

Reminds me of that part of the Bible that says that a hundred years is like a day in the sight of God. Na im be say God fit dey Nairaland and we no go know

MiddleDimension:
messi takes all the penaties that come to Barcelona and Argentina. how many has he converted?

And having a better penalty conversion rate makes Ronaldo an overall better player than Messi And in my comment that you quoted, I made hardwork on the pitch the subject of my comment. But you can ignore that since you just want to tell me about Ronaldo's football strength that I definitely didn't deny.

Just know that you can't drag me into a Messi versus Ronaldo debate. Nah Nah Nah. If your eyesight is faulty or your TV has an acute poor image quality, then that's your problem. But for those who appreciate obvious truth, the answer is obvious too for them

MiddleDimension:
messi takes all the penaties that come to Barcelona and Argentina. how many has he converted?

And having a better penalty conversion rate makes Ronaldo an overall better player than Messi And in my comment that you quoted, I made hardwork on the pitch the subject of my comment. But you can ignore that since you just want to tell me about Ronaldo's football strength that I definitely didn't deny.

Just know that you can't drag me into a Messi versus Ronaldo debate. Nah Nah Nah. If your eyesight is faulty or your TV has an acute poor image quality, then that's your problem. But for those who appreciate obvious truth, the answer is obvious too

kikero:
For some funny reason, I used to think Ronaldo was 'lazy' till I read about his training and nutrition regimen.

Once again, I learned, never judge a book by its cover.

Me...I read about how hard Ronaldo works in the gym and I initially concluded that he was very hardworking.

I sincerely believe that all that hardwork is not done in order to be fit enough to score "lazy" goals like penalties and tap-ins. He trains for something else that is not football

etrange:
I agree with you 100%. It's actually a relief to see someone that sees my point.

China has the right to deal with those that messed up with her years ago. I'm only after the interest of the people being governed. If a referendum is given to them, chances are, the majority might still vote for a stay. And they'd still be part of China. But that would, at least, give China a more reassuring position. It's not for HK alone, it could be another country tomorrow. China is becoming the world power, references will be made to them in future just like they are made to the US today.

Unfortunately, the chinkos would not care much if such references are good or bad.