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Iko5000:
Eh there are more cases in China but they don't want to report all the deaths and people that caught the virus .If they did the right thing from the start it would not have been this bad . If you know someone in China speak to them and they will give you the real chilling suitation

Even their citizens won't tell you anything. They are so used to lies and censorship of facts. The only information that you can get that is next to the truth is from a Nigerian in China

Angelfrost:
No sir... But, he will be pulling the defensive strings!!!

we saw how well he pulled them against Lecce

Angelfrost:
Liverpool are not yet out na... Can you stake everything that Atletico will cruise through Anfield next week??!.. Liverpool is still the world best team at the moment.

Messi can't do everything... Gattuso understands how to lock people like that down!

is Gattuso playing the match

@ op,
What were you thinking when you chose to roll with the jewel of the family, the only eye that saved a man from being described as blind, and the continuation of a lineage?

Choices beget consequences. An only son is, put short, the last hope of a family, especially in Igboland. By nature of his position, he should be tough, tactful and diplomatic. And if his parents(and himself, for he too must train himself positively to withstand pressures and make intelligent decisions) are wise enough, they would employ every positive means towards ensuring that he gets the best all-around training in life, for his position is highly critical. The thing is that women of these days want to reap where they have sown next to nothing. If you love him, you should help him become better. With time he would see you as more than a wife. You'd become an indispensable ally to him. But that is only possible if you have something worthwhile to offer in his life. At this stage, if the only thing you can think of is competition with his sisters and mother over his resources, affection and attention, then you're not the best thing for him. Don't add to the young man's pressure abeg.

I also understand that only sons tend to be clingy to their families. You are somehow lucky that his father is still alive, and would help him in decision-making. What about some whose father have left to the great beyond? Now after struggling with the mother and sisters to survive and live decently, you expect to now come and own him absolutely? because you are who? Can't you even smell your own insensitivity and selfishness? If you really love him, the best thing to do is to work your way to the heart of his family too. And the process is quite easy, if you are not a bad, self-centered woman. With time they would get accustomed to the situation and you'd own him like you want to. They would even be the ones to remind him when he starts getting unnecessarily clingy and nostalgic that he now has a wife he needs to take good care of.

Finally, I understand that some only sons are weak and unnecessarily clingy. But I also understand that some of us feel a great sense of responsibility and are doing our best to face unusual pressures of life as well as balance our relationships between the many people who are serious stakeholders in our lives. All we need is proper understanding and help where necessary, not unreasonable competition with others over who's supposed to earn our attention and affection the most.

elijahkayode:
Na so, see u trying to twist and manipulate words, we know it's hard for mind like urs to accept reality, merica despite it flaws is still a country founded by the people for the people

1.) America stands for political fredom and it's obvious u dont know ur history cause without America, Nigeria/Africa will still be a slave colony, if America falls today

2.) Trump has been attacked and investigated everyday since his presidency began, can u do that in china (Free press)

3.) China sensors it citizen, and control the thoughts of it citzen overriding God (freewill) in mankind (Muslims/Christians) are treated like mad beings in mental hospital.

3.) u can do investigative journalism in the us, clinton was oust by a talented journalist, do such in c and u will labeled a dissident,

4.) Britain, America, Nigeria, and other (Democratic) institution all maintains the illusion that power belongs to the people, which is Good, and pricisely y u should fear China (communism), every company must toll their line (Huawei, zte, trade)

5.) Iran (authoritarian) blew a commercial liner full of passengers, u didn t say a word/ China(communism) is currently using it's citizen as lab rats, endangering the whole world in the process, Russia (Chernobyl), Venezuela (socialism) (imagine if all this country had free press thatcan attack the president

God did say people are destroy for lack of knowledge, it's amazing & sad how the mind sometimes twist good into bad
We Believers in JESUS CHRIST Loves & enjoy our freedom & freewill cause it keeps us connected to God and his word (Jesus),try to take that from us and their will be problem in time, the Spiritual and physical.

ok

flyca:
China has no free press.
“The west” has free press.

China is talk and “disappear” forever.
“The west” you can talk but the government will deny and try to save face, but at least you get to know.

Go figure out the rest of the differnece in scenarios in these two situations. Biko I cannor comman go and argue with you

Oga no talk wetin you no sabi, make you no appear like novice.

Both are brutal and intolerant when it comes to "bad news press". It's just that one is more brutal and intolerant in handling such matters than the other

FatherBona:
Some guy is out there banging the living daylights out of that pussy, without paying a dime.
The irony of life

My dear it doesn't end there. The guy even gets some change and other related benefits...which is most definitely from the "spoils of war" the damsel received from a simp.

Wetin concern sweet boys kwanu? If mugu fall, guyman go chop

Davash222:
Aswear. Good dicck don’t need too much hype.

You sabi. Women are very selfish with good D!ck. They tend to hide it from other ladies so that they would enjoy it alone

May God help China in these trying times. This is certainly not a funny time for importers, to say the least. Have goods worth some cool fortune between here and there and I don't know whether they have been shipped or not.

bukatyne:
You asked a question, I made you think about the answer.

Nothing personal.

I thought about nothing. But it's OK. Let the issue sleep

bukatyne:
What do you think?

Have you made love to a woman before?

Did she like it?

Hmmm. You've personalised this stuff very fast. I think I gave you the chance because I mentioned you first. I just wanted to troll. Maybe we should stop the convo at this point.

As for your question, if our paths cross in real-life and we happen to be as close as lovers, then you'd get to know the answer to your question. I will say no more than this

cococandy:
that’s what we told you?

That's the impression your folks create. Ask around.

Well shaa, it depends on the man. Some of us are not cut out for nonsense. We would just find a way to turn the tide against you

bukatyne:
Women don't like sex as much as men?

You better learn to be an attentive, good lover and stop consoling yourself.

But on a serious note, do women like sex?

cococandy:
Someone can not break up in peace again?

On a more serious note and generally speaking , why do some guys start sweating when the issue of satisfying a woman sexually is at stake? What do you guys have against women enjoying sex?

but women don't like sex nah

lovchalice:
I'm not going to do Karma's work. I've moved on

Good one

lovchalice:
really, we dated for three months before having sex. And my dear you are not better than me in anyway. Before I dated him I've been celibate for 6yrs. Wonder how many girls can boast of that. Besides I'm not complaining, I'm only saying he won't go unpunished. For me I'm happy and eagerly expecting. And I've made sure not to ask him for anything cos he will never be a father to my child. He is not qualified to

so how do you intend to punish him, if I may ask?

lovchalice:
well in my case it was someone that have been disturbing me for friendship and when I turned him down, he proposed marriage. When pregnancy set in stories started. Tell me, can he go Scot free

So you gave in because he proposed marriage? Nna mehn. Wetin dey inside this marriage thing wey dey shack women sef?

People are different shaa. Personally, I'm not sure I can shake hands with someone of your mentality, let alone you seeing my nudity.

This is the best thread I have seen since I joined Nairaland. So many practical financial lessons to learn here.

Personally, I sometimes wish that incest was not seen as a taboo. I would have married my own sister. She is a good manager of finance, a great records-keeper and a brilliant salesperson. I doubt if I will marry if I can't find someone like her who is also a decently wealthy home.

Op, well-done. You can do better than this anyway. We lazy Nigerian youths need something this educative

Dybala11:
And the failure of Hitler to understand the meaning of the word ''tactical withdrawal''. He lost a whole division or even more during the battle of Stalingrad

His motto was "no retreat no surrender"

adelaja70:
You are 100% correct... And they didn't prepare for the winter break.

I swear...Russia is difficult. That place is a different place on earth. I remember watching Champions league group matches some seasons ago. CSKA Moscow v. Liverpool to be precise. Liverpool really walked alone that day. They were just lucky to get a draw at the end of the day

somehow:
Give one example.

As in eh...someone will hear nonsense from somewhere and then repeat it whenever the occasion is suitable for him without thinking about it.

Two wars ko, two hundred riots ni

adelaja70:
If not for nature that saved the ass of the Russians the Germans were 30km from Moscow.

Even the US cannot stand against Germany alone that year. One on one, Germany would decimate anyone that year. The problem Germany had that led to its defeat was that it took on too many nations at once.

This thread only points us to one direction and one direction alone- that sex is the best thing of value a woman can offer a man. Outside that, there is definitely little in the armory of the average woman when it comes to keeping a man.

Op, you never jam. If I was that your guy, I would immediately de-escalate everything emotional between us immediately, though in a subtle way. For example, I will start addressing you as "My sister", "My friend"....even my "my nigga" . In essence, I will "sister-zone" you. And whether you remind me that you are more than a friend to me or not is not my business. All I know in my mind is that I can never accept you as a lover. You go see platonic relationship wey go make you doubt my potency as a man. Even light kiss, you no go see, let alone cuddling and making out.

All that guy needs is a little self-control, and he will make you doubt yourself and power of attraction. Even your self-esteem sef. You are a very silly girl, working with an outdated strategy, which makes you more silly to me.

cerpvad:
Madam don't vex abeg. What you called backward reasoning has made many a husband to lose their value and integrity as men. When you pursue a lady and end up marrying her because of her social class and wealth, be ready to face the music whenever it starts playing.

Though l agree with you that it takes good upbringing and individual character for a woman not to lord it over her husband in marriage, but the percentage of such ladies is very low in the reality of our society today.

My candid opinion is still for guys to marry down and never marry up their social class. But for ladies, they can marry up or down.

Nonsense. You still talk about marriage Baby-mama and Baby-papa ti take over. The institution of marriage has outlived its usefulness. There are better options against it.

airminem:
Why na

because no be only you sabi cry

airminem:
I start to cry profusely

You never jam. I go follow you cry

Sweeetheart:
you're a kid

k

Sweeetheart:
you're a kid to understand what I'm saying, listen to the lady other side of the story before ranting like a spoilt toys


why should I believe a sane human will smash her husband phone and even her own phone. many things can't trigger peoples to the act that's not part of them, just as how you turn a domestic dog into a wild animal


many things turn human into a be.ast frustration, distrust, jealousness etc the op never make mentioned if she do this prior to their marriage, this means something transformed her character if I will admit she truly smashes phone, you need to study the psychic of human before chanting you men of this generation crabs!


I used to be hot temper and escalate small things but friends and my bae change many of that through some channels that I won't disclose. human change from good to bad and bad to worse, bad to good

Even you wey support this thing....Na eye I take dey look you.

"I get anger issues...blah blah blah". Meanwhile, your anger never reach to ginger you into fighting Boko Haram or leading the revolution against Aso Rock. Abeg clear road make I see front

Sweeetheart:
you and your wife has no issue. she just have this hot and raw love for you


another one is on the way means she's pregnant? and you're proposing to runaway for a week? it shows you don't really love this lady perhaps you she was the only option left for you. at her conditions she need much love, attention and care. continue doing that bro, when she delivered then you both can addressed this issue or you both visit a counsellor


this is not an issue, more pillar of trust and communication is what's lacking behind when she delivered, you can easily addressed it

this one say na hot and raw love? She no see her papa phone smash, abi her manager for workplace own Kai Walahi it is finished for this generation of men. Shaa shaa the new generation of men are keenly learning, and I doubt if they would make the same mistake

victorian:
Well some part of my own future is not here yet.

And from what you said, they are not too far.

But let's stop going back and forth with this. Time will soon tell on this current social order. Let's just calm down and see what happens

victorian:
Before future comes, I would have lived my life to the fullest.

I'm even living the life sef!

What am I even saying?


Anyways keep waiting for the future, don't live your life now and let the future sort itself by itself.

No long speech. The future is here with us.

victorian:
Well he loves her so much and was ready to do anything to keep her

Kris Humphrey that's stingy or lemme say not rich like Kanye had to bow out.

Now they have three or four kids, I think?

And Kanye is very happy, she's still his wife and mother of his kids.

People will always talk, so if it's that one. It's not new.

My new bf gifted me 6 digits , this Christmas . I don't see him as Mugu or maga but I see him as angel sent to make me very happy. And I pray every day for him. If he should think of what people will say, he won't even give me a dime. That's some Nigerian men mentality. Naija men think of they are stingy to women, the women will stay. My dear, the woman won't stay and another man out there who's ready to spend will wife her.

I don't date broke guys or guys who can't afford to gift their babes anything.

and after "wifying", what happens? The man go come make heaven?

Just calm down and wait for a future where men care very little about the female v@gin@.