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tough one this is. i run most things through the mrs. i may not give her details but if it is on a need to know, i would tell. i must add she is one person you can tell anything to without worries. she has your back 24/7.

sorry, i dont know lagos but make sure you avoid coke and some fitzy drinks after you have it done and always brush your teeth before bed time or you get it worse than before. good luck

restless sinners. i am sure this man had quiet sikira in his early days and complained about her now the devil gave him open eye hair dresser. some people get bad luck o.

pls God forgive me

where are u?

check this out  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=237189.msg3493816#msg3493816

they are both ugly sins.  [size=18pt]the looser is always you and the devil[/size] the master of all sinners.  havent you seen that?

i saw this as someone answer to a question online

What is sodomy?
sod⋅om⋅y
   /ˈsɒdəmi/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [sod-uh-mee] Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1. [size=18pt]anal or oral copulation with a member of the opposite sex.[/size]

I was shocked to learn this!!! Our culture has accepted another thing God hates!!!

try google the word what is sodomy? and see what you get. i dont know who changed your calender. the word of God is timeless/ ageless. hell is going to be full of many misguided church going, religious tongue talking people. why not save yourself the agro.

[size=1[b][/b]8pt]Staying Pure in a Fornication Nation[/size]
J. Lee Grady Newsletters - Fire In My Bones   

You don't have to compromise with our sex-saturated culture. By God's grace you can stay in the sexual safety zone.


There were some raised eyebrows last week on the campus of Southeastern University in Lakeland, Fla., when I hosted a special meeting—the day before Valentine's Day—on the subject of fornication. That's not a word you normally associate with a lecture topic, but hey, I had to get attention. And since the hormones on most college campuses are as dense as Florida humidity, I figured the kids would be all ears when I attacked the subject.

I was right. At times you could hear a pin drop in the auditorium, especially when I talked about how most American young people aren't even sure how to define sexual activity anymore. (Today's college seniors were nine years old when President Clinton tried to redefine sex during the Lewinsky scandal.) At other times the students burst into nervous laughter, especially when I told how I gave my son-in-law a lecture about sexual boundaries in front of 700 of his classmates when he was dating my oldest daughter.

"Losing one's virginity used to be a serious issue, but today fornication is just a standard sitcom plot device."

I thought it might be helpful to share these key points with a wider audience, since many of the readers of this column are single. And even if you are married, it would be good to take a quick refresher course in self-control—since we live in a nation that is losing all moral restraint. Here's what I told the group at Southeastern:

1. Don't redefine your morality. I've seen Christian young people roll their eyes when I say the word "fornication" because it sounds so much like King James English—sort of like "sodomy," another word we avoid in our PC culture. But we need to be careful how we bend the meaning of words. Terms that are in the Bible should not vanish from our modern vocabulary just because they offend some of the hosts of The View.

When "fornication" is used in 1 Thessalonians 4:3 ("For this is the will of God ,  that ye should abstain from fornication" KJV), the Greek word is porneia. It's the root word for pornography, but it means a lot more than sexually explicit material. It includes sex between unmarried people, homosexuality, bestiality, prostitution, incest and adultery.

According to the apostle Paul, sex as God intended is limited to marriage between one man and one woman. Period. The Episcopal Church has no right to broaden the definition. Neither do Bill Clinton, Newsweek, Oprah or HBO. Don't let moral relativism infect your brain.

2. Don't sell your birthright. Losing one's virginity used to be a serious issue, but today fornication is just a standard sitcom plot device. It's considered normal. People are considered weird if they didn't have sex by age 14; and if anybody dares to teach abstinence in a public school he is labeled a Neanderthal.

In TV shows like Desperate Housewives, Nip/Tuck or Grey's Anatomy, life revolves around who's in bed with whom. There's even a TV series on Showtime called Californication that follows the life of a sex addict. What TV producers don't usually explore are the consequences of immorality. Audiences probably wouldn't laugh if the couples hooking up on these shows had to deal with genital warts, gonorrhea, AIDS, abortions, post-abortion trauma or clinical depression—all real fallout from illicit sexual behavior.

If you are a single person today—whether you have lost your virginity or not—it's time to reclaim your purity and save sex for marriage. We've forgotten the story of Esau, who forfeited his birthright through one stupid act. He traded his inheritance for a bowl of stew. You really can throw your life away through one act of fornication.

3. Get ruthless with your weaknesses. Jesus sounded stricter than a Catholic school principal when He talked to His disciples about self-discipline. He told them: "If your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell" (Matt. 5:29, NASB).

Jesus was not advocating self-mutilation. He was using sarcasm to emphasize how serious sin is—and He urged His followers to take radical steps to avoid the snares of temptation. In our sex-soaked society, it is more imperative than ever that we draw boundaries.

Got a problem with pornography? If you can't discipline yourself to avoid offending Web sites, get rid of your computer. Do you end up engaging in heavy petting or intercourse with your girlfriend or boyfriend after a few minutes of kissing? Draw lines and stick to them. And if you can't stick to the rules, ask for intervention. If you don't you are headed for spiritual shipwreck.

4. Live a transparent life. The Bible never advocates that we battle sin alone. We need each other. James 5:16 says: "Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed." In some cases you will never get victory over temptation until you share your struggle with another Christian and seek counsel and prayer.

So many believers today are living with secrets. Many women (and men too) were molested as children by a relative or friend—yet they have never shared their pain. Many young guys are trapped in a dark world of pornography and masturbation but are too ashamed to admit it. Many Christians struggle with same-sex attraction yet they fear that if they confess their thoughts they will be rejected.

You will never discover the abundant life Christ promised until you clean out your spiritual closets and deal with all your dirty laundry. Total forgiveness and cleansing is available, but confession and repentance must come first.

5. Develop the fear of God. Paul had sober words for the Thessalonians who ignored his admonitions about sexual sin. He told them: "He who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you" (1 Thess. 4:Cool. It couldn't be clearer: If you disregard sexual boundaries, you are on thin ice.

What we desperately need in the church today is a conscience awakening. Too many Christians have warped judgment—and they don't even feel godly remorse when they break God's law. If you have any form of sexual sin in your life, flee it immediately and make a 180-degree turn. He will grant you the grace to live a life of purity.



J. Lee Grady is editor of Charisma.



http://charismamag.com/index.php/newsletters/fire-in-my-bones/18953-staying-pure-in-a-fornication-nation?utm_source=MailingList&utm_medium=email&utm_content=mrblessed%40googlemail.com&utm_campaign=Charisma+News+Online+2-19-09

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**osisi:
The Bible expressly tells Christian women to be modest in dressing.
Modesty doesn't necessarily mean tying a scarf 24 hrs a day.
A Christian woman shouldn't have her boobs hanging out for all to see.
Anyone truly led by the spirit of God should know not to dress like a LovePeddler.

too many male and female jezebel about. see this https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-237208.0.html#msg3493972

tpia:
seriously, what it with some naija men and their extreme touchiness over the issue of women? Yet most of you insist your views arent middle eastern ones. Whats the difference?

God help you people sha. A woman cant even talk to you without you developing some kind of complex. So the only part of Abraham's life with Sarah that you want to hear is the one you quoted. Anything else like the parts saying he listened to his wife, is anathema to your ears.

smh.

_{and yet this is one of the people following and saluting deepzone as she rants through life in her mafia mission. I wonder why you dont preach this your sermon to her?}

you are the one displaying touchiness here.  this thread is about dressing modestly but you are trying to turn into your men hating thread. you may want to read the topic again and get back to telling us your take on this. by the way you can see what some people are saying on this thread too https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-237208.0.html#msg3493972

i see you are not happy i love funmi. too bad. she is a brilliant girl you possibly would love if you stop taking her too seriously. i like clever minds and most of all i love her zeal.  how could that possibly upset you?

i love people like sisi, nwando, karma, gamine, topup,AJ, heatfussion, adeboo and others you know are strong women in their own right. do you hate me some more for this?

i may personally not fight but i will defend the right of any person to air their views on this platform that is why i will still love you.

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tpia:
Note however, Abraham also listened to his wife _{even when she made questionable decisions} and didnt lord it over her. God specifically told Abraham to listen to his wife on at least one occasion, if I remember correctly.

marraige is not a war zone as most of you want it. the thread is not about men and marraige. the bible is a very balanced book in vs 7 it talked to husbands

1 Peter 3: 7 (New Living Translation)

Husbands

1 Peter 3:7 [size=1[/color]8pt]In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, [color=#000099]but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered[/size].

Image123:
@tpia
You're acting paranoid.That's a Bible quote in NLT version.The guy has not saaid anything depicting making slaves of women

thanks God bless you

Gamine:
LOL, i have always wondered about this though

Why cant we just print more money and geddit over with

as in buy now pay later?

1 Peter 3:1-9 (New Living Translation)

1 Peter 3
Wives
1 In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over 2 by observing your pure and reverent lives.

3 [size=18pt]Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. 4 You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. 5 This is how the holy women of old made themselves beautiful.[/size] They trusted God and accepted the authority of their husbands. 6 For instance, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, and called him her master. You are her daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husbands might do.

MrCrackles:
Wetin naija prostitute no go fuc.k sef?

Indian man wey dem prick be like crayon sef dey carry ashawo

E don be

i just couldnt believe a nigerian woman would open her legs for a garlick smelling indian. sad

i would have tot their being christians would repulse you guys so much your john thomas wont rise. so you dont love your religion that much?

[size=18pt]Indian beats Nigerian prostitute to a pulp[/size]

By Idowu Adelusi - 15.02.2009

AN attempt by a 41- year-old woman to pose as a “sweet sixteen” for any fun-seeking Romeo has landed her in hospital. The woman (names withheld), who is a prostitute was rushed to the University College Hospital (UCH), Ibadan after she was battered by her Romeo, an Indian national over the failure of the man to pay her the amount agreed on.

Sunday Tribune gathered that the woman, a native of Ondo State divorced her husband a few years ago, after what she referred to as failure of the man to take proper care of her and due to the constant nagging between them. On Sunday 25 January, 2009, the woman was at a popular hotel in Ring Road, Ibadan, wearing a pair of trousers and a skimpy top. Sunday Tribune gathered that her appearance gave her a sixteen year-old look.

An Indian in his early fifties, who came to the hotel seeking fun, invited her to join him for a drink. Sunday Tribune also gathered that thereafter, the Indian decided to take her to his house at Oni and Sons area in Ring Road, Ibadan for the night. This was at 3.00 a.m. Before they left the hotel, the man reportedly promised to pay her N3,000.

When the love birds got home, the man, Sunday Tribune gathered detected that the woman was not a “sweet sixteen” afterall. He reportedly became enraged and told the woman that he was no longer interested in her. The man said he refused to have sex with her and when it was 6a.m., he gave her N1,500 and told her to leave his house.

However, the woman got annoyed and insisted that the man must pay her N3,000 as arranged before she could leave his house. The man alleged that the woman gripped his genital and this stampeded him to pounce on her. When Sunday Tribune contacted the Oyo State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Olabisi Okuwobi, she confirmed the story, saying that the woman was still at the hospital recuperating.

It was gathered that the woman sustained injury and had to be rushed to the UCH for urgent medical attention. The woman also reported the matter at the Oluyole Police Station and the Indian was immediately arrested. When the woman was taking to the hospital, the doctor who examined her revealed that she had internal injury.

Therefore the woman had to undergo surgical operation. The hospital bill amounting to N250,000, was paid by the Indian. The woman, in her statement to the police, said that the man actually sex her, adding that they had three rounds. She said that when the man asked her to suck his penis, she refused and the man got annoyed.

She said that the man threw N1,500 at her which she refused to accept and in annoyance the man beat her up. She said that when the man saw that she could no longer breath properly, he became afraid and stopped beating her.

http://www.tribune.com.ng/15022009/news/news13.html

michelin89:
how you we?

Uhm, maybe by giving your children a better education and dumping those hypocritical and false values, you know they'll never keep.

michelle i know you are young and clever what do you think the unis in nigeria were set up to do? how many poly technic/ university graduates and higher school certs holders are in europe prostituting themselves because of greed.

would you mind sharing with this forum what you term "hypocritical and false values, you know they'll never keep."?

todays tribune is reporting this in nigeria

Indian beats Nigerian prostitute to a pulp

By Idowu Adelusi - 15.02.2009

AN attempt by a 41- year-old woman to pose as a “sweet sixteen” for any fun-seeking Romeo has landed her in hospital. The woman (names withheld), who is a prostitute was rushed to the University College Hospital (UCH), Ibadan after she was battered by her Romeo, an Indian national over the failure of the man to pay her the amount agreed on.

Sunday Tribune gathered that the woman, a native of Ondo State divorced her husband a few years ago, after what she referred to as failure of the man to take proper care of her and due to the constant nagging between them. On Sunday 25 January, 2009, the woman was at a popular hotel in Ring Road, Ibadan, wearing a pair of trousers and a skimpy top. Sunday Tribune gathered that her appearance gave her a sixteen year-old look.

An Indian in his early fifties, who came to the hotel seeking fun, invited her to join him for a drink. Sunday Tribune also gathered that thereafter, the Indian decided to take her to his house at Oni and Sons area in Ring Road, Ibadan for the night. This was at 3.00 a.m. Before they left the hotel, the man reportedly promised to pay her N3,000.

When the love birds got home, the man, Sunday Tribune gathered detected that the woman was not a “sweet sixteen” afterall. He reportedly became enraged and told the woman that he was no longer interested in her. The man said he refused to have sex with her and when it was 6a.m., he gave her N1,500 and told her to leave his house.

However, the woman got annoyed and insisted that the man must pay her N3,000 as arranged before she could leave his house. The man alleged that the woman gripped his genital and this stampeded him to pounce on her. When Sunday Tribune contacted the Oyo State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Olabisi Okuwobi, she confirmed the story, saying that the woman was still at the hospital recuperating.

It was gathered that the woman sustained injury and had to be rushed to the UCH for urgent medical attention. The woman also reported the matter at the Oluyole Police Station and the Indian was immediately arrested. When the woman was taking to the hospital, the doctor who examined her revealed that she had internal injury.

Therefore the woman had to undergo surgical operation. The hospital bill amounting to N250,000, was paid by the Indian. The woman, in her statement to the police, said that the man actually sex her, adding that they had three rounds. She said that when the man asked her to suck his penis, she refused and the man got annoyed.

She said that the man threw N1,500 at her which she refused to accept and in annoyance the man beat her up. She said that when the man saw that she could no longer breath properly, he became afraid and stopped beating her.

http://www.tribune.com.ng/15022009/news/news13.html

fromuk:
Arnold it seems you are on a mission. Why must you bring Osisi's comment on every thread. Some Yorubas here and in Washington have said things more worst that whatever osisi has written here, why don't you post them here as well. You are even more worst  than osisi so quite all these your nonsense links.

An Ambassador made such a comment and the only thing you could refer it to is osisi's post. Do you know why they are called DIPLOMATS? As a diplomat he is suppose to be diplomatic as far as running that office is concerned.

thank you. there are more tribalists here than the lady. some people never miss an opportunity to give themselves and their tribe a bad name.

she has not commented here but her name is being mentioned. why was funmi and her lot not mentioned?

she didnt say she was a virgin. most 16 - 18 yrs old are sexually active in nigeria. what is her true age by the way?

LadyT:
Its not poverty its greed.

Easy way to make money.  Lie on the ground with your legs wide open = Bags full of clothes and shoes and plenty of cash.

Dont get me wrong some people need to sell their bodies to eat and to feed and clothes others.  But theres a vast number of useless girls AND boys who are too greedy.

110/100.  you are  correct.  do some people really need to sell their bodies?

in a banking hall during robbery dont want to remember it at all.

May Allah help our society. Widow and widowers are human beings. Of every thinking, it is only Islam,because it is a religion from the Creator, that is positive about this emotional needs. It allows a woman just 4 months and ten days of waiting before she can re-marry. If she decides to stay single, no problem but there should be no adultery. A man is free to marry anytime. The idea of having more than one wife for those who are capable is also design to take care of widow too.Checkout on Islam

olabs and co where art thou? is this true?

wmunonline:
All sorts of acronyms and names have been used to coin and make disguise of the nature of prostitution.

In all the intent of this act which has in some ways turned into a Profession, exhibits no change in value irrespective of its acronyms which stands to change the philosophy behind its nature.

“Prostitution is define as the act or practice of prostituting or offering the body to an indiscriminate sexual intercourse for money; common lewdness of a woman”
I think Nigeria girls need to wake up from their slumber and face the reality of life, because what they do is not runs but prostitution.

“A source of livelihood” as defined by an undergraduate of the University of Lagos, who delved into the act to assuage her ongoing financial plight, revealed that the gains attached (if there are at all) were undoubtedly pains in disguise. Her experience started as an exuberant adventure with exorbitant living standard until her health started deteriorating, and then what came next seemed beyond her imagination.

She and her friends were introduced to a very rich company of relatively young men at a social event.

The event turned out to be an avenue to lure these ladies into the hands of money ritualists and occult group members. Her story leads to the death of all her friends as they where used as sacrifices. She fortunately, escaped the clutches of death as she was termed to be inapt. This victim, now repented has joined a religious group fighting for course of thus campus ill.

Another testimony leads us to the northern part of Nigeria. This victim and her friend, both from Ahmadu-Bello University Zaria, had finished exams and where in search of fun and money so they set out to Abuja where they felt, had conspicuous affluent men. On the way to their land of milk and honey, they were given a lift by a young rich dude. His car was tempting. They stopped over at the outskirts of Jos town, as this dude had already convinced them to pass the night at his abode. They accepted the offer anticipating he would compensate them financially for the night.
               
Indeed his domicile had wealth written all over, well furnished with expensive electronics. As luck would have it, the rich dude stepped out to get dinner for his guests, and our victim had to answer natures call. Looking around for the ‘convenience’ she approached one where she found female body parts. Dumbfounded, she came out shivering with fear and led her friend to the scene. Immediately, they ran out barefooted, leaving behind their belongings. Their route to safety was through a bush path leading into a village, where they where accosted by the indigenes who harboured them that night and transported them back to Zaria.

The testimonies are endless, still we have more female undergraduates pimping and marketing their fellow mates to wealthy men.

The World Miss University Nigeria Peace Emissaries are campaigning against Pimping and all sorts of Prostitution (whatever the terminology or acronym used to describe the act) on our various campuses.

Obviously, the gains of this act buttresses latently on the purchase of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD’s) and other related ailment.

The fight is tough but the World Miss University Nigeria Peace Corps are left with no other option than to succeed on this great quest towards redeeming the female university undergraduate from this plague ‘PROSTITUTION’.

Lets come ‘hand in hand for peace’ with the World Miss University Nigeria Peace Corps, to achieve this goal.      


Ambassador Temidayo L. Kafaru
President World Miss University Nigeria

nigeria as a society have tolerated this attitude for too long. most of these young girls grew up in environments where women practised protistution in all but name.

someone will soon come here and tell me poverty.
this is what it has come to