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Lexusgs430:You can help find the lady and ask her to look for her nagging, zero income size next time. Was he unable to provide for them in the story or did he, his family & the girl's family beg u for help catering for the kids? Why is ur bloodthirsty mind not concerned about the only issue at hand which is the safety of the abducted child? What is the lady's psychological condition? Is she mentally and financially balanced in a strange land she arrived just 3months? Why did she have to lie and sneak away with the baby this time around? Is she doing this for a good reason or is something/somebody coercing her? Haven't we heard of people hurting or trafficking their own kids for financial reasons or just to get back at their ex? |
Lexusgs430:Comfortably skips women responsibility and your bitter soul doesn't care about the life of a little baby in this christmas and election period. So it is the person with zero income that has right to sex without condom and kidnap a 3yr old girl into unknown circurmstances? Why wasn't she bringing her own 55k to add? At least they're both "landlords" with caring grandmothers and other family members available, rent and some part of food is covered. Bitterness against men won't do you any good in life. |
Greattestman:are you staying in family house or rented apartment? If ur popsy is not in the picture then she wants freedom to run some things. If it's family house, tell her to find her own apartment if e dey pain am. She's trying to push you out the nest but that is more harm in this generation of APC and cost of dollar and food with just 20k income. Anyways, make u find more hustle to add that job or leave the job start bizness even if na hawking or okada level. I don't judge, I just really hate hearing somebody mentioning nonsense like 20k salary in this country. |
Messi1:No, u will still respect and greet him as ur uncle but must now act according to his wishes by reacting symbolically as an african when person wronged you. How do i mean? Do not near that place till middle of January at least. If any thing takes you to his house, set 15/20mins alarm on ur phone OR JUST DO STANDING GREETING, excuse urself and leave immediately. Reject food in his house even if you came to introduce ur spouse to him or family meeting. He'll either apologise or snub you. Bt u go keep ur little remaining dignity. You weren't entirely wrong but his action was despicable. Somebody's uncle as in, substitute parent?! Tueh! |
Lexusgs430:Both rushed into the marriage (pressure from girl's mother due to pregnancy) Op's salary of 55k is meagre and he didn't secure extra income source. Pregnancy decided to be triplets (wahala pro max for them) Young lady decided to contribute only nagging and fighting to the extent his uncle and family members wanted to oust them from the compound as they're tired of noise and separating fight. Instead of finding job or business, she was threatening to abandon the children. She left wt d gal, bt threatening to dump her with him as he wasn't giving her as much as she wanted. He didn't succumb so she dumped her. She went to lagos 3mths, no known job or residence and just came 2 kidnap d gal for only God knows why. |
Lexusgs430:are you dyslexic or something? Who is yanking who in this story? I even told u to go and read through and get the entire story. |
litaninja:a yam wondering |
Lexusgs430:who dey teach una all these nonsense? First, he has all legal rights to scrutinize her income, shelter and child safety situation and deny her access to the kids if found wanting or there's a threat. Secondly, there is nothing like mother rights. Thirdly, you need to follow and read all of OP's story completely. |
chimeremodlyn:child Abduction, child trafficking, kidnapping, attempted kidnapping conspiracy to kidnap.. A good law firm can get up to 12 charges on her head when caught. I may update later if i'm chanced. If u think a woman can't kidnap her own child, can a man rape his own wife? Ask a competent court |
chimeremodlyn:You sound extremely naive to happenings in today's world. Ignorance is bliss. Child trafficking, prostitution & child porn is currently a global booming menace. |
cedricksly:ur grandma cant raise d gal child because she herself was never a mother and a woman who abandoned her kids and yet to secure a safe accomodation should have right to d child dan d invested father?! Truly, Na ur papa be d single guy wey thundr go faya. |
UjuJoan2:Because the OP na simp! Woman wey formerly starved the man's mother, abandoned the kids by herself and just enter lagos less than 5mths dey get access to my kids say she dey mad ni? She wan go wear tally for cold room? |
Jennifer89:Women whose kids are dead, boarding or abroad should kill themselves? Then, She shouldn't have abandoned them! |
cedricksly:tonda faya.. Won't Kids go to school? Do you yourself or the so called lady in this story spend the entire day with kids? If dropping kids with your own mum means nobody, suffice to know that other people's mothers aren't nobodys. So face front when you don't know what to say. |
Prospertochu:Ogbeni, ur pikin head go don dey boil for pot O! If u like no go imo state now borrow Ebubeagu from gov hope make dem go disappear half of her family for village. Na dem go summon her by themselves with ogun, amadioha and otherwise. Make you dey there dey shout god forbid. Na christmas + election period be this including yahoo plus gang. Before you know sef, ur pikin video fit don enter child porn site. Woman wey never stay 5months for lagos come carry ur pikin dey go where dem no know na him u still dey here dey listen to all these woke f.o.ols and their spirit of confused bitterness? |
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Dshocker:make th.ndr from abortion clinic no go strike you oh! You sure say u follow the story at all. |
Invest4growth:Kids she abandoned by herself and he still didn't refuse her access to them when she called?! A man could have also sought an egg donor/surrogate but they both didn't so boo you. At what part of his story did he deny co-parenting? Is there any point in your bitter lamentation that makes the kids not to be his own? They are still his boys and his girl, oya go and jump lagoon. |
mardis:Stop with the emotional blackmail against men. From the story, She abandoned the kids, just relocated to lagos, does not have a stable or verifiable means of contact or livelihood and you don't care about a 3yr old safety in these conditions. Do you know little things like snatching a baby away from it's siblings, seriously scars them for life? |
abrahambest:How about a brand new car? Innoson or any other nigerian dealer should have cars close to your budget and have financing options just incase. |
Adun27:Leave that poor boy alone. He no do anything. Na you just wan use am as excuse to chase ur wife and find person wey go cure ur conji. If you wanted ur wife not to have to receive call from colleagues, u should have sourced some millions and set her up wholesale female business. But insecure person like you go still fight the truck driver wey call to deliver her goods. As for me, If e reach the level of keeping me sleepless at night, denying me food or sex in my house for months, you are on your way out immediately. Especially food, sex i just get concubine and make sure she born plenty. I no get time to reason woman matter once e reach like that. |
Nelbless:24 is not ur kid sister but an independent being. A full grown woman (overgrown infact). For God's sake, Her mates have 5 kids, Ph.D, or are celebrities/masters of industries as the case may be!! Why did i not read anything about you people previously helping her get a job, open business or to acquire a skill? Abi na Shrek or Entangled una dey act, locking her from the world away in a castle. But perchance y'all did anything right and she chooses to live her life, it's none of your business. You should relieve yourself of all responsibility for her well being. I won't say much but if you haven't known her status and location in 2-3days, report her missing to the police and follow all leads including and starting from that her friend. If you find her safe and sound then hands off her matter. Finally na Her life. Worst case scenario, You can only get to disown her and move on. |
WannaHowzit:S.A is still proudly white owned. government et al. |
WannaHowzit:Ur pics confirms what is known about south africa. Black labourers, white owners. What else are you debating? |
Godsprojectayo:Hey you sent me a dm. Unfortunately, I can't view my nairaland email. I don't know if you will like to paraphrase the message here as a comment or another way you get in touch. |
Deborah200299:private number and it's location can be disclosed when you print call records from ur service provider. |
OP come oh, somebody don copy and paste the entire biology note ss1-ss3 for you. All you need to know about diving dey there. U fit read am finish before 1month time. Bt as u get strength to find work wey u no sabi, i sure say u go see strength to read the note complete. |
Backpedal:Just one church, nighclub, bank or casino go move 100s of millions directly for you in a week and there are thousands of such organisations across the country. Na only the masses go dey run helter skelter on this matter. |
BreconHills: yinkeys: Coldie: |
joe4christ:NO, HE WILL NOT. This is nigeria. Stop deceiving yourselves. Are you the only customer BDC has for that day? Does he really need to take the money all at once straight to bank or won't he use it to buy and sell currencies to others thereby spreading the money evenly? Will he be the only one depositing in the bank that day? Will the money not circulate within and out the bank before close of work? Do they really need BDC operators to clean the currency? Churches, importers, travel agencies, car dealers, bars and nightclubs, casino even banks and any business that handle money in bulk would move billions in less than 10 trips under just 1 weekend sef. Vans go just come house exchange am with clean notes & give to citizens over counter (circulation). Then Oga go show them love. Simple |
alanto:Nassarawa is a country. But illiterates can't understand. Who wan teach them how to use dictionary. |
[quote author=CarGuideNG post=117990631][/quote]Do these mods not read these useless posts they push to frontpage? |
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Entitlement mentality. Who told you that you singly own the children. Men should stop this irresponsible and irrational thinking. The woman could have looked for a sperm donor instead of you. So you are just fortunate to be the father of the triplet and you have the wherewithal to take care of them. Will you kindly and gladly sit with your ex and agree on co-parenting. So you expect her to come into the marriage empty and also exit empty. Feat God I beg. My girls My boys indeed!