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FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:09pm On Nov 17, 2022
chimeremodlyn:
Get her mother arrested for what? What kind of advice is this? Better fear God. No be everything be violence
child Abduction,
child trafficking,
kidnapping,
attempted kidnapping
conspiracy to kidnap.. A good law firm can get up to 12 charges on her head when caught. I may update later if i'm chanced. If u think a woman can't kidnap her own child, can a man rape his own wife? Ask a competent court
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:01pm On Nov 17, 2022
chimeremodlyn:
prostitution. Pls, the kid is only 3yrs. The mum cant use her for that
You sound extremely naive to happenings in today's world. Ignorance is bliss.
Child trafficking, prostitution & child porn is currently a global booming menace.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 6:49pm On Nov 17, 2022
cedricksly:
There are things that are basically best if a mother teach her girl Child, eg sex education, (afterall na only women dey be biology teacher and gyneacologist?) Yes, the man can do it and guide her to responsible mothers around. I am deliberately downplaying the importance of their grand mother in their life, I too was raised by my grand mother and she did a good job, but raising a girl Child is so delicate and require a lot of time and attention and motherly bond and trust. Believe it or not is better raised with the mother if alive than a grand mother or their father.. I'm not talking because I want to talk, I'm also talking what i don't know
ur grandma cant raise d gal child because she herself was never a mother and a woman who abandoned her kids and yet to secure a safe accomodation should have right to d child dan d invested father?!

Truly, Na ur papa be d single guy wey thundr go faya.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 4:10pm On Nov 17, 2022
UjuJoan2:
Who have you custody of those kids in the first place. Sentiments aside, how come you ended up sold custodian of such young children?

If I were your ex I’ll do this the right way, through the courts.
Because the OP na simp! Woman wey formerly starved the man's mother, abandoned the kids by herself and just enter lagos less than 5mths dey get access to my kids say she dey mad ni? She wan go wear tally for cold room?
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:57pm On Nov 17, 2022
Jennifer89:
I wonder how a mother will be able to sleep at night without her children
Women whose kids are dead, boarding or abroad should kill themselves? Then, She shouldn't have abandoned them!
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:52pm On Nov 17, 2022
cedricksly:
the topic is misleading.... Oga leave the girl Child for her to nurture.... You have no business taking care of a girl Child when the mother is obviously alive, you didn't state in your long Sermon she(your ex) was irresponsible etc.. So you go to work and leave your girl Child at home with nobody and you are here saying you need your girl Child blah blah blah.. Ogs face front, you aren't the only one who has those children.
tonda faya.. Won't Kids go to school? Do you yourself or the so called lady in this story spend the entire day with kids?

If dropping kids with your own mum means nobody, suffice to know that other people's mothers aren't nobodys. So face front when you don't know what to say.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:44pm On Nov 17, 2022
Prospertochu:
Thank you ma I am trying to stay calm but I am concern about my daughter safety , her mother had been to Lagos for 3 months I don't think she even has her own apartment or a job that she will be able to provide for the girl. Also I don't know who she is living with and the risk of her being sexually abused is high. I just hope she is safe and nothing will happen to her
Ogbeni, ur pikin head go don dey boil for pot O! If u like no go imo state now borrow Ebubeagu from gov hope make dem go disappear half of her family for village. Na dem go summon her by themselves with ogun, amadioha and otherwise. Make you dey there dey shout god forbid. Na christmas + election period be this including yahoo plus gang. Before you know sef, ur pikin video fit don enter child porn site.

Woman wey never stay 5months for lagos come carry ur pikin dey go where dem no know na him u still dey here dey listen to all these woke f.o.ols and their spirit of confused bitterness?
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:30pm On Nov 17, 2022
Princessdainty:
Person carry triplets for 9months with all the complications of multiple birthing and you say she kidnapped her child?.
Don't you have family members?
(so we should just wait for her to appear on blog after having sold the kid to some italian or romanian child porn gang?)

(is there any part of the constitution that makes pregnancy and child bearing an exemption or immunity from kidnapping charge? Did any court grant her custody of the kid?
Do you strap these kids to your back to go to work?
(does she currently do so?)
Are a full time dad.. (bt hypocrite no ask if she is a full time mom) ..entitlement of "my kids". (He doesn't need an entitlement as they're already his kids)
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:12pm On Nov 17, 2022
Dshocker:
By right, all the children are supposed to be with their mother.

You are making it sound like you own 100% right on the children alone.
make th.ndr from abortion clinic no go strike you oh! You sure say u follow the story at all.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:08pm On Nov 17, 2022
Invest4growth:
My girls my boyshuh Entitlement mentality. Who told you that you singly own the children. Men should stop this irresponsible and irrational thinking. The woman could have looked for a sperm donor instead of you. So you are just fortunate to be the father of the triplet and you have the wherewithal to take care of them. Will you kindly and gladly sit with your ex and agree on co-parenting. So you expect her to come into the marriage empty and also exit empty. Feat God I beg. My girls My boys indeed!
Kids she abandoned by herself and he still didn't refuse her access to them when she called?! A man could have also sought an egg donor/surrogate but they both didn't so boo you.

At what part of his story did he deny co-parenting? Is there any point in your bitter lamentation that makes the kids not to be his own? They are still his boys and his girl, oya go and jump lagoon.
FamilyRe: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 2:55pm On Nov 17, 2022
mardis:
Leave the girl child with her now. You have the two boys already in your custody allow her take care of the girl. It seems she is capable of doing that. Before you'll go and marry another woman that'll come and turn her to housegirl. And besides she will be more safer under the watchful eyes of her mother. Aren't you afraid of all this child molestors and abusers?
Stop with the emotional blackmail against men. From the story, She abandoned the kids, just relocated to lagos, does not have a stable or verifiable means of contact or livelihood and you don't care about a 3yr old safety in these conditions. Do you know little things like snatching a baby away from it's siblings, seriously scars them for life?
Car TalkRe: Buying My First Car, Please Share Your Experience by jmichael259(m): 8:11pm On Nov 15, 2022
abrahambest:
Thank you. I appreciate this insight
How about a brand new car? Innoson or any other nigerian dealer should have cars close to your budget and have financing options just incase.
FamilyRe: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by jmichael259(m): 11:54pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:
Kindly tell me how
Leave that poor boy alone. He no do anything. Na you just wan use am as excuse to chase ur wife and find person wey go cure ur conji.

If you wanted ur wife not to have to receive call from colleagues, u should have sourced some millions and set her up wholesale female business. But insecure person like you go still fight the truck driver wey call to deliver her goods.

As for me, If e reach the level of keeping me sleepless at night, denying me food or sex in my house for months, you are on your way out immediately. Especially food, sex i just get concubine and make sure she born plenty. I no get time to reason woman matter once e reach like that.
FamilyRe: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by jmichael259(m): 7:08pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nelbless:
24
24 is not ur kid sister but an independent being. A full grown woman (overgrown infact). For God's sake, Her mates have 5 kids, Ph.D, or are celebrities/masters of industries as the case may be!!

Why did i not read anything about you people previously helping her get a job, open business or to acquire a skill? Abi na Shrek or Entangled una dey act, locking her from the world away in a castle.

But perchance y'all did anything right and she chooses to live her life, it's none of your business. You should relieve yourself of all responsibility for her well being.

I won't say much but if you haven't known her status and location in 2-3days, report her missing to the police and follow all leads including and starting from that her friend.

If you find her safe and sound then hands off her matter. Finally na Her life. Worst case scenario, You can only get to disown her and move on.
CrimeRe: Zanele Sifuba’s Sex Video: Nigerian Embassy Reacts As SA Blasts Nigerians by jmichael259(m): 6:31pm On Nov 14, 2022
WannaHowzit:
White owners? When I posted pics of people building black government infrastructure?? grin grin grin

Please sit down, you know nothing about South Africa except what you heard other STUPID people say.

Sit down!
S.A is still proudly white owned. government et al.
CrimeRe: Zanele Sifuba’s Sex Video: Nigerian Embassy Reacts As SA Blasts Nigerians by jmichael259(m): 5:50pm On Nov 12, 2022
WannaHowzit:
I see you're struggling.

Here are pics of "lazy SA black men" earning an honest living and developing their country by building t
roads, power stations, stadiums and mining the world's deepest mines. Not japaring all over the place and being pests.

How many black SA men have you seen scavenging and being parasites in Nigeria, and then insulting their hosts?
Ur pics confirms what is known about south africa. Black labourers, white owners. What else are you debating?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Teaching Job Of 20k Salary Or Okada Hustle? by jmichael259(m): 4:54pm On Nov 12, 2022
Godsprojectayo:
Teaching job of 20k salary 7:30a.m to 4p.m or okada hustle for a bsc holder? which would you recommend?
All contributions will be appreciated please!
Hey you sent me a dm. Unfortunately, I can't view my nairaland email. I don't know if you will like to paraphrase the message here as a comment or another way you get in touch.
FamilyRe: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by jmichael259(m): 10:06pm On Nov 09, 2022
Deborah200299:
I will do that thanks
private number and it's location can be disclosed when you print call records from ur service provider.
CareerRe: What Does Commercial Diving Career Looks Like? by jmichael259(m): 2:36pm On Nov 09, 2022
OP come oh, somebody don copy and paste the entire biology note ss1-ss3 for you. All you need to know about diving dey there. U fit read am finish before 1month time. Bt as u get strength to find work wey u no sabi, i sure say u go see strength to read the note complete.
BusinessRe: 15-Year-Old ₦‎500 Note Currently In Circulation (Pictured) by jmichael259(m): 5:36pm On Nov 01, 2022
Backpedal:
Only thing is ...

There are 100s of other people who are hoping to make this move as well ...
It won't end well
Just one church, nighclub, bank or casino go move 100s of millions directly for you in a week and there are thousands of such organisations across the country.

Na only the masses go dey run helter skelter on this matter.
BusinessRe: 15-Year-Old ₦‎500 Note Currently In Circulation (Pictured) by jmichael259(m):
BreconHills:
bank will even send a bullion van to collect it and return new notes to them next day.

Let's not see every event through the lense of politics
yinkeys:
They’d buy food & gifts in large quantities & hoard
At the end of this money redesign you’d see it’s not the criminals that’d suffer but regular citizens
Coldie:
This would only increase inflation though, cause money in circulation is about to increase like never before.
BusinessRe: 15-Year-Old ₦‎500 Note Currently In Circulation (Pictured) by jmichael259(m): 5:06pm On Nov 01, 2022
joe4christ:
You're not so smart. If the bureau de change should accept bundles of old note and deposit such money to the bank. He will be arrested.. This policy is a trap in disguise!
NO, HE WILL NOT. This is nigeria. Stop deceiving yourselves.
Are you the only customer BDC has for that day? Does he really need to take the money all at once straight to bank or won't he use it to buy and sell currencies to others thereby spreading the money evenly?
Will he be the only one depositing in the bank that day?
Will the money not circulate within and out the bank before close of work?
Do they really need BDC operators to clean the currency?
Churches, importers, travel agencies, car dealers, bars and nightclubs, casino even banks and any business that handle money in bulk would move billions in less than 10 trips under just 1 weekend sef.
Vans go just come house exchange am with clean notes & give to citizens over counter (circulation). Then Oga go show them love. Simple
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Calls Nassarawa "A Great Country" by jmichael259(m): 10:12pm On Oct 31, 2022
alanto:
You no de tire? Defending a 62 years old youth that keep quoting imaginary figures while talking nonsense... Peter Obi a walking enclopedia doesn't know the difference between state and country? and he wants to be a president?
Nassarawa is a country. But illiterates can't understand. Who wan teach them how to use dictionary.
TravelRe: How My RIDA Driver Tried To Kidnap Me - Twitter User by jmichael259(m): 5:45pm On Oct 30, 2022
[quote author=CarGuideNG post=117990631][/quote]Do these mods not read these useless posts they push to frontpage?
FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by jmichael259(m): 10:16am On Oct 30, 2022
DSS1335:
Thanks.

She will go back to the village and put to birth, thereafter return back to the city after weaning the child. Whatever arrangements to be made must involves that boy's family too.

Next year UTME, she will register and write it in the village.
Make she write am first sha but mind you, UTME is not an excuse incase her name no come out.

University Degree (distant learning, evening, weekend or sandwich) programmes do not require sitting for UTME.

Polytechnics evening and weekend programmes do not require UTME.

School of health/nursing/midwifery do not require UTME.

The list goes on, same certificate with UTME candidates. Unless you tell person.

Just go to the institution CCE (center for continuing education) or nearby sec sch, buy form & resume.

Being in her (& ur) position might find this option best for her to work and support herself while schooling and nursing the baby through infant and toddler stage that it needs the mother most.
FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by jmichael259(m): 9:45am On Oct 30, 2022
dontrulee:
Men can be decievers and some ladies can be quite easy to manipulate. A lady can hate a guy with passion and end up getting pregnant for that same guy. Life no balance. grin grin
i hear say hate sex sweet pass. D knack go be like say dem wan strangle the person with python style. Dem say na why it's called to "hate with passion"

Please, brethren and sisthren is it true?
FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by jmichael259(m): 8:45pm On Oct 29, 2022
DSS1335:
A minor according to our constitution is any child below the age of 18.. Sleeping with such a child despite her consent is called statutory rape.. He risks 14 years imprisonment.. That young girl must not suffer alone. So i don't care whatever method i deploy to ensure that they take responsibilities
Ignore naysayers. Your family have no blame in terms of phone, supervision or not noticing the 5mths pregnancy. It's a busy world, she still collects pads and didn't report missing her period added that their wasn't history nor indidcation of promiscuity. Only idle gossips will blame you guys.

As for the matter, you have to embrace love. Whether or not you hook the boy, won't make things any easier for the girl or ur own heartbreak. Time heals everything.

If she's still submissive, don't let her miss any plans for her future except 1 or 2yr break nw 4 financial reasons. Pls, give her @least OND even wtout jamb, evening/wkend prog & She'd start hustlin 4support
HealthRe: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by jmichael259(m): 4:29pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
10yrs relationship is more pathetic than tinubu and buhari combined..

people MUST dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues,

We both AS in genOtype, and I’m HAULUCINATING on FICTIONAL way to make this work, she’s PROBABLY MORE DESPERATE AND LESS WISE THAN I and I’m JUST in my early 30s.


too many child, BLA BLA adoption BLA BLA BLA, THE REAL TRUTH IS I'M INFATUATED with HAVING A CHLD THAT LOOKS exactly like her self

Pls I DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT your take, HOW can I have this girl to myself EVEN IF IT KILLS MY ENTIRE GENERATION or DON'T ME BOTHER WITH the shout of quit
Dear op NATURE CHEATER, There are two options instead quiting ur beloved situationship
1: remove ur womb/testicles, adopt an innocent child you subconciously hate.

2:Become a heartless blood ritualist torturing ur own kids with lifetime of sickle cell and early death or you deliberately kill/terminate them blindly experimenting to get an AA foetus -sometimes never.
FamilyRe: How Do I Forgive Him? by jmichael259(m): 7:18am On Oct 25, 2022
No matter what we tell u, u go still return later if u really wanted.

forgiveness is not by force and not by proxy e.g. Forgiving because of papa dey beg na wash. If e no come from the heart, na time bomb u dey plant. We don't want to read man beats wife to coma or woman bathes man hot water.

so far, the man hasn't done anything to make you forgive him, even the family members didn't disturb you for months despite the pregnancy news and you have not found a place to forgive him so, there's nothing for us to tell you. These things come naturally. Don't let sentiments or loneliness cloud your judgement or make a hurried decision.

Time heals and when it's right, you guys will resolve smoothly or move on with your separate lives. Personal space, safety and mental health first for now.
FamilyRe: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by jmichael259(m): 6:37am On Oct 25, 2022
Fiscus105:
Take to my advice please. U are not supposed to contribute to this issues.

The last time I checked, you said u still buying "bread and akara" for breakfast that normally cost u 2k 500 daily.

I will advise you to work hard so that you too can be able to be "man of the house", by then, you will be able to contribute meaningfully to this kind of discussion.

For now, with no single experience, ur opinion is going out of way.....too senseless.
oga, i dey road dey go work. It's not my fault most nigerians are too dumb to comprehend write ups. I was pointing the price inflation in the country. A satchet of milk is 80-100naira. Two satchets of beverage+bread+akara per person. No matter how u manage, it will still cost u around 500-700 to feed one person breakfast. Multiply that by 11 and three times daily.
OH Yes, i proudly feed myself cos i'm not at home. Next time go man-shame ur papa. Na for nairaland u wan get sense. Pity is your name.
FamilyRe: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by jmichael259(m): 6:07am On Oct 25, 2022
Fiscus105:
Go and married, the issue being discussed is more than what small boy like you can comprehend.
it's obasanjo i blame for giving gsm to underage fools like you. I'm a self employed landlord hustling pre-dawn till morrow. I don't have time for simps like you waiting for your mamathankiu.
FamilyRe: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by jmichael259(m): 4:50pm On Oct 24, 2022
As long as ur wife is comfortable, the sister won't go away.

Don't make the mistake of asking her out by yourself. That's ur wife and inlaws' job. They were rude &heartless already by no informing you or no assistance. Dey wan soil ur name with greviances.

step 1: drop only 3-5k deliberately as feeding money and tell d kid not to disturb you that you gave their mum money FOR THE DAY. After some days of starving, she go begin get the gist. Don't buckle under any query, nagging, pillow talk or otherwise.

step 2: start coming home very late or don't come at all. Anyday u didn't return, no money the next day even if they come shop. Tell them work dey somehow.

step 3: if she buys anything on credit in ur absence, tell her categorically "it's none of your bizness"

step 4: if her sister leaves even just for a few hours, spend double on ur family. Order meals, pizza, sharwama, icecream etc within that period. Lock up like bipolar winch &starve em mecilessly immediately the sister returns. D mesage go clear.

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