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Melagros:
Wow! Noted and thank you very much

*Stay put in this job 2-3yrs and build your profile and assets.
*Don't lose those side hustles BUT never let it distract or lose your job.
*Seek a much bigger pay job only if the side income stops.
*Ask gently for increased salary now and renegotiate again after 8-12months.
*Tell other agencies calling that you are currently engaged.
*Finish your clearance and get more certifications.
*Buy landS (plural) &plan for ur own business in 3-5yrs not to be renting and furnishing bigger apartment.
*Let that phone be the last liability you buy. INFACT FIND A WAY TO TURN IT INTO AN ASSET BY USING IT TO LEARN DIGITAL SKILLS OR OPEN AND BROADCAST A SIDE COMPANY LINKED TO (maybe depot, warehousing, sales and delivery of) YOUR PRODUCE.
*Do not buy any vehicle unless it's for commercial purpose (e.g. delivery and distribution services)
*Your current job is better than any other higher paying desk work (60k-200k) that don't have side income.

HltSong:
Where did I say she is a single mother? I meant she is married with a child ...so the person I quoted has to know she didn't go there to look for husband. Husband no dey there sef.

Ok o bt she didn't go there now. Her family belong and She dey there since with one leg. Na her career block her fulltime involvment until now.

Solocoin:
From your comments really shown you don't have common sense at all. What is the meaning of apostasy?? �� And where does it apply?

Apostasy: Renunciation, criticism of or opposition to a religion.
Verbal or physical attack of a group (maybe one previously associated with).
Spreading lies, ridicule and hate speech or inciting apathy or violence against a religious sect.

You, SOLOCOIN, are an apostate.

breakthrough22:
Power outage and the phone was ringing ?

It is ok. THANKS for the advice

Yes, someone can drop their phone somewhere to charge. I don't touch women but If na my sister, i fit tear am blinding slap if to say she try apologise to you then as you were abusing and humiliating her.

You are the one that is unrepentant. You are busy here looking for replies that'll sooth you.
Also, you are a spineless phul casting ur inadequacies and insecurities on her to make yourself feel good and macho. That is bullying and domestic abuse(emotional).

If i were your wife i'd leave.

If i were you, i'd give 4market days to allow tension subside and then ask the father what can be done by you to remedy the situation. After at least 7 attempts (through you, your family, una pastor, your village people, her village people, titled chiefs, colleagues etc) If they continously insist that she's not coming back, move on. Start finding love by february 14 marry & have kids.

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

Yes, do well to introduce or even force him to a bank. There are numerous saving plans.
For example, they have Target account, Fixed Deposit account etc.
As long as it's not YOUR ACCOUNT!

The MOD that pushed this post wan use am catch cruise.
Awon bullet catcher acountant!
Account ko, accountability ni..

The MOD that pushed this post didn't read the name. (S)He has woefully failed nairaland exam of publishing only drug cases involving igbo names for tribalistic bigots to self-service on.

Fabulozz:
My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

The most unfortunate thing is that Seun is very much active on this nairaland while it goes down like erectile dysfunction.
All these facebook pages will not approve this nonsense post not to talk of making front page. Imagine the amount of brain cells one would lose if they try to comprehend this write up.

Aemmyjah:
When I felt Jehovah's Witnesses have the truth. People said al things about them
One thing that was surprising was that if I see a male and female preaching,they will go and have sex in an hotel and Witnesses commit abortions a lot
I wondered how that was possible. I did not see anything or anyone that is evidence of such claims

Now that I am a Witness, they say I am a rapist and fornicator

Chai.. Naija wey dey sex hungry. If witness was such an orgy, d whole country for dey inside.

Astar007:
Na lie guy, Dem dey Waka in two's ur story nor complete, mumu

smart177:
You are scaring me man... i trust them alot.!

Solocoin:
Yes 100% sure. I'm not trying to condemn Jehovah witness but this is very simple and common among them. They also do this with their members too when they pair them.
If you're a member don't feel bad but this is just reality and simple truth. Let God judge if I lie against them.

You saying let God judge you if you lie while boldly spreading lies against them.
If you are saying that you have seen children or adults who deviated or got misled from their teachings and way of life, then this is possible.
But coming to accuse them of SIMPLY and COMMONLY engaging in immoral affairs when "paired" for their evangelising work is outright blaspemy. Heresy of the most evil order.
Solocoin Find more original ways to spread your apostacy.

LordReed:
Yeah saying my wisdom is from a sewer is very respectful indeed.

Who did I disturb? I didn't ask anybody about their god, the person I responded to was the one who brought god into the picture. Same with you, you are the one disturbing me with your god parables that I didn't ask for. So don't bring your parables to me so that you don't get agitated by my responses, simple.

You are the one who got agitated. The person didn't force God on you. Just made an innocent remark but you couldn't stand the mention of God in their statement. And you don't expect God believers to return your snide remarks and subtle bullying.
God Bless you and Have a nice day.

Danisaint112:
She would have to stay away from bleeping from now on. Until she finds a man that will marry her.

Already has a spouse. She got married some years back.

LordReed:
Where did I say it needs to be a personal experience?

Bothered? Did I come to you with anything or are you not the one who came to me?

I have been respectfully avoiding explaining parables to you. Is that what you call denigrating?
Allow those that see or feel God to believe.
I came and dragged you to this post to disturb people about their belief in God?

I thought you were going to talk about Prof Imuolumen. At least that one may be manageable.

Which state does Sowore hail from?
Who is his vice presidential candidate?
Where has he been holding rallies, townhall meetings or interviews?
On what party's platform is he running?
Who will take a random online troll throwing childish insults around seriously for the job of a country's presidency?
ARE WE GOING TO MARRY WOMAN AND IMPREGNATE FOR SOWORE?!

LordReed:
I dunno why it bothers you so much.

Ah, that good old emotional blackmail. Running out of non toxic ideas to win the argument?

And no, you personally have not witnessed a lion kill someone so those stories must all be lies.

Those who have ears and eyes enjoy God's wondrous works and hear his words and see it's fulfilments. I dunno why it bothers you so much. Or what was it that pushes you into threads like this to start disturbing their belief in God?

quentin06:
Single mother and a happily married woman are not the same thing. I have no problem with the JW crew.

HltSong:
Person wey marry quora abi reddit boss with pikin. Na now you dey wake up from coma?

I don't see how someone who married years ago is a single mother. She has a spouse. And this has nothng to do with JW crew. I was only correcting you.

While Myriads enjoy the beautiful colours, a few call bullshit due to their blindness.
One's affliction is nobody's fault.

Once again Let they that have ears hear and let they that have eyes see. Afterall, How can one explain the colour yellow or blue or indigo to a person born blind? Does the colour exist or not?

LordReed:
But other lines of code think they can tell other lines of code bullshit stories about what they have no experience of. Yeah, I'll take my chances.

Radio announcement: "A hungry lion from ibadan zoo has escaped. It doesn't roar so stay away while authorities locate and recapture it"

According to you: Don't tell me about something you don't know it's whereabouts at the moment. You don't even have experience what it sounds like.

Your verdict: "You'll take your chances"

Your wisdom is definitely from above something. Might be the sewer but something.

quentin06:
The bible calls God YHWH not Jehovah, make your argument with the genuine bible.

Who could have known. So, the bible in your house has genuine and fake.
The bible didn't write YHWH as God's name. In the scrolls maybe but not bible. Afterall, None of the bible writers had a bible.
Meanwhile, how do you, Mr genuine, translate YHWH into english? How is God's name spelt and pronounced in Russian, German, Arabic and the thousands of languages around the world? Do you currently read and write the english language, your own native tongue and the bible itself in their ancient forms OR Do you only bring this argument when you run out of arsenals?

LordReed:
What is special about the Bible?

No god has been shown to exist neither has any god showed itself so all these stories are just that, stories.

A designer (UI/UX, AI for example) doesn't need to prove himself to line of codes that he truly exists in a different form (human) outside the cloud and C.P.U world in which they exist and can only comprehend. Yet a tenie tiny puny human on an insignificant spec of dust (earth) in such an ever expanding universe thinks God has to audition for him to believe they're real. (even Zlatan don't do auditions) Most unfortunately, thinks his opinion which can't determine his next breath, has anything to do with the reality of God or otherwise.
Let they that have ears hear and let they that have eyes see. Afterall, How can one explain the colour yellow or blue or indigo to a person born blind? Does the colour exist or not? Anyway sha, the blind dey blind and agenda must agend..

quentin06:
Jehovah wickedness? Just because she couldn't find a husband, she should relocate to Nigeria.

She's married with a kid. Her family na witness and she's been attending Witness assembly all her life. Just that Her career start from childhood and no let her practice the faith as she wanted.

What of Buhari, Atiku, Kwankwaso?

Jokes apart, I do support working with the other learned/experienced candidates and past office holders as envoys to UN, AU, ECOWAS, CHINA, RUSSIA, UAE &co to build strong allies and trade ties. This will also develop a sense of unitary government in our society.
Our embassies may become more secured and the partner countries take us more seriously when they're dealing with former governors, senators, SSS or Military chiefs, V.P or even President working together irrespective of party for our nation.
Also having those stalwarts gainfully engaged outside our shores can help reduce the sabotaging of the current administration.

Starzo:
If you must be a polygamist, marry atleast three
Two na serious problem

A Comrade with sense.

Bia, OP come and verify this your quack news.

pamijlove:
Please get your fact right , this is not a polygamous marriage but rather A case of two different brother's and their wives. The Elder brother's wife burnt her junior brother's wife. They use to live at the same flat together. The wanted woman's name is Ezinne Nwokoro from lokpa ukwu in Abia state.

ORIAYO70:
It was never a case of polygamy, the first wife has gone n has been officially divorced, the man married another woman legally, but the divorced wife came back home n burn the legal wife to death, it's unfortunate... It was never a case of Co-wife surprised at the headline

I knew the headline was fishy and incomplete but nwekeugochukwu which version of the story is true now?

Some Unspoken rules of polygamy.

*Instead of 2, marry 3. Never marry evenly (e.g marry1 or marry7). The odd number keeps them at each other toes unable to gang successfully against you or each other.

*Never under one roof. Our forefathers had separate huts and separate farm portions for each wife with some distance between. Polygamy is not best praticable inside a flat or duplex. No amount of wokeness or modernization can change this.

*Remain Impartial. Do not ignore or maltreat one in favour of any particular other even if in case of childlessness, lack of male child, aging etc

*The more, the calmer. 1 is trouble, 2 may kii you, 3 is not enough crowd. While 3wives may stil cause a house of commotion, adding more is likely way out.

CoWives are prone to attack their rival or the new perceived threat to their husband's affection but if the status is unpredictable & dey don't know when new wives are coming in or getting booted out, they will be resigned to minding their own kids/kitchen or even cooperate.

Elidrisy20:
Her age mate are studying hard and preparing for jamb,she is in the hotel room with naval officer, parents train your children oooo,and pray for dem.monitor dem very well. RIP shaaa

E Be things.

uptownemmygee:
The manchy Don give the smallie excess drugs
Military people wey like to stone wella

Stil possible. The smallies nwadays dey try to impress dia ancestors. E go like to do pass demself. Dem no wan know say life no get duplicate.

SILVERLINES:


This must have been a consensual sex agree but behold shit happened.
Sometimes to invite a girl home tire person cos u may not know when shit will happen

A friend of mine narrated his experience with asthmatic patient

A Friend onced told me his experience yrs ago Before college. Shima just pass out inside guest house wtout any sign. Ma guy dey shake am dey shout for over 30mins she jst respond normal like say she no feel wetin happen

Towma:
You should be very careful before speaking bad things about dead people.

You don't know how that girl got into the hotel, you don't know if she was coaxed or threatened even kidnapped but here you are implying that she went there for immoral reasons without any proof from your part.

Next time have enough evidence before typing foolishly.

Here u are defending a gender instead of facing the issue.
Your likes hav bn attacking the guy for being in d hotel wt d gal. Now u want to excuse d gal for going to d hotel even though the post says the hotel traced 2 guests that came in. You females just can't take half of what you dish out.

ItsTutsi:
It's like almost all the Ibos in Nigeria are criminals! Once any nyamiri flat.head Osu steps out he/she gets arrested where the system is working!

Born in Ibadan to parents from Edo. Wetin concern Igbo with Raymond Anthony Aleogho Dokpesi?

Roboto11:
Not a 3rd world country.

Brazil is a 3rd world country.

15yr old girl,
no penetration,

Dead on arrival. Nothing come out for the case.
The only closure u can get is maybe a chance to chastise the girl.

The victim (ur 4yr old) will outgrow and forget most parts of the encounter.
*Find positive and inspiring activities to distract her mind.
*She doesn't need reminder (face or voice of that family member) anytime soon in her life.

They should find help and treatment for the 15yr old girl before her whoring days begin. She is the first victim. Someone already molested her, setting her upon your kid and other (present and future) victims.

Use this righteous anger to trace and aprehend the source of her abuse and maybe unleash your mayhem on them.

Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced

Na Like kee dia papa! For which side you hear say sex dey hard?

You no wan see all doz small u21 gals wey u go spend half of dat money take baff up make dia beauty blossom in ya orchad? Make dem give you unlimited and tight kongo to shine and dia family sef fit build altar to worship you?

Whenever u see a vacancy, first ponder on what could have removed the previous occupant. Make u no go apply as dinosaur feeder for Jurassic Park.

No woman (or even man) on earth will ask u all this nonsense to prove ursef as man. Even asking u to make her better than ur mum.

UNDILUTED TONDA FAYA YOU AND THAT VAMPIRE! Nonsense and online stories..

ebukajay184:
A police officer has killed his 5-year-old niece on New Year's eve, December 31 in Owerri,

OP, I'm not saying anything o but

How many male kids does this abroad woman and her late husband have?

Is the policeman their late dad's brother?

Do they have family property here?

Anyway, physics students should come and calculate the distance and velocity of bullet into the air with a 5yr old's stomach.

Zerofarm:
Are you sure there’s somewhere I can sell plantain or pineapple in a large scale ?

Every village, town or state capital has a food stuff market, early morning market, a weekly market or relief market. That is where your goods will be rushed. With time and little advert, the traders will start coming to your farm directly. Plantain sales is most assured even on daily basis with so less travel needed.

I don't know if pineapple will coexist in commercial quantity on the same land so that you try both since your mind is doing you one kind.

They have already explained to you, no uniform harvest. Meaning all of them cannot not be mature at the same time. For example, maybe you sell 100today, next week 65, the upper week 170. It's natural way of plantain. It's a steady income stream and you can go do other business or plant other crops for more income. Once started, It doesn't need your daily feeding or insecticide bla bla bla to survive.

owobokiri:
Very greedy northerners!
Together with their agbadorian power hungry cousins.
A country of over 300 ethnic groups and just two groups want to be alternating the presidency between themselves while hoping the rest of us will be clapping for them!
Let's see how that works.?

They want us to believe nigeria consists of only fulani-ogun. What about other indigenous northern tribes? What about the southsouth or the other parts of yorubaland? Are the middlebelt and south east not nigerians too?

sotall:
Mumu people!

If it will be unjust for Northerner to succeed Buhari, is it just that a muslim should succeed him?



Is Nigeria presidential seat only for islam?

If you find nothing wrong in Tinubu succeeding Buhari because they are of same religion then dont find anything wrong in Atiku succeeding Buhari because they are both Fulani.

Either Atiku or Tinubu will be the beginning of the end. fulani-fulani and muslim-muslim handover at this most trying time in our history is almost like declaring civil war.

The fact that both parties refused to produce amaechi, osibanjo, umahi, wike or any other in that order shows they have ulterior motives regards disintegration of nigeria.