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Politics › Why Is Atiku Not A Former Governor? by jmichael259(op): 11:27pm On Nov 20, 2022

2023 election seems to be a game of governors and senators as presidential and vice presidential candidates. From governors Ifeanyi Okowa, Peter Obi to Senator Datti-Ahmed while the likes of Tinubu and Shettima held both governorship and senatorial position. Even Rabiu Kwankwaso, the ANPP presidential candidate is not left out.

However, Atiku Abubakar, the former two term vice president of Nigeria, is taking a 6th shot at the presidency. Having previously lost at the primaries to Moshood Abiola 1993(sdp), Goodluck Jonathan 2011(pdp) and Muhammadu Buhari 2015(apc). He also came 3rd(ac) in 2007 and 2nd(pdp) in 2019 general elections.

While we may easily know that he has 28 children from about 5 or 6 wives, it seems that nobody was aware that H.E. Atiku Abubakar was in 1998, elected as the governor of Adamawa state before being picked as the vice presidential candidate in 1999 elections.

Shocker?! More shocking and begging for mature, legal and insightful answer is, WHY IS HE NOT KNOWN AS A FORMER GOVERNOR huh

Education › Re: Several Nigerians Graduate From University Of The West Of Scotland by jmichael259(m): 5:40pm On Nov 19, 2022

lordparcel:
They have been listening to Andrew Tate

And what did he say?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 10:28am On Nov 19, 2022

Lexusgs430:
He clearly denied her access, hence her plan...... He is now busy crying wolf.........

.............

Well, she wasn't denied access no matter how you force that scenario in your head.
She was fighting everyday in the compound, started threatening to abandon the kids instead of finding job or business then, she went away with only the girl before she also decided to dump her too. Thinking the guy will suffer for it but nobody send her papa throughout all her childish actions and outbursts. So she vamoos to lagos and suddenly return in 3mths. Nobody stopped her taking the kids to her village for the weekend even though the guy wasn't home from work. Infact, the guy freely directed her on the phone. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE ANY CUSTODY ISSUE? WHAT IS A JOBLESS LADY DOING IN LAGOS IN JUST 3MONTHS WITHOUT ANY RELATIVES OR KNOWN ADDRESS THAT SHE HAS TO KIDNAP A 3YR GIRL? TRAFFICKING? PROSTITUTION? RITUAL?

Properties › Re: Your Annual Rent Shouldn't Exceed Your Two Months Salary. If It Does by jmichael259(m): 10:04am On Nov 19, 2022

dyera:
Abroad, monthly rent can be up to 50% monthly salary. In developed countries like Singapore for example.

Check their suicide rates among men. It's called modern slavery for a reason.

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Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 9:36am On Nov 19, 2022

Lexusgs430:
..Always woman shaming and blaming the feminine gender..

No matter how bad a pancake tastes, it would still have 2 sides .........

Exactly, so, where is the 2nd side of the responsibility pancake? He has shelter and little income to start with, where is ur bitch friend's contribution?
My grandma acquired lands, supported the training of cousins and nephews even though grandpa had a high paying job in those days. My ma acquired lands, NCE, Bachelor's and master's degree even though my pa was also a govt officer. Where's ur bitch friend's contribution?
Kiss ur ass with the emotional blackmail & feminine gender bullshit. You see men nowadays have decided to be bitter feminist too & allow y'all reap whatever as e dey hot.
It's all woman blaming to confront a lady's uselessness with the truth and i gladly do it a million times a day even if it kills y'all.
WAS THERE ANY DENIAL OF CUSTODY ISSUE? WERE THE KIDS TAKEN FROM HER? HOW ABOUT THE CHILD'S SAFETY NOW?

Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by jmichael259(m): 9:04am On Nov 19, 2022

Berankis:
I feel like your "strong 2:1" and your "first class jobless friends" are part of the reasons you haven't gone ahead with your life. The day you decipher life and ready to battle, is the day you to start to overcome.

expantiate biko on this deciphering life aspect cos i've run out of ideas to give younger ones hope. Even we wey be hunkles now need advice, for this regime no income is enough. Egg 100, action bitter satchet 150, dollar 800, bike 400k, motor 4milla, land nko?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 8:34am On Nov 19, 2022

Lexusgs430:
When you deprive a mother, the love and presence of her children......,...

You just turned a loving mother, into a beast .......

When and how was she ever a mother nevermind loving? By opening her legs without any efforts to fend for the kids? Or is it by abandoning them thinking she will punish the guy into begging her sorryass to come back but he managed the weight?

At what point was she deprived the presence of those children? Did anybody chase her away or snatch the kids from her? Did anyboby force her not to come back to the family? Does anybody stop her when she comes back to see them? Do you not see an ulterior motive in her having to lie to her own mum to abduct the child this time around? Where is she keeping the little girl without any relatives or confirmed job in lagos? How safe is the child among her roommates, boss, clients, neighbors?

You see how mad and twisted your thinking has to be trying to defend a useless woman?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 5:32am On Nov 19, 2022

Lexusgs430:
What just pinched you ........

Of what use is bringing children to the world, that one cannot financially cater for ........ They never asked to be born .........

Always look for your size, when you want to have children.........

You can help find the lady and ask her to look for her nagging, zero income size next time.
Was he unable to provide for them in the story or did he, his family & the girl's family beg u for help catering for the kids?
Why is ur bloodthirsty mind not concerned about the only issue at hand which is the safety of the abducted child? What is the lady's psychological condition? Is she mentally and financially balanced in a strange land she arrived just 3months? Why did she have to lie and sneak away with the baby this time around? Is she doing this for a good reason or is something/somebody coercing her? Haven't we heard of people hurting or trafficking their own kids for financial reasons or just to get back at their ex?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 9:18pm On Nov 18, 2022

Lexusgs430:
Why would someone earning ₦55K, have sex without condoms..........

Comfortably skips women responsibility and your bitter soul doesn't care about the life of a little baby in this christmas and election period.
So it is the person with zero income that has right to sex without condom and kidnap a 3yr old girl into unknown circurmstances?
Why wasn't she bringing her own 55k to add? At least they're both "landlords" with caring grandmothers and other family members available, rent and some part of food is covered.
Bitterness against men won't do you any good in life.

Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by jmichael259(m): 8:56pm On Nov 18, 2022

Greattestman:
There's nothing i dont do. I give her 50% of my salary every month.

are you staying in family house or rented apartment? If ur popsy is not in the picture then she wants freedom to run some things.

If it's family house, tell her to find her own apartment if e dey pain am.
She's trying to push you out the nest but that is more harm in this generation of APC and cost of dollar and food with just 20k income.

Anyways, make u find more hustle to add that job or leave the job start bizness even if na hawking or okada level. I don't judge, I just really hate hearing somebody mentioning nonsense like 20k salary in this country.

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Family › Re: My Uncle Doesn't Want Me In His House by jmichael259(m): 5:48pm On Nov 18, 2022

Messi1:
I've always visited this my uncle ALMOST EVERYDAY to stay with my cousins. That is where I pass time..

Today I was in his house, he STORMED OUT FROM HIS ROOM and ask if i don't help my mother at home. He YELLED AT ME.. He said.. ..IF AT ALL I MUST COME.

I'm considering severing all ties to this my uncle, will that be right?

No, u will still respect and greet him as ur uncle but must now act according to his wishes by reacting symbolically as an african when person wronged you.
How do i mean?
Do not near that place till middle of January at least.
If any thing takes you to his house, set 15/20mins alarm on ur phone OR JUST DO STANDING GREETING, excuse urself and leave immediately.
Reject food in his house even if you came to introduce ur spouse to him or family meeting.
He'll either apologise or snub you. Bt u go keep ur little remaining dignity.

You weren't entirely wrong but his action was despicable. Somebody's uncle as in, substitute parent?! Tueh!

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Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:58am On Nov 18, 2022

Lexusgs430:
I only read the initial tale, that OP posted .....

He could have sent subsequent updates, that I am not aware of. ..........

What point(s) are you trying raise ....... You know this dyslexic person, is also an illiterate............

Both rushed into the marriage (pressure from girl's mother due to pregnancy)

Op's salary of 55k is meagre and he didn't secure extra income source.

Pregnancy decided to be triplets (wahala pro max for them)

Young lady decided to contribute only nagging and fighting to the extent his uncle and family members wanted to oust them from the compound as they're tired of noise and separating fight.

Instead of finding job or business, she was threatening to abandon the children.

She left wt d gal, bt threatening to dump her with him as he wasn't giving her as much as she wanted.

He didn't succumb so she dumped her.

She went to lagos 3mths, no known job or residence and just came 2 kidnap d gal for only God knows why.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 8:11pm On Nov 17, 2022

Lexusgs430:
Who dey teach you all this nonsense.........

It's common sense and logical thinking....... Their children, their responsibility.........

He got no right to just yank all the children away, not unless she is happy to have it that way .........

You can clearly see how the yanking away, got her perfectly executing her plans. ..........

are you dyslexic or something? Who is yanking who in this story? I even told u to go and read through and get the entire story.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:30pm On Nov 17, 2022

litaninja:
What are you even saying?

a yam wondering

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:18pm On Nov 17, 2022

Lexusgs430:
He got no legal rights to deprive the mother, her motherly rights and obligations, towards their children.........

who dey teach una all these nonsense? First, he has all legal rights to scrutinize her income, shelter and child safety situation and deny her access to the kids if found wanting or there's a threat. Secondly, there is nothing like mother rights. Thirdly, you need to follow and read all of OP's story completely.

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Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:09pm On Nov 17, 2022

chimeremodlyn:
Get her mother arrested for what? What kind of advice is this? Better fear God. No be everything be violence

child Abduction,
child trafficking,
kidnapping,
attempted kidnapping
conspiracy to kidnap.. A good law firm can get up to 12 charges on her head when caught. I may update later if i'm chanced. If u think a woman can't kidnap her own child, can a man rape his own wife? Ask a competent court

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 7:01pm On Nov 17, 2022

chimeremodlyn:
prostitution. Pls, the kid is only 3yrs. The mum cant use her for that

You sound extremely naive to happenings in today's world. Ignorance is bliss.
Child trafficking, prostitution & child porn is currently a global booming menace.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 6:49pm On Nov 17, 2022

cedricksly:
There are things that are basically best if a mother teach her girl Child, eg sex education, (afterall na only women dey be biology teacher and gyneacologist?) Yes, the man can do it and guide her to responsible mothers around. I am deliberately downplaying the importance of their grand mother in their life, I too was raised by my grand mother and she did a good job, but raising a girl Child is so delicate and require a lot of time and attention and motherly bond and trust. Believe it or not is better raised with the mother if alive than a grand mother or their father.. I'm not talking because I want to talk, I'm also talking what i don't know

ur grandma cant raise d gal child because she herself was never a mother and a woman who abandoned her kids and yet to secure a safe accomodation should have right to d child dan d invested father?!

Truly, Na ur papa be d single guy wey thundr go faya.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 4:10pm On Nov 17, 2022

UjuJoan2:
Who have you custody of those kids in the first place. Sentiments aside, how come you ended up sold custodian of such young children?

If I were your ex I’ll do this the right way, through the courts.

Because the OP na simp! Woman wey formerly starved the man's mother, abandoned the kids by herself and just enter lagos less than 5mths dey get access to my kids say she dey mad ni? She wan go wear tally for cold room?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:57pm On Nov 17, 2022

Jennifer89:
I wonder how a mother will be able to sleep at night without her children

Women whose kids are dead, boarding or abroad should kill themselves? Then, She shouldn't have abandoned them!

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:52pm On Nov 17, 2022

cedricksly:
the topic is misleading.... Oga leave the girl Child for her to nurture.... You have no business taking care of a girl Child when the mother is obviously alive, you didn't state in your long Sermon she(your ex) was irresponsible etc.. So you go to work and leave your girl Child at home with nobody and you are here saying you need your girl Child blah blah blah.. Ogs face front, you aren't the only one who has those children.

tonda faya.. Won't Kids go to school? Do you yourself or the so called lady in this story spend the entire day with kids?

If dropping kids with your own mum means nobody, suffice to know that other people's mothers aren't nobodys. So face front when you don't know what to say.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:44pm On Nov 17, 2022

Prospertochu:
Thank you ma I am trying to stay calm but I am concern about my daughter safety , her mother had been to Lagos for 3 months I don't think she even has her own apartment or a job that she will be able to provide for the girl. Also I don't know who she is living with and the risk of her being sexually abused is high. I just hope she is safe and nothing will happen to her

Ogbeni, ur pikin head go don dey boil for pot O! If u like no go imo state now borrow Ebubeagu from gov hope make dem go disappear half of her family for village. Na dem go summon her by themselves with ogun, amadioha and otherwise. Make you dey there dey shout god forbid. Na christmas + election period be this including yahoo plus gang. Before you know sef, ur pikin video fit don enter child porn site.

Woman wey never stay 5months for lagos come carry ur pikin dey go where dem no know na him u still dey here dey listen to all these woke f.o.ols and their spirit of confused bitterness?

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:30pm On Nov 17, 2022

Princessdainty:
Person carry triplets for 9months with all the complications of multiple birthing and you say she kidnapped her child?.
Don't you have family members?
(so we should just wait for her to appear on blog after having sold the kid to some italian or romanian child porn gang?)

(is there any part of the constitution that makes pregnancy and child bearing an exemption or immunity from kidnapping charge? Did any court grant her custody of the kid?
Do you strap these kids to your back to go to work?
(does she currently do so?)
Are a full time dad.. (bt hypocrite no ask if she is a full time mom) ..entitlement of "my kids". (He doesn't need an entitlement as they're already his kids)

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:12pm On Nov 17, 2022

Dshocker:
By right, all the children are supposed to be with their mother.

You are making it sound like you own 100% right on the children alone.

make th.ndr from abortion clinic no go strike you oh! You sure say u follow the story at all.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 3:08pm On Nov 17, 2022

Invest4growth:
My girls my boys Entitlement mentality. Who told you that you singly own the children. Men should stop this irresponsible and irrational thinking. The woman could have looked for a sperm donor instead of you. So you are just fortunate to be the father of the triplet and you have the wherewithal to take care of them. Will you kindly and gladly sit with your ex and agree on co-parenting. So you expect her to come into the marriage empty and also exit empty. Feat God I beg. My girls My boys indeed!

Kids she abandoned by herself and he still didn't refuse her access to them when she called?! A man could have also sought an egg donor/surrogate but they both didn't so boo you.

At what part of his story did he deny co-parenting? Is there any point in your bitter lamentation that makes the kids not to be his own? They are still his boys and his girl, oya go and jump lagoon.

Family › Re: My Ex Wife Kidnapped My Daughter by jmichael259(m): 2:55pm On Nov 17, 2022

mardis:
Leave the girl child with her now. You have the two boys already in your custody allow her take care of the girl. It seems she is capable of doing that. Before you'll go and marry another woman that'll come and turn her to housegirl. And besides she will be more safer under the watchful eyes of her mother. Aren't you afraid of all this child molestors and abusers?

Stop with the emotional blackmail against men. From the story, She abandoned the kids, just relocated to lagos, does not have a stable or verifiable means of contact or livelihood and you don't care about a 3yr old safety in these conditions. Do you know little things like snatching a baby away from it's siblings, seriously scars them for life?

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Car Talk › Re: Buying My First Car, Please Share Your Experience by jmichael259(m): 8:11pm On Nov 15, 2022

abrahambest:
Thank you. I appreciate this insight

How about a brand new car? Innoson or any other nigerian dealer should have cars close to your budget and have financing options just incase.

Family › Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by jmichael259(m): 11:54pm On Nov 14, 2022

Adun27:
Kindly tell me how

Leave that poor boy alone. He no do anything. Na you just wan use am as excuse to chase ur wife and find person wey go cure ur conji.

If you wanted ur wife not to have to receive call from colleagues, u should have sourced some millions and set her up wholesale female business. But insecure person like you go still fight the truck driver wey call to deliver her goods.

As for me, If e reach the level of keeping me sleepless at night, denying me food or sex in my house for months, you are on your way out immediately. Especially food, sex i just get concubine and make sure she born plenty. I no get time to reason woman matter once e reach like that.

Family › Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by jmichael259(m): 7:08pm On Nov 14, 2022

Nelbless:
24

24 is not ur kid sister but an independent being. A full grown woman (overgrown infact). For God's sake, Her mates have 5 kids, Ph.D, or are celebrities/masters of industries as the case may be!!

Why did i not read anything about you people previously helping her get a job, open business or to acquire a skill? Abi na Shrek or Entangled una dey act, locking her from the world away in a castle.

But perchance y'all did anything right and she chooses to live her life, it's none of your business. You should relieve yourself of all responsibility for her well being.

I won't say much but if you haven't known her status and location in 2-3days, report her missing to the police and follow all leads including and starting from that her friend.

If you find her safe and sound then hands off her matter. Finally na Her life. Worst case scenario, You can only get to disown her and move on.

Crime › Re: Zanele Sifuba’s Sex Video: Nigerian Embassy Reacts As SA Blasts Nigerians by jmichael259(m): 6:31pm On Nov 14, 2022

WannaHowzit:
White owners? When I posted pics of people building black government infrastructure??

Please sit down, you know nothing about South Africa except what you heard other STUPID people say.

Sit down!

S.A is still proudly white owned. government et al.

Crime › Re: Zanele Sifuba’s Sex Video: Nigerian Embassy Reacts As SA Blasts Nigerians by jmichael259(m): 5:50pm On Nov 12, 2022

WannaHowzit:
I see you're struggling.

Here are pics of "lazy SA black men" earning an honest living and developing their country by building t
roads, power stations, stadiums and mining the world's deepest mines. Not japaring all over the place and being pests.

How many black SA men have you seen scavenging and being parasites in Nigeria, and then insulting their hosts?

Ur pics confirms what is known about south africa. Black labourers, white owners. What else are you debating?

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