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Wedding has already been planned and many of them might have already been on the way or arrived the wedding location as at the time the crash happened.

They would likely be making condolence visits on their way back.

Most importantly, No be them kill am.

On the other side, it shouldn't surprise you if half of them weren't even aware of the incident or burial plans considering the amount of undeveloped illiterates we have running things in this area.

Esseite:
You just mention 10ways to kill an entreprenuer..

You are advising someone to move from structured business to story business..

His options are not limited to whatever it is you perceived from my comment.
He's no longer in business according to the post. He's also facing quit notice both at home and shop which he seems hopeless in finding a remedy. He needs advy on a way to find daily bread and then later he can figure out how to settle his debts.

NazareneMonk:
lalasticlala, seun, mynd44, Dominique please I will appreciate if you can push this to front page so we can get advice from lawyers in the house.


The incident happened in Edo state, I have some images of the tax Slip and the shop. To make matters worse his house and shop are kinda together which makes him somehow homeless.

Seems he needs urgent quick fix to avoid snyper temptation. Transportation business is a fast way to crawl out and he can make time to learn or rebuild and grow whatever other enterprise he chooses in future. If he can drive/ride taxi, shuttle bus, e-hailing can, Okada or drive for bread, table water companies on commission basis.
OR IS HE STILL DOING GRADUATE GRA GRA at this point of death?

Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks

Just imagine! And you are still wondering what to do?!

Abeg bring that transport money to me. You'll get it back with huge interest before December. You can get a lawyer let's do the deal.

AdeOri99:
This man ehn.
I kindly need a loan of 60k, to pay back in 6 month time, location is oyo, will use my laptop as collateral

In other words u r selling it for 60k. U suppose add the photo and talk your last price maybe person get interest.

isan:
Can u buy a car with 500k?

Yes, a small Volkswagen or japanese. However, I don't see it as wise for the o.p

fijabs:
Good evening, please i want you guys to suggest a business I can start with five hundred thousand naira, presently I do e hailing business with my car but the income is no more enough after getting married, my wife is still in school and my baby has started creche, besides I thought about my old age, I can't continue driving for a living, please help your brother.

Ojey1234 said most of it. But my observation is that barbing and betshop will not work for you. Most importantly, you need your wife's participating as the operator or caretaker of whatever hustle you choose to start because of your transport business. OVERALL, you will need to think outside of the city you live in.

You can fix your money on landed property.
Or take any advice of
Restaurant, drink supply, Phone gadgets, vehicle maintenance accessories, animal feeds, Poultry, fishery, sales and supply of nylon/polythene etc.

Don't buy another (vehicle) liability with the hope of getting a trustworthy operator. Don't go into forex or crypto if you didn't already know about it. Lemme stop here for now.

Ladyoflight:
If you can buy okada.

For what?��‍♂️ He's already has a car.

MikeMicheal:
Imagine such population created by just a person.

This is to tell you the manner in which human population is on a high increase.

If this continues, a time will come when there wont be space to even farm.


We need to start looking into population control.

The entire world population currently can fit into half of Nigeria. Na low wages and lack of self empowerment dey make person complain about large family. Our great-grandfathers had multiple wives with many children tended to by their flocks and land produce.

Mainlymanof:
Please come to my rescue, I am dying with depression. How can I be happy ? I'm not enjoying my sexual life. People say it is an advantage that I have delayed ejaculation condition. That so many older ladies love long lasting men on bed. Yes it's true but at my age I am not up to the level to mate with older ladies that do really love delayed ajaculation. At my age some of my age mate opposite sex can't be able to take pe.n.is not to talk more of long lasting sex . No matter the time we trust I will not cum, until I will get tired. And can't even thrust again. How can I father a child when I can't pur sperm inside my wife. How will she be able to get pregnant na. It is so painful . Help me out please. I need your advice now pls

Updated

Learn how to make love not how to thrust waist. (I said f.o.r.e.p.l.a.y) not pre-intimacy and romance till you are over the edge then little thrusting to deposit the sperm into the right channel. Both parties will enjoy and not thinking other things or failing to satisfy each other.

Sheffdon:
Now, to be honest, I just clocked 26. I was done with my sec. education way back in 2012. Due to one problem to the other, i couldn't further. I had to involve myself in some menial jobs to sustain myself for the meantime and along the way, i learned phone and computer engineering and i do brush through some very important books occasionally.

This is where I need your wise opinion guys. Dad got into a problem when i was about to finish sec. School and since then,hes been repaying debt till now. Infact, debt has consumed all his salary. He's just borrowing from peter to pay Paul to survive.


And he's still of the opinion that i go to school. I got admission to study pharmacy at OOU in 2018, paid the acceptance fee but couldn't pay school fees and i lost it for good. So he wants me to try again but where will he even see the money when school wahala comes again? He's gonna go the borrowing way again i guess; compounding the problem we have at hand


So I've been thinking....what if i go back to factory work, then get myself a computer and learn programming "frontend development for a start"? I want to dedicate atleast 1 to 2 years to learn it. Then after that, i would proceed to school either on part time or full because i still want to further my education to get the b.sc cert. at the minimum.

Honourable men and women, CONSIDERING THE NIGERIA OF TODAY, i need your wise words at this critical junction of my life.



If I'm done with the programming, can it atleast sustain me a little bit?

Should I faithfully follow my dad's intention or just go through my own plan?


Thanks

Take your Dad's advice. Go back to school in 2025 when you must have gotten your own systems, learnt the programming you want, established yourself as a well earning I.T. guru. You must have also acquired at least one asset (even if na half plot) and most likely married and be mobile by then. Then you will enjoy education somewhere in Ghana or Egypt where ASUU does not strike!

Don't mind this current generation of parents will sacrifice their limbs so their kids will be called graduates without even caring how they'll survive through the course or after graduation.

Nonsense, Debts and Desmond Elliott.

FaruqMadridCr7:
thanks, but I don't think I can loan or go to North, I'm just 19

Get a driver's license with 25k.

Bakeries, table water, transport or logistics companies do need drivers based on commission from sales or delivery made. You could make 20-30k weekly(3-5k daily).

GROW YOUR CAPITAL AND BUILD YOUR CAREER FROM THERE. There's nothing 60k can actually do in today's world.

ALTERNATIVELY LEARN A HANDWORK THAT YOU CAN START WITHIN 6WEEKS. Barbing, Bricklayer, Driving etc

Eddodoh:
Can u do this job? Is it advisable to continue wit dis job?

I am stuck & afraid to quit.
I am a graduate but decided to take dis job early last year when nothing was forthcoming.

Work where u earn 12k, n most times u don't get to collect d amount complete. U collect 3k or 5k after deduction of shorts & I.O.U. cos u don't even get paid at d end of d month.

Salary is usually not paid at d end of month but second month. Maybe mid or towards ending of d other month.
Bills piling up & always broke. 1year + on d job but nothing to show for it.

Work from Monday to Sunday. Resume b4 8am & close by 8:30pm or 9pm.

It's being very challenging & I felt I should share to get some advice.

If I ask you to ride Okada and be earning more than 4k daily, you'll be forming graduate that can't settle for less. See your life now. SALARY MENTALITY IS WHAT'S KILLING AFRICAN YOUTHS. Ogbeni, get out! Go and hustle.

kelophili23:
I'm 33yrs old married with 2 kids I'm a Carpenter and part time okada rider I don't see much carpentry work and I want to learn another handwork work to get me busy often and provide more for my family and plan for the future.

I also have #150k which my mind is telling me to start up a business with, but I don't know the kind of business I can do with that amount, but really I do believe in handwork pls guys I need your advice on the kind of other handwork I can learn or the kind of business I can start up with #150k thanks

I will be in comments section

You have only two options. Things you are well experienced in

a)Carpentery/Building materials

b)Okada parts

Do not gamble into things you don't know.

xcesspaschal:
15 yrs in a university? Ok ohh

Technical college = secondary school belonging to the university

educhigo:
Urgent advise needed I'm deported from abroad with 1 million naira only, what kind of business can i go into? I was into motorcycle parts before i travel out, but seems the government banned okada in some part of the country such as Lagos State where i started life.

I was born in 1982 and I'm still single. My parents are not happy with me, I'm seriously confused.

You only need around 200-400k to reestablish your okada parts business. Okada is still running in every state, they only banned them inside the municipalities but logistics and delivery business are using them. You can open shop in the outskirts where Okada still thrives and sell to them at reduced price. Go back to your known business AND ADD KEKE AND SHUTTLE BUS PARTS as you grow. Don't try to start forcing a new trade on yourself now cos if you misapply the money remaining then you'll realize the humiliation that deported people face if they fail.

But if you are humble enough or can relocate to other parts of the country. With less than 1million you buy a taxi or Suzuki/Daihatsu shuttle bus and Go into transport business. You can make 10-15k daily if you really are out for hustle.

Unless you already had other small skills like opening barbershop, laundry etc. RIGHT NOW DON'T EVER TRY OPENING SOMETHING YOU DIDN'T KNOW BEFORE!!!

Na so boko haram take start. Pretending to be fighting for a republic and the rights of the people then, start terrorists attacks on security facilities and killing other tribes. Now they have shown their real intentions and alignment with international terror groups. Nobody is safe in their place again.
In the name of trying to make igbo land appear unsecure this one has started. This Online radio group shouting zoo and bloodshed up and down and their security network should jejely tell us who is their international terror sponsor and stop claiming to be fighting for Biafra. Ala igbo has finally entered one chance. There was never a true person fighting for our freedom. Ojukwu realized that fast enough.

HIP! HIP! HIP! HURRAY!!!
I love this blockage so innocent people will stop losing their lives when the untrained trailer drivers crash into other vehicles or buildings or their violent clashes with task force or villagers.
Why can't this backwards minded arewa gang canvass for rail and air travel to make it faster and safer to get the products to the market?
If this boycott is heavily enforced, the north will not be the winners. THE SOUTH HAS BEEN TRADING FOOD STUFFS WITH CAMEROON, BENIN etc ACROSS LAND BORDERS AKWA IBOM AND CROSS RIVER EVEN LAGOS, OYO AND OGUN AND ALL THE WAY TO FAR AWAY EQUATORIAL GUINEA THROUGH WATER WAYS OF RIVERS, CROSS RIVER, DELTA AND BAYELSA STATES.

There is no tradition or Religion against this. It's not incest cos they're not related. It's not adultery cos the wife is dead. They're good to go.

But to aproko people, E go come b lyk say dem been dey whisper in the shadows while the wife was alive.

urbobo20:
delta state is the only state that has never been bless with a governor in south south since 1999 to date

Bayelsa nko?

NORSYK:
A well built hospital by Okorocha has also been demolished

Other things you said we're making sense except this. Please show me where the well built hospital by ROCHAS is located. The two disgusting structures along douglas are still incomplete buildings. Only the front walls were plastered so that name could be written on it for commissioning. You can go to the one at new market now to see for yourself. The insides are still empty and it doesn't have doors or windows.

I don't like the supreme court governor but the one Uzodinma demolished was already going to collapse. The right side wall had almost completely detached.

pricklewane:
The same Ihedioha that was chasing after Okorocha woman friend undergarment but buying himself Benz bus to the tune of close to a billion ? The foolishness ingrained in your brain is bound to last beyond eternity.

Under Ihedioha it was just efcc that's sueing ROCHAS which he could have had his way in court to defend himself legally and be acquitted but Uzodinma is personally and brutally collecting the properties and you still have nonsense to deflect on your hatred for Owerri zone governorship.

Oga, the benz bus is it not among official cars ordered by state government and still in use today by Uzodinma administration? It is 200million and not close to any billion. If you have never priced any motor before you should stop talking nonsense. Ordinary hilux is almost 30 million. Prado is around 45m, Sequoia 67. The bullet proof ones are more than 200m & 300m. All those motorcycles, Ambulances, Coaster buses and SUVs that are passing you daily in convoys are not chicken change.

Stop finding a bad name to call a dog because you want to kill it. Anyone attacking Ihedioha has been chopped forever.

Mynd44:
Ihedioha was demolishing thing. I think that was the problem; those thing he demolished could have been sold and they were built with money

Ihedioha demolished what?! Stop smoking sugar. You are just happy that (mbaise)Owerri zone was denied the governorship again. An igbo person screaming marginalisation in Nigeria but marginalising a particular zone in his state.

I was in Owerri the day people attacked akachi statue before police came and the day freedom fountain at warehouse partially collapsed from inside during a heavy rain because of a drainage that passed beneath it to nworie. NONE OF THESE WERE ROCHAS PROPERTY. I also know the day efcc came and marked ROCHAS college orji and this same hotel that uzodinma is attacking now. NONE OF THESE THINGS I MENTIONED HAS BEEN DEMOLISHED TILL DATE.

SlayerForever:
Very nice one. Having lived in the middlebelt I can tell you that if APGA strategises properly they can win even a governorship position there in the middlebelt.

Ya I think an APGA woman came second in Adamawa 2015 gubernatorial.

25
I'm not a polygamist and I don't have the finances neither do I know a (Nigerian) woman strong enough but that number has been stuck in my head since childhood. I don't know how to make it work.

Drsnives:
The reason am opting of land now is her in my place the price is going up on a daily basis cos of this G boys who buy at ridiculous amount.
I will listen to you guys and go for a new bike

I no say make you no buy the land o! But first get brand new tear nylon bike before going for the land. you go realize say u too na yahoo boy.

Drsnives:
Finished my service in June 28 D's yr
No job cos of the pandemic
Bought fairly used okada with the remaining alawee b4 e finished
Started okada (omoh e nor easy oo, the shame)
But money dea okada Sha that's of na new bike, my own dea show me shege.
I recouped my money back in 2months, now am planning of buying land even if it's half plot.

Baba God too much

Telling you from experience, buy new bike first and then the land. You'll see wonders and how you'll own your own shelter in less than a year extra.

U said u didn't give her sex that first day maybe that's what she is calling back.

Give it to her very well and she'll move on after the 6th or 7th occasion.

toolmark:
Like seriously...
Under someone's else jurisdiction,last time I check..
#no_be_him_get_the_house..
The parents said don't bring over and that's all

They should have mailed it back to him or put it somewhere he can go and collect it. Not to trash it without his consent. He is 42years old not 12.

JayKiz:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Nfai5kpfso&feature=youtu.be


https://daybreak.ng/2020/12/09/katsina-govt-abolishes-whatsapp-groups-in-schools/

What's the matter? 2go, wechat etc still full ground na.

Cocoyam also known as Ede in Igbo language.

Can be pounded for swallow
For any and all types of soup
Can be fried
Can be grounded into flour
Can be boiled
Taken with red oil, sauce or stew
etc etc

freshboi88:
Show me where proverbs said Jesus was a chief worker and u r quoting John and Colossians. R u sure u don't need panadol?

Sorry you didn't comprehend. Leave it at that and move on to other things. #have_a_nice_day