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The barstard son of Katsina

How?

LauraClasikVibe:
drop your mail

joshujjo@yahoo.com

StacyO:
Please read through.

I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.

I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.

I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.


Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.

PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.

Solution. Date me

daddytime:
Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy as a full time job.

The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.

He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.

This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.

Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down for Benin and beyond.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...

On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don too see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.

We plant some seeds in life which we overtime deliberately chose to forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.

When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.

If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take a long time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.

It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above, and so many others I worked with when we thought we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.

In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sent a jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero. That was my penance for ruining lives and families with my choice of a source to make money. I was "blessed" with a wife that was a public toilet.

Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.

I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.

The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.

This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than money and the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible.

If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una

Boss man I feel ur contribution. I wouldn't mind having you as a mentor.

GBOKASINCHA:
This pikin resembke peruzzi

I thought the same thing too. But make we dey look sha.

InvertedHammer:
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The overtly religious people are the most dangerous people in the world. That's why I never trust anyone that is quick to invoke the name of Jesus. They are dutiful pretenders. Be careful of the ones preaching up and down; they are the worst hypocrites.

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Flesh and Blood revealeth this not to you. Once u introduce yourself as Pastor to me, I just pick race oooo

BigSarah:
She’s 34 and a single mother...you ain’t post to come out with this lady.

I want to be big like you

debbydams:
Happy new year nairalanders.. E b like say � na nl guy I go marry this year o..

You too love love

pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

I love you.

Chii59:

na pepper dem u dey for ur dp now ooo. hot hot chii

Chii59:
Your veil?
Are you a low budget Bobriskey

Lol. how na. my yansh is only for departure ooo, no arrivals abeg

Stacyomolola:
Eti soro soke da da

Lol. your digit won't be a bad idea. I'm a good boy I promise not a bad boy like...

Stacyomolola:
We don't want any black wolf in sheep's clothing
If u aren't for us, u are against us


They only bullied him, they couldn't beat him fast before intervention would come

United wey stand
Divided we fall

#Endsars
#Endswat
#Endswat
#End old recycled bin inform of leaders

omo u fine die ooo. I like what I see. mo ti soro soke ooo

Ahappy:
Best comment so far.
you get sense boss.
I don't have to add or remove anything from what you've said.

he has spoken well really. olé needs to leave. voluntarily or involuntarily

magicminister:
Loool

Blackface is speaking based on his level of understanding and exposure.

The average Nigerian child is raised to “respect” his or her elders without questions asked. That is why that little 11 year old girl(Favour Okechukwu) was lured away from her path because she was raised to be respectful and she automatically trusted the much older person that abducted her and eventually murdered her.

We need to start raising our children to respect those that have EARNED THE respect. Respect should not be freely given to anyone simply because of their age. Of course, I don’t expect you to walk around disrespecting anybody but I also don’t expect you to hold back from speaking your mind or fighting for your rights simply because someone a mofuckaaa older than you!!

Buhari hasn’t earned my respect and the respect of many Nigerians.

I stand with you Sir

Aileexa1:
That still doesn't change the fact that SARS has taken so many innocent lives and will still do.

I hate this country and the helplessness I feel is great when I see this country won't move further than it will go backward

I want you

amiibaby:
Mind ur biz

you're amazingly beautiful

sthecy:
Go Chelsea.....love you guys

love u too

Chii59:
Your veil? Are you a low budget Bobriskey

You like wahala ehn. lol

Chii59:
Yes sir!!!

You've finally lifted the veil

Laittanna:
These are the big guns that have been evicted

I dey find woman too ooo

Bukasint:
With your command of English you actually wrote your Exam. I remember my time in WAEC and subject is Agricultural Science. I was only student who answered question on Dihybrid crossing after the teacher warned the whole class in exam hall not to answer the question because he didn't teach us that but I was taught in lesson academy.


I remember also in mathematics I was only one who did a pie chart and answered the questions that followed it...others paid heavily to pass but I didn't pay a dine.


Also in Jamb most of them went to Port Harcourt for special centre yet I did mine in local state and guess what I scored the highest and first person to pass post UME and became first female Dr in my set....

I guess people think they can't read and pass exams this days and when they graduate you wonder what certificate they have.

Do you need a suitor?

MalaikaEH:
Exam malpractice is caused by proliferation of schools and it's actually what the students want. New schools should meet certain criteria before they open. School authorities allow exam malpractice mainly because they have no or limited choice. I know of a school, two years ago, where the principal was new. He was the "born again Christian" type of person. While addressing the students on his first day, he told them that he will never allow exam malpractice of any type, especially in all external exams advising the students to study hard. This was before SS3 began their WAEC registrations. Out of over seventy SS3 students at the time, only six registered and wrote the exam at that school. The rest left for other schools where they thought they will feel free.

This year, the same principal is allowing malpractice at his school.

Stopping exam malpractice won't be possible unless all schools and parents take the decision collectively, which I doubt can ever happen with freewill. It can only happen when education authorities wake up and make laws that impose heavy fines on offenders.

Also, students who fail internal promotion exams should repeat the class as was the practice before. Only those who pass entrance exams should be admitted into schools. Admissions should not be an all comers affair.

If the education authorities at all levels will look into the aforementioned areas and device workable means of enforcing them, the system will cleanse itself with time.

This one na future impossible tense

Vyzz:
In the next five years....



He might become the minister of education

Very funny but most importantly VERY TRUE

revived:
Dm me if available for hookup( konji )


Back to the topic
I won't comment
I await my elders

Better be specific on which gender you want in your DM before responses will seen you to Yaba Left

Officialgarri:
I don't care if this man makes sense or not, black remains my favorite color.

Also, I don't see this changing what Africans are called.

However should we not agree that Africans are indeed black? I mean;
We lack technology,
we lack independence,
we lack science,
We have never developed any standard drug
we lack proper education,
we are surrounded by oceans, yet we lack water
We are surrounded by oceans, yet we lack electricity
We are surrounded by oceans yet fish is expensive
They said we are primarily Agriculturists, yet chicken is thrice as expensive as that in America
They said we are blessed with Natural resources, yet we send our resources out and resold to us double price.

Like the Pastor said, Black is emptiness. I just hope we can change the narrative someday

This one touch me oooo. Chai

CodeTemplar:
False information. There is a difference between the office a clergyman occupies having a PJ attached to it and the clergyman owning one.

Buhari has access to over a dozen aircrafts but can he be said to own one?

Wisdom is profitable to guide.















Stop the lies.

It sucks. Oya Knack Head for ground

hopefulLandlord:
Kenneth Copeland said he bought private jets from church money because commercial flights harbour demons. Makes you wonder why a strong "man of God" is avoiding demons, shouldn't he go after these demons instead?

Jesse Duplantis, who at the time had 2 private jets already, said God wanted him to buy a better jet, why? because the new jet he'd buy can go to any airport in the world without needing to refuel.

The part of their excuse for owning fleets of jets is that it's used to "Spread the word of God" but this doesn't make sense in today's world as airline companies have been terribly hit by the explosion of the internet. in short airlines made money in the past because interacting with people halfway across the world required you to be there or send letters Which doesn't usually cut it. now you can open your WhatsApp and video chat with almost anyone, you can send a message and it's instantly delivered. This has made airlines lose money so you don't need a jet to spread the word.

At the end of the day, it's their money they got from gullible individuals who can't sit to reason beyond what the pastor says and try to reconcile it with what they do. A lord's chosen pastor tells you to buy his expensive reflective jackets and wear them for both spiritual and physical protection and you believe him even though he uses bodyguards

Oyedepo would preach faith healing to you but won't hesitate to fly his wife to world class hospital aboroad when she was sick

when they need material things they would ask you to donate but when you need material things they would direct you to "God"


the bitter truth is that Religious belief is an invisible security blanket for insecure individuals.
Closeted minds will continue to allow brainwashing and indoctrination by religious leaders that there is a 'god', and there was a 'jesus', in order that the people with closed minds allow themselves to be controlled so that the various Corporations (churches) remain profitable as the tax-free money continues to roll in. people center their lives around a fairy-tale. All that time, energy and money centered on a lie. For some it's a business, for others it is the central cause of division within their family. Religion sucks. All of them.

Not to sound religious but na God go bless you for this your yarns. Stay Safe. I owe u beer if u wish to redeem it anytime in Lagos

CAPSLOCKED:
WITH THE INCREASING NUMBER OF 500 NAIRA PER SET BABES I DON'T KNOW WHY MANY MEN ARE STILL THIS FOOLISH.

Where are these #500 per set?

Zzor:
See the type of men this generation has produced smh

You look amazing. Me like y