₦airaland Forum

LynnPetra:
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Nice. But I will pass. I'm already engaged in something OK . Thanks

naijafeminist:
But what you just described is what feminists are fighting for. In this day and age, responsibilities have to be shared. Even if not equally, it has to be shared at one point or the other by BOTH parties. I don't expect feminism to be accepted universally but can the hate just stop. What women are demanding is not illogical from any angle I look at it. It's just common sense. No one wants to feel used. We are told to contribute financially because of the economy, yet we are told to bare the full burden on the home front too. Body dey tire na. Why won't women look older than their husbands years down the line? I have an uncle that can wake up 2am to ask his wife for pounded yam and she'll prepare it happily. I can never judge that arrangement. Why? Because she's a full housewife. However, a lot of women are not. Those are the ones I'm arguing for.

tobimillar:
Abba again, seems to be the smartest policeman for now

naijafeminist:
Most women work these days, so how do you balance that out? I'm still waiting for someone to give me an answer to that

naijafeminist:
Most women work these days, so how do you balance that out? I'm still waiting for someone to give me an answer to that

uboma:
lol.


I am trying to reduce my intake of red meat so most of the time, I go for fish and shaki.

With the fork in my left hand and table knife in my right hand, I do justice with the shaki and even pommo.

thesicilian:
Morality has forsaken this nation

cowardSeun:
I thought they said Igbo land is not fertile and that Igbos will die of hunger when we eventually divide.

mikolo80:
what are the [size=16pt]privileges[/size] of dating. Na bills paying you de find ba.

LynnPetra:
.E hungry me oooo.Greedy me!
*can imagine this money tied to a big trap, and I'm there like a rat drawing closer....closer. ...."
I rebuke you!I refuse to let the devil use this recession as a tool to disembody me.


Oh lawd! !
I hate being greedy.


*breathing fast*


Ok.
This is my verdict;

"Thanks but no thanks


En....just so we are clear, I'm no cat. Just a human trying to be a little bit curious.


How much are we talking about here


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naijafeminist:
If you agree that cooking is for men and women, then we're on the same page. Most don't agree, and that's where my issue with them not having money comes in. I mean, marriage is give and take shey? If you want food, then I want money. Simple.

LynnPetra:
Well, on a less funny note, that's the truth.

Ishilove:
This is so wrong and highly disrespectful. Is she a snake? Why is she spitting like a king cobra??

Please just don't send her back yet. Trash this out with her abeg. You are a MAN and need to wear the trousers of the house. Sit her down and warn her never to try that rubbish again.

You may also take her for a pregnancy test. I hear women are bitchy when preggies so it's possible that may be the reason why she is using you as spitting target.

This is insane

VolTOxic:
Most men would have given her a beating, but you kept your cool. For that I respect and admire you. Now to the point, Yes. Please send her away. That woman hates you!

How can your own wife say that horrible thing and spat to you face?! She hates you. She have crossed the line.
You said your marriage is a curse. You are not happy at all. Neither is she. You are not making a mistake. Do it.

You are a true gentleman. You deserve better. You'll find someone to heal your wounds. Don't even waste your time for any shìt counselling. She is not the woman you fell for. That woman is gone the moment she spat. Forever.

LynnPetra:
I can understand a lot of you guys quoting me are seriously pained. This "BITTCH" no send you oooo . And yes I will make my own money and still eat my man's money. Get Lost!

queenfav:
I am not a feminist.I believe a man should be the head of a home and he has specific responsibilities towards his woman.Even my younger brother while he was in secondary school used to save his break money to buy his class girlfriend novels as a gift.The girl reciprocates moat times by buying him snacks for break and other small stuff.Love is give and take.If you are broke,work hard till you van afford to do little stuff for a woman,even if its 100 naira card,she would know you are meeting a need in her life.I really pity the crop of men we have around sha!If they give them chance,they would ask a lady to pay her own bride price so they can marry her free of charge.Its common sense that if you take ur girl to the movies,you should pay d 1k for movie ticket,even if she reaches for her wallet.No woman enjoys spending her money on small things her man can afford,that's a fact!! Those that do end up being tagged as controlling and trying to emasculate the man.When tiwa savage's saga went down,very few applauded her for being the breadwinner, rather she was blamed for encouraging teebillz to be a lazy man.
I am done with this issue abeg,for those who want o quote me,save your breath and energy.. I am out of here.Let me leave the trash for lawma.

naijafeminist:
If your woman cannot cook, please what is your duty to her? "Why shouldn't she be able to cook?" That's what I thought. So, why should men not have money? Stop asking us to settle, thanks.

queenfav:
Please most guys are worse money mongers than ladies now.When many are looking for a woman that would their bills.I am not supportive of lazy women,but men..try and work hard!I met a guy recently and he was like "i thank God u are working class o,u wont be disturbing me for money". Bottomline,he clearly wanted to enjoy d privileges of dating without picking up some small bills occasionally.My point is,who no like better thing?Men and women alike,learn to work for your own money to avoid insult.

gidjah:
You should now be the 1 to tell her;Good riddance to a bad rubbish'! !!you now laughed last. The lady I was supposed to go to the Altar with did worse brother, I was there for her to write her waec, necco (had to dress like a lady student to enter the hall during the mathematics and English language then),got her through computer school, paid her bills got her nice things (was a sec school teacher then) , but immediately sister got a job with an oil firm in the north she started acting up against me!yours truly became a poor ordinary school teacher! Big big guns started running after her with money she had never seen in her generation. I got to Abuja for a better life and started settling down only to come to the north to propose to her. ....hahahaha...come see gobe!! I became a washing sponge in front of my own once adorable princess, she kicked me out ..iI knelt down in a public Gare market. .she left me there .....fast forward till date after a pretty 7yr old daughter. From a more heart pretty damsel in my life...she is yet to get married .....i weep for her daily because I heavenly loved her ...but she had her own canoe to paddle ......such is life my brother people van be anything. .just tag along and let God be the one to guide you. Once again thank God for you.

LuvU2:
Gene, our queen

bigmo1:
The owners of nuli juice and nuts about cakes were both on last Sundays edition of rubbing minds and both confirmed that the building was marked with X. But then the landlord reassured them that the issue with LASG has been settled.

Priceless200:
Oya, here you go, this is the main thread...
Pictures, videos are welcomed.

plaetton:
BLOODLETTING was an ancient, pre-science method of treating common and chronic illnesses by letting out blood from different parts of the body.

Back then, in around the 2nd century BCE, diseases were thought to be caused by imbalances of the humors, of which the blood was the most important.

Also tied this was the widespread belief that evil supernatural spirits were imbedded in the humors, which in turn, was the primary cause of diseases.

As with most pre-science practices, bloodletting caused a lot more VISIBLE harm than the IMAGINARY benefits for which the practice was promoted.

For good example, the side effects of bloodletting were:

1. Accidentally cutting off major ARTERIES , which leads to excessive hemorrhage, cardiac arrest and in most cases, death.
2. Anaemia.
3. Lowered immune response due to depleted white blood cells.
4. Infections.
5. Etc, etc.

Now, fast forward to Nigeria 2016 , when I think of the newly implemented TSA, when I hear all the chest beating, the celebration of this act as one of the cardinal achievements of the Buhari Administration, I am also forced to think about the PRE-science act of bloodletting ,and the EERIE similarities it shares with the TSA implementation in terms of Intentions, Envisaged benefits, and the inevitable Catastrophic side effects.

To be continued..

Nezan:
I think what op is trying to say is somewhat true. TSA has freezed liquidity in the banking sector.

tkondscreen:
The sister of the victim claimed that there was no reason the man should not have heard or seen the train even as passers-by were shouting to him. She philosophically added that it was obvious ‘the rail was in need of blood’.

Priceless200:
So glad at your lost, you seem a passionate person in the kitchen.. Please post on that other thread, didn't even notice the thread was two, and to think I ve been commenting on both, maybe cause I always click and quote on 'mentions' from notifications... Mitchew!!! I need a little spanking. I will try your recipes.

dasparrow:
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The soup look delicious. Sadly, an increasing number of Nigerians here in Nigerians cannot afford to cook this kind of soup anymore due to rising cost of foodstuff. 1 kilo of goat meat is ₦1200. By the time you add the cost of stockfish, let's say ₦500 and then other ingredients such as 75cl bottle of palm oil going for ₦400, then crayfish ₦200, then egusi ₦400, the ugwu ₦100, fresh pepper ₦100, onions ₦100. Shey pot of soup don pass ₦2000?

So you see, in this harsh economic times, one must buy fresh okro ₦300, one titus ₦350, ugwu ₦50, bottle of palm oil ₦400, crayfish ₦100, onions ₦100. Okro soup is ready for less than ₦1400. The remnant palm oil can be used to cook again. Man must manage in this tough times.

Whaya say?