₦airaland Forum

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

If you do not trust her, then why are you trying to marry her? Shouldn't her honesty count as something?

Itiskdg121:
It's surprising to realise this after many years.
We learn everyday though

Absolutely! Knowledge is inexhaustible, hence why it is a life-long venture.

olibeans:
He's not ready for marriage. Still a kid mentally to think for his in-laws. Better start fasting and prayer 🙏 not to lose that girl cos you committed a very grave offense not collecting that bread.

Even if you're not going to eat it, you would've given it out on the road without offending their honour.

Exactly my point. Collect the gift and distribute to those who need it. During my aunt's visit to her in-law's, she was offered chickens as parting gift. She accepted the live chickens and dashed them out because she couldn't travel down to her base with them.

PuZZyNegro:
You guys are just foaming in the mouth. These people already served us food and we ate.

I don't really think we need bread again to take home.

You are not ready to marry. Please allow that lady find a more befitting and mature suitor. Good luck with the next

Itiskdg121:
That's a big mistake, Sir.
I experienced the same with my father inlaw (my mother inlaw is late), while my wife was in school. The old man cooked for me, to make it worse, he forgot to add salt, but I ate the food like that. Normally I don't eat outside you know. It's called respect.

Please, find a way to apologise to your inlaw. We can't run away from the truth.

Trust me, he didn't forget to add salt. He did that on purpose to see if you would reject the food or eat it with disdain. I can tell you for free that you eating that food whole heartedly was what sealed that marriage. You proved to your in-law that come thick and thin, you would stand by his daughter.

PuZZyNegro:
It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.

Gifts are symbolic you know.

The poster you quoted is right. A little emotional intelligence would have sufficed. Gifts are symbolic and so is your action. Pray tell, since gifts are symbolic, what importance should the parents attach the to the biscuits you got? As a rule of thumb, you don't visit your future in-laws to declare your intention empty-handed. You also don't reject any gift given to you.

ahnie:
This country is gone for good...I say make I burst go market try arrange fresh tomatoes to take prepared yam and tomato egg sauce.

With enough....please,abeg these fresh tomatoes were sold to me at the flat rate of 700 naira.

Ordinary yam n egg sauce stew like this don dey take style wan chop close to 5k to prepare,food that's meant for just one sitting.

I never add canned groundnut oil and eggs o....may God eppus.

Are you serious, Ahny? This is becoming unbecoming. Over here in the North, you could get this for less than 50 naira.

Tampa6246:
Adamawa babes are the best

You must be an OG to know that. Gracias!

We4all:
That song is wack.

I am an Asake fan, but I agree.

Pharaoh4rin:
The only thing that match human wickedness is de¥th. If not for Jesus' intervention, the punishment for wackiness would have been de¥th. I hate wickedness.

Unfortunately, we are left with no option than to pray for the wicked.

The murder was premeditated, else why did they come with knives?


Such wickedness from a minor goes to show that we are done for, as a country.

Pharaoh4rin:
You may be right.
I don't encourage killing for a wrong reason.

I understand your point of view. However, regardless of the reason, be it wrong or right, we still shouldn't play God over people's life. Their wickedness might be a trigger for the victims' breakthrough.

Pharaoh4rin:
Yes, that's true. But what about students who deserves to pass? Or those who deserves first class or 2nd class upper?
Same way with lecturers who deserves to be k*illed.
If you read through my comment, I said that "some" lecturers deserves to die. I wasn't particularly referring to the slain lecturer. Some lecturers are beast and monster put together, especially in ATBU bauchi and uthman dan fodio university Sokoto. I know what I am saying.

I understand your pain, but let us not play God over people's lives, regardless of how beastly they may be.

aAK1:
it’s really sad. I knew her growing up

May her soul find rest and may her killers be brought to book.

aAK1:
I see. Or could it be a student ?

I doubt. Such notoriety is almost unheard of amongst the students here. I strongly believe the Maid has a hand or an incline to the crime. A poster affirmed that the maid and an accomplice were seen around the area same day she died. The crime happened during the day and it was reported that they accosted her on her way back home... since there was no struggle, it's possible the deceased recognized them and allowed them entry into her house...

lukedan75:
She was my Lecturer and Co- supervisor during my Masters degree. May her precious soul rest in peace.

She did not take me any course, but she is well known for her kindness. I was in Bosso campus yesterday and my printer kept talking about how kind she was. Everyone knew her there because she could stand out from millions due to her meekness.

Toktee:
I live just meters away from this woman place she's a very quiet and simple woman. The girl was sacked for stealing on Friday and was later seen by maiangwan gbaiko's wife leaving the house on Saturday with her load on bike with a guy.... the woman died same Saturday night that the said girl visited.
Well, she's arrested by the police since.

And this explains everything. Explains why the woman allowed them in because it was not a forced entry. The deceased probably assumed she came to pick her load. The heart of man is truly despicably wicked.

Toktee:
I live just meters away from this woman place she's a very quiet and simple woman. The girl was sacked for stealing on Friday and was later seen by maiangwan gbaiko's wife leaving the house on Saturday with her load on bike with a guy.... the woman died same Saturday night that the said girl visited.
Well, she's arrested by the police since.

And here we have it.

Pharaoh4rin:
Some lecturers deserve this sort of death.
For instance, a lecturer in ATBU bauchi failed 90% of his 500L students with a carryover, 2nd semester in a course that was just introduced. The school's authority questioned him but as a professor, a sole prof in computer science in the whole northeast, he stood gidigba on his term.
Now the students are about to pay the new tuition fee. The SUG begged ,but nothing is happening. It's crazy.
SOME LECTURERS DESERVE TO BE KI*LED

Ideally, a student who deserves to fail would definitely fail. Aiding such student to pass is sin and some people are too morally upright to do so. In this woman's case however, her kindness is well watered so much so that her students could testify. Any here could corroborate or dispel my assertion.

ghettochild:
She definitely committed Suicide... sent her maid away so they won't accuse maid of killing her.

So she stabbed herself severally and slit her throat?

aAK1:
If they had to break down the door, who ever killed her has the keys to the house. Every thin points to the help. She either did it or knows who did

As much as the help is a prime suspect, this point may not hold water. Her assailants followed her in( News had it that she went to greet a friend).
Thus the killers may have carried out this dastardly act and shut the door behind them afterwards.

nedekid:
Likely am abokis hand work. Knife and them 5&6.

I totally accede. The slaughtering is a pointer.

chally100:
That church member that brought the idea of visiting her is my first suspect....
Abi is that how they visit every other member who was absent?

This cannot hold water. There are people who don't miss certain gatherings no matter what. When that eventually happens, it is natural to see people try to reach out to them via phone calls or even visits, as was this case.

ArcSEMPECJ:
Don't think the Maid has a hand in this ......since the Husband is dead, there are chances she has someone else coming around and possibly had a tie of pregnancy with the Maid and boom, she found out and laid the girl off .....

Then she went into a fight with the guy or lover boy who eventually killed her during the fight and ran away in fears ....

The murder was premeditated. She was stabbed severally and then slaughtered. As much as I hate to cast aspersions, the maid should be questions. There are people who don't take rejection nicely. Moreso, the woman is known for her simplistic and easy going disposition. Such people have fewer enemies. Thus I dare to say her killer is an insider.

Chrisgalaxy:
Which seamless transportation service does GIG provide?

I booked GIG motors for 35,000, not minding the high price fare compared to other transport companies from lagos (Jibowu) park to Abuja,
Hoping i wil get reliable, efficient and early departure time, motor left by 6:30am as suppose 5:30am on their site and booking time, now could you believe the bus has broken down since 8am, this is 10.10am am typing this, we are still stranded on the express way, no major help, no sending of another bus, driver still confused on the problem of the vehicle.

I am really sad right now, angry, disappointed and wil never in my life board GIG vehicle moving forward..

Try to take your mind off the disappointment. What is more important is a safe journey.

PrinceOfLagos:
Large chunk of the money will end up in private pockets

Isn't that what it is meant for? Fronting an empowerment programme to reward those who brought the presidency to office... "They dont really care about us."

Airlord2030:
Some lamentation by igbos

The Igbos started this trend so don't cry wolf.
I am of the opinion that Igbo tenants can be very difficult to live with. My present rentage is owned by an Igbo man and majority of the tenants are Igbos. For the first time ever, I am looking forward to my rent expiring so I can move out. Igbo landlords are the most greedy and selfish beings ever. And just like the lady on this thread, Igbos don't also like renting their houses to non-Igbos. My landlord assumed I was am Igbo lady and upon realising otherwise, I began to suffer.


As for the Igbo tenants, they are the most close-minded, stiff and rude people you can ever think of.

Artiiclebeast:
Thank you for your vigilance and civic duty to the society.

I wonder why these scums fail to see the idiocy in their claims that homosexuality is natural and inborn when they won't stop teaching and shoving it down people's throats, particularly kids.

Why teach something you claim is natural?

Heterosexualism is definitely not taught in my opinion the way they seek to teach homosexualism.

The term in question bears several meaning and cannot be solely tied to homosexuality (you would understand my point if you check the context of usage) I doubt if the author had any malicious intent. I think the author is only trying to deliver on knowledge by providing an insight on the usage of the "ay" sound. Unfortunately, the author ought to have considered the cultural implications of this act.

2aces:
So I was helping my four year old daughter today with her home fun, reading the queens primer given by her school, and I was shocked to my marrow at some of the words and sentences these kids are being psychologically indoctrinated with into homosexuality. Children were made to say a sentence like "LET US BE GAY"
I was alarmed and had to immediately call the owner of the school to lay complaint and she too screamed blood of Jesus, that she always go through all materials before handing out to the teachers but this very one being the popular "queens primer" she never expected such to be inside and she had returned several books in the past on social studies that contained homosexual contents like two dads and two mums etc. She even told me some school owners get paid huge sums of dollars to intentionally circulate these materials in their schools!
She thanked me and promised to withdraw the "new queens primer" from her school.

Dear parents, always be aware of the information your kids consume cos nowadays you dont have to be in us or uk for your kids to be at risk of indoctrination. Be alert

Gay could mean alot of things: happy, glad and so on. You should maybe censor out the word if you are not comfortable with it. Or recoin it to glad or something else.




PS I am a teacher too and my school uses the Queen Primer text. What I did was that I recoined the word to glad to douse the effect. The word was used 4 times in the book, so just check and do the needful.

richie240:
Solly nwokem.
Next time don't withdraw cash with the atm that has much money.

As a rule, whenever I want to withdraw, I first transfer the exact amount (or slightly more than what) I want to withdraw from my 'main' access account to my 'backup' UBA ATM via USSD.

As pos operator, If u like dub am, nothing for you.
I use it only when I want to make withdrawals. That main ATM card ehn, e nor dey commot for house!

If you have USSD enabled in your main account, you are tripping. Your surest bet us to freeze that account. With ussd enabled, hackers can still milk you dry, albeit not through pos operations.


Freeze your capital account and withdraw recurrent expenditure monthly or weekly via the counter and save in your recurrent account.

Dishing in smaller packs ( 1 pack per serving) would have proven more economical. Also I doubt if you would enjoy this soup after a month. The okra and vegetables would have wilted into a form that you may not find desirable.