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FamilyRe: Can U Marry A Lady That Has A Child by JustGood(m): 12:08pm On Feb 11, 2009
I could never have done so.
I'll never advise any young man I know to do so, except in certain exceptional circumstances.
Love is nothing these days - it fades with changing circumstances. Every divorced couple had a period of their lives when nobody could tell them that their love will fade. Love, as people seem to understand it now, is something that will fade away and your eyes will open to see things that you ignored before. That's when the truth sets in about who/what you married.
FamilyRe: Disavantages Of Marrying Someone Who Have A Baby by JustGood(m): 12:00pm On Feb 11, 2009
I could never have married a single mother. There will be too many answers to be answered on my mind. Each to their own - if you can marry a woman who already has a child/ren, good luck to you.

I'll never advise any young man I know to marry a single mother, except in special circumstances like widowhood etc.
PoliticsRe: I Don't Believe The Problem With Nigeria Is Our Leaders by JustGood(m): 6:36pm On Feb 10, 2009
jamace:
The same leaders are responsible for it. Note that any person who once held position of authority is still a leader even after he has completed his tenor, because he automatically becomes a godfather and a force to be reckoned with in his clan, or his village, or his LGA, or his state and even at the federal level, thus can influence issues and persons to the direction of his interest. Our corrupt leaders ensure that it is only persons who will do their biddings (stooges) that power be given or transferred to.
You have still failed to tell me who allowed those leaders get there in the first place.
Also, they did not fall from heaven. . . they are Nigerians just like you and I.
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 6:34pm On Feb 10, 2009
Big B1:
Knowing what the man knew at the time, I think to the best of his ability, he made the right decision.
But was the decision the best decision? The answer is "NO". And IBB himself has used the term "Unfortunate" many times, when he talks about the annulment.

We must keep in mind that part of leadership roles is making difficult decisions. Some of the decisions will be on the money, while others will be zero. But the most important thing is having the courage to make these decisions under all circumstances.

I honestly believe that MKO wouldn't have won the election if IBB did not want him to be the next president.
In fact, it was confirmed that all kinds of negative implications (that had nothing to do with IBB) emerged as soon as MKO was declared the winner of the election.

NOTE: When a president is about to step down (especially Military leader), the first thing is to ensure a bright and peaceful future as a civilian. As a current leader who is finishing his term or stepping down, at all costs, you must discover a perfect path towards a peaceful transition and capitalize on it.

The destiny of the next president is determined by the current president, while the future of the current president as a civilian is determined by the next or replacing president.
It is a "give and take" situation coming from both ends (politics).

IBB felt more comfortable by making sure that the transition was smooth and peaceful; and electing MKO as the next president wasn't the answer. It was that simple.
If anything had happened to MKO as the next president after IBB, IBB's future as a civilian would have been a total nightmare. IBB was well aware of this circumstance, and he was clearly not ready to give up his potential peaceful future as a civilian. (Northerners simply prefer each other when it comes to "integrity, strength, ability, and surety")

In short, the decision was made because IBB was trying to look out for the stability of this nation and also at the same time to ensure sound and steadfast future for himself as a civilian.
Any politician would have done just the same.
@Big B1, please dont tell me you believe (in your heart) this balderdash you posted above
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 5:39pm On Feb 06, 2009
Kobojunkie:
You sure about that? We have had so many before him live and die with blood on their hands. Case: Abacha, died at the top of his game. Took billions of our money with him.
Those things dont necessarily make for peace. What you see on the outside is not necessarily what a man really is.

The only problem is that we have allowed the bastard to impoverish us as a Nation
PoliticsRe: I Don't Believe The Problem With Nigeria Is Our Leaders by JustGood(m): 5:34pm On Feb 06, 2009
jamace:
If not the leaders, who should be blamed? Are the gods to be blamed? NO! . There is prophesy that Nigeria will witness thid kind of rot and corruption. Candidly, the leaders are to be blamed. We handed over ourselves and our resources to them to manage. See what they have done to us and you think they should not be blamed? Think again brother.
Considering the sentence in bold, who do you think is responsible for it all?
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 5:32pm On Feb 06, 2009
make una forget this babangida of a man.

though he builds castles in the sky, his life will never know peace by the grace of God.

The sufferings of the millions of Nigerians will murder peace and joy in his life
PoliticsRe: Shame On Nigerian Police - All Because Of 50 Naira Bribe They Want To Die by JustGood(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2009
@Afam,
are you implying that if a driver has done something wrong, the proper thing for a police officer to do is to stand in front of the moving vehicle?
FamilyRe: Husband Arrives Home At 7.00am by JustGood(m): 6:26pm On Feb 05, 2009
you should think about your own family instead always coming here to post about what happens in some Nigerian family or another.
FamilyRe: If Your Husband Doesnt Touch You Again What Will You Do? by JustGood(m): 5:34pm On Feb 05, 2009
Its better to find out the reason rather than allow the ones who have lost all to mislead you. The guy might even be going through some difficult things that you dont know about.

He could be thinking too much about things like finances. He could be having problems motivating himself for sex. He could be seeing you in a different light. If you have been having constant quarrels, it is possible for him to get turned off.

Find out the reason first and dont jump the gun by doing what some people would have you do here without knowing what the situation on ground is. The first few years of my marriage-  there were times when I would go for as long as 2 weeks without making love with my wife whenever we had an argument. I just got turned off after every argument. These things can happen so dont let anyone mislead you here.

be sure you know what you're doing before doing anything!
PoliticsRe: What Will You Say Is Nigeria's Problem by JustGood(m): 5:26pm On Feb 05, 2009
enziga:
Nigeria's problem is that the people aren't suffering enough,
We never suffer yet, if the masses were througly suffering a revolution would have occured already,
If we were experiencing the type of suffering experienced in somalia/sudan and if the suffering was widespread then Nigeria would rreach it's tipping point and then we can start the growth process,
When some ppl are prospering and some ppl are suffering,
No one strives to make that effort.
grin
FamilyRe: My Husband Or My Figure? by JustGood(m): 5:09pm On Feb 05, 2009
sara j:
Hi. I'd just like to say why would I make up something as stupid as that if it weren't true. Sadly enough it is true. He dosen't think I know but I have found lots of porn dvds hidden all over the house and the women in these are chubby (not that I've looked at them, all I had to do was look at the cover if the dvds') He has also registered with an adult dating site. I saw it on our computers history. On his profile on this website he states that he's looking for women and transexuals and that he's into fetish, group sex etc, etc. I would love my husband to change and be the person he was when I married him but I can't change him. It's up to him to change. I am not going for a divorce either, thats out of the question! I'll just keep out of his way for as long as it takes.
Read the first story and read this one. tell me the congruence please. lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: Virgins Win Award In Nigeria. by JustGood(m): 4:58pm On Feb 05, 2009
are you guys annoyed that the girls are virgins? or you are annoyed that their discipline is being recognised?

why cant they be virgins in 2009? huh

The attacks seem driven by bad belle (bad bellicks)
PoliticsRe: Diya's Son Paints Dublin Red by JustGood(m): 4:53pm On Feb 05, 2009
The girl is ugly sha

why do Nigerian boys in europe always end u with fat and ugly oyinbo women who are old and more often than not, have children already? huh
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 4:50pm On Feb 05, 2009
Big B1:
IBB is a quiet man and mostly operates in the back room; this is why this man is being painted with black images. I believe lately he has realized this weakness and this is one of the reasons why he continues to release this kind of information.
We shouldn't beat a man down just because he prefers to be quiet.
The man is not perfect, but remains one of the most serious, sincere and honest men around in nigeria today.
I sincerely hope you posted this as a kind of joke
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 4:14pm On Feb 05, 2009
Kobojunkie:
Seconded! Reading through all that fluff, and knowing the situation in the country prior to the elections and after, it is clear this man is seriously trying to play on our intelligence. I do hope people do not buy into this nonsense as I see this as a ploy to get himself elected soon.
I was a grown adult at the time and the Babangida idiot cant pull the wool over my eyes. Can you believe he has the cheek to come up with such an atrocious defense?

It shows how much disregard or  lack of respect the idiot has for Nigerians to come up with such  angry He must believe that we are just a stupid people and he can say any daft thing which we will start to believe.

May God never give Babangida and his family peace in this life and any other life hereafter.
PoliticsRe: Shame On Nigerian Police - All Because Of 50 Naira Bribe They Want To Die by JustGood(m): 3:57pm On Feb 05, 2009
I hope somebody somewhere does something about these police officers to send the right message to others.

What a couple of idiots!
PoliticsRe: IBB: The Real Reason I Annulled June 12 by JustGood(m): 3:55pm On Feb 05, 2009
This arrogant bastard is insulting our collective intelligence as Nigerians.
angry angry angry
FamilyRe: My Husband Or My Figure? by JustGood(m): 3:15pm On Feb 03, 2009
davidylan:
it may just be true. Some men are like that sorry to say. If the woman is the type who shivers at the sight of her husband . . . it may even be worse.
You ever come across a man like that?
FamilyRe: High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why? by JustGood(m): 3:13pm On Feb 03, 2009
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Police Uses Cctv Images To Capture Bank Robbery Syndicate - by JustGood(m): 2:50pm On Feb 03, 2009
Recording is not hard. . . it's the storage and maintenance that may be a problem
PoliticsRe: Gaddafi Vows To Push Africa Unity(one Arrmy,currency,one Goverment) by JustGood(m): 2:49pm On Feb 03, 2009
maybe Ghadaffi is being sponsored by some of those Black Americans who want to become Africans at all costs. With a nation of Africa, they dont need to define what nationality they are lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Police Uses Cctv Images To Capture Bank Robbery Syndicate - by JustGood(m): 1:58pm On Feb 03, 2009
kobo, I doubt if any of those CCTV cameras in the past was for capturing images. Most of them that I knew of were just for surveillance- they did not record anything
PoliticsRe: Gaddafi Vows To Push Africa Unity(one Arrmy,currency,one Goverment) by JustGood(m): 1:56pm On Feb 03, 2009
its a pipe dream.

That man needs to wake up from his slumber
PoliticsRe: Mrs Clara Oshiomole Forming An Ngo On Health Issues by JustGood(m): 1:48pm On Feb 03, 2009
I am actually beginning to think that Nigeria will be better off with a sincere and focussed military leader.

there are too many many looters in this demoncrazy - senators, reps, ministers, advisers, aides, thugs. . .everyone carting home millions in Ghana must go bags. All that money will be better off spent on other things.

This demoncrazy is getting on my nerves! angry
PoliticsRe: What Are The 5 Most Developed Countries On The African Continent by JustGood(m): 1:38pm On Feb 03, 2009
na buildings be development? huh
PoliticsRe: Alamieyeseigha Rattles Obasanjo In Katsina by JustGood(m): 1:35pm On Feb 03, 2009
are the people not all the same?
Alayamesiagba really has some guts to be parading in public. . . and what was Alayathief doing in a VIP lounge?
PoliticsRe: What Are The 5 Most Developed Countries On The African Continent by JustGood(m): 6:22pm On Feb 02, 2009
is that a pic of broad street? tongue
FamilyRe: Family Mealtimes: Do You Eat Together? by JustGood(m): 6:20pm On Feb 02, 2009
I wish we did it more often in my family but it's my fault. Plus, we have different time tables in the home.

sometimes, I'm rushing to the office at unexpected hours. sad
FamilyRe: My Husband Or My Figure? by JustGood(m): 6:18pm On Feb 02, 2009
@ david,

Its a made up story. Go and find me any man who confronts and tells his wife that he has another woman because of size. In this day and age?

You really believe this?
FamilyRe: My Husband Or My Figure? by JustGood(m): 5:35pm On Feb 02, 2009
ohhh. . . the congragation

hmmmm

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