₦airaland Forum

babajeje123:
I have a well-deserved response for you but will keep it as it's a holy day.

babajeje123:
It is not surprising that a mod is flagrantly violating one of the rules (1) of this platform. You exemplify Nigeria lawmakers who are at the same time law breakers. I'm certain you would hide this post if it was done by someone else and probably ban them too.
That said, saying tithing, a practice held in high esteem by Christians, is a scam online is highly insulting. In fact, this is cyber bullying and I'm not sure if this is what this platform is turning into.

babajeje123:
This is bullying and display of unnecessary ego. The guy was right in fact I was going to post the same thing but got busy with other things. Leadership should be by example

hustla:
Two people you should never advice -

A Nigerian with his religion and a girl who's in love

Oyinbo churches dey empty but still.... Na we religious pass and na we dey underdeveloped and wicked pass

rinzylee:
Baba mechikwanu ọnụ..... just keep quiet for once. This TITHE thing pains you well. Go and ban it from the parliament nah. Onye mgbu

Solumtoya:
It's not in my nature to engage random folks on the internet especially over matters like religion which is why I didn't quote you by deliberately misspelling your moniker but I'd make an exception and leave the thread if I have to since it's actually yours.

You said and I quote "Tithing is a scam" among several other things. That's just off for people here who may hold it as a sacred doctrine. You won't do same to even an Islamic doctrine or any other legal group like LGBTQ even if you don't believe in what they're doing.

You have to respect other people's legal beliefs even if you feel you are now much wiser than them. You can share your opinion but making such definite derogatory statements is bullying.

This isn't about you "calling out some fraud in the Church" , don't divert it and act like that's all you said.

I used to respect you a lot and I still do, I really don't want to stretch this conversation

Solumtoya:
This is what this thread is all about: Community of kindness and sharing.

I had decided to let go of this thread because folks like Justman had decided to use the opportunity of being a moderator to attack beliefs that people hold sacred. I never understand how one thinks it's wise to keep saying negative things about non-criminal religious doctrines. You won't do such in UK to people's sexual orientation, for instance, regardless of your stance on the matter. But because it's Nairaland, it's alright to say things like "someone's sacred doctrine is a scam run by crooks in the Church".

I digress... But, I think I will come back. My epistles have helped so many people here.

I passed my theory driving test yesterday, first time. I also got my Mortgage Offer last week after only coming here 2 years ago as a Student Dependant. These are only 2 examples of some of the ways God has used information from this thread to help me.

So, here's to more Communal assistance on Nairaland.

fullclub:
https://www.nairaland.com/7767052/uk-student-visa-tier-4

you are the one who own and is behind this thread... you feel am attacking it. well am not.

i have already applied for amazon work in n outside where i stay and nothing yet from them. someone said i should wait till December when cold comes and maybe shifts comes
i have been up since 1am applying and day breaks 10am i am off to stroll offices asking them if they get jobs, although most refer me back to their sites.

Please in those your UK thread.. put it bold and tell them to pay their fees 100 or 90% first or this money should be available when they get there.

not paying 30/40% and hoping to start working to pay the rest.

fullclub:
i am warning everyone. i am the few saying this.
Please if u know anyone that left September just ask him or her... if he tells u the truth.

dduchess90:
Hello

Not allowed on this forum

@Justwise please help ban this fellow

Cheers

DrAkpamudehe:
My friend, you should be the one to stop talking nonsense and acting holier than though. If Nigeria was operating at the level it was pre-2015, I don't think Op and his types will be so desperate to leave Nigeria.

People just want to survive, please let the poor breath.

DrAkpamudehe:
Oga, stop all these self purification and aggrandizement. If Nigeria is working O.P and most Nigerians would not leave Nigeria to go and try their luck in UK. Op did what he had to do to get a visa and get a chance at a brighter future. You that have been in UK for over 20yrs, did you have your complete school fees when you jakpaad? If you want to help him with contacts, help him, stop all this unnecessary condemnation. Life in Nigeria is freaking hard.

fullclub:
m

can you boast of 25 million?

about 95% never had that full fees..

if they have it not up to 50 Nigerians will travel for school abroad. but ask your self why over 58k Nigerians left last year and over 100k left this year.. are Nigerians that rich?

just type POF service on Google and see what i mean

Luada:
Hmmm read your story, it painful but i can help a little, as you said investment is the only way out of your current situation.

Maybe you can consider trading, i know traders who stay at home and earn good money trading.

I can help you as am into crypto. You can also try investment in google, or tessla i can help you with that.

Thanks

fullclub:
i wont answer you on this. because if i do now you will say am like the emdee tiamiyu

fullclub:
i have been in UK since 1 month plus. but getting a job as a migrant or new commer without UK experience is not easy.
in fact i have sent over 200 job application for cleaner, care assistant etc but all came with a sorry we have moved on to the next stage.

school fees has to be paid. school has sent mail threatening to report to the immigration if school fees is not paid in the next few weeks.

no job, house rent is expensive.. going for 450 to 600 pounds per month.

travelling through student route is not really easy because you have to balance between work and school.. 'even at that where is the job as a new migrant.

Please if you are considering coming to UK for now.. please put on hold. the crowd from Indians, Pakistani, Malaysia, china etc is overwhelming.

it's not worth selling your home to be here.

i sleep in indeed and all this job site.. still yet nothing, bills mounting up.

all my colleague i came with are still with no jobs in other cities

after spending 13 million coming here chai

giselle237:
@justwise

Viruses:
Talking about insurance...life insurance protects your family from potentially devastating financial losses that could result if something happens to you.

Remember when you said you won't get life insurance because you will setup your children well (something like that), in other words, you are not planning to leave your family in an 'anyhow' state so no need for life insurance, same thing here, I'm not planning for divorce so no need to make such preparations.

Viruses:
Leave the guy...when we were discussing life insurance the other time, he said he won't get one (because he was thinking positive o). As if the person that spoke about life insurance was wishing him bad 😀

And on a serious note, if not for regulations, how many people for dey do car insurance if we want to be honest?

Viruses:
The point is, plan for a successful marriage and hope it does not break down, if it breaks down, so be it. Don't plan for a broken marriage and hope it becomes successful.

hustla:
LOL The comments and replies to your standpoint are mostly emotional, not based on reality that you have to prepare for both sun and possible rain based on previous forecasts

rinzylee:
If you want us to discuss this objectively , we can. I didn't mention praying and fasting as the only elements of building a foundation for a strong lasting marriage relationship.

You dey find my mouth.

Marriage is run on principles and principles don't respect anyone. You break it, it breaks you.

Knowledge of the elements to enjoy a good marriage is more important than seeking for how to share properties or protect oneself after a divorce.

The mindset with which you choose to engage this journey is very important.


I say again... you can either choose to build a stable fortress or go seeking Knowledge of how to leave with the chunk sum when the house collapses.


Through wisdom is a house built, by Knowledge it is established and by understanding it's Chambers are furnished .


Daalụ

AgentXxx:
We haven’t gotten any letter oo, and it’s exactly two months my wife gave birth today. Abi NHS don forget us 😂

ToshoTosin:
Hello everyone,
I just have birth 10 days ago. I got a letter to regularize my child's status or the baby won't be able to use the NHS after 3months.
How do I go about this? My current visa will expire next year February. (I already got a sponsorship with the NHS but my letter can. Only be given 3 months to my current visa expiry)
Do I apply for enter clearance or new visa? I don't know. Anyone that has experience with a newborn please

jnyuwa02:
The accused.

jnyuwa02:
Timeless @Justwise!! So you are still here. I think there should be a disciplinary process that should be imposed in situations like this to preserve the sanity of this platform.

jnyuwa02:
This is just bizarre, why would he be sticking around this platform for over 5 years while others are making progress in life? This should depress anyone. Is @justwise still here too?

Viruses:
Honestly,

They just making someone plan for failed marriage, channel that energy towards planning for a successful marriage instead.

Lexusgs430:
This is fairness...... isn't it ......😂

Marriage is a business partnership, of two people coming together, to build & strengthen their values .....

One person sees a snake, the other kills it...... It's not about contributors value, but collectiveness......😂😜

LionInZion:
Now the question is while the husband works full time, is that not supporting the wife too to ensure family doesn't lack financially? You see support and looking after the home is relative.

ThisPower:
Dem no gree answer this question

All of them just dey shout you can get a job under LMIA and bla bla as if it is very easy.
But the question whether you can work on a VV, hard to answer