₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
The man is the wife because he washes their baby & wife's clothes;

Is the woman also the husband because she pays some bills in the house?

Let us get off the internet and look at this.

Men and women have responsibilities in marriages. You can't equate washing clothes to paying bills.

I don't expect my wife to lift heavy furnitures or go out at night to get things, that's my duty.

I'm a firm believer that women should contribute financially in the family, no matter how little it might be. No matter how rich I am, my wife's still gonna do her part financially, no matter how broke/rich she is. This is one of the main reasons why I'm against a woman sitting at home doing nothing.

Back to the gender based roles, same way you don't expect a man to wash napkins and underwear is the same way you don't expect a woman to lift heavy furnitures.

Not married by the way

Kobojunkie:
I really dont follow at all. So, it is not sensible to expect you to wash your own child's underwear because.....

Because they contain shit.

elantraceey:
You have zero understanding of my comment.

Don't mind that fellow.

Same applies to guys too like you rightly stated. Some men would kill to have an half naked woman while neglecting a properly dressed one.

It's the reason a lot of ladies dress seductively because it always works.

I believe no sensible lady would allow her husband wash napkin unless he insists.

God knows I'd rather dispose it and use a new one every time.

Oasis007:


These Thread was on fire everywhere last Week. Thousands of Firefighters couldn't do jack here. But coz we conted a Win yesterday, see as Everywhere calm like there is no longer fire on the Mountain.

Learn to dey relax.

No amount of e-protest can sack Ole, the board has to make up their mind. Dazzal!

None!

Upto 8 times.

But I don't see anything taking me away from RCCG.

Raging fire.

How is this guy not Daniel Wu?

Congratulations bro!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Your last line says it all
. decency is not all about sex..it's not gender base too. However if sex should only happen in a relationship, the question is, what kind of relationship? Friendship of opposite sex is a relationship, being good neighbors is a relationship, being co workers, is relationship. Infact, interpersonal relationship is something that has not limit. What level of relationship should people get before they can start having sex and still say they are decent?

Sex should be in romantic relationships only!


By the meaning and standard of decency, I wouldn't even say I'm decent but we can always strive towards it.

One can be modern and still decent

sheanzy:
I don't blame u guys, the hardship and hatred u guys have for Nigeria have made u criticize Nigeria at any given point

Cigarettes is most expensive in Australia than in the whole world, infact iit's 5x more costlier than what a pack of cigarettes is being sold in United States.

So this has nothing to do with Nigeria, i know the country is hard but it's not everything u people should start calling naira abeg.. haba!!

Even if you increase the price of a pack of cigarettes to 10x its current price in Nigeria, it won't still buy what you see in the picture.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't even have religion in mind.
Who determins how much sex a lady has had? Thean or the lady in question, or how she dresses? Cos I'm sure she won't come out and tell you she's had sex 5 times in the past month..so how do you no she doesn't have sex often?

Firstly, decency is not gender bias.

If a sexually active lady/man lies that they've not had sex in months, that's their problem. I don't care!

But I believe we're talking about people who have conscience here, "not often" here is subjective, but if you are having sex often or too often you'd know.

Besides, sex should only happen in relationships.

It is important to know that decency is not all about sex.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Not having sex "often" means she can have sex. So tell.me.how often she should have sex to stay decent?

Yes s/he can have sex. We arr not talking religion here.

Not often is self explanatory.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Please someone should explain to me what it means to be decent or what decency is. I want to check something.

Forget this.

A decent lady or girl should not have sex often in so far she's not married yet.

We guys always forget that same thing goes for guys too.

Explorers:
This is how much food you can get for the cost of a pack of cigarettes in Australia.

Nigeria has finished patapata!

Explorers:
Nappies In Sweden Have A Father On The Packaging.

It makes sense especially for marketing purposes.

Future is male.

With the way Chelsea keeps eating these small teams for dinner, I don't see how they won't win the league.

Oasis007:


Yeah..... I didn't watch it.

Next time, just ask those who saw the match.

Ejiro, you sef fall now.

Ibukzy:
Ronaldo did

He probably didn't watch the game.

Nickshrapnel:
Sailors of the high seas, if you ever find yourself outside Nigeria, don’t make the same mistake this bloke made

Lesson learnt. Always use VPN.

DieRich5:
lol

Baba, I don tire for our people here o.

Born2conquer:
Do you own a business? Are you a landlord??

Will you allow your customers to take goods on credit and not pay?

Will you allow your tenants to live without paying the rents when due?

I repeat, a lot of you are damaged. You don't only endure hardship, you now enjoy it.

The fact that people support these loan sharks shows how damaged a lot of Nigerians are.

Lastpharoah33:
I'm 28 already. No achievement whatsoever, no drive or passion for better days ahead.

Don't tag me lazy yet. I ve done all manner of jobs( not a graduate) to survive. I don't seem to improve on my financial status.

Am considering putting up myself for sale but, hisba police no go gree. I can boldly tell you that all these pesticides are ineffective(including sniper)

Biko, I don't want to see these ebook and course sellers on this thread. Na person we Don chop Belle full dey buy course materials.

My good people of NL, I need anybody that can donate his or her sister for me to marry. Abeg my bombing squads, even if na 60-80 yrs client, I am ready.

I need this between now till December. Ciao!

To be candid, this is the exact mentality of a lot of Nigerian women who think they are ready for marriage.

Kaycee7:
Alexis Louder fine sha

She's not fine one bit. I'd rate her 4/10.

She's a great actress and I loved that. Did you see how horrible she looked when water washed off her makeup?

Ma we dey say the truth o.

No. It's not an issue.

dettolgel:
In few years they will litter this place asking for one form of help or the other. When they are done their children will also come to ask for people to complete their tuition or send them money for their project or remind us how they have been feeding on garri in school or how they need money to complete jamb form.

While their parents will be busy forming we married on time.

Seriously, a lot of Nigerians are just too selfish especially the women.

The fact that you are of age doesn't qualify you for marriage or parenthood.

Ask yourself, am I capable financially and emotionally?

E go be.

I don't know who did the juju but West Ham is always knocking out City.

HenryDion:
Do you suppose gay marriage? If you don't, it makes you a homophobe. There's no two ways about it

Do you know you can be gay and stupid and the sametime?