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This is what we are talking about female at work place...............you can't use emotions to blackmail everyone......


Your mom is still within the same local government area........


There is nothing like cheating here.......other option is if she can reject the promotion to remain in her comfort zone

Ah!

Realtalk20:
Mother nature is truly beautiful

But why are Nigerian universities so useless? What stops the Marine departments in these schools from mapping this ?

Or we are.waiting for foreigners to come and verify the depth for us ?

Jeez

Hydrographer maps water body not marine engineers

Bro. Nothing like bigger picture in female.....they just want to enjoy every moments.....no plan. No goal. No nothing.....

Michellekabod2:
I don't believe the man was made to be head in a relationship. Its a role he took up himself, nothing wrong in a man or woman taking up the role to lead the relationship. Whoever have the best leadership skills amongst the couple can
take the lead(I don't mean be master or mistress,I mean lead like someone taking the wheel of a vehicle). Or both of them can lead themselves,depends on what make them happy. I have an issue with people making a predefined role for couples,its what they mutually choose for themselves that matters.


I believe redpillers and other sects of people (example feminists,mgtow etc)should be left alone as long they are harmlessly propagating their own ideologies.

Can you tell us how many men/guys you've asked out and how many have turned you down ?

And where would your wedding take place ?

ePoster:
To be honest i dont understand you?
Mgtow has to do with pushing women alone and focusing on other aspect of one's life
Nairaland mgtow has to do with sex, romance, bragging about their WISDOM and every one elses ignorance and arguing with errant females.

Well, many things have be abbreviated which I might not be interested in what they mean and their definitions.......I'm more particular and focus on the subject matter and its content........why are people running night shift just to expose who is behind the username ubunja ? If he so wish to be known in person, he would have freely done so......and to me his posts are what we can all relate to

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't be deceived. They all know he is saying the truth and that's why they are bitter.Do you think its easy to remove a babies mouth from the mother's breast without the baby screaming? Think bro.

But come to think of it...........if you have been handling some stuff the wrong way and getting a not so pleasant expected results/responses then one anonymous person just show up out of the blue and start teaching you what/how you've be doing it the wrong way and gave you for free how and why you should do it different way; that if you continue that way, you'll most certainly be getting same unpleasant results/responses......are you not supposed to be liberated and be appreciative ?

Human has always been bitter with the truth anyway........but what could be responsible for human bitterness for a liberating truth.........

1) Could it be the manner at which the truth was said
2) could it be the fear of losing out on the wrong path
3) could it be been used to familiar ways of doing things (familiar approach)
4) could it be ego and pride or self denial of the truth.......or difficulty in owing up that you've been doing something the wrong way(s)

Not everyone really want to solve their problem

ePoster:
The mgtows here dont even know sh!t about their movement. For a group whose aim is to distant itself from anything female so as to improve the other aspects of one's life, the boys here are rather obsessed with anything romance and sex.

Knowledge is power......accepting an idea as a positive knowledge is choice depending on ones interpretations of its benefit......

And I believe there is something in human that tend to make them reject something good......just because what they are used to is different.........

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't mind them. It's only a criminal that gets annoyed when the owner of the house put security measures.

So true.........I don't know him in person but I like the ideas in his articles.......and I wonder why people can't see the good in it.

CHoccolaTE:
Hahaha

Ubuntu the ojota guy said everything op wrote on that thread was 100% correct.
That's the statement I am going with.
Stupid gigantic forehead Yoruba guy.

What I don't really understand is female obsession with fake, fantasy and falsehood but will go any length and fight tooth and nail to destroy anything with potential to liberate their gender.........


To me ubunja miseducation is good for both genders, thorough analysis of ideas therein is rich in knowledge wealth and self appraisal in becoming a better and improved version of oneself......no basis to be bitter bout someone else's opinion(s) that is not particularly directed to one as a person........

djgreenland:
Oga, you just posted rubbish, and you are also telling us you are not alright.


So the amount of broken homes we have is not enough ba?

While sharing your opinion, just don't break your own home.

Pathetic......is that enough reason to live in deceit ?

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

Most of the guys on this thread seek to fight the way it was from creation:

When a man genuinely loves a woman, he will do ANYTHING to please her and make her happy.

That is why the Bible teaches balance and says women should submit to their husbands. So you both are pleasing one another and putting yourselves first.

As per Harry & Meghan, I have not done much research.

However, I feel that
1. Meghan should have counted the cost of marrying into the royal family and be READY to abide to their idiosyncrasies which honestly would be only during official duties. I am sure they do not dictate how she has her bath or what cour to paint her room.

2. Meghan leaving movies, marrying the prince, them leaving the prince hood and she going back to her movies sound like a game plan to me. No matter how 'rebellious' Harry is, he was breed for a certain type of life and discarding it all seems somehow. Already, he was the 6th in line or so therefore, the royal office Must have cut him some slack.

3. I hope he really investigated why Meghan divorced the first time and working towards preventing it. Let's also hope Meghan is not the fickle 'irreconcilable differences so divorce' kind of woman.

It would be a shame for Harry to give so much up and end up a broken, lonely man.

Absolute sense

Judges will be beaten someday.........what kind of law are these and how did father by default become a law ?

Assuming such scenario happened to theses judges son, would they apply such a senseless misandric law ?

Religious blockhead

eitsei:
a lot of you don't understand Islam and you mistake it for Muslims, Islam forbids a lot of bad things and the rules apply to all class of people whether rich or poor and because some people are breaking it doesn't mean they are right, a sin is a sin whether committed by a rich man or poor man, if you catch osinbajo committing adultery now, does that mean adultery is only frowned upon if you are a poor Christian? ... Islam advocates early burial of a corpse, it might be in the evening if the corpse died in the morning or the following day if it was at night and in some cases it might be more than that

Did you just called a country some people ?

You're not even a true Muslim before Iranians....(irony of loyalty)

23 years old girl won't marry you with such an option at her disposal......and again you shot yourself in the leg by encouraging she keeps communication with the other guy normal..........that's a cap in hand approach


Love is deceiving you..........that I know because you're not ready for marriage yet........it only her beauty that is boosting your attraction to her.


How do guys start a relationship with marriage topics ? I Bet you, you know nothing about her yet

This voyage is very risky.....stop investing in a deal you don't have 60% control over and 95% assurance its yours because whatever that can go wrong always go wrong.

The major cause of heartbreak and disappointment in relationships is relying solely on personal feelings, expectations and perspective about your partner I'm judging your relationship.........someone was studying you while you were already dating her in your mind



How could you describe the relationship in such a way that your supposed partner is acting in contrary...........



Self observation is key to peace of mind in a relationship

Michellekabod2:
i prefer ubunja "nice guys are the sluts...." thread ,to me thats the overall best of all his miseducations

I like that too but that chosen ehn......is symbolic.


Not everyone understand the message in that post.....that's why its bothering people psychologically...hence all different versions of interpretations......it stand for self respect with standards of the highest order without ego......

The Disadvantage of the position of men at the threshold of sexual and romantic relationship

Also telling you to pay attention to detail........and have a discerning spirit........


And most important of all let the women/ladies should show enough commitment and work to deserve the relationship because they stand to gain the most......as a man in a relationship, if you not spending you're losing weight

Nonsense story.........fiancé without proposal and engagement ring



And is he an uber driver ?

That post was/is the best of all posts.....only if you don't understand the message there in.......getting remix like Lil Wayne lollipop isn't a bad idea after all

donbachi:
Her ex said that to make ur friend dislike and see her as a cheat..to enable him have her all to himself and u guys fell for it.

You might be very wrong.......and stop thinking for people, you're not the one in this situation

This is the level of smartness in women

They create bigger problems by solving a minor ones........


Its not new

Yeah a PhD. Holder should be more concern about acquiring a land area as big as the biggest city in Africa just to sit, sleep and pray to God to Intercede for their Government to use their tax money to fulfill their campaign promises.


While the same government is pushing for a counter religious belief to outlive all other belief system..........but then other serious individual (Bodies, Cities, states, countries) are putting on thinking cap to take development to your God in the sky.........


Nigeria shall be great....

Chinekepikin:
Not all men

Do you understand how she was tiredly feeling right there in their mist ?

Husband is in one mad winter country hustling to keep that tattooed skin fresh......and by extension paying for the service of the two men through some additional value added tax



And as she lean toward the better equal that was responsible for her visit to cloud 9, the man in turn as the head of customer service on duty in the cooperation in conjunction with the cooperate affairs officer II was showing the husband "service quality delivery".

And you people started reacting like a chemical

Men are scum

This one weak me. Local man cannot can


People are running away from responsibility and you're swimming in manipulative captivity......


Well done. Mandela of our generation

By my calculation your conscience has made an orphanage father for almost ten (10) good years now......this is what is call situation for life.......

Depressed101:
Nairalanders pls come to my rescue as I have always come to people's rescue in topics related to co-existing with other people..

I am the first son of my family, I have a sister who is one year younger than I am.

For a very long time now, in fact from time immemorial, my mother has always taught my sister that it is

"ONLY ONE YEAR GAP BETWEEN THE BOTH OF US" - SO THEFORE THE SENIOR RESPECT THAT SHOULD BE ACCORDED TO ME SHOULD BE MINIMAL.


So fast forward to today. I am owing her some money for about two months now. And promised to pay her infact I have paid half of the money despite all the expenses on me in the family. She asked me to give her part of the money today, I told her I didn't have money, that the 15k with me is not mine. That I will give her 3k to hold hand, even tho it will cause me great inconveniences. She threatened to take the money, the whole 15k. I told her to stop that nonsense and I went to the bathroom to take my bath. On coming out of the bathroom, I noticed that my wallet was tempered with. The 15k Is no where to be found. I asked my Lil sis, she said it was sister that touched it.. I ran outside with my towel, and called out to my sister, but she walked off without turning back...

I cried inside my heart, because I know she didn't really need that money right then... I felt bitter, I don't even know what to do.... I found a way to sort for another 15k.

This is not the first time she has done something of similar behavior, and I brushed it off, afterall she's my sister...

Right now I am outside a beer parlour watching a match and typing this.. I am not feeling fine at all.. I am feeling bitter. Until now I always forget quickly what they do to me...


I don't know how to confront her when I get home. Whether to caution her verbally, or give her a slap.. Whether to keep mute and suck it up as usual and wait for when I am ready leave that house cos I understand that too much familiarity can breed disrespect. I have plans to leave before January.


What should I do..


I live with my mother and this sister and other of my little siblings. And I pay the house rent of where we live.

Ordinarily people will say its not good but that's how I safe myself from public disgrace and disrespectful attitude from mine........


Beat her like you want to kill her.....but don't hit her in sensitive areas like face etc

People will blame you and talk down on you while she would be crying of whatever pain.....beg her then and say your sincere sorry with a straight face

...but your Don't and No will have some weight henceforth

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I read the nonsense some people wrote.....

See, heart to heart talk don't work on senseless girls......especially those that lack understanding of your plight as a responsible brother......


What will solve your problem is action(s) not some weak cheap talks.....

You're solely paying the rent and she can't lend you money for some times......

First of all, she is not your responsibility, you both were born same way......if she can save money, then she can take responsibility as well......may you people should switch roles....she pays the rent while you borrow her your own money......maybe she'll realize how sensible she has being all the while

If with your sacrifice she can't understand with you and your mum don't understand as well.

Look for a house or a friend you can stay with for like six months......lie to your mum you want to stay alone and face your life.......

And see her reaction........if she didn't persuade you to stay and call your sister to order.......park out and if after six month, they don't feel your absence. Just move on with your life......


In those period, go visit and buy them stuff especially your mum........

I perfectly understand how you feel each times you think about what you've lost ?

You have your own money, yet you want to hustle your own money ?

You love him deeply for solid six years yet you never asked him where the relationship was heading. He had tried to make you his Mrs and you've declined numerous times


He has shown you love than anyone else in this life......even your father

The truth is you're manipulative, crafty, dubious and greedy.....you were only enjoying his money and the fantasy of my UK maga.........


You were not surprised he married the newer lady but the fact that the lady knows the value of what you've lost. Perhaps, her husband had narrated how you wasted his time and you're not ready to back off.


After all, she is smarter and braver. She polished the raw Gold you've thrown away. The message is not a mockery in anyway, its a signal that the new sheriff in town is a no nonsense fellow.

She understand you still want to be tapping from her family's resources so she demanded you stay clear because she is in charge now.......and you should fvck off. Is that too much to ask my lady ?
If you refuse to move on, she will bath you in the mud of your indecisive confusion


Learn your lesson, accept and be sincere with the next asshole.....how old are you by the way ?....the calculation can't be wrong....you've dated him for six years......the guy before him and the one before that as well.

Martinez39:
Nna, I weak o. I could have continued debunking and deconstructing her irrational and directionless arguments but I can't go on forever. Women have rights and opportunities as men but, according to the op, it's not empowerment and women need the evil divorce laws and child support laws in the US and other developed countries to be empowered. What sort of logic is that? So divorce laws and child support are women empowerments? You can see we have a crook here. So she needs misandric laws that can be abused to ruthlessly extort money from men before she can be empowered? She and her kind want to open a pandora box.

In life, every decision has it consequences and we must not create a society that absolves individuals of being held accountable. No man forced any woman to marry and no woman forced any man to marry. The risks of marriage include disappointment and unfaithfulness from a spouse, making sacrifices that are eventually futile, a complete turn around in the attitude of your spouse etc. You have no excuse to not be aware of the risks of marriage and it is your responsibility to bear the consequences if your marriage choices backfire and your marriage hits rock-bottom instead of running to the government soliciting child support and alimony. If you can't take the risk, don't get married or don't, as a woman, open your legs and get pregnant for some fvck boy. If op is so concerned about fathers leaving their children, what happens to suing for parental neglect? Why child support and alimony? Because we have a crook and hypocrite on our hands. She has ulterior motives.

If a woman has an abusive husband, let her leave the marriage and let him be punished under the law as an abuser. Its wrong if he is asked to compensate with his properties and cash because women will abuse such laws to set their husbands up and government could tax the money (like they do in the USA) and boom, we have a law that government is motivated to keep and exploit alongside with women. The same applies to alimony and child support. Marriage would turn to a business scheme with the divorce and alimony laws we see in western countries. The price the man needs to pay will keep rising. During a divorce, both individuals in a marriage should be separated such that none makes away with the other's assets or cash. It's funny how she thinks men don't like taking care of their children while forgetting the one's that dump and kill their new borns.

The only thing government must get involved in is parental neglect and when it comes to financially taking care of the kids, the husband and wife must be held accountable no matter what. Nothing stops the women from building wealth before and during the marriage, same with man. All things being equal, custody should be given to who earns more except if the person wants joint custody or grants sole custody to the other. Bad choices, bad consequences.

I rest my case.

Too much brain dey worry you


How do you sleep at night ?