czarr:
See person future wife....

Her past will surely catch up

Ernesthugo:
I Will tell u a quick story all this abroad Nigeria girls many have deep rooted problem that makes them unstable, a clear true story of one i know in Canada have visited MFM PRAYER CITY more than someone in Nigeria, she has a real life spirit husband that will slap the man that comes to her so most times these things happen they have no idea they are dealing with something more super naturals, the truth was later opened ,the babe stepmom did some enchantment on her to make her loose hatred for her own father, in other words for the man to love her own children more, may we not inherit what we do not know, AMEN.

That's scary

Ernesthugo:
YOU WANT TO MARRY HER becareful what u wish

Marry bawo,which calamity be this keh,I want to console her ni,lol

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Before you will start mentioning devil name up and down you better sit your husband down and tell him ,and let him figure out what he wants to do with his brother before people will call you devil

Ernesthugo:

Am asking because I can help

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Manipulator at sight, run oooo

Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

Nlfpmod front page please

Thanks

Are you based in Naija or where?

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oYwr60X630

He has become desperate to become governor and doesnt mind carrying out a coup against me - Edo State governor Godwin Obaseki explains why he fell out with the state's deputy governor Phillip Shaibu

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

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Edo no be Lagos, I dey lafff in oshio baba language

micellgevity:
A friend came to me yesterday, he wanted to sell his house to relocate to Canada. He is 42+ yrs. He is assured of a tourist visa that will cost him 1.8m excluding ticket.

He wants to know if it is worth it considering his age. Also he is afraid that if he sells his house in Ilorin (a new site) and the things go south what will happen.

Another thing he is assured is that his visa can be extended before expiration. He wants to know whether he can truly work with a tourist visa of 5 yrs and whether his visa can be extended.

Your inputs will be appreciated.

Thanks.

If your friend can't source for the money elsewhere, I will advise he shouldn't sell his house .na 50/50 na so I take japa many years ago too.
Sometimes it worked and many atimes it doesn't

ijustdey:


https://punchng.com/icpc-probes-corruption-allegations-against-malami/?amp

Initial gra gra

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

You're married bro stop doing this shit.
Imagine your wife telling you she can't stop thinking about her ex?
If you want to live long bro just stay on your loving and understanding woman quietly 🤫 💯 enjoy your blissful marriage.
Your ex is bitter because she couldn't cope new reality, boys aren't smiling at her.

guobe:
I am so happy for this newly wedded couple.congratulations on this union.pics below.



https://www./Edopolitics/permalink/6925463784155125/?mibextid=2JQ9oc

Wahala Wahala Wahala

SmartPolician:
That's an unfair comparison. During the death of the Queen, there were guests from all over the world coming to the UK. In the picture above, Putin invited a few African leaders to a meeting in Moscow.

Besides, the UK is a country that takes strict steps to manage their resources, unlike broke African countries living an extravagant lifestyle. When Boris Johnson was the British PM, he often travelled in the economy class of British Airways, but a broke Nigerian president always flies a NAF jet anywhere he goes.

Thanks for this smart response.
I was about saying that UK has a very small road ,hence,moving people together at once saves cost for them.
That comparison holds no water for me.

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Go to court and do the needful bro

BJanta:


Those people are so smart and thorough.

Exactly, and they undergoes training and retraining cso they knee naija guys pretty well

Purvan:
If you aren't muslim , the place no mek sense to you

Pure lies bro, stop capping.

You too dey bugg bro

BJanta:


Trying to straighten out the conflicting lies. If all you're going to the US for is to learn cookery and return to Nigeria to set up a bakery and all that, you've pissed on your own visa request. You can as well do it in any third rate private catering school in Nigeria here and still open and manage a first class bakery. That's the logic, that's inevitably one of the reasons. A friend of mine was denied American visa for the reason I gave above. The very first question the vo gave him was , ' What are going to do in the US ' . Thinking that he had to play it smart and also wanting to impress the vo , he said, ' I'm going there to study HOROLOGY ' . The vo said ,' that's alright . But why don't you go to Switzerland, it's much better choice than the US because they make the best watches in the world ' He smiled at him and GBAM ,Visa denied.

Majority of their officers are vast and well trained.
Sometimes we think those guys are dumbs but they're not.
They've seen it all.

dimexy247:
It happens and has happened to me before. Those people are crazy.

Just move on bro and try again.

They're not crazy but they're well trained to detect lies and poke holes in your submission and statements.
You need to read their mind and stay ahead of your game when next you visit them.

Even as a permanent resident holder I encountered something similar at Chicago Airport inward from London on the 1st of July 2023, can you imagine ? Asking me why did I travel and for what reason. I have the right to get angry but I dear not because the border agent has every power at that point to do anyhow which they recognized too,its a mind game bro
How much more someone that has not been to the states before.

You can always try again though

elloso:
Hello fam.
I will be traveling to the UK soon (Scotland precisely) and I intend to book a flight (Turkish Airline) that has a stopover at Istanbul and Dublin.
Do I need a transit visa to go through Dublin?

Please I really need your reply 🙏

If you intend to spend time touring the city during layover you will require a transit visa .
If not just stay in the airport for your connecting flight to avoid story that touches.

siofra:
I understand this is Nigeria where people are crazy about connections. People think that because you're from their village, you're supposed to give them a free pass. They won't go through the normal process, and when you refuse, they start to hate you and spread rumours about you.

It is happening to me at the place I work. It's becoming too much because I won't budge. Sometimes I feel like crying. How do I get around this? Why won't people just do things the right way I've never expected anything from anyone because they are from my village or because I know them.

I feel like I won't be able to stand my ground any longer.

Please stand your ground ,your credibility will speak for you in the near future

KingAzubuike:


Source

At the end of every term in school, they shared math set and books both reading and writing.
And life was better too

blowjohn:


Aswear, me I want to ask him to explain the meaning of E naira. I don't understand the concept. Is it related to E money?
I also want to ask him how I can start up a small business

Bad guy 👦 😏 😎

Zxcvbnmghtr:
They should please release him to the general public. We want to tell him something.

The public need to show him something outside quickly

Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.

The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.

The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.


He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.

If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.

Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.

I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.

Leave ir look for another job and own your peace bro

Fineman2:
My name is Dora.

I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.

My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.

My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.

The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.

From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.

He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.

He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.

I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.

Are these not red flags I should run from?

I am confused, please advise me.

He's taking pressure off you and you're here complaining, if he gives you headache you will complain,which one you want self?

DCmaverick:
I was going through a dating app looking for girls around me to hookup with, all of a sudden i saw my pastor there. I jus couldn't believe it cus he is a man of God and he is happily married . So i dnt knw what he is doing there or is he preaching the gospel to all those unbelievers there

Have you confirmed from him?
What of if yahoo Boys use his photos?
You can't assume he posted his pictures u till u confirmed from him or sybau

Chifriend:
Picture 5&6 - Overhead tanks in the compounds.

I once served and lived in the layout many years ago.
There is a private school besides an eatry called crunches I didn't know if they still exist.
That area is such a beautiful place with some beautiful uncal students too

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

Am with you on this,few days go I told my white girlfriend to pay for the food she ordered for herself and she said am been mean and inconsiderate, that she is disappointed.
I said she should wait till she would see the real meaning of disappointment.
2days later she texted me for a ride to work l, didn't respond untill few mins to her going to work that am out of town she should arrange for an alternative.
Meanwhile I know for sure she will be super late catching public /metro bus to work,she is still super mad at me now but who cares.

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

Am with you 💯 on this one.

You have just said NO to rubbish the church throws at people.

2mercy:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/nigerian-govt-should-reciprocate-us-visa-ban-fani-kayode/

Who do us as a country, why why God

Younghacka:

Can I Get That Model For 1m?

I don't know,am not in Naija sir

Younghacka:

So You Are Advicing We Go For A More Recent Model Of The Cr-v?
His Budget Is What We Are Considering Tho. . . Do U Have Any Car In Mind That Can Go For Around That Price?

I just took this pics now,this type will be better in my opinion sir