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daveP:
You just brought out the comical angle of it all. lol


You're right!!

Despite this being something that seems common to society, people gats learn to avoid situos like this. We learn everyday!!

true talk..

daveP:
With all sincerity, I can now see why women are the problems of themselves.


A woman's initial decision started all these.


Now the middle decision was by a woman(the father's new wife)

Y'all now expect the final to be reversed at the OP's detriment?


Lol.


Lemme even guess, the father was doing well with the girl for those 7years, what role the mum was playing, I dunno. Then a woman came along and changed everything.

Now, you expect the man to rechange everything when he was on his own chilling.

Lol.

It's our Home o, but no one pointed that to the selfish woman that forced the father to do the dropping.


All still women. Create the trash and expect the men to bin the trash.


The OP has no obligations whatsoever in this matter in the first place, but cos it's affecting or going to affect his home. he has to take decisions fast. Will the decision be detrimental.


If the mum played her role, I'm sure this whole ish won't be here.


Some are even beginning to doubt all this now.

Respect Sir, @bolded.. However, from your open statement, I don't think women are really the problem..let's see it from another angle. Most times, a man' thirst for pucci can becloud his sense of reasoning.. Both men played in the suffering and resettling of the kid..

1. Biological father allowed a selfish pucci (new wife) to kick out a daughter who was there before her.. (what evil can you compare to this? ).

2. Step dad allowed is love for pucci not to see this day. He was enjoying the baby mama's toto, thinking, the child and her biological father won't be in the picture someday.. Most people lie to themselves during fvcks.

Lastly, the child would have been a lucky child having someone like me as a father with my "no marriage" mentality.. Cos, no woman will live in my house.. So, na Papa and pikin till eternity..

helpee:
when you point to me where the OP said the grandmother is old then we can continue this discussion. Otherwise this is an unnecessary distraction

I love this reply ..

I bet you, his reply would be lame..

NairalandFAYOSE:
I don't Think My family will like this. they don't really like her that much Cus they say she is "AFTER ONE"

Beta bux.. Your family saw this from day one but you were too blind by the pucci to see this day..

You entered ONE CHANCE with an AFTER ONE.

daveson07:
it's not normal to be a controlling frea.k

Oga op, you maybe doing what you think is right . Because, from your story, I could sense a man who is quite enlightened concerning the kinda family he wants. However, you are giving society and religion the chance to make you miserable..

Just do this little observation here on your thread.. And you'll see the female hive mind in play!

Most of the females here were against you kicking her outta the house..
But, seriously, ask yourself why were they mostly concerned about the divorce (legally ) and the sending her out parts more than how it's affected you?

They dread loneliness and maybe not providing for them(especially the lazy ones). They are so selfish, women only see themselves. They tell you to man up(words of man-ipulation), they see men as tools. No one ever told them to "woman up".

Rushmore:
You can choose to ignore her,do any other thing but not divorce. And never you switch off your phone to avoid calls from family, it's childish. Be an alpha male! Make a decree and stand on it! You're a lion and not a chicken!

Wetin this one dey talk?

What alpha male.. Guy is a beta bux already..

He can only reduce it cos most beta men don't become alpha men over night.. Abi, you just heard the word for the first time.. And you wanna try it in a sentence

GANAYAD:
I think you are still d girl husband due to ur financial support bt my brother if you go broke na d girl go divorce you

Op, reason this comment carefully..

koolaid87:
Don't change the d1ck nailing you M'aam

True talk.. Regular fvcks and rest of mind dey keep person healthy and fit.. In my opinion safe sex with one willing partner all the time ..

Ladies and thieving ways of thinking .. They mostly see men as useful idiots.. Just see their comments here. Even the supposedly smart ones don't even have original and rational thoughts of their own(hive mind sh.it )

Always seeing themselves as a God sent to a brother.. Damn. I pity thirsty men.. Chasing and eating pussy is not a success.. However, if that's your dream on earth as a man.. Then, what more could I say..

Caleycash:
hey shut up illegal immigrant... yeye small boys wey travel with their family spilling nonsense, your mates are achieving academically, monetary and success wise, your here talking rubbish as if you've killed a cockroach before. mtchewww

.. Typical naija way of speaking disrespectfully . No new ways to diss a Gee.

Using the same ol' lines, same arse shi*t for every individual. huh! Stupid dull mudafvcker. What would you know about achievements?

Ugosample:
what is this one saying? ?

Are you a pussy nigga quoting me, I hope you don't bring a knife to the gun fight?

Before I kill you, you should stop smelling pvssy..
You dumbfvck.. If I don't kill you, next time, don't quote a Gee like me with that overused bullsh*t ..

shaybebaby:
His arse is toast! I don't know about America but from seeing her pics, she's in the UK at the moment and in this UK, everytime you see a healthcare professional, they always ask "are you suffering any form of domestic violence at home?" it's standard for them to ask.

So I can imagine her being attended to with those bruises in her face, coppers be sitting outside her door right now.

. The UK oh, the America oh.. These pussified societies would continue to ask about the programmed domestic violence bullsh*t...

A man will definitely beat/fight a woman(gender equality ) someday after taking her bullsh*t for a while. Pussy will kill the west..

Cine:
That's what built our civilisation.

1) It's not that women chose to stay it's that they had no choice. The same went for men. They were shamed to stay in marriages that they no longer wanted to be in. That's how generations of children are raised. Not all homes were bad.


2) Not all domestic violence were perpetrated by men. It's a fact that most domestic violence is actually committed by women. Spitting, slapping, temper tantrums, throwing things, not to speak of emotional abuse. It's just that men are much stronger than women. So when they do it everyone talks about it. Can you imagine a man going to the police because his wife slapped him.

3) Happiness happiness happiness. Women will never be happy. The biggest problems with marriages the world over are a womans happiness. Women are happy for all but 2 minutes and then theyre unhappy again. #happy is literally on every other female insta post. All women want is happiness but they don't realise they'll never ever find it.

My senior bros, I respect you Sir.. Forgive my language, so fuckin' on point.. Thank you

2buffagain:
When it comes to relationships, I personally do not take a woman with a tattoo seriously.
Especially not enough to get into a marriage-facing relationship with her.
Highest, she goes into the "forever GF" box for me. Guys you know the box

I know the assumptions you all are making about me. I can hear them already:
"You're judging her when you don't even know her!"
"Not all women who get tattoos are wild!"
"The true sluts look like good girls!"

Blah blah blah. I get it. And I've met many level-headed intelligent and sane tattoo'd babes.
But see, the REAL reasons I don't plan ahead with a tattoo'd lady are as follows...

Let me add to the bolded.. She'll tell you that the ring in her tongue is for show and should never be mistaken for a hoe..

hopeforcharles:
Guy u take style harsh oh, well I drive a car and when u come in u keep ur keys on the table, that girl u saw there is a smart intelligent and well educated girl, attending one of the best universities in the country, its a happy day for us so we are celebrating it,( he that finds a wife finds a good thing - The Good Book)
About been confused I don't know where u got that from, I would have blasted u but I am a happy soul today so its ur lucky day, check my status and u will under why.

. . Okay, i hear you Sir..

Just hear yourself.. Smart intelligent and well educated girl... One of the best universities in the country, finds a good wife... .
Enjoy oga wife to be..

So, you are the favoured one abi?
Make i no spoil una happy day..

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Ade3000yrs:
Another Zombie arrangement

Zombie arrangement.. .. The exact words for the show.

Only pucci provoking men do this....

hopeforcharles:
So this evening I popped the question
Sweet Pumpkin will u be my Queen?
Will u be my peachy pie?
My heartbeat,
My vitamin Jenny?
Guess what guys she said YES
and I sealed it

Not impressed.. You've got a job/business and a car key on the table to show social media and people like yourself..
Erection for this kind of girl is a no no... Confused man.. Na ladies dey trip for engagement, wedding and marriage things..

So, you thought this thing won't say yes? Toto thinking men everywhere..

When i see a pvssy nigga i see a stupid man(educated or not ).. They're so biased.. All they think about is pucci..

Dongreat:
The behaviour of average Nigerians. They praise you once you live flamboyantly without asking for the source of your wealth.
Money must be made mentality, even if I rob a bank and kill fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, bread winners and guidance.
Person with no know job or source of income live large and instead of to question their flamboyance we chant useless praises because hunger don finish us and we need peanuts from them.

Yea, bro you are correct on the money must be made mentality.. Just check his fb page and see how the armed robber kept quoting the scripture..

mhisbliss:
Because Beyonce is clearly more beautiful than what jayz could hope for, yet he got her

What kind of ignorant statement is this? You mean a true baller like Jigga..you know nothing about him.. Guy wey don lay more prettier women than beyonce in the past.. Jigga settled for bey' because he saw other things beyond the beauty alone..
And if i hear from your mouth say Hova no be good looking man..I go pour you water.. Jigga is fit to be seen anywhere as a man..

I guess her fame is lying to your head..

Mrbehave:
Thank you aunty. So whats the way out?

If were you.. I would take the aunt's advice.. I know she's tryin' to shame you to "man up" so that you can become miserable in marriage.. Tell your people that you lack the mental/psychological maturity.. you are impotent.. you want to be a monk or priest...

Afterall. you used GOD to lie in the first place... Just continue...

EzeDiEgo1:


I don't see any reason why a guy will engage in adultery with a girl he can't marry or take as wife.

When you engage in Adultery with who is not your wife, you are killing yourself unknowingly, bringing misfortune, setback, death and so on upon your life.
Even in Exo 20vs14 it says
New International Version (NIV)
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
But we all have disobey this commandment and follow our own direction.

Stop having Sex with her if she can't be your wife, let her go if she not your wife.

. Op, after laughing to your dumb shi..t. I noticed how useless your thinkin' about men and women could be..
yea, you were only sensible to notice how nature made men to chase puccizzz... But a little dull to know about Adultery... If the man is committing consensual adultery, then, what is the innocent girl commiting?

Bringing misfortune, setback , death... Hahaha Poor country/religious graduates way of thinking..

Rozaytee:
stupid fool spotted

Dick suckin' lips.. . The comment pain you abi?

Are you a land whale?

solasoulmusic:
if my opinion makes one insult me I’m not the one with the problem on the basics of communication

Every individual has an opinion and its one of the cheapest commodity on earth.. So, people can fight petty about it..

You know its easier to say the other person is at fault(even in relationships ). One person always seeing his/her self as the better person..

For peace to reign. The easiest thing to do during such brawl is for each party to evaluate self and say sorry if you were wrong..
The idea of my opinion or i better pass you'll continue to cause fight oo.

Opinions are not facts until its proven to be one. Lets drop it already..

So, would you send an email for me to forward my whatsapp number ? Or you have other options..

solasoulmusic:
I wish I could stop the female advocacy thing but I think about my children and them growing up and reading these things how would they learn to be bold as women if I stayed silent. People can say what they like as long as they haven’t met me everything is speculation I’ve encountered worse I didn’t die is it now words that will do the job?

We are like this because I am free I don’t hold a grudge it’s ignorance that makes people insult you before checking your background to see if your even capable at such. It’s easy to ask me to stop but what I’m doing is not feminism but making you guys are aware that the first thing we all have in common is we are all human.

Just because I don’t look like the ideal doesn’t mean I’m not the real deal I’m confident in my skin hence being bold enough to upload my picture

At your suggestion as long as you will not come here I’m two weeks to open thread why not

I am not saying you should stop what you are doing.. i Saïd, try to reduce it here on nairaland.. We all have stories.. don't we? This is what you stand for. just do your thang..

At your last paragraph, you mean, come here to tell or discuss our dealings?

They once loved each other, abi?
I say many people no know wetin be love..

Na follow follow be many people own..

Since everyone dey show love make me self follow love..

Love is a sweet thing for those wey sabi..
Sad thing is, no be every body go sabi sweet thing..

solasoulmusic:
yes I do have a makeshift one haven’t furnished it entirely but it helps thanks for taking the time to

You're welcome. Wow ! Makeshift or not, the sh**t is tight... try complete am sha..

You see, life is so funny you know... Just check out how we dissed each few days back but we' re cool now..

Apologies.. am kinda laid-back but can react when necessary...

Abeg, try reduce your female advocacy on nairaland.. eh no dey work... Men go just dey use you catch trips.

Lastly, if you dont mind, I could send you lyrics and maybe melody to record every once a while. I go market am oh.. i go tell people wey i sabi and the ones i know not to check your stuff out.

you never can tell, the track maybe the pin ready to burst the bubble in major radio stations..

If you're interested we could take it to whatsapp. There you'll see the rappers i like and my photo .. I should be confident there, right?

solasoulmusic:
you this tombo fly I will make a song for you tonight SoundCloud.com/Solasoul they are all freestyles

I’m done with it

Freestyles.. Okay, i'll check it out.
I just did.. Wow, interesting stuff...

I like the.. Just be U, like you like you, life happens in a flash, summwr time. They' re all cool.. Nice beats.

You've got a studio in your house?