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solasoulmusic:
I dey just got home from my cousins wedding happy with the draw with Chelsea everything is going well thanks how about you ?

Okay, that's good... so the draw sweet your belle..

I dey alright...Thanks for askin'.

solasoulmusic:
Lol no be truth

I no know oo .

How you dey and the music thang ?

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pansophist:
For me, it is not about material (financial) brokenness but the mental one. Poor people have a predatory mindset developed over a sustained period of scarcity. Any sign of abundance (e.g, rich boyfriend) is seen as a fleeting resource to exploit, ransack and parasite from. Their personal responsibility will be projected to the other party and made to feel guilty if he refuses to accept such conditions in a relationship. Their family problem becomes yours to carry with pressure coming from different angles like sharp bullet forcing you to comply. Poor people usually do not understand the concept of a mutual relationship, its all about what they will benefit only.

Ultimately, the difference between the rich and the poor is their mindset. A rich person going for a broke woman is like throwing foods to hungry fish, you will be devoured. While the smart one realizes to leave poor people alone and let them date each other, seems they understand themselves better. Different mindset.

Too much sense wan wound you oh.. Respect.

solasoulmusic:
You guys are the reason why love is more materialistic than ever a broke girl that can give you her last Naira is worth more than the bleaching woman you have feelings for lol

. You don come with this your off point abi ..

aprilwise:
Guys wey dey engage girls with car Na fear of rejection they make Em Dey use car.

My thoughts.. The fear of rejection dey make people do a lot of things just to get acceptance.

People like that dey easy to manipulate.. Some people just dey put unnecessary pressure for themselves.

EnglishUsa:
shot up who told you that, people wey don de do the thing 20years still de perform and also have children

no mind the olodo..

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ugochukwufrenzy:
who has any fvcks he is not using?...

All the fvcks are in my dick and I am going to give it all to all worthy punanis before i extinct.

Sorry bro, I wish I had some free fvcks to give out

pocohantas:
With the situation of the country, most youths are still trying to find their feet in their 20s. Like you said, most men wait till they are financially stable to get married. Now, if this man is in his 30s and as usual, looking for a girl in her early-mid twenties... It won't be very wise of him to expect much. If he wants more, he should look in his circle of working individuals, which would most likely consist of his age group.

To the question, I think if she has a sense of responsibility, is frugal, has a job/skill and can bring something to the table, she is good to go. It is now up to the man to decide if that something is okay for him.

Kai.. This Poco' get common sense wella. Let me ask you a question...

Don't take it personal, shey you be evening newspaper? Cos, most times, old news na better reference and reasonable key to the future.

Anybody wey say dis two neva boil then make I baf naked..

Ciscogod:
see them .. see them..

All of them na female

They hate you if you don't give them your money..

It's a tactic, the hive-mind way, they try to shame you so that they can take your money.. Women don't love Men, they only love themselves and what men can do for them..

An ex bae asked me for money last month, I said to her that, her name isn't on my budget and I need money too..

The bae begin use shaming languages on me oo.. After listening to her, I laughed and ended the call.

..
So, Its the devil using me, whenever I masturbate picturing myself fvcking a woman from a different planet ..

Even the sons of God fvcked the daughters of men.(Genesis 6:2).

Heavenly sons marrying earthly daughters..

They try to suppress our sexual nature through religion.. Though, moderation is key.

spiceadole:
Let her go.
4 years of chopping free kpekus.. Take that as your consolation and move on

You are a man.
Men do not hang on too long and too much to one lady.
They always have choices/options.
Are they no single Catholic sisters in your church or neighbourhood?

@bold... What is da fvckin' meaning of that. So, every pucci should be priced?
There should be nothing like free fvcks in your great mind abi? The mindset is something else.

What about the female, preek should always pay for a pucci abi?

Una dey always see una pvcci as something special abi, no wonder sex for money thing is a popular and lucrative biz to a lot of ladies...

Mizk:
They're humans too, its same thing as getting married to any of the numerous man whores we have in Nigeria, its ok if a guy has a lot of body counts but when it comes to girls they'll brand them whores.

Man and woman no be the same thing..

see comments from bunch of entitled gashes...

One even said after sagging her boobs for the one year.
For this generation, how many females dey come husband house with standing boobs?

You can now imagine what most gashes do bring to a marriage.. "Coochie and drama".

I like the warmness of a woman but marriage is a fvckin' no no for me.. You can rent(girlfriend,olosho,fwb, escort ) every once a while but don't buy(marriage)...

If you love your space and peace of mind, then you probably would think twice before allowing any woman to live in your house..


Men, learn self-control and be happy...

Religion and science are enemies. One is a superstition; the other is a fact. One rests upon the false, the other upon the true. One is the result of fear and faith, the other of investigation and reason.

Robert Green Ingersoll..

Shortyy:
Bullshît.
All these ones na secondary school play.

If I like you, I'll shoot my shot straight up. No time for hide and seek.

Sadly, men these days are too proud. So even if I like person, I jejely keep my like to myself. Ain't got time.

A song by DMX.


Shortyyyy.... UHHHH!! we only did it full that night
and man the pussy was good
but shorty’s fuckin up my life (fuckin up my life)
Shortyyyy.... UHHHH!! we only did it full that night
but man that pussy was good
but shorty’s fuckin up my life.... c’mon, ma! gimme a break!


told her friends, “DMX( kushme ) is my baby’s father!”

She must be a land whale (very fat)

omoelerin1:
Every body just wants to sound brilliant and intelligent in public, even the semi-illiterate!

Direct your frustration to the military authority.

The bold alone is a sell out.. Sentimental gash like you...

Shey the truth pain you?

Abi, you are very daft not to observe the military dealings in a third world settings..

Besides, not everybody can sound brilliant and intelligent in public( just read comments on nairaland)..

Now you see how brilliant you are, right? Stupid slow human...

Hotzone:
Hope u are joking by calling a recruit private 'future chief of army staff'?
Nigeria army is not Nigeria Police were a recruit constable can get to deputy superintendent or SP before completing his 35yrs jail term. In army as a recruit private, your highest rank is staff Sergeant. Be guided and be careful of what u wish for!

.. Correcting that ignorance was a plus.. However, I see the Nigeria military as a joke all the way..

They don't have any independent history of greatness...
It's a pity they only beat and harass civilians in their country..

Everything about naija generals or recruits na local...

So, Op, You like birth day wishes abi?

The Nigeria military is a useless one in a sane setting..

Hedonini:
I agree 100% with everything you said.

Most of them feel reluctant to do the dirty after marriage. It's crazy. And yet they'll raise hell when a young man gets a couple of joy givers outside to keep enjoying the nasty pleasures he's used to..

Marriage is a scam invented to favour women and immiserate men. It's really of no use to men.

Gbam... Well said.

Hedonini:
You peeps are funny. Someone that feels too big to kneel on her wedding day would kneel to blow him?

Most of them stop blowing after the wedding ..

There's an end to every game.. In this game of relationship for most women is marriage..

They are always on a mission, you'll be wondering why the sudden change after doing many nice things for you during courting like "good sex, cook, clean etc.

At least, madam no kneeling down is truthful before the traditional wedding .. The lady is rude.. She dey slap am for their face for social media..

That wan na the husband headache sha.. The man na sissy, like the guy you quoted said.

highqueen:
indeed.


wonder when she told you that.

support and care is relative my brother,don't just agree to your path of cognitive definition about it,when there are other ways to make a woman happy.


please,cos you see he got her iphone means she's been drilling his pocket?
lool, funny kinda shiit.

Anytime I see those words @bolded.. I shake my preeq and think if I was created for her excitement..

Abeg, let happy people be with happy people.

Sad people to blend with sad people..

Happy people should only be with sad persons who are willing to take a chance for a change.



Just see how the chic dumped the poor thirsty dude after trying so hard to please and make her happy.. Ehya, I pity some men oh..

No wahala, she go meet the fine boys soon.
Players play.

Flickzvill:
Why do I like this guy so much see punch ass line replies

You like the guy cos the guy drop reality and you be man wey no dey lie to him self..


The Op, even talked about pucci niggaz..

Pucci niggaz are fvckin' hypocrites..

Just see as most of the pucci niggaz dey try to diss am with their weak lines...

All a pucci nigga does is defend pucci ,reason most of them get killed. The life of a pucci nigga revolves around pucci.. They wanna please pucci all the time..

If not for fvcks many men no go send women at all..

Shouting out of the thread.... We just wanna fvck, we just wanna fvck.....

chiommy123:
serving prison terms will definitely not bring the young man back. she is filled with guilt already. not supporting her actions thou. men should learn to stop cheating on their partners.

What ever you worship will definitely punish you for writing this selective female favourable rubbish statement.. Useless ashawo..

I despise pretenders and bias people..

EweduAfonja:
Mathew 6:33

King James Bible

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

You mean the average Nigerian leaving in naija seeks the Kingdom first? Wawu. Be deceiving yourself..
Then why is prosperity preaching more common than salvation preaching in the land?

EweduAfonja:
eyaah...


poor boy...

serving the Devil and he can't even afford a watch

see the I pass my nebo for him back.. and the place be like him small barbing saloon wey him dey dey serve the devil ...

So, from this your thinking(comment), devil is believed to be a rich spirit man.. Have you asked yourself why a lot of Nigerians worship God or Allah? You may wanna say, to make heaven and the spiritual or physical protection from the same devil abi..
Why don't you think both ways before insulting the guy?

Shey paupers no dey worship God with the hope say God go bless them one day?

The fear of poverty is the main reason why many Nigerians go to Church, today...
Now you know why the prosperity preaching is booming..

Next time think before you insult people..

Reader530:
Good day nairalanders. I want a sincere advice from you people.

A friend visited me almost two weeks ago. He has never visited me before, but when he came I thought he would not spent more than two days because apart from the cloth he was wearing the day he came, he didn't bring additional cloth, no brush, no soap, etc.

At first, he told me he can stay with me even up to a month with one cloth. He said, besides, he was sacked from his work.

Today, he forgot that he told me he was sacked; but he told me that he is on annual leave. The father asked him to come home for burial of his relative but he told me he would not go. I told him Npower has not paid us, but I will source for his transport, but he doesn't understand me. He thought, I will give him the whole money even if Npower pays, all the money I planned and budgeted for his coming was exhausted. I added some money to make sure he eats good meal thrice in a day.

In a nutshell, I am tired, I want to be alone for now. How should I tell him I want him to leave in a pleasant manner. Please positive advice will be highly appreciated.

Thanks all

Op. If only you were truthful to yourself.. Smh.
The guy is not your friend, period... If he was, you would not have brought it to nairaland. If the guy is a true friend, then, a reason to leave your house in the first place won't come up in your head..

Just find a way to send him away so that the fake friendship can end between you guys..

Respect to true friends... Always there for friends in need..

No wonder, I no dey keep pretending guys as friends..

If I call you my guy, then I go help you wella if I get the means...


If na your guy then talk to am..

In her prostitution regalia..