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Hedonini:
You peeps are funny. Someone that feels too big to kneel on her wedding day would kneel to blow him?

Most of them stop blowing after the wedding ..

There's an end to every game.. In this game of relationship for most women is marriage..

They are always on a mission, you'll be wondering why the sudden change after doing many nice things for you during courting like "good sex, cook, clean etc.

At least, madam no kneeling down is truthful before the traditional wedding .. The lady is rude.. She dey slap am for their face for social media..

That wan na the husband headache sha.. The man na sissy, like the guy you quoted said.

highqueen:
indeed.


wonder when she told you that.

support and care is relative my brother,don't just agree to your path of cognitive definition about it,when there are other ways to make a woman happy.


please,cos you see he got her iphone means she's been drilling his pocket?
lool, funny kinda shiit.

Anytime I see those words @bolded.. I shake my preeq and think if I was created for her excitement..

Abeg, let happy people be with happy people.

Sad people to blend with sad people..

Happy people should only be with sad persons who are willing to take a chance for a change.



Just see how the chic dumped the poor thirsty dude after trying so hard to please and make her happy.. Ehya, I pity some men oh..

No wahala, she go meet the fine boys soon.
Players play.

Flickzvill:
Why do I like this guy so much see punch ass line replies

You like the guy cos the guy drop reality and you be man wey no dey lie to him self..


The Op, even talked about pucci niggaz..

Pucci niggaz are fvckin' hypocrites..

Just see as most of the pucci niggaz dey try to diss am with their weak lines...

All a pucci nigga does is defend pucci ,reason most of them get killed. The life of a pucci nigga revolves around pucci.. They wanna please pucci all the time..

If not for fvcks many men no go send women at all..

Shouting out of the thread.... We just wanna fvck, we just wanna fvck.....

chiommy123:
serving prison terms will definitely not bring the young man back. she is filled with guilt already. not supporting her actions thou. men should learn to stop cheating on their partners.

What ever you worship will definitely punish you for writing this selective female favourable rubbish statement.. Useless ashawo..

I despise pretenders and bias people..

EweduAfonja:
Mathew 6:33

King James Bible

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

You mean the average Nigerian leaving in naija seeks the Kingdom first? Wawu. Be deceiving yourself..
Then why is prosperity preaching more common than salvation preaching in the land?

EweduAfonja:
eyaah...


poor boy...

serving the Devil and he can't even afford a watch

see the I pass my nebo for him back.. and the place be like him small barbing saloon wey him dey dey serve the devil ...

So, from this your thinking(comment), devil is believed to be a rich spirit man.. Have you asked yourself why a lot of Nigerians worship God or Allah? You may wanna say, to make heaven and the spiritual or physical protection from the same devil abi..
Why don't you think both ways before insulting the guy?

Shey paupers no dey worship God with the hope say God go bless them one day?

The fear of poverty is the main reason why many Nigerians go to Church, today...
Now you know why the prosperity preaching is booming..

Next time think before you insult people..

Reader530:
Good day nairalanders. I want a sincere advice from you people.

A friend visited me almost two weeks ago. He has never visited me before, but when he came I thought he would not spent more than two days because apart from the cloth he was wearing the day he came, he didn't bring additional cloth, no brush, no soap, etc.

At first, he told me he can stay with me even up to a month with one cloth. He said, besides, he was sacked from his work.

Today, he forgot that he told me he was sacked; but he told me that he is on annual leave. The father asked him to come home for burial of his relative but he told me he would not go. I told him Npower has not paid us, but I will source for his transport, but he doesn't understand me. He thought, I will give him the whole money even if Npower pays, all the money I planned and budgeted for his coming was exhausted. I added some money to make sure he eats good meal thrice in a day.

In a nutshell, I am tired, I want to be alone for now. How should I tell him I want him to leave in a pleasant manner. Please positive advice will be highly appreciated.

Thanks all

Op. If only you were truthful to yourself.. Smh.
The guy is not your friend, period... If he was, you would not have brought it to nairaland. If the guy is a true friend, then, a reason to leave your house in the first place won't come up in your head..

Just find a way to send him away so that the fake friendship can end between you guys..

Respect to true friends... Always there for friends in need..

No wonder, I no dey keep pretending guys as friends..

If I call you my guy, then I go help you wella if I get the means...


If na your guy then talk to am..

In her prostitution regalia..

daveP:
You just brought out the comical angle of it all. lol


You're right!!

Despite this being something that seems common to society, people gats learn to avoid situos like this. We learn everyday!!

true talk..

daveP:
With all sincerity, I can now see why women are the problems of themselves.


A woman's initial decision started all these.


Now the middle decision was by a woman(the father's new wife)

Y'all now expect the final to be reversed at the OP's detriment?


Lol.


Lemme even guess, the father was doing well with the girl for those 7years, what role the mum was playing, I dunno. Then a woman came along and changed everything.

Now, you expect the man to rechange everything when he was on his own chilling.

Lol.

It's our Home o, but no one pointed that to the selfish woman that forced the father to do the dropping.


All still women. Create the trash and expect the men to bin the trash.


The OP has no obligations whatsoever in this matter in the first place, but cos it's affecting or going to affect his home. he has to take decisions fast. Will the decision be detrimental.


If the mum played her role, I'm sure this whole ish won't be here.


Some are even beginning to doubt all this now.

Respect Sir, @bolded.. However, from your open statement, I don't think women are really the problem..let's see it from another angle. Most times, a man' thirst for pucci can becloud his sense of reasoning.. Both men played in the suffering and resettling of the kid..

1. Biological father allowed a selfish pucci (new wife) to kick out a daughter who was there before her.. (what evil can you compare to this? ).

2. Step dad allowed is love for pucci not to see this day. He was enjoying the baby mama's toto, thinking, the child and her biological father won't be in the picture someday.. Most people lie to themselves during fvcks.

Lastly, the child would have been a lucky child having someone like me as a father with my "no marriage" mentality.. Cos, no woman will live in my house.. So, na Papa and pikin till eternity..

helpee:
when you point to me where the OP said the grandmother is old then we can continue this discussion. Otherwise this is an unnecessary distraction

I love this reply ..

I bet you, his reply would be lame..

NairalandFAYOSE:
I don't Think My family will like this. they don't really like her that much Cus they say she is "AFTER ONE"

Beta bux.. Your family saw this from day one but you were too blind by the pucci to see this day..

You entered ONE CHANCE with an AFTER ONE.

daveson07:
it's not normal to be a controlling frea.k

Oga op, you maybe doing what you think is right . Because, from your story, I could sense a man who is quite enlightened concerning the kinda family he wants. However, you are giving society and religion the chance to make you miserable..

Just do this little observation here on your thread.. And you'll see the female hive mind in play!

Most of the females here were against you kicking her outta the house..
But, seriously, ask yourself why were they mostly concerned about the divorce (legally ) and the sending her out parts more than how it's affected you?

They dread loneliness and maybe not providing for them(especially the lazy ones). They are so selfish, women only see themselves. They tell you to man up(words of man-ipulation), they see men as tools. No one ever told them to "woman up".

Rushmore:
You can choose to ignore her,do any other thing but not divorce. And never you switch off your phone to avoid calls from family, it's childish. Be an alpha male! Make a decree and stand on it! You're a lion and not a chicken!

Wetin this one dey talk?

What alpha male.. Guy is a beta bux already..

He can only reduce it cos most beta men don't become alpha men over night.. Abi, you just heard the word for the first time.. And you wanna try it in a sentence

GANAYAD:
I think you are still d girl husband due to ur financial support bt my brother if you go broke na d girl go divorce you

Op, reason this comment carefully..

koolaid87:
Don't change the d1ck nailing you M'aam

True talk.. Regular fvcks and rest of mind dey keep person healthy and fit.. In my opinion safe sex with one willing partner all the time ..

Ladies and thieving ways of thinking .. They mostly see men as useful idiots.. Just see their comments here. Even the supposedly smart ones don't even have original and rational thoughts of their own(hive mind sh.it )

Always seeing themselves as a God sent to a brother.. Damn. I pity thirsty men.. Chasing and eating pussy is not a success.. However, if that's your dream on earth as a man.. Then, what more could I say..

Caleycash:
hey shut up illegal immigrant... yeye small boys wey travel with their family spilling nonsense, your mates are achieving academically, monetary and success wise, your here talking rubbish as if you've killed a cockroach before. mtchewww

.. Typical naija way of speaking disrespectfully . No new ways to diss a Gee.

Using the same ol' lines, same arse shi*t for every individual. huh! Stupid dull mudafvcker. What would you know about achievements?

Ugosample:
what is this one saying? ?

Are you a pussy nigga quoting me, I hope you don't bring a knife to the gun fight?

Before I kill you, you should stop smelling pvssy..
You dumbfvck.. If I don't kill you, next time, don't quote a Gee like me with that overused bullsh*t ..

shaybebaby:
His arse is toast! I don't know about America but from seeing her pics, she's in the UK at the moment and in this UK, everytime you see a healthcare professional, they always ask "are you suffering any form of domestic violence at home?" it's standard for them to ask.

So I can imagine her being attended to with those bruises in her face, coppers be sitting outside her door right now.

. The UK oh, the America oh.. These pussified societies would continue to ask about the programmed domestic violence bullsh*t...

A man will definitely beat/fight a woman(gender equality ) someday after taking her bullsh*t for a while. Pussy will kill the west..

Cine:
That's what built our civilisation.

1) It's not that women chose to stay it's that they had no choice. The same went for men. They were shamed to stay in marriages that they no longer wanted to be in. That's how generations of children are raised. Not all homes were bad.


2) Not all domestic violence were perpetrated by men. It's a fact that most domestic violence is actually committed by women. Spitting, slapping, temper tantrums, throwing things, not to speak of emotional abuse. It's just that men are much stronger than women. So when they do it everyone talks about it. Can you imagine a man going to the police because his wife slapped him.

3) Happiness happiness happiness. Women will never be happy. The biggest problems with marriages the world over are a womans happiness. Women are happy for all but 2 minutes and then theyre unhappy again. #happy is literally on every other female insta post. All women want is happiness but they don't realise they'll never ever find it.

My senior bros, I respect you Sir.. Forgive my language, so fuckin' on point.. Thank you

2buffagain:
When it comes to relationships, I personally do not take a woman with a tattoo seriously.
Especially not enough to get into a marriage-facing relationship with her.
Highest, she goes into the "forever GF" box for me. Guys you know the box

I know the assumptions you all are making about me. I can hear them already:
"You're judging her when you don't even know her!"
"Not all women who get tattoos are wild!"
"The true sluts look like good girls!"

Blah blah blah. I get it. And I've met many level-headed intelligent and sane tattoo'd babes.
But see, the REAL reasons I don't plan ahead with a tattoo'd lady are as follows...

Let me add to the bolded.. She'll tell you that the ring in her tongue is for show and should never be mistaken for a hoe..

hopeforcharles:
Guy u take style harsh oh, well I drive a car and when u come in u keep ur keys on the table, that girl u saw there is a smart intelligent and well educated girl, attending one of the best universities in the country, its a happy day for us so we are celebrating it,( he that finds a wife finds a good thing - The Good Book)
About been confused I don't know where u got that from, I would have blasted u but I am a happy soul today so its ur lucky day, check my status and u will under why.

. . Okay, i hear you Sir..

Just hear yourself.. Smart intelligent and well educated girl... One of the best universities in the country, finds a good wife... .
Enjoy oga wife to be..

So, you are the favoured one abi?
Make i no spoil una happy day..

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Ade3000yrs:
Another Zombie arrangement

Zombie arrangement.. .. The exact words for the show.

Only pucci provoking men do this....

hopeforcharles:
So this evening I popped the question
Sweet Pumpkin will u be my Queen?
Will u be my peachy pie?
My heartbeat,
My vitamin Jenny?
Guess what guys she said YES
and I sealed it

Not impressed.. You've got a job/business and a car key on the table to show social media and people like yourself..
Erection for this kind of girl is a no no... Confused man.. Na ladies dey trip for engagement, wedding and marriage things..

So, you thought this thing won't say yes? Toto thinking men everywhere..

When i see a pvssy nigga i see a stupid man(educated or not ).. They're so biased.. All they think about is pucci..

Dongreat:
The behaviour of average Nigerians. They praise you once you live flamboyantly without asking for the source of your wealth.
Money must be made mentality, even if I rob a bank and kill fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, bread winners and guidance.
Person with no know job or source of income live large and instead of to question their flamboyance we chant useless praises because hunger don finish us and we need peanuts from them.

Yea, bro you are correct on the money must be made mentality.. Just check his fb page and see how the armed robber kept quoting the scripture..

mhisbliss:
Because Beyonce is clearly more beautiful than what jayz could hope for, yet he got her

What kind of ignorant statement is this? You mean a true baller like Jigga..you know nothing about him.. Guy wey don lay more prettier women than beyonce in the past.. Jigga settled for bey' because he saw other things beyond the beauty alone..
And if i hear from your mouth say Hova no be good looking man..I go pour you water.. Jigga is fit to be seen anywhere as a man..

I guess her fame is lying to your head..

Mrbehave:
Thank you aunty. So whats the way out?

If were you.. I would take the aunt's advice.. I know she's tryin' to shame you to "man up" so that you can become miserable in marriage.. Tell your people that you lack the mental/psychological maturity.. you are impotent.. you want to be a monk or priest...

Afterall. you used GOD to lie in the first place... Just continue...

EzeDiEgo1:


I don't see any reason why a guy will engage in adultery with a girl he can't marry or take as wife.

When you engage in Adultery with who is not your wife, you are killing yourself unknowingly, bringing misfortune, setback, death and so on upon your life.
Even in Exo 20vs14 it says
New International Version (NIV)
14 “You shall not commit adultery.
But we all have disobey this commandment and follow our own direction.

Stop having Sex with her if she can't be your wife, let her go if she not your wife.

. Op, after laughing to your dumb shi..t. I noticed how useless your thinkin' about men and women could be..
yea, you were only sensible to notice how nature made men to chase puccizzz... But a little dull to know about Adultery... If the man is committing consensual adultery, then, what is the innocent girl commiting?

Bringing misfortune, setback , death... Hahaha Poor country/religious graduates way of thinking..