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. Duncan Mighty, make sure you wear a condom. Lots of women dey carry stds.

Kai, this life self..

Money wahala.

femmy2010:
Lol

TSUNAMI BUHARI sweeping through Nigeria's political landscape.

PMB is a MOVEMENT

Fvckin' movement mehn...

You need to see to know..

The vote no be social media oh...

Tamarapetty:
Lol, why suffer yourself when real deeks are available?? Probably owned by a lesbo, probably.

Where the real deeks are? . So, lesbo needs a deek too. I never knew how tasty and powerful deek was..

Liliyann:
Is the 4wives given to them and 7virgins promised to them in heaven by Allah not enough??

Yoruba Muslims are our problem in this country!!

Naughty girl.

GoldHorse:
From experience, to avoid or get out of depression:

1. Be real. Be your self. Don't fake anything. Don't chase after anybody.
2. Know you are not in a race with anybody. Take your time. Do things at your own pace.
3. Know that you do not owe anybody any explanation for failures (see them as challenges) or success (see them as call for further improvement)

Above all DEPRESSION, MOST OF THE TIME, COMES FROM OUR PERCEIVED SHORTCOMINGS OR INABILITY TO MEASURE UP TO SOMEONE, SOME PEOPLE OR SOCIETY'S STANDARD. THIS IS TOTAL RUBBISH AND NONSENSE! There's no standard! All na wash!

Things like "what will people say", "how will they or him or her look at me", etc are some of the causes of depression.

The earlier the better you start "not sending people" the better your life will be.

PM me if you feel you need someone to help you out of it.

This is it. Thanks. People compare and complain.. Just live in your world.. Wetin concern me..

xoxocandy:
what if your depression is monetary

They stop picking you calls, only for you to feel rejected and more depressed.. So, get your money and fvck the phonies....

This is a girl child abuse..

Rootprof:
This is bad.. I wonder the way he will be beating his wife/girlfriend and children at home. That if he get one. Omo ale jatijati

.. Blue pill comment...

thatgirl504:
Heartless animal. Men and their aggressive behaviour.

Shut up..
Aggression na part of the standard.. Abi, women no like report to aggressive men for their protection..
Cry out, speak out.. All those talks are for aggressive men to protect them from other men.

Tamarapetty:
You call which shots??

Cum shots..

NLModsAreStupud:
Madam, stop showing us pics, show us pretty babies. We should be admiring your kid[s] by now and not the old saying 'you're gorgeous'

Girl wey dey give her husband fvck time table..
You think when you marry you would fvck your wife any time you want.. Lie lie. Marriage na Scam...

trapQ:
Another Mumu.

who is this clown?
Tell the hoes to sell the whole body not just the laps, cos without men, women can never have a good and luxurious life.. Quote your mother( a woman) next time..

A woman is this, a woman is that, a woman can be a mother, a woman can't be a mother, don't you know she's is a woman, she is a strong woman, a woman is a weaker vessel, she's a career woman, don't talk to a woman like that, don't hit a woman at all, respect her cos she's a woman..

Vagina and entitlement mentality..

sweetrace:
He is an absolute shameless man. A man fighting and in public. Men should have and show some self control and respect. Even it was the woman’s fault. Even if she was acting like a mad woman. He should have walked away. Imagine ! He actually tore her bra. Boys who refuse to grow up!!!!

. Only thirsty men or black knights captain -save a hoe would agree with you..

Newboss:
Assnal

Nice one.. And PortsMOUTH..

henritinecy:
So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came back to the country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me started reducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in school in another state while I am in Lagos. At this point, we usually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experience is killing me.

Thank You

Nigga, you are suffering from oneitis

TonyeBarcanista:
This is poverty of the mind speaking through you

Brother, I have respect for you.

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

Thief.

rosalieene:
*laughs in Swahili!

you are a Big COW aswear!
just like I said earlier, you are so dumb and dull that you can't comprehend simple English. how did you pass your English language comprehension in school when you assumed I played the advisory function and told her to leave her ex! where in my comment did you see that? you Need to go rewrite Ssce that's if you've written it at all.

sorry to disappoint you, responsible men are attracted to me not riff-raffs and thugs like you.Not just responsible, but real men not foolish people like you who don't think outside the context of fvck, that's all what you and your likes have to offer!

and ooh! am beautiful and prettier than your gf I can see that's why you're so pained. If you ain't some ugly looking guy, why didn't u put up your pix... I can imagine your looks, some guy I can't even give face even for once.
since you need glasses, I can provide one for you so you'd look at my pix again before Calling me fat.

I am done with you .... given you enough attention which you don't deserve. don't bother with the mentions anymore because I wouldn't reply.

you even had to disturb my mentions several times because never in your miserable life would you think I would reply you and here I am doing that. well, its the end now.. no more replies.

now run along to your gf stinking pussy.

, see nonsense reply. Using cliche like comprehension and ssce to diss people like us tells a lot about you and your experience in life...
Smallie and weak lines... No level for you

You are not a fine girl, you are not an ugly girl.. You are the smell of your pucci ... Fat soul..

If you think you are fine, then God punish fine and may the responsible thirsty deceivers in your life continue to smell it and leave. This is a good pray, say amen fat soul.

"Real men", what would you know about that?

And, no, we are not talking about my female, we are talking about your stock up regular smelling pucci.. Fat soul. Good bye.

rosalieene:
what's wrong with this one? how is your relationship my business?

likewise I won't like people like you coming around my man!

your comment is just so off point!
BTW me and you who isn't minding their business, and who ain't got a life when you decided to not mind your business by coming under my mention.

before you comment, make sure you try to say something intelligent because your comment..... well let me not say anything.

next please!

There is nothing off up there after reading some of your useless replies .

Wetin concern you if your friend dey with her boyfriend 10yrs.. You said, he's wasting her time, so she self No waste him time?
So you played the advisory function and she left him.

With your comments and goofy mindset, no true Gee in his right mind if not just for fvcks would make you a girlfriend, wife or his main biitch.

From your picture, you look like someone who'll be having a regular smelling pvssy.. Wash or no wash.
Fat soul.

rosalieene:
what's wrong with this one? how is your relationship my business?

likewise I won't like people like you coming around my man!

your comment is just so off point!
BTW me and you who isn't minding their business, and who ain't got a life when you decided to not mind your business by coming under my mention.

before you comment, make sure you try to say something intelligent because your comment..... well let me not say anything.

next please!

There is nothing off up there after reading some of your useless replies .

Wetin concern you if your friend dey with her boyfriend 10yrs.. You said, he's wasting her time, so she self No waste him time?
So you played the advisory function and she left him.

With your comments and goofy mindset, no true Gee in his right mind if not just for fvcks would make you a girlfriend, wife or his main biitch.

From your picture, you look like someone who'll be having a regular smelling pvssy.. Wash or no wash.
Fat soul.

rosalieene:
what's wrong with this one? how is your relationship my business?

likewise I won't like people like you coming around my man!

your comment is just so off point!
BTW me and you who isn't minding their business, and who ain't got a life when you decided to not mind your business by coming under my mention.

before you comment, make sure you try to say something intelligent because your comment..... well let me not say anything.

next please!

There is nothing off up there after reading some of your useless replies .

Wetin concern you if your friend dey with her boyfriend 10yrs.. You said, he's wasting her time, so she self No waste him time?
So you played the advisory function and she left him.

With your comments and goofy mindset, no true Gee in his right mind if not just for fvcks would make you a girlfriend, wife or his main biitch.

From your picture, you look like someone who'll be having a regular smelling pvssy.. Wash or no wash.
Fat soul.

rosalieene:
fvcking serious!

I have a friend who dated a guy for 10yrs! 10 freaking years! she is 30yrs now.
but guess what? she is getting married next month to someone who was just a close friend all this years!
while her so called bf was just wasting her time.

I wouldn't want people like you coming around my girl, cos, people like you don't fvckin' mind their biz.. You ain't got a life, people's affair is the only thing you talk about.

Love no even get definition..

Nlolodo:
Masturbating is demonic

Everything is demonic in Nigeria..

After fvcks

The busty thing can accuse you of "dream rape".

solasoulmusic:
people are just inpatient there’s no perfect person it’s all about seeing the best in the imperfection

We like to put down people who lift us up in more ways than financially

The bold, not certain... , but have you had an experience with it. According to falz and his sweet boy code, did any sweet boy chop your money? Then left you for a slay queen.

solasoulmusic:
E sweet me ooooo Bless up anytime

correct.. Nothing do you.

solasoulmusic:
My point is simply some men are too stubborn in our ways and go for what attracts but doesn’t sustain. You say you want a woman with money but then years later you begin to say she is controlling you and you feel less like a man because she owns the home. Find someone you can communicate with an insecure woman with money is still insecure but a content woman will always be content broke or not

yeah, true. Lately, I don't know if people are just getting more confused in relationships.