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grandstar:
There's this lady in her 40's who is dating my cousin. The lady is a grandmother of 2 boys from her only child and daughter who she had out of wedlock.

She's desperate to marry my cousin who's married but he isn't interested. He's presently married but the wife fled to London with their kids when she got him deported for trying an arrangee marriage in England with a woman he was dating and that was spending wildly on him.

She fled to Europe with the kids after he was deported as he wanted a divorce and she was petrified he would get custody.

Anyway, that's not the point. My cousin isn't the marriage type. That's primarily why his marriage didn't work as he sees nothing wrong in adultery and still believes he is a player. He also doesn't like stress or wahala which will always present itself in any marriage. He treasures his peace so much. He likes to be left alone

The lady no wan listen. For over 10 years since he came back, she's refused to leave my cousin alone. Her friends have advised her but she's going nowhere. My cousin treats her shabbily and she puts up with it. Some women are just masochists.

Your cousin is a Gee for life....

grandstar:
There's this lady in her 40's who is dating my cousin. The lady is a grandmother of 2 boys from her only child and daughter who she had out of wedlock.

She's desperate to marry my cousin who's married but he isn't interested. He's presently married but the wife fled to London with their kids when she got him deported for trying an arrangee marriage in England with a woman he was dating and that was spending wildly on him.

She fled to Europe with the kids after he was deported as he wanted a divorce and she was petrified he would get custody.

Anyway, that's not the point. May t cousin isn't the marriage type. That's primarily why his marriage didn't work as he sees nothing wrong in adultery and still believes he is a player. He also doesn't like stress or wahala which will always present itself in any marriage. He treasures his peace so much. He likes to be left alone

The lady no wan listen. For over 10 years since he came back, she's refused to leave my cousin alone. Her friends have advised her but she's going nowhere. My cousin treats her shabbily and she puts up with it. Some women are just masochists.

Your cousin is a Gee for life....

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

You are about to be the third guy with the third kid from the same generous pucci.. Just enjoy it and let it go when your time is up..

She's trying to trap you my friend, to be the new dad and probably the future provider for all her kids..
They need beta bux all the time.

IGBOSON1:
STFU you sack of shi't!

You're the last person i expect to be on this thread tearing his hair out over Igbo matter! You've got your plate full as it is with boko and herdsmen issues, so don't bite off more than you can chew!

.. Okay... Sorry Sir, permit me to pack or carry my sack of shi't and leave

Hotfreeze:
Let me tell you, Amaka Anajemba who was convicted for partaking in the biggest fraud in the world is today a political appointee in Igboland.

The truth is that most of them don't see anything wrong in what those fraudsters did. This one is just dumb enough to defend them in public.

Go and find out, majority of these criminals have chieftaincy titles in Igboland.

Just imagine.. Reason why I said many of them got sh**ts twisted in their heads..

IGBOSON1:
Anyone caught, tried and convicted should pay for his crime! This is the main thing!

Trying to draw attention to their ethnicity is for what? If your country had provided them with opportunities to earn a decent living i doubt we would be here discussing this today! This issue of getting gov't to be accountable and work for the people is all what IPOB is about! If you have a problem with their modus-operandi then start your own movement to change things....just like Sowore tried to do before they silenced him!

See the idiot here again trying to defend the dirt..
What fvckin' opportunities is your biased deeqhead saying.. So, after leaving Naija for the US and other Asian countries they still couldn't find opportunities and earn a decent living there, hmm? Like I said, most of them got sh**ts twisted in their heads... Unnecessary competition..
Shey na only una dey overseas...

IGBOSON1:
You're a diseased bastard! How do you misconstrue someone telling an animal like you -that's in no position to lecture his people on good conduct and moral rectitude- to STFU, as supporting what his kinsmen have been accused of doing?

With all the tens of thousands of Nigerians that've perished in cold blood at the hands of you bloodthirsty scoundrels, how many of the murderers have been caught, tried, convicted and sentenced to death?

Dude, if you have nothing reasonable to say then go sleep!

Mumu, your ranting doesn't change a thing about who da fvck your people are... You cheaters and thieves..A group of people with twisted sh**ts in their heads. shut da fvck up and go fvck yourself with a cactus..
No be only una dey overseas na..

CodeTemplar:
And what has Hausa people done about terrorist Christmas day pant bomber, Abdulmutallab?

Shattap and stop defending what is wrong...

One Abdulmutallab is serving life in the US, that we all know, but how many Abdulmutallabs or Hausas have they executed in Indonesia and other Asian countries ?
You guys always tryna find ways to justify your natural dirty lifestyles through some ethnic comparison..

BarristerAlarig:
How is that nonsense funny?

Damn, and you expect me to answer this nonsense question, too...
Abeg, carry your nonsense sense of seriousness comot for here..

Logobenz3:
lol,I don't knkw what that means
This was where I had problems;
1)she calling that poor man an oil bunkerer.like why did she have to rubbish the name of such a high yielding profession by attaching that poor man to it?bunkerers are not that poor!!!
2)She is a selfish bastard that deserves all the sufferings that come her way.
Why did she have to go for school at the family business's expense?
Necessary sacrifices are made when times turn for the betterment of a people but no,she ignored.
So my dear cococandy,I will never have pity or sympathy for such an idiot.
People have started sending PMs to her already.talk to her o,because them go scatter her nyarsh now in the name of helping her.word on the street say 17 year old Toto are in high demand.
Atleast if she should Bleep anybody,it should come with a high price tag since she might be the tightest of them all at the moment.

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.SIMPs everywhere.. Football don dey die small small..
Bringing women to every male space is not a good idea to me..
This is distraction to the good game of soccer and later them go accuse a player of mistakenly or deliberately touching the ref some how in the field of play.

Good. I bin say..
Some years back I don witness where two soldiers rape wan retired major daugher..
Na small change dem use die the matter..

Most of dem go probably rape at the slightest opportunity.. Pussy na personal issue to many of them.. Them believe say nothing go happen..

Abegi, if conji wan kee you just find somewhere and rub one out fvckin' your left or right hand.. Trust me, you go feel good..
Stop forcing yourself on another person..

Respect55:
It is the south south replica of smbisa. Do u live at pH?

Okay, no sir

Respect55:
The mention of East-West road here in pH sends shivers down my spine

Please, tell us about the road. I mean your experience there....

This is execution...

Some years back I don witness where two soldiers rape wan retired major daugher..
Na small change dem use die the matter..

Most of dem go probably rape at the slightest opportunity.. Pussy na personal issue to many of them.. Them believe say nothing go happen..

Naija na rape culture.

bggrafix:
OMG.. This messi short gan sha. .

I wonder why some of you are so obsessed with other men's heights and dick sizes...

EVILFOREST:
DON JAZZY, I take GOD beg you.
Abeg, just AVOID MARRIAGE, since you can always have kids and move on.
Else na SCANDALS dey come soooo.
Allow sleeping DOGS to lie.
U are not irresponsible in anyway, so don't think marriage will ever make you responsible.
After all, there are married couples out there, that are grossly irresponsible.

You are a real gee. Just imagine wetin one of the thief up there dey talk about giving money to people..

Ybaby:
Chai!!! looooooooll
sorry eh!
15k per month to buy what diapers or formula.

Condoms are cheaper. The world doesnot need anymore hungry children.

Based on your thought process, I expected a cliché... You no disappoint me..
Please, read the reply of Freehuman and see how reality works.
You just dey there dey shout condom and diaper..

Freehuman:
The case is a walk over in court. The judicial precedent of Edet Vs Essien(browse the case) is enough to grant him the paternal right of his child.
Giving a child to another man to father without the consent of his biological father is illegal and therefore not in the best interest of the child. If OP's lawyer proves that the paternal Grand parents of OP are capable of taking care of the Child, the Court can grant custody to the grand parents of the man since the very act of the child's mother partaking in illegal adoption itself is not in the best interest of the child .

Please notify the OP.
-From a senior lawyer and Son of a senior Judge

Thank you Sir...

Ybaby:
Muscle does not solve any problem now. Puffing up and down doesnot solve any problem, a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel says the holy book. Do you think the girl is happy to go and look for a provider for her child while the child's father is alive. Use this anger to make money. The only supremancy is money - he who pays the piper ? dictates the tune. He does not have money to pay piper so the tune is for the step dad. it hurts but the only solution is to understand that as a young man you have a financial clock and get to work making that money - even your mother will not respect you if you cannot provide for your child. curse all you want or provide or keep your peepee away from women.

Fvck u, fvck u, fvck u, damn your pussie thinking at the same time.. You dumb modafvckaz just come here and talk sh***t, thinking any one with contrary view is broke...
I hardly talk about money, many of you don't think straight...
Guess your one sided thinking would not allow you to see the monthly 15k the guy dey struggle to send the helpless evil broke family wey dey find another man money..
The only thing the low life family is offering the well of man is their daughter's pussy.. What else?
Reality always get ways to fvck criminals, liars etc up..

MANGAM:
U can't claim a child from a woman that traditionally, legally religiously u didn't pay a dine on the mother. U want a child from her and never bothered to do something on her head.

Fvck your mentality and the fickle dog of a female you're supporting, low dirty shameless cock... By your reasoning and support for the female gash, what makes her worthy of the child all alone, traditionally, legally and religiously?

Answer me real man..
Men(pussy niggaz) like you made these laws and beliefs.. Don't be surprised that bonehead like you would still come out to fight for gender equality after writing this sh***t. Cos, all most of you males live for is how to please a pussy, either consciously or unconsciously..

Sterope:
This news is very peculiar

True, I see this trending in the nearest future and it would be legally binding.

man shout rape = mockery
Woman shout rape = power( especially to destroy).

I guess this is the gender equality baby..

Real Men, thirsty SIMPs, foolish men, rational men and black Knights captain sav- a- hoe,etc. Watch out, you may be the one they are going to accuse tomorrow...

And many men like you won't listen to your own side of the story.. Use your head and don't support the phonies..

FOR YOUR INFO: LATELY, SOCIETY SEES EVERY MAN AS A POTENTIAL RAPIST.

famzynet:
Never heard of COZA or Dakolo or the said pastor until now.But the way people judge this case tells me how backward Nigeria is. Nigeria is backward because a lot of its citizens lack common reasoning. A woman claimed she was raped at about 18years inside her fathers house, raped by same man in two occasions and waited for about 20years to tell the story and everyone is throwing stones at the pastor even after he has said that the allegation is false. Why has the woman not reported to the police and taken the case to court. This brings to light similar accusations of Suleiman,Ibiyeomie of salvation ministry , Neymar etc. The police and court should handle rape cases. People should stop being judged just because someone said something . People can do or say all sort of things to trend. Did 'Jamal' of Empire not recently stage racist attack just to trend? I pity men who just believe any woman that cries rape. Pray that they don't remember you. Many have been falsely accused. Ladies should also understand that consensual sex with relationship going sour later on is not rape. I am not saying the pastor had any sexual encounter with her. It is left for the court or forensic experts to decide that. Rape victims should report promptly to the police when the evidence are there if they are serious about being raped. With evidence being there,there is no denial and the victim can be trialed and punished by the law. You don't wait for 20years before coming out saying you were naive. 17 + yrs old girl saying she was naived. Even 8 yrs,11yrs report to their mother when uncomfortably touched by someone.Waiting for 20 years before reporting means the person probably enjoyed it then or it is false.Anything short of reporting to the authority on time to me is not rape. You don't come on social media when the evidences are long gone to say you were raped and threatening the accused to sue you. Seems like putting the cart before the horse.

Real Men, thirsty SIMPs and black Knights captain sav- a- hoe, take note of the bold.. It could be you some day... Stop following the multitude blindly..
Women quite understand the power behind the word "rape" in the society and world at large.. So, they will continue to use it to their advantage.. Men beware

AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, bros u need to go and marry. Atleast so you can have mini you. Just marry someone who understands u.

See wetin I just talk about, do you want me to tag you as one of them ? Mini-me sounds good but I ain't tripping..

I think i am not wired to be in a marriage.. No fantasy about it.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hey! I never made the rules. But I think things are changing now, got money no one asks questions. U taken seriously if u got money.

Don't act like there's no atom of truth in that comment. I studied the Nigerian society deeply so I know what I'm on about.

No be lie.. You sabi.. Though, some of my married gees still want come my house to play..

I hardly visit married friends. I no wan hear say your wife or husband say..yeyeye...

Anytime someone ask me, "bros when you go marry, we dey wait for you". In my mind I see you as a bad person who wants to take away my peace of mind and the quietness in myspace...

Chiefochiefo:
Razak of Burundi

Thank you.. I was expecting this..

Just see the sentiment here..

.. Where I live we don't talk or know spirit .. However, most of us live healthy and a happy life..
Masturbation is part of us..
Guys, anytime you feel Hot and no bae around just rob one out..
You'll feel alright.
No allow religion frustrate you oh..

Las las you go dey okay.

FuckDaMods:
Messi acknowledged that cr7 motivates him to work harder.
They motivate each other

Story... Just enjoy wetin you believe...