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RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:36am On May 19, 2020
Dande55:
They are always pained when they are made to swallow what they dish out. When he called women fish brain, didn't he know that his mum was part of the fish brain gender?
their mentor here calls his own mother a wh0re ,these boys don't even respect their own mother,so I will not hold back ,you insult me,I insult your mother for doing a bad job.


May I not give birth to a useless son that will make people insult me outside. Boys that have sense these days are very few.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:35am On May 19, 2020
Godoverevery:
you ain't worth it.....your foolery is out of this world ....
Lol, you just don't have sense grin
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:34am On May 19, 2020
Godoverevery:
just a pity...... engage a slowpoke lady in a discuss and watch her insult ur mum and family.

is easy to know the lowlife who lack home training among you ladies.....u are a perfect example ....if u cherish ur mother it will be very difficult to insult other people mother but a lowlife will always be lowlife.
Boys here call their mothers olosho and all other demeaning names ,they are the ones without home training, it's not my duty to teach grown boys manners . Most of them think all women are like their mothers at home. And besides if you insult me, I might not be your mate so I will insult your mother who is closer to being mate.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:30am On May 19, 2020
DenreleDave:
As in ur answer was senseless, useless, wasteful, dustbin.

Pls go n read again ursef n correct ur mistakes
your brain can only process what it's capable of, you only see senseless because that is what your brain can process. I can't help you with that.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:28am On May 19, 2020
DenreleDave:
Cox u don't av a mother abi. I seehuh
I wasn't the one calling women fish brain,I am sure you thought everyone is like your fish brained mother hence you ran with the narrative in your house and brought it to the internet.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:25am On May 19, 2020
DenreleDave:
U r not worthy of a woman.


Abt my moniker, maybe u r a stranger here...
Na your mama come Worthy of being a woman for doing a bad job? See your life outside grin.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:24am On May 19, 2020
Godoverevery:
just a simple question and you type all these nonsense.

comprehension is far from you ....u need to go back to elementary school to learn that.
if I say some ladies have faulty brain they will say am always too harsh.
And another pseudohuman quotes me. I knew with the quality of boys here ,it was going to fly past all of your heads grin grin.
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 7:19am On May 19, 2020
DenreleDave:
OH God, is this one a woman or sumtin else...

Pls read again... Is that the answer to his question?

Why are u trying to hide from answering his questions and saying another thing.

Chai women and fish brain Sha. Any man that man, Chai, I pity the hell that awaits him... Chai, an innocent man has a he'll awaiting for him coz he will marry you, how I wish God redirect such man from marrying u and give u a man dt has such character as urs
if you want to call someone fish brain I think you should look in the mirror, ordinary impersonation you can't do perfectly ,I thought you wanted to hide under a female moniker ?

And by the way, I am sure its your mother that has fish brain that's why she ended up with your useless father and they had a nonentity like you.


Lol, as for marriage, things women put up just to bear married sha, for your mind now you sef na man grin because you get penis.


As you can see, the op's wife doesn't see him as a prize ,not all men are men ,just like you are less of a man, so I will reconstruct that prayer, ;

"Dear lord any man that don't have send like this commenter heading my way, let his village people destroy him before he gets to me.Amen!"
RomanceRe: Can A Husband Ask Little Amount Of Money From His Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 4:24am On May 19, 2020
There are people who have basket in their finance. They earn big but can't account for what they use it for. They can have 20k in the morning and be begging to borrow 100 naira by afternoon.They become restless when they have money and their hands starts scratching them of what to buy ,they end up spending the money on irrelevant things , before they come back to their sense and the circle continues evertime they have money.

You see the type of people I described up there, tanker drivers and contract staffs make up a large percentage.The money comes in chunks and goes before you blink.


The question I am driving at is , are you financially responsible ? It's one thing to ask for money once in a while but to make it a habit when you are earning reasonable money is another thing entirely. You earn ,give her from it and squander the rest only to run back to collect from the one you gave her for upkeep, that alone is enough to send bad signal .
RomanceRe: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Ladycewhy(f): 3:24am On May 19, 2020
bencarson007:
Bros get a side chick
Wetin you pay for, den go still dey use am suffer you
Abeg e
person dey borrow transport fare from e wife you dey advise am to get side chick grin grin, didn't you read where he stylish pointed out that he is broke undecided
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage: I Might Go Naked In My Next Video by Ladycewhy(f): 6:30am On May 17, 2020
litigator:
It takes so little to get Nigerians talking. When she releases the album eventually, our lazy youth will eventually queue up in anticipation of seeing her nake.dnex and viola! She gets what she has always wanted.

We will always be media dummies when it involves celebrities, whilst paying little or no attention to front burning national issues as the nation burns.

Sometimes, I still wonder, " was this in this context that PMB referred to us as lazy youths".

Is this while they are doing what they presently do because the know we careless?

I am still wondering and asking when do we eventually wake up from our sleep as the hardworking youth of this great nation? Just when do we wake up and take the bull by the horn to protect our natural resources from illegal Chinese miners and those encroaching on our water ways and fishing territories?

Just when do we stop leaving these front burning issues for those tired old men who are ruling us with 1942 manual?

Perhaps I find answers I seek before it is too late or death comes calling.

I rise.
It's not just Nigerians, humans in all demographics are very predictable. Controversy sells anywhere in the world,It takes little to get humans so pressed and talking. That this thread has gotten to 11 pages is enough evidence, most educative threads barely make it past 3 pages .


People need something to do and having something to talk about is part of being "occupied".
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f): 2:34pm On May 16, 2020
bizzibodi:
It is not about English,if 3 eyewitnesses were to write their own accounts they will give different accounts of peeling off,her skin must have scolded that when they held her it peeled off...like hot water on skin.
Hey! Women dnt quote me again!!dnt have time for who is not ready to learn,u shld b mourning this lil'gal instead arguing .
Stop throwing assumptions around Mr ,were you there? I am guessing being a busy body you will be among the witnesses making blunder with English then lipsrsealed.

well if you were not behaving like your moniker by being a busy body by quoting me first ,there would be no need to argue,would there.? But you wanted to play Forensic agent and FBI all in one.
FamilyRe: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Ladycewhy(f): 10:53am On May 16, 2020
simplepee:
yeepaaa
that's a conversation these men don't want to have grin
FamilyRe: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Ladycewhy(f): 10:11am On May 16, 2020
hahn:
Well, I'm yet to come across a woman who insists of using condoms unless she's a prostitute.

You didn't comment on the "other" issue about my friend though or have you suddenly invented "selective commentary" to compliment "selective reading"?

Btw, I'm now married and safe from those "evil" ladies
the bolded ,change your circle then undecided.


Now there is a trend about men wanting their women to get pregnant before they will marry her, if he wants a pregnancy ,a pregnancy is what he will get.

In my personal opinion, I as a lady will also want to get pregnant before marriage, too many men shooting blanks these days lipsrsealed.


And congrats on your post making fp after five years. You are doing well.
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f):
bigiyaro:
you think the co-tenant will kill and keep the corpse in his car? I don't think anybody will be they dumb.
and if he didn't have enough time to dispose off the body before an alarm was raised?.


He may have panicked and thought his car will be safe until he can dispose off the body. Don't put anything past a criminal minded person.
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f):
bizzibodi:
Go & try it for 20mins only stop speaking grammar.d timeline is too long sef,in just 10mins a child body temp will rise to 60deg C....use Google to to medical or forensic sites find out more of what can happen.
and you were on ground to measure the temperature? undecided.


Learn English ,"her body peeling off "is different from "her body peeled off" . Go back read and digest before you come and be forming google expert here .
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f): 8:57am On May 16, 2020
bizzibodi:
Go & so inside a windup car in this kind hot weather for 20mins u go know how?
are you a forensic expert to know a body will peel after heat suffocation? If so ,is the timeline to which the child went missing and the body was found enough to make the skin start peeling off? Those are the question you should be asking yourself instead of commenting from a myopic view.
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f): 8:31am On May 16, 2020
eldoradoxx:
Its not the first, second or third time kids would be found dead inside an airtight car in similar circumstance. Infact a man lost like three or four kids three years ago under similar circumstance I think somewhere in Gwagwalada Abj.
Now have you seen a suffocated corpse to conclude that the body should start peeling off? that's my question,if you have,do you think the time line is enough for a corpse to start reacting to heat ?
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f): 8:22am On May 16, 2020
eldoradoxx:
Heat inside the car can peel her skin
And you know this how?
CrimeRe: Ekiti Twin Girl Found Dead In Co-Tenant’s Vehicle With Her Body Peeled Off by Ladycewhy(f): 8:19am On May 16, 2020
All those saying she could have entered the car and got suffocated, can you people also tell us how come the girls body peeled off ? FBI people undecided
CareerRe: Bopdaddy Challenge: Immigration Suspends Transfer Of Officers by Ladycewhy(f): 8:05am On May 16, 2020
HarunaWest:
Those chicks look like Comptroller Food...I knew that transfer was just a farce.
why even think of transfering them in the first place if not for overzealousness?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Ladycewhy(f): 7:42am On May 15, 2020
I know a mean devilish sociopath who can't killl a chicken. undecided
CareerRe: 5 Female Employees Of NIS Who Participated In Falz 'Don't Rush' Redeployed by Ladycewhy(f): 4:30pm On May 13, 2020
dayleke:
They are beautiful ladies na.
Did it affect their work?

I still got the video sef.

That's not good o.

Some ladies of US military did one too but noftin happened to them.

Naija own dey too extreme joor.
i tire for naija matter , na irrelevant things we dey get power to enforce ,when it comes to the betterment of the masses everywhere go silent.
TravelRe: My Heavy Traffic Experience In Onitsha Today (Photos ) by Ladycewhy(f): 4:06pm On May 13, 2020
Godons1:
Nobody is hungry in the North.
undecided

FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ladycewhy(f):
anslem04:
i burst out LOL ! reading ur 1st line ... @least men adapt into something gud what can we say of today women, are they in any way than better than ours mothers.
If men of today are worst than our forefathers ,are women of today better than our mothers let not even talk grandmothers.
take up an hypothesis, you will realize the size of men doing gigolo is so minimal compare to gurls doing runs. if extortion is a capital crime 98% of naija babes will be in maximum prison.
thanks for summarizing my submission, that is just the bitter truth. a mother as huge influence on her kids than the father will ever get ... so let mothers starting teaching boys what will suite future daughter inlaw. women shuld help themselves grin abi
Mother days is like 10times in a calender year ... n you think fathers are not mere figure head, i will cry o !
our mothers of old were only good at one thing ------ putting up with bullshits

Thats the difference between women of old and this present day women. In the past women were trapped in marriages by tradition . Infact in my tribe leaving your husband's house for whatever reason was a shame on your family,so women learnt to die in silence and stay put. Coupled with lack of education and resources ,these women had no where to go to fend for their kids and even family members were not ready to render help as divourcees were seen as a reproach that should not be associated with.


Now ,I think if we add men wh0re in the LGBT community to gigolos littered every corner of the country, I think they are giving runs girls a run for their money grin.


And also,if you want to talk of extortion and fraud we know the Yahoo boys dorminate that field both home and abroad come on now,let's not forget Sars has 99% men grin .


Anyway. I hope the op finds her peace cos if she dies the children she doesn't want to suffer will be left at the mercy of her irresponsible husband and probably a step mother to add to the torture of the children. Have a nice day.
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ladycewhy(f): 9:41am On May 12, 2020
anslem04:
LOL ! no one teaches a man all these things you say, sense of entitlement is in every man just as it is in a lion to roar, a dog to bark and a roaster to crow. many times i hear women antagonize that word "Ego" buh the fact is any man without an ego is either a transgender or incomplete being. to gain point women use the word "servant" in a proper context they say "am i your maid" lol! if only women could think logically, shuld we compare real maids with wives how many maid enjoy what a wife enjoys ... how many maids wear expensive aso ebi, av a car or a home to claim, how many maids are given privileges to manage the family financing.
if cooking for ur children is a duty why shuld cooking for ur hubby be termed "slavery"
Lemme burst ur bubble, 80% of men out there are different from there fathers, we all know our forefathers have polygamous home buh how many men today are coping that, our forefathers hardly educate there daughters buh today many men are training female child with so much love ... we watch n learn buh what we turn out to be dependly greatly on exposure & what is inside us superceeded by conscience ... have you not seen son of a herbalist becum a pastor ddnt he grow watching his father, bottomline men av a "mind of there own".
If you insist on training, well do you know mothers have greater influence over children than fathers.. if men are failure it still women fault.
men of today had no other option than to adapt ,it's not as if they are any better ,infact today's men are worse than our fathers of old, from Abuja fine boys lazying about looking for working class women to prey on,to men like the op's husband.

In other words ,you said;

Men are born entitled and egocentric.A man without an ego is not a real man.

Women are a higher maids cos they have more benefits than maids.


Women are to train their daughters and also train their sons while their fathers are mere figure heads.


Men of old hardly educated their daughters so women of this generation should be happy and greatful to even have an education because their fathers allowed it.

I think that sums it up .
TravelRe: 30 Northern Youths Hiding Behind Baskets Of Pepper Inside Trailer Caught In Ogun by Ladycewhy(f): 9:01am On May 12, 2020
toprealman:
How many of them are employable? These are foot soldiers sent out on a mission.
Exactly , northerners are nothing but devilish ,they always have sinister motives. Imagine being able to bear the pain of pepper ,that one nor go look back to cut person head. Who knows if they are not Boko Haram moving down south. Bloody terrorists!
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ladycewhy(f): 8:36am On May 12, 2020
anslem04:
Lol !! i knew your submission wuld be centered around domestication, men washing plate & running to the market to buy groceries ... you just undermined the discussion i expected something substantial.
You bin a woman i take it you don't know the "nature behind men" the strange truth is no one can teach a man how to be a man, the teachers is rite inside us. those teachers are instincts n ego. instinct wuld tell a man what to do around a woman and ego wuld warn or prevent a man on not what to do around a woman. now question of his actions been gud or bad depend greatly on his conscience.
During teenage years gurls are giving sex education, taught how to cook & care for babies... do you expect fathers to teach there teenage sons how to give gurls money, boys simply watch n learn
It's not about domestication but being entitled,being taught that you are to be served because you are a man ,being taught that women are your servants meant to serve you all the days of your life,being taught that so long as you have a woman around, all you have to do is sit and have her massage your ego,being taught that a woman is your slave and meant to slave away for you,being taught that having a penis makes you become a demi god even when you are irresponsible,it doesn't matter,as far as you have a penis.

Let me break down your comment;

So you are saying the male gender is not teachable and should be left to their conscience.

Men are only good at giving money to women ,so their fathers don't need to teach little boys that or any character building either.

Men don't need to be taught manners,how to communicate like humans not beast,men don't need to be taught empathy and compassion,boys should be left to roam like wild animals until they find their way or left to the fate of their conscience which his wife has to tolerate and bear in his later years.

Fathers are the main examples boys have to learn and observe from. If we keep seeing men like the op's husband we should conclude he got it from his father cos all he did was watch and learn from his father.

I think that sums up your comment.
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ladycewhy(f):
anslem04:
Many times i read comment like these from the ladies i get confused, can you highlight the training parents should give a male child so as to prevent futuristic wives parenting there husband or raising an adult. what are those training
many boys start their bossy attitude from their homes . I know a woman who her daughters eat and clear the table include that of their younger brother because he is the only son. In some homes the boys don't do chores because they are boys and their daughters are the ones who need to know how to take care of husbands.


Those are just examples,now there are obvious things parents do to raise their daughters to be good wives ,let me ask you ,who teaches boys and what is taught to boys in the home to make them good future husbands?
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ladycewhy(f): 6:54am On May 12, 2020
bukatyne:
When we say look before you leap in, they act like rabid dogs on several threads.

A woman chooses a man: study him, study him, study him.

There are markers and strains of behavior: look well.

That's why I like Ubunjaa's threads and think every young lady should read them well. That way, when you see his apostles, you jump and pass.

These young men that are bad news were mostly trained by their mothers. This now begs the question: if they thought their men bad, why didn't they train their sons to the standard of the ideal man?

No, they train their sons same way so that the next set of wives would complain and repeat the same cycle.

The men that are gentle would also be mocked for been gentle and exploited.

The Nigerian marriage landscape is an enigma.
Many Nigerian homes raise their sons and daughters differently. Na man, na man that is how they leave their son's character to rot away while policing their daughters because dem nor want make e carry belle. Now the wife has to deal with trying to raise an adult who was pumped full of ego and entitlement from his childhood by his parents because na man.


As for the bolded, best advice to single ladies here. Look out for the apostles of ubunja and run for your life. grin
FamilyRe: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Ladycewhy(f): 11:10am On May 10, 2020
Omoluabi16:
You know life isn't that serious. So chill
this is my chill face bro.
FamilyRe: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Ladycewhy(f): 10:58am On May 10, 2020
Omoluabi16:
I swear. I saw you on a previous thread saying a man without a bank balance of 2million naira should not even think of marrying you.
you were probably drunk reading that thread undecided, present your evidence or STFU.


And since you don use your mouth swear if you don't bring your evidence na the swear go kill you.

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