₦airaland Forum

Unik3030:
God bless you my brother

Denique:
It has to do with us trying not to be a liability—to ourselves, to the society.

The average Nigerian woman needs twice the amount of time of her western counterpart to achieve same feat; reason these people seem to be more independent than us, marry earlier than us.

It isn't about competing with the men; neither are we hoeing. For some of us, it's about bringing something to the table which takes us longer time to achieve due to our environment.

Back then, our mothers didn't need to have a means of livelihood before being taken(married). The narrative has changed!

Our modern men want a woman graduate, in some cases an MSc holder...working or owning a thriving business. These things don't come easy, especially: for most of us who didn't/don't have the foundation, connection, means, coupled with ASUU strike. So many factors impede a ladies marital growth.

Below is a link to a thread and Kriss216 made a resonating comment. As much as it isn't excusable, a lot of us take to it to survive.
Where then, is the time for such persons to marry early?
https://www.nairaland.com/6328015/blood-sister-smash-phone-lock

ahnie:
Most marriages go last if Dem take ham away from social media.

you are correct












HWA.

coker007:
I like your independent mind.

Alot of people liked my post because it sounded altruistic to them but you......you know what i meant.

coker007:
Stop reading people's histories and fantasies and face real life.....you can never get life's true lessons through a book or novel you'd only get nuggets of examples.

Seasons greetings y'all

DexterousOne:
The older you get
The more you realise that sex is very overrated

Hassanmaye:
I swear you are absolutely correct

Nuttella:
Let me tell you ,during this end time season, God doesn't want his children to fall, and marrying a worldly person could lead us to fall.

Chii59:
If I told you not all women are money grabbing leeches, you won't believe. So move along.

Nuttella:
Exactly, you can't be indecent and be looking for a decent God fearing man, you will marry your fellow worldly person

Chii59:
Have you ever considered the possibility that
1. A woman can be in a long term relationship (5 years and above) that didn't lead to marriage.
2. A lady may not be lucky with men coming her way, seeing most men are just interested in getting laid and moving on.

Have you?

Felyyaks:
Very nice of him, some young girls can't even afford sanitary pads and are exposed to infections because of this

Freestainworld:
My father will never do that either but do you know that in every association theirs a Judas iscariot? nothing can be hidden for ever

erico2k2:
ahahha

JoyJones2000:
Hahaha you just made my day thanks

Erotix:
What’s necessary in a relationship is BONDING. It helps the relationship to grow and stand tests.
Now, there are different types of Relationships.
In a ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, SEXX is one of the ways to bond
During sexx, you share your most greatest, most vounourable, most embarrassing, sweetest moments you don’t share with anyone else, and this makes you one with your partner.
Now, during courting(relationship) you should have boundaries and these boundaries should be accepted by both of you in the relationship if not; then you are in a relationship with the wrong person.
BREAK UP and look for or wait for who shares the same ideas with you and date him or her.

JoyJones2000:
First of all I don't date,but court in a holy way when is time for marriage
Secondly yea I won't ask for anything till we are married but I would only ask for more prayers

JoyJones2000:
First of all I don't date,but court in a holy way when is time for marriage
Secondly yea I won't ask for anything till we are married but I would only ask for more prayers

chioma2020:
Oga you dont know what you are saying, Nigerian guys marry's white old women because of green paper . Make your findings before saying what you are not sure of

pretydiva:
Oga that is not the reason

JoyJones2000:
You sound foolish! Sorry to say

Misslilbootay:
God didn't mention relationship but he did say fornication is a sin he will judge by himself.

Can you see a lady and just marry her without first doing courtship?

Misslilbootay:
God didn't mention relationship but he did say fornication is a sin he will judge by himself.

Can you see a lady and just marry her without first doing courtship?

Zzor:
Just draw a timetable for it, don't allow somebody's son to kill you for your mother all because of sex

doggedfighter:
Such men are never good in bed

virginprincess:
And i truly pity the women that would marry stingy, heartless, less romantic and broke guys like you nigeria men.

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.