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angelhair: First of all I wasn't searching his phone. I was wanted to use it to make a call and he handed it to me himself probably forgetting to delete the call. Th is cheating happened over a year ago and it's something that has bn a pain in our relationship. @biolabee we have bn married 5yrs and have 2 kids. When I asked him to promise me he would cut off all times, it took him so long to accept to do it. I told him " I know you love her, but you have to move on". Was I being silly, should I have gotten a knife and cut him? I'm worrying I might have handled it all wrong.

That he gave you the phone (his phone!) himself, shows that your husband is NOT the typical womaniser!
He is just lovey-dovey over the lady (By the way, did you snatch him from her, in the past? ..just wondering! )
Go and ask "real playboys", and they would tell you that its "an art".
They will even encrypt EVERYTHING on their phone and you can have it and open it for the next ten years, you will see Nadda!


Again, let me be honest with you: Your husband LOVED that woman. From what you have said, he was/is in-love with her!
Its a natural "human-feeling", for different people, it takes different length of time to GET OVER IT.

The important thing is "If he wants to get over it ...and if you are willing to help him get over it".
Its even a good thing that she is NOW married.

Samtolly4JESUS: : I think you folks are getting all wrong in here.... Virginity is not the ladies' pride only, its the pride of every UNMARRIED individual regardless of your age or gender. Its your seal of destiny. If you doubt me, ask Joseph or if you are a female, ask Esther or Mary!

You forgot to Add Blackberry, Faceme FaceBook, GSM and a host of tons of social Media used for Cheating and E-Sex, nowadays! We leave in a different "era" albeit a very corrupt and morally debased one!

If you eventually marry her, she will add the following to her "shopping list": He has to be able to do ALL the HOUSE WORK (him na houseboy or househusband naah! ), cook and look after the children ...while l watch Home Video!

Hmmmm....What a lovely husband SLAVE!

dayokanu: Why her PMS no dey make her go beat up policeman or David Cameron why be say na the husband PMS direct her to?

Hope the same PMS land her in jail

PEREP: Not in all cases. There are people who simply advertise shoes on BB only to go pick it from an aunt or a shop owner when a friend is interested. I also know of people who simply wake up, look around for addresses of houses that are vacant around lagos and propagate it via the social media and get percentage accordingly. This is not to talk of people who copy phone numbers on cars parked for sale and get a buyer while the seller simply pay a percentage. Some pple even start with counseling school pupils after a detailed research on choosing a career via the Internet and get the parents of those kids to pay as low as N500 to attend.

So many things around to do but most pple are waiting for one capital which is no where. Add value to existing structures and see if you will not make it VERY big.

All the best.

1.) Special banks to fund SME's must be established and even more importantly FORCED to do their responsibility of giving soft loans to Youths to start Self Employed Business. The Banks we have now only loan money meant for SME's to "Big men" who have no intention of repaying back.

2.) There must be independent Appeal Process to challenge a "refusal for SME loans" to ensure that "paddy-paddy" is not introduced. Sanctions should be stiff and uncompromising

3.) Electricity is the beginning and End of any development. We will never develop or bring down unemployment as long as we still depend on Power Fuel-generators. At least, we must achieve 75% stability in electricity and load shedding can be used to cater for the 25% while we build capacity. Stable electricity will by itself, spring-up many self employed business, as it is a major cost of doing business.

4.) Other infrastructures like roads, water and steel sectors (major Government responsibilities) must also get a boost alongside

5.) Govt must put in place a "Hardship Allowance" for start-Up business to assist them in reducing the impact of the stress that start-up business face. You dont start making money on a business right away (except "buy and sell" which is not deep business anyway). You go through a period of:
(a) investment(pumping all your resources in),
(b) stability (reducing financial input but no profit),
(c) Break-even (zero financial input but still no profit! )
(d) and then profit starts building up slowly.

stankezzy: so even u as a wise ibo person is joining this people to say this.during the time of yaradua nd obasanjo,how many mega watts did they generate,

Reptyle: I thought it was 10,000MW by December 2013

Alfa Seltzer: Is massob helping or harming Igbos? I have been asking myself this question for years and have come to the conclusion that they are harming us more than they are helping us. We need something that unites us, not a divisive, extortionist organisation that is barking without biting.

This group raised the hopes of all Igbos when it was formed. When Uwazuruike was arrested, the nation of Igboland stood up as one and protested and he was released. But over the years, apart from raising flags, releasing nonsense statements, disturbing peaceful fellow kinsmen and generally serving as shooting practice targets for nigerian armed forces, they have not done a single useful thing for Igboland.

It's time I stopped feeling sorry for them.

y2kaustin: How i wish i can set MTN offices,Nationwide ablaze like these.what is the meaning of the kind of services they rendered today?

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Garri the 1st: You're actually lost. Whether he fvcks her or not is irrelevant. SHE ISN'T A STAFF OF CBN..

End of Story!!

You mean when a married man (who house-wared four women already!) decides to bleep a "consultant" working his organisation, uses "Tax-Payers money" to charter Jets and Lodge in hotels, for rendezvous with his lover and the woman in question is currently married to another man, IS IRRELEVANT!


Geez, this country is F@ucked!

yorke: dirty kitchen equals unhealthy food in-turn produces the man in that picture.

Flyboy Zee: May the Good Lord bless your soul for making use of what God gave you freely (brains). May you continue to get wiser and may your days be long. With people like you I have hope that Nigeria would be better someday.

1.) Why cant TB Josh establish his own company (like Dangote) and give ANYBODY he wants, JOBS, from there?

2.) Who gave him the "slots"? Is it the Federal Govt, the President or the Minister for Labor?

3.) What happens to those who cant come to his Church, but are qualified for such jobs? Did he advertise them in National Newspapers, like all Federal jobs should be advertized?

4.) What if another "Govt officer" gives x-SLOTS to his own Pastor, and another to his own Imam and another to his own Babalawo, where will these lead us to, as a nation? Nepotism?

5.) What is the essence of 'MERIT' if an MOG can just "dash out jobs" that dont even belong to him, but belongs to ALL Nigerians? Why do we write exams and take Tests, to qualify and measure our competence for a job?

Let answers be "provided" to these posers....no insults, no abracadabra!

Omexonomy: I thaugt thought they say peeps from south west are very respectable why is it that you never waste time insulting the president. Other governors are busy contributing megawatts to their state electricity while fash is contributing kilowatt to alahusa only.

You are RIGHT, VERY CORRECT INDEED!
They are not only Respectable, they are VERY SMART!

Thing is, they ONLY RESPECT "SMART PEOPLE"!

Go figure.

igbo boy: whether he is performing or not ....yoroobas have had their swing at Aso rock. so make una keep the campaign at SW only. Baba fash gats wait till the republic of olodowa is formed before he can become a president

gratiaeo: Waiting man no go hear from this ofe mmanu peeps smh...... Registration ko' denomination ni'

Fashola: ...revealed that the agency had received applications from many Ph.D, M.sc holders and graduates in the course of recruiting registration officers.

"The position was initially planned for only school certificate holders and people with OND who would be a paid N25, 000 monthly but 85 per cent of people that applied have degrees, masters, PhD or even some other higher levels.

"We have them coming from all walks of life; accountants, biochemists, micro-genetics, applying for a job that does not pay that much," she said.

Princek12: Our education system is partly responsible for this. An education system that does not promote critical thinking but promotes rote memorization and regurgitation. As a result, graduates are ill-prepared to build companies and create jobs and solve problems that affect us. Rather, foreign expatriates and returning diasporans are the ones who are coming in to create jobs and get high-skilled employment.

thehomer: So this guy has turned into a human resources representative for the federal government? Who says he was the one that gave them the jobs?

dexter1983: U R A LIAR because DEY AV BEEN THERE B4 CHURCH BECAME FINANCIALLY ROSSY...

1.) DId they live AMONG AND WITHIN the masses? (their congregation members)

2.) DO they need BODYGUARDS (like a rich Musician! ) or do they just wander around in the vicinity of their members?

3.) Does EVERYBODY in their environment have DIRECT ACCESS to them? Or do you need to "fill-form and attach your Tithe Bag"?

4.) DO they go to visit their members house, one by one or are the "members" just "NUMBERS" ON SOME TITHE BAG?

5.) Do they preach just PROSPERITY and MATERIALISM or do they hammer the "word and warnings of God".. to the flock?

6.) Are they afraid to say THE TRUTH, irrespective of whose ox is gored or do they pander to those in power...to curry favor?

7.) Do they make all them "yearly predictions" that turn out to be false, 90% of the time? (the 10% is as a result of technology which makes "forecasting" easy even for a Mungun like me!) e.g, l know its Hurricane season in U.S and l can easily SEE VISION AND PROPHESY that "we should pray that natural disasters should not happen in America in the next few weeks! ..and it will happen!
Chei-chei, l don become MOG-wannabe!

8.) Just like Jesus cannot be differentiated[/b] when he was about to be seized and they needed "Judas" to identify him, are MOG's of Today indistinguishable like Pastors of those days or do they [b]stand-out by the sheer level of OPULENCE they deck on? Or is it the type of Cars/Plane they ride?

flyforall: There are two things that shouldn't be fought for
1. Land
2. A mans wife

A man doesn't and hardly forgives if you have Bleep wiv his wife.

If (God forbid), my wife leaves me (for another man), l will simply "dust my fine-boy C.V" and enter town, take a "better babe" and move on with life!

In future, we will see who will have regrets!

But then, some men no "sharp" at all, even she-goat sef no go gree follow them waka for relationship.

Adwexky: paying tithe is just for you financial increase, If you are faithful with God.
Erase all misconception in your mind about tithing. It is mainly for your benefit.

Is everybody who pays TITHE in your own church Rich, by now?

How come there are more people paying tithe in the church ...yet there are more POOR PEOPLE in that same church..
...if paying tithe is the "key" to financial success?

The only people who have become rich from paying Tithe (or stealing it! ) are the Church leaders who preach it themselves!

I dont pay Tithe yet the Lord supplies ALL my needs financially!

Think brother, just think about my question.

candiva2013: I only pity those that are being decieved. Subtract money from church business and you will see that those that call themselves men of God will resign.

50calibre: Where has this guy been, why isn't he no longer playing for Nigeria, he was a very good number 7.

I hope he has an iron clad pre-nuptial because this marriage could easily turn out to be his worst investment.

torhuke: Very true. But u didn't add that the african parent does not need to talk before a message is passed to the child. While growing up, if ma mums eye blinks and u don't understand what she is saying, ur in soup. in Fact, if she scratches her foot on d ground, e get meaning and we must understand esp me being the first born becos just as u said, I always took d blame for my younger ones misdeeds. And my mum be like 'where were u wen he/she wx doin d wrong'? Nna, childhood was good and bad, fun plus tears.. Wow. It helped o be who I am anyways