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Im making a point!

Funny enuff u will see plenty of naija men over here in ireland:
Holding a big fat ugly humty dumpties handy
humping and impregnating one too
Using one to gain what they want.

You should see irish womens bellies

See men, esp naija men they complain of women with bellies! when they are sitting down guzzling beer and soups like there is no tomorrow waiting to be served! you'd swear they never saw food!

Go and measure your own waist! check your own BMI!

INky, where is this boy gone to?

Ha Ha yes indeed

Ok anyone know of a Dare who would be now a MD that lived in Springfield IL and left in 1980 thereabouts. Reason I ask is that this man is my daugthers grandad who met my ex's mom african american Ava RIP who sadly died very young and left him (my ex Ben) with no mom or dad. My ex's name Benjamin Oluwajimi. So this man Dare is still alive somewhere but he never came back to find his son who is now 28. I reckon he is a doctor practising somewhere in Naija just thought I'd share that with you. All we have is that his name is Dare. Wonder would there be anyway of accessing the medical registers or something? also reason why I would love to find him is the mere fact that his son Benjamin is one of America's top 300 students.

and note yes I was cut from front to back and faeces were also present  . I had no choice but to be alone at that time but i tell you I'm very glad I was alone a mans face would be highly aggravating in that scenario. I tell you if I was a man and I say that I would be

even if you go to the likes of algeria.com or morocco.com the people speak in english or french even though arabic is their first language. I'm half arabic myself but know what I'm not even going there cos I don't wanna look rude.

As regards the labour room I'm different, I went in alone before and I would do it again in a heartbeat! I woudl not have my man looking at all that bllodd n guts. Although he caused it too, I think I would be more for preservance of my bodily integrety, although I may have a change of heart we will have to see won't we

The girl sending you these threats is prolly just some girl he has been living with sharing rent and having a shag and someone to cook for him. I'd say she is just on the side aswell. He could be gone home to marry someone totally different. I;m not nigerian myself but my understanding is that a woman who has sex with a man outside of marriage alone is not wife material, nevermind someone who willingly lives with a man. Why not actually contact the girl and have a heart to heart with her and not him. She could be in the same boat as you,

PLease coudl I have a copy og that maggi family menu. My email is: bamella_ahmed@yahoo.co.uk thanks!

thats definetely not him they are speaking arabic it doesn't even look like him!

I do not think its possible for a man to love his wives equally!

As a matter of pure interrest, how would one clearly define the idea of submission to the husband?

Should the lady behave in the same way as she would if she had no job at all and was 100% dependent on the husband as regards household chores and major decision making?

Black american homes I thought their women would be well able to stand up for themselves! I suppose not all though

Yes! I have honestly voted for slapped or lightly hit. Hopefully it won't happen again, I have seriously addressed this issue. Put it this way imagine being in Nigeria and having no internet or financial access etc it must be terrible for some women. Thank you for remembering me

is this pidgeon english

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lighting a candle for my dear colleage Joey attamah who died suddenly on 9th Feb 2007 RIP Joey

oh dear, oh dear!

There is a birth control pill called micro lite that has much less side effects ie you don't put on weight etc its very good. Quite a lot of these other pills make some women gain weight.

VYSK or whatever you call yourself. I HAVE been to Nigeria and I DID meet all my husbands family. I never said THEY didn't appreciate me,

hello everyone and Assalamu alaikum to Al- Muhmin.

I would like to ask your opinion on some hadiths. As we all know some of them are fabricated. What ones do you think are fabricated?

What about this one?

Hadith - Bukhari 8:242, 8:245, Narrated Abu Huraira

The Prophet said, "Allah likes sneezing and dislikes yawning, so if someone sneezes and then praises Allah, then it is obligatory on every Muslim who heard him, to say: May Allah be merciful to you (Yar-hamuka-l-lah). But as regards yawning, it is from Satan, so one must try one's best to stop it, if one says 'Ha' when yawning, Satan will laugh at him."

No! I don't mean to be painting a bad picture of nigerian! and yes, he has his green card nearly four years now ut he does nt have his citizenship! that is the one I woul dhave to vouch for (ie marrige is subsiding0 after that only God knows!

yeah what I heard its an innovation (bidah) couldn't care less though I was just passing by.

Oh God! let me start from the begininng. First time he got agressive was when I checked his phone (just being nosey, I NEVER caught him cheating thankfully) and rang a number and got a lady answering the phone, then i discovered that in panic I took down the number wrong we redialled it and it was a man (one of his friends) that drove him to get me up against the wall and put his hand around my throat he didn't try to choke me!

Second incident was when I confronted him about his culture etc and the fact that we are from a different background I told him that an Ngozie would be better for him, ie someone who obviousy is an igbo lady he hit me on the arm (very hard actually) I know I aggravated him but I overlooked that.

Third incident was the incident I have mentioned in the above post he pushed me off the sofa. In spite of me clearly addressing these issues. As regards the anal sex issue its somethig he did indeed try on me knowing that i dislike it.

I am not Polish my spellings and grammar can be bad because I am typing fast as I don't want my husband to know I am on forums.

An outsider is an outsider! Akata is Akata! no matter what what the colour or mix may be.  I know of plently of naija men who treat their wives like shit, some of their wives are white but some are also black so its an individual thing. Love and I mean TRUE love has no boundaries.

I don't have any live naija friends. I can hardly ask an irish person how to deal with a naija man!!!

Well hope it works out for you. its not going to work for me. I have been told on this forum that I am being used for papers and I guess its true. Just living a lie.