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Jezzy thats what I'm trying to find out. Who is retarded according to Gamine and why? please explain Gamine,

See, more bias once again.

Please explain what you mean na2day?

You think no matter what I do I am not capable of being taken seriously? please explain and clarify your comments.

Didara, please note that some people on this forum are quite biased towards white women

OH brilliant! I have a write up on that

are you trying to say that 'whities' are retarded?

Hey I am a foreign wife my baby just told me tonight I am the best woman he has ever met even though I am foreign there is no wahala with me and I am not materialistic and indeed I am not. He then told me that in his afterlife (if there is one) he would hope to meet me in it. I agreed. Takes a whole lot of compromise to even half succeed. Thats why I am here.

yes, casual Sean. Sure no one likes alcoholics.

Furthermore, the reason in which I decided to post this thread was becuase any party I attend I have never in all the years i now my husband saw one lady have a drink at a party. All the men are sititng down guzzlingbeer and talking politics (and eyeing up younger ladies) while their wives are up and down like yo yo's to the kitchen. THATS the reason why i asked. NOT becuase I have a problematic marriage. I reiterate I do NOT have a problematic marriage. I don't let myself be treated like a doormat THATS the only problem. NOT that I am treated like one either. BUT if I let that be it would BE. Please note that this thread has NOTHING to do with my marriage for crying out loud.

n gauge, how can you randomly brand me as a drunkard when I am far from it! I was not referring to myself when I initially posted this topic. Theres noting wrong with my marital life.

Please see in my profile a picture that I took of a beautiful mosque in Abuja there are also so many beautiful churches, buildings and the minstry of defence is highly impressive! I can't post it as it is 200mb thats too large but there are more to come though of my unforgettable trip there and around Nigeria last year.

My country is a good place to be in! anyone ever been there?

I don't know whether or not I should post a topic like this, but however I will. This has been boiling up inside me for quite a long time now.  Basically, I have had my hair braided a couple of times in the last few years I had it done for a reasonable price in Abuja. But, here in Ireland I am charged €100.00 and any other customer who is african or black is charged €40.00 I have had a relation of mine suss it all out for me.  Its understandable by all means that money has to be sent home to families in Nigeria etc. The issue here is not money (I am about to qualify as a laywer in May) the issue is, I feel as though I am being discriminated against and feel very disheartened as a result. It has also happened me in a number of food stores before and I kindly brought it to their attention and was issued with a receipt together with an apology. I was reluctant to report these incidents to the national consumer agency out of consideration for the ladies that owned the shop. Its like, if I ring up and ask for a quotation I get told the usual price and if you like, my sister in law phones about exactly the same matter and she gets a totally different price. Even if I ask for a price list its not possible for me to have that. I know it is indeed a matter for the national consumer agency, but from a personal point of view I think these ladies actually dislike me even though they are very friendly to my face obviously.  In the likes of Abuja, or anywhere else in Nigeria I have travelled to, its quite acceptable that I will be overcharged there as a tourist and in a developing country but to do it here in Dublin anyway,  what are your views on this?  many thanks. 

and thank you john chelse.  I do indeed have a very indept understanding of nigerian culture amazing so it is!

Huraaaaay!!! someone decided to add me to their messenger so I'm not billy no mates anymore

But I never got any invitation

No waaayyy

Ah no I do not mean a raving alcoholic. I just meant drinking socially in moderation. Interesting responses though. Thought I was going to hear "but what about wifely duties?" and the like. 

I mean the odd glass for eg a few glasses of wine on a saturday night ooh no, not total dependancy.

what would you do/how would you feel if your wife drinks alcoholic drinks??

I drink quite a lot of (it keeps me sane and awake) I find it gives me palpitations though.

LOL not all of them ADICK and besides are least they are not flashing all their attractive parts in a wanton display of beauty.

hey nigerwife! were are you from? you say 'don't know for how much longer though' thats what I always say because i'll never be good enough (thats my gut feeling)

Simi, my husband took me to Nigeria and proved what i needed to know to me, do you think he won't be with other ladies in Nigeria I hope I didn't insult you I was just saying it. You are happy now, but at the end when he never marries you and goes for one of his own women how much could your heart take it? I admire your positive outlook on things, think you deserve better though. Good luck.

Yeah thats exactly what he told me. Thanks ziddy.