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knock knock knock!!

love can happen at anytime and in any circumstance. online love is not an exemption.

fork adict:
God bless you abeg. Dem never jam. Wait make all of we jam for party one day. All these people wey dey run dem mouth like tap so go bow when dem see NL fine boys

shebi. lol!!  

Onosy:
Who wrote it in our hearts?
We Africans just tend to believe in things that donot exist, but because of our level of understanding, we just seem to look at the world myopically, so to say.

thats it!!
i wonder wen we will stop thinking like d cave men!! with all d modernist movement  that has been going on in the world since the late 19th century, Africans still dont want to break of the shackles of medieval thinking. TRAGIC!! TRAGIC!!!!!!!!!!!

he is beastier, i am the beastest

LMAO @thread

una dey vex for hia!! lol

henry101:
Thats good. Let her search well cos Good looking guys full NL.

but the babes here are telling you that they have only seen ONE thus far !!!  

cant be true!!! u mean just one confirmed handsome bro on NL, i'm shocked  

its amazing d kind of tins people derive joy from. just imagine dis OP!! 

[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=729377.msg8874734#msg8874734 date=1312736830]Very confused species!. They see a pic of a lady's face, they say 'na face we go chop? her body might be similar to dat of a cow.'

Now wat are they asking for, still pretty faces  [/quote]

depends on the trust level in the relationship. i no lots of my friends here have access to their bf'z acct,psword, credit card and stuff.no biggie. in a typical Nigerian society, i can understand d reason y guys would not want their gf's to have access to their acct, 4instant, demand may increase if there is plenty in d acct, or decrease wit an increase in disrespect if the money in d acct is small.   
me,i dnt really c d big deal in sharing salient info in a relationship built on trust cos most times,,it can really save d partner in some situations.
again, d trust level in d relationship matters. and i cant try anytin funny wit his bank info witout his permission anyways cos he'll get a msg to his phone if i should log in/log out or make withdrawals, and witout d info sent to his fone, no transaction can be processed. so,giving his password away will be d least of our problems

OP, u really need to learn how to appreciate gifts/presents. i think that is your major problem here. i wuld die if i offer my b4 anytin and he takes it but doesn't appreciate it, worse still if he refuses to accept the gife. 
drop your complex, take d phone, and give your lady a wonderful  night out to make up for your childish behaviour. i no she deserves dat from u rather than d shear disrespect u showed her

dont no y i myself wuld react differently in this situation. cos i wuld curse, b.itch slap and make d mans life a living hell. i hardly give a damn about people like this. F* d job. i wuld  resign d next day if someone pulls such trash on me  (disrespecting my husband and my family) because he/she feels he is in a beta position to do wateve. i mean, dat is kind of like my weakness; i'm allergic to BS, and i wuld resign even b4 d person wuld have d time to give me some silly negative attitude.have to work on that part of my personality though cos i hear that u may miss opportunities by not cooling down to tink about a situation. but thus far, i've had no regrets in my life.
plus me, i dont bliv dat people can change. its unfortunate that in nigeria, harassment on females cannot be reported to some higher authority if not, u wuld have sued d hell out of d man. what an unjust society! dis is really an unfair situation  

my dear, since it seems u can endure it, and u obviously can handle d situation in a cool mind, i will say u stay put, and wait till d shameless buffalo tells u your time is up. who knows he might, on the other hand he might take sometime to shamelessly tell u to leave, prolly a year or even more. but while at d waiting game, still give your best 2d job, and start job hunting already. on d bright side, u might find a beta job soon, and b d one to resign on your own terms, with a big smile on your face.   .
take it easy dear. everything is gonna b okay

me fancy tall guys but unfortunately, all d guys i've dated have neva been that tall. i dont mind d height though as long as he is cute

millco88:
because black women in general are the least desired of all the races and the least likely to get married. nigerian women can't marry out in north america because most americans find them unattractive. europeans atr different however.

hmmm, i tink d black women are d one's that segregate themselves though. 4instance many Nigerian women would tell u dat they wuld neva date a white man because he has tiny eshi or dat the white man is dirty and all dat, even though they have neva been wit any to deduce their foolish theory. they have not yet opened their arms to diversity and that is why they are left behind. so unlike d white woman who would always want to taste the waters,  d black women are yet to make themselves available to other races.

but my dear saying that dey are unattractive is rather harsh. my mother, my sisters and all d lovely ladies around me are very beautiful and attractive women.

@poster
culd b menopause, culd b PMS, culd be . . . .  i can go on and on
from wat u've written, i bliv dat u haven't even asked her watzup wid d attitude. u've just made your own conclusion. ask her WTF is wrong wit her, or are u scared she will bully u. if she doesn't tell u wat her palava is, or her attitude doesn't change, den its time to take a break!

Jezz!! my eyes bleed from reading

anywho, thank God i'm not like those bloody women. wicked Jezebels of the world. 
bring them to me lemme teach them some serious lessons on how to be genuinely committed in a relationship 
b4 dey become completely submerged in their atrocious ways

seen this all ova peoples wall on my facebook.

my answer to this question still remains personal  

cottoncand:
Of course I don't think Nigerian men are Aliens but i never hear Spanish women or Asian women saying "oh she's just being used for sex, he'll return to Puerto Rico or China for a proper girl when he's ready to settle down" i didn't mean to offend you it's just that the impression we are given is that Nigerian men are incapable or marrying and loving a woman from another culture except in the case of wanting a green card and he will lie and deceive to get it then leave. I refuse to believe that because of something like a culture difference one human being will convince himself or in some cases be convinced by others that he is incapable of making a good life with another.

i will say dat d paper factor is more of d case. ok i have a friend that got married at 19 right after his studies. if he was back home, he would never consider getting married at dat age. then lots of d guys in school, all decide to get married right after finishing school cos d wuld rather not go back home. most times, not all of them are that way though. and dis is not just a Nigerian factor, its a global issue. i know some who genuinely love their wives though. 

to be on d safer side, i'll advice to rather stay away from guys that are facing present or future immigration issues

sexkillz:
YOU just made me lose HOPE!!!

ehhyahh, i feel ur pain

hmmm, just realized that display pix are posted NL  

sexkillz:
Yes O! WE ARE! Just that as with guys from other countries too, MOTIVES may differ!

1 Fantasy Factor
[color=#006600]2 Green Card

3 Open Mindedness
These are just some reasons! Personally i am the no 3 kind of person! (Do you have any sister i can tango with?) [/color]

i'll give the bold above an 80%

harakiri:
Do u ask such questions when an asian or spanish dude dates your women? Are nigerians aliens? Of course we date women from other races.

Boyloaf:
@OP, u r very very stu.pid and childish! Gosh! Do u actually want to take a decisive decision concernin your relationship based on d responses so far? If yes, then i suggest u go for medical check up because u sure do need one! Furthermore, i knw u dnt like dis guy, hence, your bringin him out for public scruitiny. Dnt worry, d guy u will finanlly fall in love wit will also bring u out for public scruitiny as well! Olosi!

i tink d guy kinda deserves the bashing sha. 

i mean d rate at which most guys throw "i love u" in d air is rather appalling. those kind of guys deserve all d bashing in d world, cos 85% of the time, the love dey proclaim is neva genuine.

most girls will sleep wit a guy witout d guy needing to play with their emotions. and d time d girl will waste trying to find out if d guy is for real could have been used for some mutual s/h/agging.
so watz d point lying really

@ poster
you've not seen anything. some of them will even tell u they love you the first day they chat via instant messaging, or drop love messages on social networks. one month was even too long dear. i tink dat most 9ja babes catch the fever, that's why d old habit has refused to die.

ok dat being said. i wont say that u cant fall in love wit someone instantly. it happens. but most enlightened people will rather allow the love to grow wit time, despite d fact that the feelings are already there. at that rate, they will also give the person they love time to grow fond of them, get attached to them and love them back. but the instant over flow of feeling is kinda immature and may rush the other person into falling in and later out of love.

but then after reading the text u said he sent u, i have to advice u to run run run.i just read d definition of a "con" from d message