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^^^definitely not alone

Ok, I'm sorry

LaShawn:
@Pendo89
Maybe I am  

No, I don't mean that kinda guy. I mean a man who loves God, is smart, intelligent, well spoken, clean, has values, is confident, isn't playing me around, and is humble (it takes a strong man to remain humble). A man who won't take advantage of my calmness like my ex did.

Also, I have dreams and please, such a man shouldn't stop me from achieving them if those dreams won't be detrimental to our family.

I feel your pain and think it might be time to consult the man upstairs about this.

Thing is, the good girls hardly ever get the good guys and vice-versa… this is where faith seriously comes into play – this coming from an equally disillusioned soul.

^^^

Shy-One:
anything you give to someone "is a gift"

Yes, and according to the friend of a certain male Mrs, whose new id might start with C, children are gifts from the husband, lol.

pendo89:
Assumptions.You cant be a lawyer.
Not really,all one needs to do is use the word 'dare' and watch me the trek the kalahari alone without h20
Crazy I know but probability works in some challenges.

Ok, I dare you, show your picture and tell us your real age.

And No, I’m not a Lawyer, but something even better - an Engineer.

pendo89:
That is one irresistable temptation that cud drive me bankrupt in less than 3 months.
Now have you asked yourself where the op is based? Was about to add yachting as another option b4 location came into mind.

She said £200, so I am guessing UK. Except there is another country that uses the £.

You like adrenalin themed activities? That means we share that in common.

pendo89:
jeez! op has made it clear her budget is less $200 or dd u live out some 6 extra zeros.

Where are these cheap ferraris and jets sold cz I cud fill my garage in one month.

You drive around in the car for 3 to 6 laps after being trained. So, you don't buy it at all, but rent it for about an hour. The good thing is you get to experience the awesome power behind the wheel and the highly advanced Engineering. You must have a full UK license though.

Plus there is also sky-diving, flying, go-karting, the works basically.

For the ladies; Boyz II Men - Good Guy Lyrics

Why should I be the good guy
And get left for the man that don't treat you right
There's nothing good in being good guys
Tell me why, tell me why, tell me why?

See, it is not profitable (in a heavy igbo accent) to be a good man. So, they are scarce, but not taken.

You can try something different, an experience maybe http://www.virginexperiencedays.co.uk/?r=4279

I would personally go for the Ferarri , Aston Martin or Audi R8 thrill (£99), but it depends on his interests.

There are also experiences for two, go through the list on the left hand side and knock yourself out. Make it a memorable day for both of you.

dohyn:
@mrbrownjay,u got it wrong, I've knwn nd liked her for over 13yrs b4 we dated(u can call her my first love),so dating her ws like a dream come true 4 me.sadly,it lasted 9mths.I gv her d chain at d beginning of d relationshp,thinkn she ws d one, nd she knew this, nwys,I ws jst wondering if I ws wrong 2 ask 4 it.if she even wore it once after we brkup,I wouldn't hv asked but,a year after,it has never graced her neck.so,why is she keeping it?

Maybe it's sentimental to her too (What could have been). She might have really cared for you, you know?

Dude, this is totally a non-issue, just let it go. There’s no point creating bad blood between both of you. Your Aunt’s memory will live within you regardless.

BTW, if it was that important, why did you wait over a year before asking her for it? Or is it closure you need? Are you looking for a reason to hate her? If you had married and divorced her, would you still ask her for it?

Pendo89, you okay?

A sound system if he likes music (Bowers & Wilkins Zeppelin mini £299 thereabouts).

His team’s football jersey (might fetch up to £80 depending on how it’s customised) and/or football shoe.

A Timbaland boot if he likes such (£130 to £170)

A D&G/Armani/Casio G-Shock wristwatch (Circa £200)

obo_man:
If you want a good man, be good yourself. Good has ways of identifying another Good.

Word!

Poster, you are generally what you attract.

aloy/emeka:
Are you saying that Nigerian men should be given more credit by me?.

No, I just asked a simple question as you sounded like someone who knew what he was saying. Now, I am not so sure.

You can trust a Nigerian to answer a question with a question.

He is about to purchase his first private jet, lol.

Tell him to man up and confront his lady first, if not convinced, then there is always the ‘Mountain of Fire’ option.

Don’t know, don’t want to think of it, ‘cos ignorance is bliss. Don’t think you should stay in a marriage when trust is no longer there just because of the kids.

Aloy/emeka, where did you get your figures/percentages?

Which category do you put men with pot-bellies?

That soft and round curve the typical African woman deems sexy, which acts as the occasional pillow for her head, and shows a sign of good living, while at the same time reassuring her of her cooking prowess (she put most of the substance in there). Moreover, it also makes her feel good when she is 6 months pregnant, as they get to rub each other’s bellies in bed, lol.

Any female big belly lovers in tha house? Big-bellied men need love too.

Single ‘cos I’m taking a sabbatical from relationships for now. Taking time to rediscover myself and finally TRAP the right one.

BABE!:
Yh--My husband to be.

Do you think he’ll be able to kiss your every curve and crevice, attend to your intimate needs/desires, emotionally cut through every (intimate) nerve ending like a brain surgeon and make you feel your soul? While at the same time being surgically precise enough to know how to get you close to the peak without actually reaching it? Keep you there for hours on end, and repeat the same process over again in a heightened state every starry night?

Sorry, me could not resist.

Frazy:
If I do my math right, that's about 178 calls a day. How can someone even manage that? I mean that would leave no time to do anything else, eat, sleep, restroom, work. SMH

Some people come close to that number in ‘posts a day’ on Nairaland .

I wonder how that is possible.

^^^Lol at reply.

@Poster:

No, I don’t think it’s cheating, but it means you are obviously not doing something right. A fully satisfied woman won’t need to do so, except your partner is a . . .

Love at first sight only happens in movies or romance novels i.e. ‘you had me at hello’. Writers paint this ‘picture perfect’ scene where boy meets girl, they both fall in love immediately and live happily ever after.

Life as we know it is far from perfect, good things take time; structures built to last years take a lot of planning and hard work, Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Equating this to Love since love is part of life and is supposed to be a good thing, I can say love takes time, planning, hard work to build and sustain not just seconds or microseconds.

Leading me to this conclusion love at first sight is definitely insane and it will probably fizzle the same way it started.

Poster, you are about to start a very looooooong argument.

And?

Was it Lagos-Ibadan expressway or a typical British country road? Or maybe a bush path where you had to force your way through?

Lol at the generator part.

There are remedies for snoring, but it will mean putting a device in her mouth before she sleeps.

So if you had married her before getting down, you would have divorced her, Eh?

Some Men use man bags

^^^aww, sorry on behalf of the poster about that.

Wish I was around you, that way I could replace the bad images with good and memorable ones. . . guaranteed to blow your mind away. . .

^^^yeah, but being single @ 40, doesn't make you a fool, duh.